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Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by Ejisz: 9:20pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
omicron: Thanks @doc and @modesayo. I am grateful. I will do as Adviced. |
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by Ejisz: 9:55am On Mar 31, 2015 |
Hi doc. First, I want to commend your effort coming here to help people. You are blessed. I have been on this thread before and your advice helped me a lot.now I am back again cos my girlfriend is in a very bad state right now. It all started when she and I decided to stop using protections during sex. So ever since, we make out without. Protections and I often ejacualte into her. Though she sometimes takes postinor 2 if it happens during ovulation and sometimes she take ampiclox when not ovulating ( that's after she has expeled almost all the sperm from her system by pushing it out). Recently, while we were making out, she felt this sharp pain in her abdominal cavity.the pain was so strong that we had to stop. The pain lasted for about 3 hours before it became mild. But till this day she feel the pain once in a while but mild. After the last occurence, she missed her flow and I urged her to run PT. She did at first but It was negative. After a week interval still no flow so she ran another PT and now it was. Positive. So we decided to abort. We thought it was still too early for D and C so she took abortion pills but it did not work. She took another prescription after sometime still no bleeding. So she had to go for scan and that was when we realized she has ectopic pregnancy and a small fibroid growing but not inside her uterous. So doc. Pls I need to know if there is a way to go about this without surgery cos I can't afford it right now. The pregnancy is not up to 10 weeks yet. Just a month and few a week now. Thanks. |
Nairaland / General / How Did You Come Into This Life? by Ejisz: 10:02pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
I have come to realize that during labor, a lot of pregnant women deliver their babies in diverse means under various conditions. Thus I have also observed that babies all around the globe come through the vagina head-first. But there is this believe that some babies comes legs-first. And I was also made to believe that children who came out leg-first are spriritually brazed. More like naturally. But not possesed. How true is this and do you have any way of explaining this mystery? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Salary Scale Of Immigration Officers by Ejisz: 4:42pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
1stdammy: please can you give a link to the website where you. applied? the one I found is not active. thanks |
Romance / Re: Why Do Most Men Feel Insecured About Independent Women by Ejisz: 4:44pm On Feb 27, 2015 |
True but I would say only men that lack self confidence can feel inferior I know a good number of confident bros who only woo independent women. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Are Children Created By God Or Formed From Parents? by Ejisz: 8:44pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
zico18: explain further please. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Are Children Created By God Or Formed From Parents? by Ejisz: 8:43pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
olu77:care to throw more light on this? |
Nairaland / General / Are Children Created By God Or Formed From Parents? by Ejisz: 8:15pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
for a while now I have constantly pondered on this thought of how children come to be born. I am not an atheist in any way, but I can't seem to comprehend the true process binding the birth of a new born baby. I know Adam was created by God. also Eve was created by God though from Adams Rib bone. what I don't know is if the babies in every pregnant woman's womb is also formed and created by God or its as a result of the male sperms fertilizing the female eggs only that leads to the formation of a baby after nine months. please share your opinion. please try not to be too pragmatic. thanks. |
Romance / Re: Women And Self-objectification by Ejisz: 7:23pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
you all are making sense in either one way or another. so please try not to be impolite when dropping your opinion okay. thanks all. |
Travel / Re: Traveling Tips From Nigeria To Macau Needed Urgently by Ejisz: 11:22am On Feb 13, 2015 |
chukxie:about macau. do you think my guy will be able to get a good job and earn something reasonable? NOTE: he is a nigerian he can't speak or understand their language he is a computer science graduate. B.sc here though. What do you think? I still dey hail o. |
