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Romance / Re: How To Know If A Guy Likes You by ENGOLEE(m): 11:43pm On Jan 29, 2017
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Romance / Re: How To Read Body Language Of Opposite Sex Correctly by ENGOLEE(m): 11:42pm On Jan 29, 2017
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Romance / Re: Disrespectful Habits We Don't Give Attention To, For Both Male And Female by ENGOLEE(m): 11:40pm On Jan 29, 2017
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Romance / Re: Disrespectful Habits We Don't Give Attention To, For Both Male And Female by ENGOLEE(m): 1:25pm On Jan 03, 2017
Rosella1:
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Romance / Disrespectful Habits We Don't Give Attention To, For Both Male And Female by ENGOLEE(m): 1:18pm On Jan 03, 2017
Do you have a habit that has been haunting you for years? Do you suffer from an inner self-conflict, because you were unable to quit that habit? Do you feel pain each time you repeat making that pattern again? Have you tried every possible method to stop smoking or over-eating, yet failed? Do you think that you can’t?




Be aware of your eye body language. Some people instinctively send body language signals that affront other people and disrespectful, so be perceptive to your eye actions. Rolling your eyes indicates irritation, so avoid doing that. Your eyes glow if you?re in a pleasant or cheerful condition, and they look dull when you?re lonely or dejected. It might be a good idea to rearrange your rendezvous with your desired person, if you?Refacing any kind of problems or feeling dull and gloomy.


In reality, most people do not know anything about their own body language. They just take things for granted and come to their own conclusions about things that happen around them. Hence, the task of disciplining their body to make right gestures is quite daunting task for them. Most of the body languages that we make are reflexive. The truth of the matter is that they automatically say what our minds are thinking at any given movement. However, with some effort, we can condition our reflexes in such a way that we can sound confident before others even if we are little under confident. Of course, we should know the right kind of practices so that we can avoid making negative body languages before others.

Are you think that you can break a habit using willpower alone, you are wrong. Consider the story of Jack, an iron-willed man who decided to stop smoking. The first, second day passed, and still, he resisted the urge to smoke a cigarette. Jack was happy and confident. Time passed, until a day when he had a car accident. Fortunately, he wasn't hurt, but the damage to his car cost him some money to fix. That day, Jack returned back to smoking. . .

Making such avoidable negative body languages will make the people look down upon us. In this article, we would be looking at the negative gestures that we should learn to avoid making while interacting with others.

Body Languages

1. Holding objects in front of our body: This would make the people believe that we are trying to hide behind something.
2. Checking the time of introspection of our fingernails: While looking at the nails, we are making others believe that we are not interested in the talks.
3. Picking lint off of our clothes: This shows that we are nervous about the topic being discussed.
4. Stroking our chin while looking at someone: This creates a wrong impression about us.
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Nairaland / General / How To Create the Happiness You Deserve For Yourself by ENGOLEE(m): 1:10pm On Jan 03, 2017
Almost everyone already knows the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin. The song incorporates a very popular method of conveying its message to become happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin's simple message surely designed a lot of people by telling them what you require.

Living a contented, resilient and optimistic life's wonderful, as well as being good for your good-being. Being happy actually, protects via the stresses of life. Stress is linked to top reasons behind death like heart disease, cancer and stroke.

What one in the better things ever said is - 'The only thing in life which will always stay the same is the change', plus in our life, we've got the power to produce the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we look at ourselves in an unfortunate situation we are able to always find solace knowing it too would change.

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Social networks or relationships are necessary to happiness. People are different, accept people for who or what they are, avoid clashes, constant arguments, and get rid of all kinds of resentments. If arguments seem unavoidable still try to make an effort to view the situation, therefore, you might just get along with well with

Happiness is definitely found in everyone, increasing this can be a way to create a life more beautiful and also more healthy.

To be happy is pretty easy, just choose to be a pleasant person. Abraham Lincoln observed that almost all people for most at the time can decide how happy or stressed, how relaxed or troubled, how bright or dull their outlook to get. The choice is not hard really, choose for being happy.

There are some ways where you can do this.

Being grateful is a good attitude. We have so much to get thankful for. Thank the taxi driver for providing you with home safely, thank the cook for just a wonderful dinner and thank the guy who cleans your windows. Also, thank the mailman for providing you with your mails, thank the policeman for making your place safe and thank God to get alive.

The news is stressful. Get diminished the amount of it. Some people just cannot start their day without their daily dose of news. Try and contemplate it, 99% on the news we hear or read isn't good news. Starting the morning with not so good does not seem to become a sensible activity.

A spiritual connection can also be recommended. Being part of a non-secular group having its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers and meditations foster inner peace.

Manage your time and efforts. Time is invaluable and too vital that you waste. Time management will be displayed as a listing of rules which involves scheduling, goal setting techniques, planning, creating lists of adventures and prioritising. These will be the core basics of your energy management that ought to be understood to cultivate an efficient time management skills ability. These core competencies are usually fine tuned further to feature the finer points of the power which could give you that extra reserve to generate the results you need.

