Of cos,not wrong ... Am a consultant, sometimes when the month is good I work 2weeks in a month... I have alot of spare time...I pick up my two girls in school everyday, Monday to Friday, even when am working. My wife works Monday through Friday,trust me, I know how much she earns and that's it, most of our expensives are done with my income...So I don't see anything wrong with been a House husband because I am one, and I love picking up my girls from school I love it... I love feeding them well my wife makes the food... We bond they tell me things, and the most wonderful thing, they think there's nothing daddy can't do,am their God...

Lachynos2k2: thank God am a biafran.

...Really and what animal kingdom is that?

kobonaire: We Nigerians will never do this .... We love our Naija too much

My brother gbam...I ve two nationalities already hoping to add South Africa by the end of 2015...but I will never renounce Naija... When worse comes to shore, I always says am a Yoruba boy... Love Nigeria too much... The best set of black people you can find anywhere

Just as our beloved country is plagued with many ills,its mandatory and important to be aware of our individual security.
Protecting our properties, family and love ones shouldn't be left to God, God wants us to tend to our security.CCTV,pepper spray, teasers and many other small pros to protect oneself is vital.

So how, exactly, do we spot a suicide bomber?

He's a young man, sweating profusely, looking around furtively, carrying a rucksack or wearing bulky clothing. He might be from an ethnic minority - but not necessarily. This, according to security specialists, is the most likely profile of a suicide bomber.

Experts contacted by The Sunday Telegraph say that a potential bomber may lick his lips, appear nervous and have shaved all his body. He may be wearing clothing inappropriate for the weather and be thrusting his hands into his pockets. If he is carrying a bag, he may be checking it. He may also wear a baseball cap or other headwear that would obscure his face from closed circuit television.

These descriptions were given in response to questions about how the public should recognise a suicide bomber while travelling on public transport. But while officials and experts agreed on basic details on the appearance of suicide bombers, most disagreed on how to respond if the public found one. "Speak up and advise fellow passengers," the British Transport Police advised. "If you see someone doing something very dramatic, the train is moving and you can't consult staff, then tell your fellow passengers, speak up."

However, Will Geddes, the managing director of the International Corporate Protection Group, which provides security advice, said: "Do not, in any circumstances, speak out. Your actions have to be responsible. If you shout, 'It's a bomb', you will panic him into setting it off."

Security specialists and emergency services advised that the public call 999 if possible. Scotland Yard, Transport for London and British Transport Police also urged people to alert staff on the Tube and buses if they saw something suspicious.

Asked what makes a person suspicious, a British Transport Police employee said: "I'm not sure. Someone fiddling with a rucksack?" His colleague added: "Generally, anyone suspicious will be with a suspicious bag, package or leave a suspicious unattended item. It could be anyone - not just Asian. One of the bombers was Afro-Caribbean."

He said: "If you see something, wait until you arrive at the next station then tell staff. Obviously if something more dramatic happens, you can hit the emergency button. But from the point of view of your safety, and that of fellow passengers, it's better to wait until you get to the next station. If you have a pen and notepad, note what you see."

Security analysts gave bolder advice. Robert Ayers, a former US intelligence officer and adviser at the Chatham House think tank, said: "You look for a combination of factors - are they carrying a package, are they nervous, sweating, licking their lips a lot and checking the package?

"If it is a radical Muslim, he may have removed all of his visible body hair. Look for a person who looks uncomfortable, anxious and out of place. They would most likely be from a particular ethnic background and aged between 20 and 35.

"The first thing you should do is to get away from them and get the police. If you can't escape or call 999 because you are on the Tube, then do not approach them. You'll panic them into setting it off prematurely."

Mr Ayers admitted that he would not alert fellow passengers. "If I thought someone had a bomb, I would go to another car. If I raise the alarm, he's going to set it off. If you see him move to detonate it, well you can only hope your life insurance is paid up."

Asked whether the public should look for a female suicide bomber, Mr Ayers said: "It's more than likely they would be male."

Mr Geddes disagreed. "There is an increasing number of female bombers," he said, "so I wouldn't rule it out." His general advice was to remain highly vigilant. "There is no precise science to spotting a suicide bomber but you can assemble a picture. Be aware of who is in the carriage with you.