Romance / Re: How To Avoid Friends Zone With Women by Ejisz: 11:20am On Feb 13, 2015 |
iceberylin:lol. so you don't see it as a possibility? don't forget you have to consider all odds. lol |
Travel / Re: Traveling Tips From Nigeria To Macau Needed Urgently by Ejisz: 11:19am On Feb 13, 2015 |
thanks chukxie. you are blessed sir/madam. the link was of great help. thanks to everyone else. I love you all. |
Travel / Re: Traveling Tips From Nigeria To Macau Needed Urgently by Ejisz: 11:15am On Feb 13, 2015 |
tdayof:the person in need stays in Benin city. thanks. |
Romance / Re: How To Avoid Friends Zone With Women by Ejisz: 4:45am On Feb 13, 2015 |
iceberylin:I agree to disagree. what if she owns fleets of cars and your very own range is the least expensive in her garage? |
Travel / Re: Traveling Tips From Nigeria To Macau Needed Urgently by Ejisz: 4:43am On Feb 13, 2015 |
thanks a lot. I am grateful. but still where is the embassy located and what are the documents required? |
Travel / Traveling Tips From Nigeria To Macau Needed Urgently by Ejisz: 6:50pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
hi fellow nairalanders. I have a friend who intend to travel to meet his female lover in macau for the sake of marriage. he is not too conversant with traveling overseas. neither am I. but for some reason, I believe we have enlightened and experienced people on here who can share useful information regarding the journey from Nigeria to Macau. thanks in anticipation. |
Romance / How To Avoid Friends Zone With Women by Ejisz: 5:07pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
No guy likes to hear “let’s just be friends “ from a woman who he is interested in romantically. But many guys have this frustrating experience that repeats itself over and over – they meet a woman, start going out with her, things seem to go really well and then, at a certain point, a woman tells them something to the effect of “I really like you as a friend” or “lets just be friends” or “I don’t like you “that” way.” Those words can hurt more than an actual rejection because they often leave a man at a loss: he is wondering – “If she really likes me, as she says she does, why does she only want to be friends?” Understanding why women just want to be “friends” with some guys and want to be “more” than friends with other men is crucial to your ability to avoid the friends zone. My observations suggest that there are five main reasons that a guy may end up in a friend zone with a woman who he has a romantic interest in: 1. The first and the most common reason for ending up in a friends zone with women is being too nice, two sweet, and too accommodating. It is essential that you understand that there is a huge difference between being sweet and nice and being attractive . Think about your interactions with your co-workers or other people who you are not very close to – what makes those interactions formal? – Well, it is your polite, courteous communication, free of sarcasm, teasing and inappropriate humor / jokes. This is exactly what distinguishes a plain, stiff conversation with no romantic interest or potential from that communication which evokes romantic interest – flirting. Flirting is teasing, laughing, being sarcastic, and dishing out all kinds of playful innuendos. Sarcasm is that spice in a conversation which gives it that romantic flavor that makes a woman look at you as much more than just a friend. A guy who talks to a woman by primarily saying “Oh, yeah, exactly, totally, I completely agree” – is not going to be an interesting, attractive, stimulating company to a smart, confident and otherwise desirable woman. If she wanted constant approval of what she is saying, she would be talking to her girlfriends or … she might just as well talk to a wall – after all, a wall never disagrees – right? Do you want to be a wall? I bet not! So, stop, stop, stop – stop being “neutral,” stop walking on “eggshells” when you are talking to a woman, stop being afraid of offending her with what you say. If she is so sensitive that she can’t handle a joke or a sarcastic comment, she is probably a waste of time down the line anyway, so you might as well find that out as early as possible. The next time a woman texts you “I will be there in a few minutes,” don’t reply with “Sure, no problem, take your time.” Instead, say: “You better. I am charging by the minute.” The next time a girl tells you that she is stuck in traffic, don’t tell her: “I am sorry, I hope it clears soon…” – instead, tell her: “Well, you are a woman, you shouldn’t be driving in a first place.” Ironically, both you and the woman will enjoy this kind of interaction much more and it surely will keep you miles away and out of the friend zone. 2. The second most common reason for ending up in a friend zone with women is being too