most annoying:

Men
Hanks Anuku (Palease give us a D**m break)
Jim Iyke
Emeka Ike (love the guy, but he should really stop rolling his eyes)

Ladies
None, they are all good.

Break up
Church Business
Blood Sisters
Dangerous Sisters
Love all her movies actually!

@POSTER
JUST LEAVE HER ALONE! ATTITUDE OR NONE
SHE DOES NOT AFFECT YOU DIRECTLY DOES SHE?! CHEI!!!

We were reminded that if we continue doing things the same way we will
remain the same ie. we will not grow to new levels in our walk with the Lord.
We were told it s time to arise and be everything that God created us to be.

It really is a matter of personal choice and conviction. One things for sure
no one should be pressurised into having a person's baby if they are not
for it just to be married (PLEASE!!!) If the man only wants a child bearing
machine, he should look for a scientist to develop one for himoooo

@Onunot

Take heart my sister you are not alone in that predicament. One thing you
should bear in mind is that that man is the only father your child has, whether he is
seeking him for selfish reasons or not. Your son has a special bond with you given
the number of years you've raised him on your own, but he will indeed bother you at
some point if you dont develop a normal (sort of) relationship between his father and him now.

My own children are free to visit their father who deserted us 4 years ago and I actually encourage
them to see and call him often so that they are not straved for his love and blame it on me. Dont worry
you'll get through this with the right decision being made. Take advantage of naijabands suggestion and
meet up with the other lady - it may help.

Genny
Dakore
Omot

NOW AND FOREVER

***RING
Liz Benson
Desmond Eliot - Ugoma
Monalisa Chinda - Philipa
Sofia Chidi Chikere
(sorry cant remember the rest of stage names)

The movie starts when Desmond's father is about to die and as he takes his last breath he tells
his son Ugo (Desmond) to take good care of his mother (Liz).

We move on to years later where Ugo is now a grown man taking care of his father's buisness and in
a relationship with Sofia, who is at the university but staying with him at his home and they are to be
married.

Sofia and Ugo walk into th house to find a distressed Liz who says tha the house boy no longer listens
to her and is very rude. Ugo flies into an unholy rage and insists that he must put the house help in place and
goes to talk to him. He finds the houe boy's girl friend washing clothes at the worker's quarters and demands
to see the houseboy. The girl goes to call him and Ugo gives him a massive tongue lashing. the man in
enraged and speaks rudely to Ugo who immediately sacks him from him job and pays him his severence pay.

The houseboy and his girlfriend go to the girlfriend's brother's house where the houseboy declared that he
can no longer marry the gril since he is now jobless. the brother incites the houseboy to go back for more
money and he agrees and they both take each other to Liz's house. They find the women i.e liz and sofia preparing
a meal. Sofia was peeling some potatoes and the women ask them to leave immediately. Sofia takes her phone and
calls the police, but the houseboy stabs her with the knife she was using. she is rushed to hospital, but dies. There follows a lot of crying and a sad funeral where Ugoma vows never to love again (lol) He stops living (so to speak) does not eat or sleep well or go to the office. It takes the advice of of father in-law to at least revive him and he goes back to the office, but refuses
any association with the ladies even when his mother starts match-making he has a heated arguement with her and
tells her to leave him alone.

Finally, years (or is it several months) pass by and Ugoma still shows no signs of getting over his dead lover. The mother resorts to emotional blackmail and declares that if he does not introduce to her a girl on her upcoming birthday, she will
die and her blood will be on him.

Earlier, Ugo had gone clubbing with three of his friends and there was a lady (Monalisa/Philipa) there who was dancing alone and showed no interest in the opposite sex and every time one attempted to dance with her she would move away and
keep to herself. The lady would dance till morning and then leave on her own. Two of Ugos friends having failed where she was concerned lied to him that they had they had been with the lady and that she slept with everyone there. Ugo anyway was not interested and shortly left for home.

When his mother threatens him with death, Ugo goes to the club and asks for the girl he sees dancing there every friday. The bar man tells him she is called Philipa and that he can get her there on saturday morning when she is leaving. He goes that saturday finds that she is alreay leaving and rushes to talk with her. After much convincing, he contracts her for 200k to act as his girlfriend from London and stay at his place for three weeks. So Philipa moves in with him in a wierd arrangement where they must share a bedroom and be seen to be loving in front of Liz much to Philipa's irritation, but they do pull it off and eventually, the day comes when she must leave and Ugo takes her to the "airport".