"Is anyone carrying a package? Where do they put it? Do they leave without it? Don't be afraid of saying 'Whose bag is this?' If no one claims it, act. Be very careful not to cause panic. Wait until the train gets to the station, press the emergency button and calmly suggest everyone leaves. Say, 'I don't know who this bag belongs to. Let's get off the carriage and alert the authorities'. Don't do it in the tunnel. If the driver stops the train in the tunnel you're trapped. If it is something bad, there's no quick escape."

He said there were various methods to identify someone was wearing a device. "Are their clothes inappropriate for the weather, such as a heavy raincoat or fleece in hot weather? Another give-away is their physical shape. Generally, average-sized legs mean average-sized body. If they are much more bulky than their legs, neck or face suggest, that might be suspicious. Is the clothing disguising something?"

Mr Geddes said a bomber's mental state would present clues. "People who are about to undertake something high-risk will be perspiring. Look at their hands - where are they? In their pockets? Next thing: eyes. Are they furtive? Are they looking at the exit? Are they looking around the carriage? Are they making an obvious attempt not to make eye contact? Be conscious of the whole picture."

His final warning was that, after the past two attacks, a potential bomber might try to disguise his appearance. "Any terrorist group that has been watching the news will say, 'These guys are going to get caught in hours. They've exposed themselves to CCTV. They may make more effort to disguise themselves next time."

BankuTilapia2: Which of the tribe is well known for fraud

Honestly...dis guy what the hell is your problem...can't you just stay out of people's matter.. Is there no platform for Ghanians... Well I don't blame you

ultrazone: One thing I'm clear about the igbos is that a lot of them do not understand the yorubas. Many of them have preconceived notions that yorubas are untrustworthy. Unfortunately, yorubas care less. We do not have special hatred or make judgment about any tribe. We make decisions based on situation per time. That's why other tribes think we are unreliable. It's a principle of no permanent friend or enemy.

By naijablogger
No clashes because From the oyo empire in the 15th century to the glory days of Ibadan in the mid 17th century,from the the kirigi wars to the expansionist Fulani attempts at conquest,we have seen it all and too much blood have been shed in defending every inch of odualands.
We Yorubas do not see the ibos or anybody as competitors.we set our sight higher and at our own pace.
Every man ,woman and child in yorubaland knows what our society used to be like before the British ,before independence and under the western region.
We also know of the present .
There are major philosophical and ideological differences between Yorubas and ibos which only the likes of modern ,forward looking and cosmopolitan people like utomi and Fashola can bridge.on the other hand,which people like bode George ,obanikoro ,chukwumerije and peter obi are willing to exploit as was done in the anambra election .
But the reason why there are no clashes is the reason why we oyo,Benin ,Ibadan had empires and the ibos did not.
We do not see the Igbos as a rival.the clear and present danger is the Federal government regardless of whom the occupier is.Whomever supports that corrupt FG as presently constituted will always be viewed with suspicion .
Another is the ever present danger of the feudalists in the north and the acolytes in the south.
Unfortunately,the power drunk man at the rock is already dancing to their beat and if not careful, could eventually be caught off guard and hand power to the wrong set of people from that part.
Lastly,many of the uches ,chinedus and emekas of today will be totally assimilated into the Yoruba nation in a few generations.their great grandchildren will by then,be bearing full yoruba names and would have lost every single link to alaibo.
These citizens would form a part of the shock troops for the future rise of oyo.
Sorry if you are offended but that is the way empire builders reason and work.

MidaxPhoenix: The hidden truth is that the igbos felt betrayed by the yorubas, the igbos have always seen the yorubas as the brothers across the niger but the civil war changed the course of thinking.

An average Igbo respects a yoruba for his intellectual prowess while the yorubas respect the igbos for entrepreneurial skills... a case of mutual respect and admiration and the igbos felt betrayed by the tribe they respect so much during the civil war..

The yorubas owe the Igbo an apology, and the igbos should learn to move on but our leaders profit from the discord, hence cannot facilitate a true reconciliation..

The two tribes complement each others,

What the igbos lack, the yorubas have in abundance and vice versa so we find it easy to co-habit.

We, yorubas are lazy, rely solely on intellectual skills as ingrained in our culture but the igbos believes in the sweat of hardwork..

The yorubas will say- I no fit do that work o! And the igbos will say - make we try am now.

Yoruba schools to become bureaucrat but the igbos schools to become refined businessmen..