eager to get into a relationship. You should understand and remember that generally it takes women longer to develop attraction and romantic interest in a guy than it takes a guy to develop emotions towards a woman, and as a guy – you don’t want to be “ahead” of a woman. You must never be the first one to ask the woman you are seeing where you two stand and whether you are exclusive. Ideally, you should not even tell a woman you love her until it’s really obvious to you that she is crazy about you, that she expects to hear it from you and that she will even be upset if she doesn’t hear that “L” word. Further, asking a woman how she feels about you is pointless and even harmful to your image as a confident and attractive man in her eyes. First, it conveys your insecurity and your concern about how she feels about you which is never attractive. Besides, if she is eager to see you and spend time with you and she makes herself available to you, then you have your answer and you should let HER ask you where the two of you stand first. So, avoid asking the “status” questions. Make the most out of your time with the woman you like and be the most attractive, confident and interesting guy she has ever met, and she will surely be the first one asking you if you are seeing anyone else and how serious you are about her. 3. The third common reason for falling into the friends zone with women is not being aggressive enough when the time is right. Some guys make the mistake of being overly aggressive with women. Ironically, however, other men often get into the friends zone because they are not aggressive enough. It is important to remember that there is a window of opportunity when you first meet a woman during which you must make it clear that you are interested in her romantically and not through your words but through your actions. If you don’t, she will unconsciously “give up” on thinking of you as a romantic prospect and you will be permanently classified as a “friend.” So, if you want to make a move, do it promptly and this will help you a lot in avoiding the friends zone! So, what is a good way to be aggressive and do it promptly? After you establish some comfort and get to know each other. Flirt – subtle sexual jokes and innuendos are fun, especially if the girl seems to be open minded and receptive. Do not hesitate to touch her casually, lightly but with affection. Whether stroking her hair while you tell her that you like her hair, picking up her hand while your cross the street, or putting your palm on her back when she walks inside a restaurant in front you – those little cues suggest your confidence and comfort with who you are and they also show that it’s normal for you to do that and you have no hang ups about showing basic signs of physical attention. And, of course, being aggressive promptly means kissing her when the time and place are right. 4. Another sure way toward ending up in a friends zone with girls is talking about the dating process itself. It doesn’t really make sense why talking about love and dating has such a negative effect on the chemistry between the two people, but it certainly does. “What are you looking for in a partner?” “How long was your last relationship?” “What do you usually enjoy doing on dates?” “What’s your favorite romantic movie?” and alike are seemingly harmless questions, but their harm is immediate and often unknown, even to the woman herself. The simple explanation for this phenomenon is this: dating/relationship issues is what friends are usually talking about – it’s what girls discuss over coffee or dinner. Once a woman has a similar conversation with a guy, she starts relating to him on the same level as she would relate to her girlfriend. This, in turn, pushes out and away that sexual attraction and all other non-platonic elements of the interaction between the two people. 5. Lastly, even if you do everything right, some women will just not see you as a romantic/ sexual partner and you will fall into a friends zone no matter what you do or say. This says nothing bad about you or any given woman. Like with every other guy, not every woman will want you and be attracted to you, but that’s perfectly fine and it’s part of the game. You should recognize it, accept it and move on toward those women who will feel attracted to you on all levels and see you as more than a friend. If you do end up in a friends zone, the chances of getting out of there and going back into the “romance track” are usually low, and thus it’s better to learn how to avoid getting into a friends zone in the first place, as building romantic interest is usually easier than rebuilding your interaction with a girl. And, of course, an essential element of avoiding the friends zone with women is not treating them or talking to them like you would with a friend. That is, flirting the right way is essential for creating chemistry and romantic tension that we all want to experience. |
