I really dont think that this should be a subject of controversy! Hausa Christian and Muslim girls in generality love to kiss and they kiss well too. If ur gf doesnt like kissing you, it could mean either of two things; one you have a foul smelly breath which she is barely managing to tolerate or two, she's not down with you as a person and simply wants to take her time to define the kind of relationship she wants to have with you.
Either way, find out what she really wants and you redefine the relationship and if she's still insistent on just merely romancing ur face, thighs, dickoko and what have you, then i'll suggest you either propose to her so you can get the 'fulll works' or you call it quits with her, cos my man, a relationship deviod of kissing and kisses is drinking coffee without sugar or cream!

Chidi, i am so so sorry for your loss, you must feel pretty rotten, trust me, i know the feeling. May the good Lord grant you the fortitude to bear the loss. It is well with his soul. Amen!