Family / Re: I Don't Have Any Female Friends Again Because Of My Wife by Efekb: 8:26am On Nov 24, 2021 |
Myexdisturbs: Can you believe my wife has made me not to have even a single female friend. I don't mean colleagues oo. Chai I have lost all female friends and blocked them on social media because of her better have sense always keep your female friends .. till forever ..your wife needs to constantly feel jealous to keep her on had feet e go shock u say she go get male friends |
Family / Re: How My Monthly Salary Is Used On Foodstuff Only by Efekb: 7:36pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
manoflove22: I earn 25k monthly,i use almost of it to buy food, and to fill my gas
Before 20th of the month, all the foodstuffs would be consumed, i will have to go on to borrow money to eat before the end of the month
Now the issue here is that My parent do ask me every time if I'm suffering from spirituality complications why i don't save for almost 3 years now I've been working, i tried to explain to them that the money is use to buy food
Note i live in the company's apartment, hence why I'm not living with them, and I'm 26years and have younger ones living with them
Now the help i need from you guys is how can you enlighten me how i can live on the money and still saving out of it, cos im not getting younger anymore
And in Nigeria where there is no job security,they can fire me from work anytime, how will i leave work without no saving and will still go home eating mama's food
This is the reasons why i don't have gf,friends or visit them at home thinking it will save me more money to save
This is not a life i wanted, help me guys
I'm not getting younger,now I'm planning to start some online business, buy a pos and do some stuff to earn me money monthly, so anytime i live this work i can rely on
Before u guys insult me or call me a glutton, please note this, in osun state where I'm living, foodstuffs is super expensive every day, spaghetti i always live on rises from 220 to 350naira presently
This is not a typical me, before Buhari' s administration, talking about 2015,i do save alot of money even those time i earn meager 10k monthly, even that time i have gf, friends you don't have any issues the money is simply small to be used for anything productive as an adult 25k tueh, God will give you something good Amen 10 Likes |
Programming / Re: Wordpress Developer Needed by Efekb: 1:05pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
PayCircle: I need a good wordpress developer who can customized wordpress website professionally. I can contact me on |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Choking Me by Efekb: 2:41pm On Jul 06, 2021 |
Prechgold1180: Hello everyone please sorry to disturb you with my personal problem I just feel it best I table the matter here.
Let me try to be short.
Please how do I tell my girlfriend to go back to her house without offending or sounding rude? I am a young guy and she is also young too currently in my final year she is a graduate on her own side she graduated last year.
She travelled outta Nigeria after graduation came back after 1 month. Ever since she got back she has been in my house close to two months now and she is not even talking about leaving.
I don’t even have my space again I can’t even go out with my friends she always calling for my attention. It is choking me seriously I can’t even keep female friends because she is always complaining. All my friends are now referring to me as a married man.
Pls how do I tell her to go back without hurting her.
Me don tire i swear tell her your parents or some family members are coming to see you or even fake a travel sef ..that's it |
Career / Re: Loan Apps Want To Finish Me by Efekb: 10:11pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Wahala for who dey take loans oh..my best best bet is that you should find a way to pay it Sha |
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Career / Re: Which Of These Professional Courses Should I Go For by Efekb: 6:46pm On May 12, 2021 |
OfficialGaGa: Hello guys, so I want to learn at least one professional course and I have a cope of them to choose from but I dont really know which to do first..
these are the courses
1. PMP ( Project Management professional ) 2. HRMP ( Human Resources Management Professional 3. HSE (Health safety n environmental management (HSE 1&2) / Environmental Impact Assessment (EIA/HSE Levels) 4. SCLM (Supply chain & logistics management) 5. CRMP (Customer relation management professional)
I had the intention to do the HSE but the money is a little bit much for me right now... so I am just in between...
so guys I need ur input on which one is really needed now in the employment market.
thanks take a course on product management though it's not listed here ,take the one for UDACITY |
Programming / Re: Is C++ Still A Relevant Programming Language Today? by Efekb: 4:22pm On May 08, 2021 |
Balenciagabrain: Hello, May I kindly get your candid opinions? I recently am pitching for I.T which I am having problem with choosing which language to go for but I finally considering to settle for C++. I hope I am not going for what may have become outdated. Besides, may I also know more specifics about C++... I would be very much grateful for your kindness. If you need a job learn JAVASCRIPT |
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Family / Re: Her Family Told Me To Marry Her Corpse by Efekb: 9:27am On Mar 31, 2021 |
James4358: My nairaland family, i jst want to bare my mind here.
Matured responses will be sincerely appreciated. I'll try to be brief & straight to the points.
Precisely in 2019, I helped my then boss who was transfered to Abuja to get a maid from the south south part of the country, calabar to be precise. She was 18yrs at that time. Later that year, my boss who was nursing a kidney ailment needed transplant urgently. Out of love, this girl opted to help donate one of her kidneys. Personaly I kicked against the idea when she told me, but she was strong-willed. I took the matter to her parents and they threatened to hold me responsible if anything happened to their daughter. After much persuasion from her, her parents gave in reluctantly. We carried out series of tests & she was certified fit to donate. My boss contacted a German hospital that later did the transplant. I work for a para-millitary agency as a cadet A.S.P & i call him My boss because he was heading the command i was first posted to. More details below...
better no travel back oh...abi u wan make dem run u streets |
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