Sports / 8 Tips For Communicating With Your Partner by Ejisz: 5:17pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
Let’s talk how to get what you want from your partner. Are you unhappy within your relationship or are happy but just not getting what you want? What if we told you there was a way for you to get what you want from your partner ? It may seem like something that would draw blood, but it's not. The way to get what you want from your partner is to follow these points. You have to start with you first and figure out what it is you want before you can express it your partner Here are eight tips on how to get what you want from your partner . 8 Tips for Communicating With Your Partner 1. Figure out what you want and write it down. 2. Sit your partner down and tell them what you want. 3. Be specific. You may want your partner to be romantic, so give examples of what that looks like: getting flowers. 4. Set a date, time, and time frame to talk about your wants. 5. Turn the negatives into positives. Say, “Honey, I love you, but here’s what we make me love you even more...” 6. Ask what can you do to help. 7. Help your partner help you. 8. Listen to what your partner says and listen to what your partner does. The only way to fix a problem is to find a solution. Your solution for getting what you want is all here. But, you have to be willing to work on some things yourself: listen, help, and be patient for things to come around. |
Nairaland / General / Good Sex Equals Good Marriage by Ejisz: 5:08pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
A new study finds sex is required for a strong marriage - surprised? As Marilyn Monroe once said, "We are all born sexual creatures, thank God, but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift." A new study by researchers Adena Galinsky and Linda J. Waite from the University of Chicago says sex is key if partners want to have a happy marriage . See what else the study learned from hundreds of couples interviewed. When generating results, Galinsky and Waite interviewed 732 couples all between the ages of 57 and 85. Each interview discussed sexual frequency, psychological state and overall satisfaction with marriage . If you guessed that the married men and women who had more sexual encounters with their mate - not just intercourse - were happier, you guessed right. For long term partners, the inherent benefits of sex are obvious, but here's a quick list: For women, orgasms help strengthen the pelvic floor which reduces bladder problems Sex lowers the risk of heart attack in men and women Vaginal stimulation can block chronic back and leg pain Sex improves sleep However, for the couples having less sex and less frequent sexual encounters, this impacts the couples sense of intimacy and ultimately the satisfaction of their marriage. The results of this study urged married couples to protect their union by engaging in sexual activity, especially later in life. According to them, sex should still occur "even as health problems render familiar forms of sexual interaction difficult or impossible." Galinsky's and Waite's research suggests that caretakers and physicians should pay attention to the sex life of older couples . This advice does not mean paying attention to only sexual health and the use contraceptives, but also paying attention to the frequency of sexual interactions or lack thereof. This study goes to show that the more sex you have the better you feel, especially as the body progresses towards old age. It promotes health, aids sleep and fights disease. Are there any reasons an older couple should not be have sex? According to this study, the answer is no.A new study finds sex is required for a strong marriage - surprised? As Marilyn Monroe once said, "We are all born sexual creatures, thank God, but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift." A new study by researchers Adena Galinsky and Linda J. Waite from the University of Chicago says sex is key if partners want to have a happy marriage . See what else the study learned from hundreds of couples interviewed. When generating results, Galinsky and Waite interviewed 732 couples all between the ages of 57 and 85. Each interview discussed sexual frequency, psychological state and overall satisfaction with marriage . If you guessed that the married men and women who had more sexual encounters with their mate - not just intercourse - were happier, you guessed right. For long term partners, the inherent benefits of sex are obvious, but here's a quick list: For women, orgasms help strengthen the pelvic floor which reduces bladder problems Sex lowers