Dubai

Hello guys....I will like to start a business of charcoal....I need someone that can supply me charcoal on a good amount ....first I will need to get the sample...it important for me to get the best charcoal ....please anybody with this contact should message... And I am give my email and later my number so we can talk better.

am loving this....let the chess game begin....i believe in change......change nigeria for good pmb...

why should you think so low yourself.....am black and i speak and write 7 international lang and 4 local lang does that make it special....i think it No. it better you go and start learning....becos i think you have a very low self esteem .

scantee:
(LONG STORY PLS READ THROUGH) Hello house, please i need mature advice from you guys..most of you guys that follows my oil workers thread on nairaland can recall when i mentioned that i will be getting married by next year that everybody should be geting ready to attend my TM/WW, well thus goes my story. After i ended my previous distance relationship which lasted for years before we mutually ended it base on family diffrences. I met this my new date when i came to Lagos in 2011 for a project, we exchanged contacts after which i traveled to Netherland for a training i did not called her for over a year plus because then i was still with my previous date, when i returned from my trip early Jan 2013, i called her so we got talking, along the line i traveled to her school to see her in (S Eastern Uni) "FASTFORWARD" i told her my intention of getting marry to her then, so i brought her to lagos to meet my parents and other family members, after all said and done she pleaded that i gave her time to finish her studies before any marriage proper, we all agreed early 2016 since she is in early 20
and i was in mid 20 then we are not in a rush. We have been together since 2013 to date, we have shared a good time and fund memories, i truely love her and she does too, i have tried my best to make her comfortable and take care of her and make her envy of all her female friends, i have NEVER cheated on her or have the thought of doing so despite we only see during end of every semester, and i traveled a lot and always busy with work though i make sure i do speak with her at least 3x a day with minimum of 30mins per a call just to make sure she don't feel lonely. NOW HER CRIME AND MY SUSPICIONs. Last month i called her early morning to know whatsup with her i noticed she was not comfortable speaking to me on phone i was like are you ok? I then heard a background male voice she hurriedly ended the call, when i called back i insisted she told me whose voice i heard in her house, that was when she opened up to me that the guy is her old time gf brother who came from one state in the South South to write post ume in her school i was mad @ her, after a while i insited to know her package with the guy, to my suprise the guy is to stay in her room for 2weeks plus, they share the same bed, jst living like a husband and wife though she still assured me to trust her that noting would happen between them, i was angry because she never inform me of such arrangement before saying yes to them. I SWEAR THOSE PERIOD I COULD NOT SLEEP, EVERY NIGHT I WILL BE JUST IMAGINING THINGS. that happend and gone we continue normal life, yesterday we agreed that she will be coming to lagos on saturday since she is done with her exam because we have not seen for 5 months now, she told me she needed some cash to pay up somethings and settle some debets before coming, FASTFORWARD. This night i called her to know her latest plans and verify the account she want me to transfer money to her, while we were talking i noticed she is using terms on me instead of real names, she was talking like someone that is hiding for somebody not to figure out her discussion, so i asked her are you with somebody there she said no she was alone, a min later i started hearing a phone booting sound @ background for several times, i asked her again she deinied it, as an IT guy i am, i figured out that the sound is MS Windows phone that uses such sound, & i know she does not have such phone, i threatened her, she then opened up that she with her lodge mate a guy @ that hour, i got upset why she lied to me, she started faking the call as if network is disturbing her claiming that she can't hear me well, teling me to end the call and call her tommrrow so we can talk well, i told her no to stop faking network, she ended the call, i called her back 22 times she did not pick my calls, i sent her diffrent text messages she did not reply, i told her i will never call her again if she did not pick after my calling her 2wise again yet she damm the call. After an hour she text me thus: PLS AM SORRY WE WILL TALK 2MORO I DON'T MEAN TO GOT U UPSET, DO YOU THINK IF I AM WITH A MAN I WIL PICK UR CALL IN D FIRST PLC? GUD NIT SWT DREMS. She is now claiming is a prank but hell no i don't believe her. House how do i handle this now? I really love her but i can't stand a cheat because i have NEVER cheated to any of my date before. I want to call of the marriage, i have lost the trust i have for her. I need your mature advice. Thanks all.

Bro After reading the advice from different foks ....and you keep on defending the so called crime your bae committed against you...i think yo still want to be with her...why not invite her,you guys should sit down and find a common ground to what is really going on....see if you can make her to me more committed to you .....because as i can see you are not yet ready to leave her...

BUT...i think the best advice is to leave her and find a better lady.....

Jonathan2787:
believe me if you dont like him and you are not intrested, you wouldnt have noticed him this much, and since you have brought his matter to nairaland, he has won because its obvious he got your attention

you are so on point...

mamagee3:
Hi all, there's this guy that is always trying to annoy me, I don't know if he wants to get my attention or is just trying to annoy me. He walks past me non stop during finals in class thereby distracting me. Plus when I ignore him, he whistles at me. I am getting tired of it, he has been doing this "walking past" me thing for weeks. What do I do?

