Women are more concerned with red handed that foolish suspicion.
Women have too much brains to ask for email passwords, which is
why none has posted a stupid thread like this one.

Taye Diggs (Abroad Elevtor)
Emeka Ike/Ramsey Nouah (Closer to home elevator)

I love her. she brings out her roles so well. Great actress.

davidyland@yahoo.com:

she is hiding something - for sure - everything should be open in a marriage - but if its not - then be sure something is going amiss.

for sure she is having an affair - if i am u - i will slap her and force her out of her - or - i will refuse to give her sex for one month until she does so.

Bob James:

@davidyland.
i agree with u.
Some women are by themselves breakers of their own home.

Weeeeellll!!! Can all the male chauvinists in the house raise their hands!!! What total crap!!

What are you thinking! Are you suspecting her of something
or are you suspicious by nature. What ARE you up to?
People don't normally think in terms of e-mails, phone messages
yes, but e-mail . You going too far!!!

younghoodi:

when my little sis saw the pic of neyo sis she said neyo sis was ugly and i was like do u think your prettier then her and she was like yeah so i was like ok.answer the question and i calm down k'mon.

Out of the mouth of babes,

Neyo's sister or not, this girl is full of ugger! She is not alright, she is not ok she is simply ugly
shine your eyesooo

Talk to your husband. Let him know categorically that you are not
comfortable with this on-line relationship and that you feel it may affect
your marriage to him, possible ask him to delink himself from that lady. Let
her look for another big brother.

You should be convincing her to be more responsible for
her children because they are not at fault in all that is going on.
Maybe if you took this approach, she'll listen to you. Otherwise
you cannot force her to live with a man she does not love

drrionelli:

I think she should provide that information to you only on the provision that you provide such information about your past to her.

I totally agree with drionelli. The problem in this prospect of finding out about
each others past is expectation. While most women will expect the worst, most
men want to believe the lady should be a saint and anything to the contrary can
turn them off the lady completely.

Seun, that way none of my posts get deleted
when they piss him off

Definitely! English is a foreign language anyway.
I would be his translater

Bolarge:

You deserve an award for ds post.
Na so boiz go dey yarn say them papa na oil magnate, uncle na business tycoon, mama dey for Shell. . .
. . D stupid girl sef for don go do thanksgivin for church say "Come and see what d Lord has done. . ."

@ Bolarge

You have killed me my brother!!! But is it her fault for thanking God
for such a self professed fat catch!

Change your number and keep out of their way and concentrate on
your new man. By the way, does the Yoruba man know you are
still taking money from the other hoax.

I really think you should stay out of any relationships
unitl you've sorted out your feelings for that stud and you
are ready to start off with someone else. Your mail suggests
that you are still a bit confused about issues. If the hoax is out
of your system why not delink completely and STOP TAKING HIS MONEY!

Romans 8:28

For I know that all things work together for good to them
than love the Lord, even to them who are called according
to His purpose by Christ Jesus.

The advice from Siena is really good.
From vast experience, I would also tell you never marry anyone out
of pity - eventually when the pity goes and is not repalced by love,
you'll feel trapped in that union.

Also a guy who disappears when you are 4 months pregnant and appears
after the baby is born is irresponsible and scared of responsibilty. You can be
sure that in the long run, he will not stand by you to take care of your kids. He'll
always be on the look out for a fresh relationship with less responsibility. You are
better off without him, just trust God for the right man.

I fully agree with Chika, the lady needs to tell that man
in no uncertain terms that what was is gone and cannot be
revisted. Becoming a refugee at her mothers will not help her
cos eventually she'll be back and the guy will start again.

Some mothers do have em - funniest commedy ever
Friends
My wife and kids

Genevieve Nnaji - goes without saying
Emeka Ike/Ramsey Nouah

I don't know about whose richer, but I think genevieve is
more famous.  As for looks, judge for yourself below:

Leilah:

Gemmie, please consider and weigh out your options, single parenthood is not easy.

So what are you suggesting Leilah, that she throw out the innocent inconvenience, ABEG!!! There are enough single mothers in the world for her to know that she is just adding to the statistics -
but we all survivie and the children do grow up and move on with their own lives.

I dont even know whether you are reading this thread anymore, but Gemmie, go ahead
and have your child, she/he may bring you the greatest joy of your life and at 35, you are
mature enought to handle the situation. God bless.

Wow, what a dilemma over such a beautiful thing as a marriage.
You've already postponed the wedding so you have enough time to
talk to your parents and convince them about the kind of wedding you want.
If push comes to shove, talk to someone they respect and ask that person
to reason with them on your behalf. Best of luck sister.

about 90% of the Mexican soaps are stupid and completely predictable (Except 2nd chance)
if you've watched rebecca and garder's daughter you know what I mean.

Why do we watch them?  We love the torture so that we can beef about
them to our friends even as we anxiously wait for the next episode so
that we can watch and beef some more - its human nature, it makes good
conversation in a bored world. 

Kinda feels nice to have someone by you who knows you well, shares
in all your issues good/bad - you know, soul mate, friend, companion, lover etc.
(Ask anyone who has lost a mate in one way or the other)

@KARIBU

Usijali, hiyo ni life.

You'll definitely love again. We all go through that phase
of "I'll never love again' but you'll get over it.

@Engee2

Its not a question of holiness or otherwise, the guy asked
our opinion we are giving it.

I still think he should have told her before posting the question on
the forum.  You may not know her name and all, but am sure
when she reads all these opinions she feels as if the whole
world knows it is her, which is why she is not happy.

I think you messed by presenting it as a suprise.  Why could you
not ask her first to see whether she wanted it posted on a chatroom
seeing as the issues are rather personal anyway.

I think you messed, even though your intentions were good.

Happy Birthday Hamabra. May the Lord
bless you with long life and much joy.