the risk of heart attack in men and women Vaginal stimulation can block chronic back and leg pain Sex improves sleep However, for the couples having less sex and less frequent sexual encounters, this impacts the couples sense of intimacy and ultimately the satisfaction of their marriage. The results of this study urged married couples to protect their union by engaging in sexual activity, especially later in life. According to them, sex should still occur "even as health problems render familiar forms of sexual interaction difficult or impossible." Galinsky's and Waite's research suggests that caretakers and physicians should pay attention to the sex life of older couples . This advice does not mean paying attention to only sexual health and the use contraceptives, but also paying attention to the frequency of sexual interactions or lack thereof. This study goes to show that the more sex you have the better you feel, especially as the body progresses towards old age. It promotes health, aids sleep and fights disease. Are there any reasons an older couple should not be have sex? According to this study, the answer is no.A new study finds sex is required for a strong marriage - surprised? As Marilyn Monroe once said, "We are all born sexual creatures, thank God, but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift." A new study by researchers Adena Galinsky and Linda J. Waite from the University of Chicago says sex is key if partners want to have a happy marriage . See what else the study learned from hundreds of couples interviewed. When generating results, Galinsky and Waite interviewed 732 couples all between the ages of 57 and 85. Each interview discussed sexual frequency, psychological state and overall satisfaction with marriage . If you guessed that the married men and women who had more sexual encounters with their mate - not just intercourse - were happier, you guessed right. For long term partners, the inherent benefits of sex are obvious, but here's a quick list: For women, orgasms help strengthen the pelvic floor which reduces bladder problems Sex lowers the risk of heart attack in men and women Vaginal stimulation can block chronic back and leg pain Sex improves sleep However, for the couples having less sex and less frequent sexual encounters, this impacts the couples sense of intimacy and ultimately the satisfaction of their marriage. The results of this study urged married couples to protect their union by engaging in sexual activity, especially later in life. According to them, sex should still occur "even as health problems render familiar forms of sexual interaction difficult or impossible." Galinsky's and Waite's research suggests that caretakers and physicians should pay attention to the sex life of older couples . This advice does not mean paying attention to only sexual health and the use contraceptives, but also paying attention to the frequency of sexual interactions or lack thereof. This study goes to show that the more sex you have the better you feel, especially as the body progresses towards old age. It promotes health, aids sleep and fights disease. Are there any reasons an older couple should not be have sex? According to this study, the answer is no. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Top 9 Most Anticipated Naija Music Collaborations by Ejisz: 11:52am On Jul 10, 2014 |
UniqueGem: Phyno and flavour already have a song bro. Phyno ft flavour- Authenticok am gonna re-edit |
Nairaland / General / Re: Top 9 Most Anticipated Naija Music Collaborations by Ejisz: 9:10am On Jul 10, 2014 |
iheanyi40: Oga make use of ya space bar nahDONE |
Nairaland / General / Top 9 Most Anticipated Naija Music Collaborations by Ejisz: 5:01pm On Jul 09, 2014 |
Some of these celebrities have tried to. work together in the past. The Nigerian music lover certainly can’t wait to see some of the best Nigerian acts collaborate on a track. From marketing reasons to non-agreement of appearance fee and other personal reasons, music fans have been eluded from listening to these anticipated music collaborations. PREMIMUM TIMES’s Michael Abimboye takes a look at the 10 most anticipated music collaborations. 1) Wizkid – Davido This is certainly a duet pop music lovers can’t wait to hear. A track by both acts would have been on Davido’s OBO album, but due to a beef between both acts, the collaboration couldn’t take place. Now that the two are in good terms, coupled with the fact that both acts are young, label Head, successful and leaders of the next generation of musicians, lovers of Nigerian pop hope that the much anticipated Davido -- Wizkid collaboration will be heard soon. 2). Femi Kuti and Lagbaja You don’t know what they have in common? Well, Femi Kuti and the masked one, Lagbaja play the saxophone. But apart from that, lovers of good music, conscious music yearn for a track that features the Afro beat king and the masked one. With several hits and local and international awards in the bags of both top acts, a track from both will sure be a hit and award winning. 