Laugh and laugh heartily everyday. Heard a great joke? Tell your family or friends about it. As they also say -'Laughter is the first medicine'.

Express all your other worries, affections, friendship and passion to individuals around you. They will almost certainly reciprocate your movements. Try not to keep stored anger of frustrations, this isn't good for your wellbeing. Instead find methods for expressing them in a way that can not cause more injury or hurt to anyone.

Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction. It provides feeling to become competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments are needed for all of us, they furnish us a sensed value. Work on items that you feel worthy of your time and efforts.

Learning is really a joyful exercise. Try and learn new stuff every day. Learning also causes us to expand and broaden our horizons. And could also provide us with more opportunities later on.

Run, jog, walk and do other items that your body appeared for. Feel alive.

Avoid harmful contact elements like noises, toxins and hazardous places.

These are definitely the few simple actions you can take every day to get happy.

And remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, he admits that, "Most individuals are about as happy when they make up their minds to become."

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Improve Interpersonal Skills To Get Your Desired Job by ENGOLEE(m): 2:49pm On Jan 02, 2017
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Health / How To Lose Weight Fast Without Exercise And Lose 10 Pounds Fast by ENGOLEE(m): 2:44pm On Jan 02, 2017
How to lose 10 pounds in a month has always been often considered as a nearly impossible task. For years, doctors and dieticians have told the general public that it takes months and often years of work to see any progress with weight reduction or to sculpt an ideal body. But that is not true in any way.

The body of a human is highly adaptable and in a position to change in extremely short intervals. Think about it. If people can easily gain mass degrees of fat from weeks of unhealthy eating, shouldn’t they be in a position to lose lots of weight rapidly from weeks of healthy eating? Well, they definitely can.

But what exactly do you need to eat to get rid of the weight rapidly? From low-carb to low-fat, to sugar-free, to high-protein, and in some cases the ‘caveman’ diet – there are numerous options on the market that it can be extremely confusing on the average person where diet you should use to shed weight quickly. Some of these diets even provide conflicting info on what you should and shouldn’t eat. Well, that’s information about to change.


For years, A-list celebrities and professional athletes are already following a secret diet not revealed towards the public. This diet is really effective that people are actually able to lose over 23 pounds of pure extra fat in just a 3 week period from following it. That’s in excess of 1 pound of unwanted weight per day! Now, that diet has been produced public by acclaimed nutritionist and private trainer Brian Flatt. Visit Here http://www.engolee.com/2016/09/the-3-weeks-diet-fastest-way-to-lose.html to read further
Romance / Re: How To Read Body Language Of Opposite Sex Correctly by ENGOLEE(m): 12:42pm On Jan 02, 2017
semasir:
Okay..... Let me see what gesture the bae below will show so I respond well to it
smiles...... kiss
Jobs/Vacancies / How To Improve Interpersonal Skills To Get Your Desired Job by ENGOLEE(m): 12:23pm On Jan 02, 2017
"Who's the Boss?" 10 approaches to start taking control and how to improve interpersonal skills (time management techniques, goal setting techniques, record tracking)

At first glance, it seems apparent that positive thinking and Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) do not have anything to do with the other. But many of us with ADD develop negative thinking patterns because we become annoyed by our challenges and constant feelings to be overwhelmed. This negative outlook then causes it to become even tougher for us to deal with those problems and advance.

Practising positive thinking permits people with ADD to concentrate on our strengths and accomplishments, which increases happiness and motivation. This, subsequently, allows us to spend more time making progress, and much less time feeling down and stuck. The following !0 tips provide practical suggestions that can be used to help you shift into more positive thinking patterns:

1. Take Good Care of Yourself
It's easier to be positive when you're eating well, exercising, and having enough rest.

2. Remind Yourself of the Things You Are Grateful For
Stresses and challenges don't appear quite as bad when you're constantly reminding yourself of the items are directly in life. Taking just one minute a day to quit and appreciate the nice things can make a huge difference.

3. Look for the Proof Instead of Making Assumptions
A nervous about not being liked or accepted sometimes leads us to believe that we know what other medication is thinking, but our fears usually are not reality. If you have a fear that your friend or family member's negative mood is due to something you probably did, or that the co-workers are secretly gossiping about yourself when you turn your back, speak up and get them. Don't spend your time worrying that learn about something wrong until you have proof that there are something to think about.

4. Refrain from Using Absolutes
Have you ever told an associate "You're ALWAYS late!" or complained to a friend "You NEVER call me!"? Thinking and speaking in absolutes like 'always' and 'never' helps make the situation seem worse compared to, and programs your head into believing that particular people are not capable of delivering.

5. Detach From Negative Thoughts
Your thoughts can't hold any handle of you if you can't judge them. If you notice yourself using a negative thought, detach from that, witness it, and never follow it.

