waoh!!!!!! God's goodness and Mercy shall follow them...Congratulation oooooooooo

[quote author=KvnqPrezo post=50175034]

True talk but the dude said he don't wanna loose the relationship...[/quote
he should what is required of him,plead with the little brain girl,apologies to her but if she keep acting like her spares parts are no way to be found,,,free her but I still insist,in future,he will face such challenges

Rivers state government promised to pay they're corpers at the end of they're service year #180k for those serving in the village. now,is has been said they were given code to keep till when the cash is ready for over 8months now and this government is also giving this newly passed Batch B same code and instead 180k that was staged to batch A's,batch B' s are been stag 77k...well,we are watching..lol

[quote author=KvnqPrezo post=50173463] the fault might be from the dude action..




though the guy might not tell us point by point how is happened my brother but I put myself in the ladies shoes,,i am strong,i can stand as long as I get a cab,am even lucky the woman( mother)like me then what will destroy a 3yrs relationship is why will u leave me behind .....is not suppose to be heard

ut you know women lie!

Anyways, i'll find it hard to believe especially if you are bodily endowed

I'll be like.........man no dey see u ni, abi you be lez?
lez ke,,,lez ni, maybe past experience shaaa but even when it seems obvious,some don't still believe

some persons seems to doubt you to the moon when you say u are single...and I ask,why?

please I want to ask,what has low esteem got to do with this topic?

[quote author=Oma307 post=50158438]
I don't know why many ladies find it very di




because it might be one out of millions that wouldn't see it as a chance to humiliate,insult,use and dump u..my opinion though

Peacefullove:
this is a very complicated but powerful subject , most marriage today fell apart because the woman did not marry someone she really love . her heart is somewhere else entirely , she only say " yes " to avoid been left out at the age of 27 . no time


I will respect a girl that ask me out, even If I honestly reject such a girl probably because of some things beyond my control . because I can't play peoples feelings or pretend . but such a lady have won my respect any day , anytime


its true most women are scared of taking this step because this generation of men is full of perverts who are looking for innocent girls to destroy . and this is leading most women to LOVELESS marriages . its a pity !


but one thing have noticed is, once a girl ask you out , you will start developing feelings for the girl , I don't know why maybe its just one of the numerous powers of the feminine gender.


My advise is considering the level of perverts nowadays who think relationship is just about sex , a lady should just send green lights ( strong one ) , but not make that move . well, there is an exception .. if you sense the guy is a very matured person . this at times is not always easy to figure out too , I must confess .


But A situation whereby a girl ask you out and you have strong lovely feelings for her too , and it worked out fine .! this kinda love is superb, because both parties have mutual feelings .

u said it all,,,,i appreciate.

[quote author=chigoizie7 post=50158757]


I beg to differ.

The truth is, majority of guys are always looking for a pusssy to slay, that aside. A girl can ask a guy out and if the guy find that girl attractive enough and good enough, he will accept her and still respect her.

But because, guys love pusssy alot, any proposal will always be accepted, if not for anything but for the pussy.

Doubt me? Allow upto 5 different girls to ask a guy out, he will accept all of them, not because he likes them, but because of the pussy he will get. And once he gets that, he ditches u, so, it is not about being egocentric, it is about getting what u want and then doing away with the container.

Unlike girls, she can't accept all guys approaching her, she will look for the one she like in return.

But a guy will even accept the one he doesn't even like, just to slay d punnnny, and when he is tru and wants to move ahead, he displays all manner of characters to tell u he ain't interested anymore, just like a player, who only toasts u for ur punny will treat u when he gets what he wants, u don't call that being egocentric, do u?



If a girl that has almost all the qualities I want in a girl that I intend to ask out, asks me out 1st, I will accept her and respect her.



