I'll tell you my story. I have had 2 miscarriages in the last 5 years. As it turned out - I can not bear the child myself for medical reasons. My husband studied in Ukraine and there he found a good doctor who helped us find out what the problem was.
I had to be treated for a long time so that the doctor could take my egg and we conceive a child with the help of a surrogate mother. It is very difficult morally. I wanted to give birth myself, but God dispersed differently. I am grateful that we were able to do surrogacy in Ukraine. Now we have a long-awaited son and this is important.