3). Orezi and Haykem The dream Oh, you weren’t expecting to see this? A track between Orezi and Lamba master, Haykem the Dream, is one music lovers want to see materialize. Not only do both acts look alike, their unique voices almost sound alike and one might mistake a song from Orezi to be Haykems’. But who will make the move between the two acts is another issue. 4). Davido and Wande Coal We missed the opportunity to listen to a track with both acts on it when Davido released his successful debut O.B.O album as both acts couldn’t reach an agreement over appearance fee. Can we get the chance to have both acts on the same track in Wande’s Second album or in Davido’s next album? 5). D’Banj and WizKid The Eja Nla himself and WizKid on the same track is a sure banger. Both acts enjoy a huge fan base and are loved across Africa and the world at large. Rumour has it that a track on Wizkid’s second studio album features D’Banj. Whether that is true will be revealed when the album drops later in the year. 6). Praiz and BankyW X3music’s Praiz, and EME boss, BankyW, are very good friends. In fact, Praiz mentioned BankyW’s name more than 5 times during his last interview with PREMIUM TIMES. Although we cannot categorically say if any track on Praiz’s debut album features the acclaimed R&B king, Banky, but it’s a sure bet a track on the album might feature BankyW. 7). Tiwa Savage and Seyi Shay Sexy singers, Tiwa and Seyi Shay, came into the scene courtesy flyTyme Promotions before Tiwa decided to pitch her tent with her own imprint 323 and Mavin Records. With the rising profile of Seyi and an established Tiwa, a track featuring two of Nigeria’s sexy and beautiful singers is a sure hit. ( P Square and D’Banj Imagine D’Banj in place of Paw-Paw in PSquare’s latest video, personally? Well, a track between Psquare and D’Banj is long overdue. Both are international super stars with various endorsement and international music deals. So what’s stopping the two or the three from working on a track? We don’t know. But whenever the collaboration materializes, be ready to listen to a banger and perhaps, record breaking song. 9) Omawumi and Waje The sisters make it to the list again. This time, a track between Omawumi and Waje is it. Powerful singers, both musicians are also ambassadors to telecom company, Glo. |
Sports / Re: Netherlands Vs Costa Rica:World Cup Q-finals (4 - 3) On Penalties On 7 July 2014 by Ejisz: 3:23pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Football is no mathematics. No specific formula to determine who's gonna come out victorious in any game. On that note, I am gonna back no team................. Though costa rica might steal the semi final spot though. Argentina is a sure bet sha. |
Business / Re: Do You Own A Korea Bank Account? by Ejisz: 9:56am On Jul 05, 2014 |
Sorry kayman... I have been busy.. Sent you mail already. |
Business / Re: Do You Own A Korea Bank Account? by Ejisz: 12:17am On Jul 04, 2014 |
kayman77: I can get you one guy...call my line for details 08136894023do you have a mailing address? |
Business / Do You Own A Korea Bank Account? by Ejisz: 1:39pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
Hi peeps, a friend of mine needs a korea bank account for the immediate transfer of funds. A fee will be payed to you (the account bearer).. |
Computer Market / Re: London Used HP Pavilion G6 Laptops For Sale @ ₦ 54,000 by Ejisz: 2:33pm On Dec 14, 2013 |
Donemmex: Got a hp probook 4530s with 320gb,... I have a dell laptop i might consider swapping though it has a more advanced specs compared to yours |
Business / Re: Exportation Business Is Not As Hard As People Feel.... by Ejisz: 5:58am On Dec 08, 2013 |
@lizu.. Tnx a bunch for this free guide you are droping here...am grateful..more blessings awaits you in what ever you do..dnt just read this o..say amen my brother... please boss, can you just help break down ''the price per kg''(number 4) aspect for the commodity to be exported? With an example please.. And i got lost when you mentioned irrevocable letter of credit...how does one negotiate that? And also, how does the exporter(me) send documments to the buyer who is overseas? Thanks alot..hope to get an answere soon... |
Religion / Re: Pastors Asking All Virgins To Step Out. Is It Right? by Ejisz: 11:59am On Dec 06, 2013 |
Okiki_Oluwa: Yes. So that I can know the virgins in my Church & attack them one by one!its simply because most of them run the churches as if it were a business organization 2 Likes |
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