During my nysc in enugu, I was privilege to teach tutorials in advanced calculus, real and numerical analysis in ESUT and IMT, the shout of ''Chike obi'' and awolowo rents the air as I give them the short cuts to solving questions.

Gba be theorem I call it...

All I can do is feel good when we finish lectures and my students give me business cards and telling me to come to their shops in ogbeite..

And igbos marvel at the yorubas mathematical skills....

Enters a store, Nna nyem this, 120, that 235, those 340.

Give him 1000 naira, Nna grabs calculator..


But the market woman in lagos selling wares, she will retort....305 ni change yin.

The igbos don't have time to calculate money, they make it in abundance and leave the yorubas to calculate.

The igbos control the economy, the yorubas regulate it..

Nigeria is truly blessed.

I am a 39years old Yoruba man, from Oshodi, I have never seen an unbiased write up about the two most popular tribes in Nigeria.Though, not the whole picture but very close to the truth.

gebest: THEY ENVY US BECAUSE WE OVERTOOK THEM AS THE BEGGEST ECONOMIC IN AFRICA.

Am sure they envy us because of your spelling...BEGGEST WORDS...

tundabolt: South Africa benefited from our last ban that made them to win Nations Cup and now they think it's another opening. But NFF are overly corrupt shaaaaaaa!

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South Africa spend so much on their countries image and you will never find it in the news...president Goodluck tried the image thing and it backfired. I will not be shocked if south Africa were behind Nigeria international ban...I pray God exposes all Nigeria enemies...

Don't take shadows too seriously. Reality is your only safety. Continue to reject illusion.” ― Wole SoyinkaIn

paranorman: Eya.. Pele.. I understand your Ex's reason for wanting to compesate you. Prob he's gotten remorseful and wants to set things right. I think you just forgive him and move on; if thats want he really wants and nothing more from you, forgive him.. About the money part, i say no. U are worth more than that and beleive me, ur man will come knockin at the door of ur heart and will love u genuinely*. Stick to ur self esteem and nver let one Ex wach dem down the drain... Ur man will come. Just be good.

I agreed too.. One thing I know about abusive men is they tune the abuse down,but change it takes more to change...4give him but "Please don't take his money" if you do he will be consoling himself with the fact that he paid you off...

BankuTilapia2:

What time is the match between Brazil and Holland. Fuckkkk ur brother

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Silly Gaynian guy... Check out all the idi0t posts

Smartini: Tribalists at it again! Dumbskulls fail to realize that some foreign prisons have way better standard of living that an average Nigerian could ever dream of....

That is a lie... No prison is better than Nigeria...ask Chris Brown...the guy came out jail and sworn he will never go back...

500GP:

YOU DON'T HAVE TO HIDE UNDER YORUBA IDENTITY BEFORE YOU AIR YOUR VIEW.
YORUBA WANNA BE.

#WHAT'S YOUR TAKE ABOUT THE JUDGMENT

Really Yoruba wannabe? I won't say my name here but I think the judgment was by the book, No mercy d jury throw the book at him... Sad.. I get it, some people do all sorts to survive but the guy was not about survival but greed.

shymexx:

Regardless, it's unfair. This isn't the slavery era, and everyone has a right. I don't condone what he did, but they can't just pull numbers out of their ar.ses and jail people for centuries like that. It's just wickedness. And I'm sure there are tons of people in the American prison system that have been sentenced like this guy, for no just cause.

He isn't Rayful Edmond, Alpo, Freeway Rick Ross, Big Meech, or Ricky Barnes. And all these guys had many body counts on them, but non of them even got 50 years behind bars. Those Southern states are stuck in the slavery era.

Whatever...yes the system might be lacking...but still better than those countries that would hang him...

500GP: THIS IS A LESSON TO THE Igbos.
#WHY ALWAYS IBO?

Am not a tribalist, even most of my Igbo friends in the country we live are tired of their brothers... And as a Yoruba guy am tired of dis Yoruba yahoo, credit card scammers... I which I can form an elite machineries around the world and take out people bringing shame to Nigeria...Yoruba, igbo,Hausa,( yes have met an Hausa drug dealer) Edo, Deltans etc...#Nomore shame

amadice: .....and hav u heard or seen nigerians seeking refugee

Really are you joking...thousands of Nigerian in South Africa seeking asylum...I get so ashamed of my heritage of when I see my country men embarrassing a whole nation... Selfish people they only think for themselves alone.