After a few days, Ugo realises that he misses Philipa a great deal. He starts sulking a lot not eating well and when his mother mentions his funny mood and thinks that may be he should call Philipa, he throws a tantrum and tells her to stop talking about
Philipa because he misses her too much and runs off to his bedroom. He decides to go and look for her at the club and they both are so excited to see each other again and a lot of loving staff goes on. He takes her home the next morning and asks her to marry him and come live in the house again cos he really misses her, but she says no and instead asks him to be her boyfried, which he gladly accepts. The relationship develops as they continue seeing each other regularly without telling Liz and eventually he decides to marry her. In the process Philipa tells Ugo that she lives with her Aunt in Lagos cos she ran away from a forced marriage at home. Her parents were forcing her to marry an arrogant rich guy whom she despised.

While at the house of one of his three friends having a drink he wants to leave to to meet Philipa and tells his friends when they ask why he is leaving that he is meeting up with Philip and that he wants to marry her. His friends tell him not to marry her cos she is a prostitute and that they have all slept with her and also that she sleeps with all an sundry at the club. He asks them to swear which they shamelessly do and he rushes out. When he sees Philipa he accuses her of prostitution and breaks the relationship despite her protestations that she does not evern know the people he is accusing her of having slept with. The next day, one of the friends goes to his office and tells him that the friends had lied, that Philipa had refused their advances which is why they had lied about Philipa. Ugo rushes to the Aunts house to ask for mercy, but finds that Philipa left for her home town.

He eventually tells hi mother everything and the mother advices him to go to Philipa's home town and seek peace and reconcilliation. He goes, but Philipa has already told her parents about him and how she never wants to see his face again. So when she sees his car approaching she runs into the house to hide and for about a week, the mother and father keep telling him that she is not there. Eventually the father tells him openly that she does not want to see him and that since she ran away the first time they tried to force a man on her, they no longer interfere with her love life. He refuses to go saying that she is the 2nd and only woman he would ever love. Philipa is listening to all this thro a window.

Ugoma then decides to leave after waiting for her a whole day and tells his driver to get to the bridge and stop the car. He vows to kill himself if that will make her happy. The driver goes past the bridge and stops at an open field. Ugoma gets out angrily to confront the driver as to why he had not stopped the car and realises that the driver in fact is Philipa who had xchanged clothes with the driver. There is a happy reunion.

Nice movie to watch especially if you a hopeless romantic I highly recommend it

@poster

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! wow thats a master piece of shame
and here I thought the world had lost its sense of humour

judgement

Will review NOW AND FOREVER tomorrow - too tired
now. gooday all

How Great Thou Art

Oh Lord my God When I in awesome wonder
Consider all the works thy hands have made
I see the stars, I hear the roaring thunder
Thy p'wer throughout the universe displayed

Then sings my soul my Saviour God to thee
How great thou art, how great thou artx2

When Peace Like a River

When peace like a river attendeth my soul
when sorrows like sea bellows roar
Whatever my lot, thou has taught me to know
it is well, it is well with my soul

It is well (it is well)
With my soul (with my soul)
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

@hamabra

Amen, it will be well with your sister, and thanks for encouragement

$$Rhino:

eezzy, i am so glad you are not God, haba, u too wicked oh

You have nothing to worry about if you dont fall into that catergory of men

@Ascony
Men! you come out as a very bitter individual. Disobedience
is exactly that - whether intentional or not and your philosophy will
get you nowhere as far as the ways of God are concerned its either His Way
or no Way. He created this world it is His, you dear Ascony are His, He makes the
rules you follow whether you like or not.

In any case, you should know by now that every action we take in life has
a consequence whether to us as individuals or to an entire generation. Think about that

The bible says in Genesis 4:6-7 (paraphrased) that "God told Cain, why is your face sad
if you do well will you not be accepted and if you do not well, sin stands at the door and
its desire is for you, but you must overcome it."

What this is saying to us all is that any unethical behaviour that overcomes us is purely by choice not by birth.
If you are given to too much alcohol, that is by choice, if you are given to prostitution, you are ashawo by
choiceooo, similarly if you are gay, you are gay by CHOICE.

At early ages, all of us are given to admiring people of the same sex, but we overcome that and move on
its part of growing up.  God who rejected homsexualism cannot create you a homosexual - that is out. it can not be.

In anycase, homosexualism sounds not too bad an evil until the person professing it is your son/daughter/brother.

So the likes of macalurs can rant all they want, the truth remains exactly that, truth whether one believes it or not
it cannot be changed.

I cannot tell you how touched I am that you have already
taken up the burden to pray for my uncle.

@Mishooo
Thanks a lot for your advice. Finances might hinder going out of
Naija, but he is seeing a doctor

@Olowo
God will bless you my sister. And Iam putting the other prayer
requests in my list.
Be blessed

@ Ola
How interesting. mmmh funny concept of heaven eh!