Majority of guys will disrespect u(me inclusive) the same way I will disrespect the Babe I toasted just for sex[/quote

u are the best,,thanks

I actually didn't want to say anything or to lay blames on anyone but as a lady I am,i cant do such. different people with different ways of life anyway...take heart because u will still face more of this in future..success

[quote author=TrapQueen77 post=50150156]




I don't find it as a wrong move... But it wud be nice if u ask out ur close male friend. This is the most safest I think coz he surely can't reject u... Juz make sure he don't have a gf to avoid complication


I did tat... Many times.. And it's working ; like seriously,!!!!! nice advice dear,thanks

omo,,,a get hope...thankGod ooooooo,,,

that's means is not malaria,is hunger..hahahhahha,,kudos to her though

in my own view sis,he's acting up to see what u will do? if you will finally loosen up but please swt,stand ur ground....still respect him,greet him but from a distance,if he's intention is good,he will come back no matter how long but if not,that's the door,wish him safe trip and we ladies should be careful on how we get along with guys,some might not understand that u meant nothing....my flatmate can go from guys room to another,play with them even when is not necessary, feed a guy and all that and when that guy start acting,who's to blame?

from my own opinion dear,i think we all think same thing when it has to do with staying with someone for the rest of our life. yes but have u ever heard " he that findeth a wife,findeth a good thing and obtain favour from God"? what's my point dear,are u a good thing? do u think whoever that finds u has found a good thing? and indeed can we both obtain favour from God? since He (God) says,heaven and earth shall pass away but non of His words shall return to me (God) void...if u agree to all these,then u don't need to be afraid. only pray for God's grace,for,"is not of him that willth nor runth,is of God that showeth mercy".....hitch free marriage is what I wish u. secondly,my dear,remember,"He that will not work,will not eat" and in as much as u do all that,never make them your God that u will treat someone like a trash. Resist fear and it will flee from you, God has given you the spirit of boldness and not of fear........swthrt....work,love,plan with him and believe God to do the res,,success...

from my own opinion dear,i think we all think same thing when it has to do with staying with someone for the rest of our life. yes but have u ever heard " he that findeth a wife,findeth a good thing and obtain favour from God"? what's my point dear,are u a good thing? do u think whoever that finds u has found a good thing? and indeed can we both obtain favour from God? since He (God) says,heaven and earth shall pass away but non of His words shall return to me (God) void...if u agree to all these,then u don't need to be afraid. only pray for God's grace,for,"is not of him that willth nor runth,is of God that showeth mercy".....hitch free marriage is what I wish u. secondly,my dear,remember,"He that will not work,will not eat" and in as much as u do all that,never make them your God that u will treat someone like a trash. Resist fear and it will flee from you, God has given you the spirit of boldness and not of fear........swthrt....work,love,plan with him and believe God to do the rest,,,,,,success...

base on African mentality

your opinion noted

Oma307:
is she ur wife?

my brothers wife

CoolFreeday:
hope she is your wife? if yes, after breaking fast for that day, you can enjoy sex together or do she fast at night. 24 hours a day?
meanwhile sex between a married man and his wife is not a sin.

thanks brother,same thing I told her...She starts morning and end it evening and have the night with her hubby

firstking01:
Pls let her do her fast

so,if u have a wife who said she want to go on 100days fast that starts morning and end evening,u will clap for her when she said no at night right? ur opinion noticed anyways.

people go on the street,pick a know prostitute,change her and make her that which they want. what's the different?coz u had her with ur friends? she's ready to go down with u,are u ready to stand with her? are ready not to call her names anyway she goes wrong coz it will happen? are u ready to stand the jokes ur friends will throw at u when u guys are together? if u are the type that don't care and she's ready to respect you,i think to my own opinion,,,,U ARE GOOD TO GO

God's grace

I mustn't comment shaaaa and u mustn't comment too,,,just passing....God Over All

in my opinion,isn't possible...don't know about you!!!!!

in my opinion,isn't possible...don't know about you!!!!!

I think It will be good we post port harcourt job vacancies here

DeeTus:
Lol. Yea that's right!

DeeTus so u later agreed is an individual thing,cool

[quote author=LuvU2 post=50116121]Cute bt not my type
yes sis,i concur with you