Djicemob: U are saying real hiphop have given way for normal hiphop even in the US? Dont be so sure.Take example in K.dot,he keeps it real am talkin real "real" and so he is king.And then jcole.Nobody puts them on sideline.Am sure if these same rappers were in nigeria nobody would take them serious. And...bruv u listed nas,mosdef,krs1 and even tupac as been ignored? those artistes are pioneers,they enjoyed success one point or year in time and cant enjoy that forever u know.

Really? You just buttress the guys point from another angle

#5Last Picture Alive

When you are an engineer, life can be full of surprises some days, but would you expect something like this to happen? Two engineers dies when the windmill they were working on caught fire and this might have been the very last picture of them alive. The picture was taken on 29 October, 2013 in the Netherlands.

[sup]#6[/sup] A Real Life Painting

This is absolutely incredible! This looks like someone painted this, but in actual fact, it is not a painting it is a real photo. This was taken in the orange Sossuslei sand dunes in Namibia. The part that looks like a bright orange sky, is in actual fact the sand! Nature can be really amazing at times, don’t you think?

[^b]#7[/b]Last Picture Alive

When you are an engineer, life can be full of surprises some days, but would you expect something like this to happen? Two engineers dies when the windmill they were working on caught fire and this might have been the very last picture of them alive. The picture was taken on 29 October, 2013 in the Netherlands.

^#8Think I am Safe

There are some places on earth where it is just impossible to have that feeling of safety and as human being this is something we crave. When it is in the middle of the ocean, I am not sure if you will ever have that feeling, although this man looks like he feels quit safe despite what is going on around him. He is standing very casually near the lighthouse barrier, but the waves are crashing vigorously around him.

I saw a post yesterday about controversial images of the past so I decided to share this with you guys I got it from an amazing site. It's about pictures taken that words not enough for expressions.


There are absolutely no words to describe some of these photos. Some are really incredible to behold and some are seriously heartbreaking… I have to admit, I shed some tears with one or two of them. Have a look and see how you feel about them.

^{# 1} Keep Your Hands off My Mother

It was in 1987, when the Minneapolis police responded to a 911 call. It was a boy named Diamond who made the call saying that his father, Ferrato, was physically beating his mother. Diamond was the first child that Ferrato had ever seen who stood up for his mother… this is a moment when most kids are really afraid and they will just leave it.

This photo not only left an impression on Ferrato and the police, but it was also named one of the most influential photos in the world by Life Magazine. 20 years later, Ferrato found Diamond again—his parents are still together in a happy, healthy relationship.

^#2 This Year I am Alone

Belarus Konstantin Pronin, is an 86-year old World War II veteran. As you can see, he is sitting on a bench where he waits for his comrade at the Gorky Park during Victory Day in Moscow, Russia.
This photo was taken on 9 May, 2011, but that year, Belarus was the only one from the unit who showed up. Makes one think hey?

#3 Starved Kids


This is wrong in more ways than one. When you look at the statistics of how many starving people, kids especially, there is out there, you would think that people would have some compassion, wouldn’t you? This Turkish official is teasing starving Armenian kids by showing them a piece of bread. This was during the Armenian Genocide in 1915. Just wrong!...well let's move on coming up at number four is
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#4 Wake Up Daddy

Being an alcoholic is not an easy path, but we have to remember that this is a family disease. This means that when you are an alcoholic, your whole family is affected, not only you. In this picture the boy is trying to wake up his alcoholic father on the side walk. Doesn’t this just break your heart into tiny little pieced? Image what must be going through the boys head!

nwobi ebuka: I know some will say it is an infringement in their rights but if they are staff of an office they are bound to abide by the office laws!!! Is high time other countries realized tha Islam is an epitome destruction.. A Moslem

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should name one way Islam has helped Nigeria. Do they build foundations? All they do is produce shekau, bin laden, etc

I can't click like because of your grammar

Op...You are very silly

There is nothing wrong in terminating unwanted pregnancy...Hypocritical Nigerians...OH how I hate what religion has done to this country.

To answer your question...There are two pills I know of but am not sure of availability if you live in Nigeria,where I live you will need a prescription...they re called..Mifepristone and Misoprostol...do the job without surgery.I don't think anything is possible rather than these drugs. Both are to be taken together...
Good luck.

laphta: op, ur first, second nd third points ar on point. But i ges u hav an internal bitterness towards wizkid. D tone of ur writing is pretty clear on dat. Still i also think davido is beta.