I dont know, I like to think of Heaven from the concept of
Psalm 27:4 you know, dwelling in the house of the Lord
to hehold the beauty of the Lord forever! That's Heaven

@hanabra

We'll pray. God forbid that the devil should have
his way with your sister.

Pray for my uncle - he was pronounced as having leukimia. He
really needs prayers.

If I were God mmmmmmmh

I would castrate all rapists
and behead all cheating husbands (which of course would
leave the world without men!)

Ascony:

@ $$Rhino
firstly of all u did not seem not answer my question and that is because u haven't taught about very well.
I asked u why a loving father ,like God would punish his entire children just for the simple mistakes of Adam and eve? How can God be so cruel like that?
would anybody beat him if decides to ignore that simple mistake of adam and eve? is it too impossible or too dificult for him? if its not, then why We all know that they did not sin in order to disobey God. they did not even know that what they were doing was sin. they were simply decieved by the devil.
apart from all these, even if adam and eve sinned on purpose, how the hell did that concern us? it was their own problem so they should bear the cosequences alone. But now, the simple mistake of these two amateurs is the reason why we suffer a great deal of injustice in the world today. the faact still remains that no matter how much we pray and worship God, we still face the worlds injustices and die as a matter of an initial mistake that doesnt concern us in any way. please think about this critically. i think u will begin to undestand what i am driving at.

@Ascony

First of all, you must understand that Adam and Eve knew that what they were doing was wrong - why because God
had already told them that if they eat of the fruit, they would surely die.  The mistake the made was punishable by death, so it was not a small thing!

secondly, what a parent does affects his entire generation, e.g if we are still operating in the osu era, if your father
was osu you would be too, whether you like it or not.  Same with Adam and eve, don't whine that you were not part
of the deal, your father Adam paved the way of disaster for you so therefore like it or not suffer along with him.

Thirdly and most important GOD took the form of man and came down to earth to remedy the foolish mistake
that Adam and Eve made, died on the cross to reconcile you back to himself.  Eph 2 16-19 calls it a gift of grace.  That means that like all gifts you can take it or leave it.  Its UP TO YOU.

only a yeye man can hit a woman
if women deserve a slap or two to caution them then
men deserve twenty or thirty to stop them doing the many
foolish things they do ke!

Brazil nothing, its Swazi Girls. Why else do you think their
king marries one every year!

Nonso - he looks even better in the movies than in these pics

He should be respectful and loving. I always feel that the super glue for marriage
is Love, Respect and Faithfulness. If you love your wife/husband you'll respect him/her
and will therefore be faithful to him/her. If any of these is missing, the marriage will surely
crumble.

The maids are a necessary evil - if you want to look at them that
way. Before your children grow up, you will get good ones and bad ones
that's how it goes. The only thing to do is not to accept to be under their
mercy. If you find that one is not working the way you want, release them
peacefully and look for the next. Meanwhile, your children are growing and
some day you will not need one anymore.

As for corrupting your children morally and spiritually, if you are impacting right
values into your children, you will always know when there is a change and you
deal with it accordingly. Involve yourself a lot in your children's lives and no one will
influence them negatively.

I loved the Price - Thought it was a masterpiece
Suicide Mission was also a fanastic Nija Movie
Now and forever, break up among many others

ozigbo:

I dn't know if she hot or not but i no she cold.

Abeg! abeg! abeg! your personal feelings suck big time. Cold
in what way - please define! The girl is preety and a damn good actress - cold or not!

If there is something I've learnt in life, its that you cannot force a person
to love you, more so if they have found someone else, everything you do
becomes an irritation to that person.

So therefore, get over it and move on. count your losses and wait - God will
give you your own one day.

dupebaby:

im sorry,
i myself do have a story to tell, i think i was 16 when it happens but anyway, i was expecting my period to start but it never did, so i decide to go to class the following days with pads or nothing , at 8:00am i start feeling something in my underwear, i try to get up but i don;t want to since i was sitting in front of the class, and there were more boys than girls, the teacher knew what was wrong but i can;t tell him since he is a guy.later on , my friend told me that she can see blood dippin from the bottom of the chair, at the moment i got up and to the nurse office, which was two building from the school, but trust me, the boys in my class helped me count my period for the next 9 months,

Gosh! So sorry sister, that was totally eeek!

chukz4real:

Beauty ke! give it to Omotola please oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Aw come on. How does omot come in here. We are just
commenting on Dakore and your Omot cannot shine a candle on her.
shine your eye well well bro!

Na Waaa! make you show respect for ladies. Society don make
am desperate cos of the expectations that it pushes on the poor
women.

Am waiting for the day when they'll be less women than men so
I can see you running around looking for wives who are not there