Ask Him whats up......and find out why ...maybe he like you i guess....

very nice...i enjoyed the tour...

This is serious.....well even if my gf is ill the best i can do is to get her new pant.....wash what?? that one na oyo ooo....

;Dlol

Thanks Ladies and Gents for all your comments...really do appreciate.

SweetTee:
OP, you're better off looking for a girlfriend in real life. I guess you just need to meet new people. This online dating thing is for the birds.

Thanks....

halfrica:


skype yaaaaayyyyy
u bliv her
U spend on her
She carry ur money spend on hers
U ask to meet
She cuts contact wit u

Am lovin ur movie and d fact u d main actor
Says it all

My God.....welli will still keep an open mind...

wow...i think this movie should be 1992 if am not mistaken...wow love this movie.

halfrica:

Online gf are nt alwys real make frnds b happy find ur gf physically hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Ok o

Got it...
but nothing says neither that one can't find a good friend or gf online....you can always chat via skype and get to know one another and could exchange call....just wish to have

halfrica:

Op just wan open d door of awon werey 100% online girls are catfish
Op i recomend u watch mtv base catfish for a whole year then come bck for this before u realise ur online gf waz actually a gay or transgender carryin ur baby sef

No thanks..

ifex370:



you shouldn't have said those...



belittling him doesn't make u smatter

Thanks Man

nickkylawve:
OP why which kind brain you get chail God pls re mould this guy brain thanks

well Thanks,but no thanks becos there is nothing wrong with the brain....and on a second thought it could be you am looking for who know ....
.....on a more serious i want an online gf....

phatriqk:
isn't there girls around where u live

There are girls where i live,but am single .....i will like to try an online dating....

gab264:
Though shall seek and find.
But Op ur criteria for the available girl.
I don't fink we have such gurls here.
#Jux sayin#

I just want to give it a try....like the saying go ...#No harm in trying...

Hello lady and gent ,i am a young man of 20plus and need an online girlfriend .....i have a good job,am educated and am very social....i feel really alone online and need the companion of a lady, that i could chat with and maybe call....i will like a young lady that is beautiful and have good manner...I hope i would have this .....



Pls comment without insult...

for me it will be C,becos she is old and can't stand for too long....

ronald4lif:
Ladies.

In most cases guys are expected to spend money, call more, initiate conversation more and seamlessly have to impress their woman when in a relationship. Bearing this onerous task in mind, it's easier for a guy to stay single. In doing so, no drama and more savings for him.

A guy doesn't need to involve in a relationship to have sex. A guy can fvck without emotional attachment but ladies mostly rely on how nice you treat them before they can indulge. In view of this, a sexually active girl is in dire need of a relationship than guys. Escorts having down tools yet.

Among peers female feel the constant need to talk about their boyfriend than its the case with male. When her friends all have boyfriends and talk fondly about them when hanging out she feel pressure to have one for herself and get concern about her looks being responsible for her inability to attract a guy. Women subconsciously need a man to validate their beauty.

It's easier for a guy to commit himself to staying single and maintain it but more strenous for ladies. Reason being that guys will never stop approaching them which can prompt them to settle for one at some point amidst consistent persuasion.

Women feel more pressured to get married than men. Society have conditioned them to get married if they want to be accorded respect. Else, they risk being tagged hoes and other condescending names.

Finally, women tend to have more monetary needs than men. They are more prone to compete against themselves than men in terms of acquisition. She's got trendy hair style to do, nails, eyelashes, shoes etc whereas guys aren't easily swayed by such mundane stuff. And for an unemployed lady whose parents can't afford these stuff and want to belong in the midst of her friends, there's a dire need to have boyfriend who can fund her lifestyle.

very well said...
I agree with you totally

angieberry:
Why should a guy pay in money for his girl monthly? Abi is he her employer? It's only broke,lazy,ratchet girls that'll settle for this.

correct

NEPABOY:
This is getting very rampant in the Nigerian society of today..hence i feel we must talk about it.

I personally think there's absolutely nothing wrong in giving your girlfriend money.But when this is done on a fixed date,and a fixed amount every month,I don't think she's any different from a staff

what do you think abt this?

I think i myself can't pay my gf money month...that ant happening...but if it a wife sure and when you have the means it better....but for a girlfriend it a NO NO for me...

khassy:

khassy:


see him belle

Na only my belle you wan comment for.......Na wa

pet4ril:
it wasn't intentional, I have mistakenly sent hi babe's to my former director when I wanted sending it to my classmate.... after all, I won't use babe's for a man.... will you say it's intentional?

well i think those are two different event......it could be intentional, depending on the motive....i think for a lady to send a nude or unclad pic to her boss...dear i think their is something she could be asking for....

mistake my foot...i think that was intentional...