I agreed with you, this chap has a beef with Wizkid...I love them both... I even think wizkids speaks more audible when interacting l can barely hear Davido when he talks... Like most Africans davido might have a throat infection and know it not

ayukdaboss: This lady is gradually becoming less appealing.

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Oh No...beautiful woman in a beautiful dress...and she looks less appealing? Hello? Nigeria...Religion has destroyed my beloved fatherland... Nigeria could have been great without imaginary Gods...

For few years, this social media giant called Facebook, I must confess have been a pain in my life for just one reason; Africa remains the only continent Facebook don't have a presence,with so many users across the continent, but on my part it maybe the lack of boldness or rather I just don't want to be labeled a black radical moreso, this is the only source of income for me as per my job.

I can't discuss this among my colleague being the only black man in my very dominated white company and worse, a business in a country with pathetic racial troubles...South Africa.

Recent studies revealed facts that shows that 69% of Facebook's global staffers are male. A full 85% of the company's tech workers, and 77% of its management team, are also men.
The company's U.S. workforce is 57% white, 34% Asian, 4% Hispanic and 2% black.

The report released on Wednesday, is the latest in a flurry of voluntary diversity disclosures by high-profile tech firms.The true scale of the industry's diversity problem is difficult to determine, largely because most major tech companies have closely guarded their data, and I really get that but not employing black people it's a trend among these tech' company at least yahoo, google and few others might have presense in Africa they rather employ white south Africans to head these organizations.

Not to bore you guys what do you think am I just plain paranoia? I Will really appreciate am losing my head.

The comments on this thread are awful...the guy changed is color so what? can we just move on, please give us your own scientific criticism and stop judging the guy based on your own morals we live in a different world like wise different morals and set of beliefs...please can we mind our own business...nothing wrong in changing what you don't like about yourself...Nigerians you make me sick with this Holier than thou attitudes... am Nigerian also but it's high time we tolerates what we can't explain...

The comments on this blog are mostly depressing.People put up nonsense statistics and instead of us to condemned the stats you people here making silly jokes. Do you even know the meaning of slavery.Silly organizations write rubbish about your country just because they can and you are here making stupid jokes...SWim ode osi

These Ghanaians are just too annoying...coming to a Nigeria forum and talk silly things all the time

Kingmojo:

Ghana will trash Nigeria any day.

I give up on some comments here...So you think because Oprah network is struggling she lied about a shop sales girl...I have been in the similar situation in Switzerland in a barber shop 2 barber shops to be precised they refused to cut my hair that they don't do black hair.

Its not what the girl said but am sure her actions speaks louder and Oprah got the message.

around the country.

Nigeria squad to face Bafana Bafana:

Goalkeepers:

Austin Ejide (Hapoel Be'er Sheva, Israel)

Chigozie Agbim (Enugu Rangers, Nigeria)

Defenders:

Efe Ambrose (Celtic, Scotland)

Godfrey Oboabona (Sunshine Stars, Nigeria)

Azubuike Egwuekwe (Warri Wolves, Nigeria)

Elderson Echiejile (Sporting Braga, Portugal)

James Okwuosa (Chippa United, SA),

Gege Soriola (Free State Stars, SA)

Midfielders:

John Obi Mikel (Chelsea, England)

Fegor Ogude (Valerenga, Norway)

Victor Moses (Chelsea, England)

John Ogu (Academica de Coimbra, Portugal)

Ogenyi Onazi (Lazio, Italy)

Nnamdi Oduamadi (AC Milan, Italy)

Sunday Mba (Enugu Rangers, Nigeria)

Forwards:

Ahmed Musa (CSKA Moscow, Russia)

Brown Ideye (Dynamo Kiev, Ukraine)

Shola Ameobi (Newcastle United, England)

Obinna Nsofor (Lokomotiv Moscow, Russia)

Uche Nwofor (VVV Venlo, Netherlands)

[quote author=3ace][/quote]In South Africa, they become nuisance in Malaysia, China, Vietnam... Igbos guys please change your ways the normal igbos don't be biased say the truth and talk to your people. Fashola just made a statement. Please I beg you respond in kind.