See the remaining 5 tips which are very important for this course at http://www.engolee.com/2017/01/how-to-improve-interpersonal-skills.html

Develop yourself skills, add more values to yourself and clear off the cob of ignorance.
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Romance / Re: How To Know If A Guy Likes You by ENGOLEE(m): 12:16pm On Jan 02, 2017
What is your view?
Romance / How To Read Body Language Of Opposite Sex Correctly by ENGOLEE(m): 12:15pm On Jan 02, 2017
Did you know that the body language of both males and females will change dramatically when in the presence of the opposite sex? For instance, a man will automatically straighten up his body, stand a little taller, and avoid all those various slumping or slouching postures.

When a man is in the company of a woman he's interested in, he will try his best to appear more dominant by pulling in his stomach and expanding his chest out.

Let's say coincidentally the woman he likes here shares the same interest and is taking a fancy to this man; she will also automatically display herself being submissive by gestures like turning and exposing her wrists, tilting her head a bit, and touching her hair.
The interesting thing is the gestures of this man and woman were delivered subconsciously in an automatic response mode. Well, there are of course those intended and coordinated attraction and flirting gestures that were made consciously.

What Type of Attraction Gestures Men Use

Men do not have an extensive inventory of attraction and flirting gestures compared to women. When a person is interested in a female, he will just focus his gestures to display his masculinity and the macho-man image. His gestures usually will begin with patting his hair into place, smooth and straighten his clothes, adjust his tie if he is wearing one, and often thrust his chin forward. At the same time, he will extend out his chest, straighten his back, and draw in his stomach as mentioned earlier.

A man usually will display his masculinity and dominance by tucking his thumbs into his belt and pointing them at his crotch. This, in fact, a very common sight of men using gestures to emphasise on his manhood.

What Type of Attraction Gestures Women Use

On the contrary, when a woman is interested in a guy, she will blast out tonnes of signs and signals to notify him of her feelings. Unfortunately on the downside here is that many men are totally oblivious to these signs and signals. Making things worse, women sometimes unintentionally send out mixed signals when trying to manipulate the people into displaying their feelings for her. Very often this will end up with the men confused and result with them avoiding and not approaching her.

In a room, when a woman finds the man she is attracted to, she will regularly gaze at him until she seizes his attention and thus forming the first visual contact. She will then hold on to this eye contact for two to three seconds before looking elsewhere. Subsequently, she will further display other gestures to express her interest in this particular guy.

One of the gestures most commonly used by a woman around a man she is attracted to is the hair flicking gesture. What happens here is that the woman will flick her hair away from a face or over her shoulder in a sensual way. Surprisingly, this gesture is also performed by many women with short hair.
When a woman slowly and suggestively caresses her neck or thigh, she is implying to the man that he might be able to touch her in these ways too if he can captivate and mesmerise her to her delight. This is the self-stroking gesture which is frequently used by women.
Another gesture to watch out for is the droopy wrist gesture. This gesture is often utilised for the maximum effect when handling a cylindrical item. Women like to use this gesture to make a guy feel that he could have full control of her. This droopy wrist gesture is perceived by many men as a submission signal.

A similar seductive gesture used by women to draw in the puts will be the neck-baring gesture. This is another submissive gesture seen by people in the same way as the droopy wrist gesture. As for how it is suggested here, the woman will bare her neck to the man by tilting her head to one side of her shoulder.

Is He/She Already Seeing Someone Else?

See the complete gist at http://www.engolee.com/2017/01/reading-body-language.html
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Romance / How To Know If A Guy Likes You by ENGOLEE(m): 12:04pm On Jan 02, 2017
The eyes emanate a significant amount of signals which, if analysed objectively and appropriately, I will supply all the answers needed as regard your loved one's attraction towards you.

First of all, and this may sound obvious though entirely accurate, our eyes gazes at what we like. Just as someone who is attracted to you will look at you as often as they can. If not sure of your attraction or feelings for them, this may encourage them to hide it, but you should be able to 'catch' them looking at you many times. If you discover that someone is not looking at you, they are not attracted to you; plain and straightforward.

Now, let us discuss the movements of the eyes: they may gaze into your eyes of course, for dull moments, but this is proportionate to their confidence that their attraction or love for you is reciprocated. If they have even less confidence or if they don't know you, they will look at you often and then look away.

I hope I am communicating?
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Romance / Re: How To Know If A Girl Likes You. by ENGOLEE(m): 9:08am On Dec 30, 2016
TrapQueen77:
cheesy



Sometimes it's confusing whether the man really likes u or juz wanna thrust u tongue



Either way, both sounds seeexxxxy grin

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Nairaland / General / Re: Passionate about blogging and want to make profit Online? by ENGOLEE(m): 4:22pm On Dec 25, 2016
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Health / Re: Are You Stressed? Best Ways To Relieve Stress And How To Reduce Stress At Work by ENGOLEE(m): 7:21am On Dec 21, 2016
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Health / Are You Stressed? Best Ways To Relieve Stress And How To Reduce Stress At Work by ENGOLEE(m): 12:25am On Dec 21, 2016
Do you know that anything taken too much is not good for the health and self improvement. A little stress is good, as it could serve to help you function at your best. However, stress that seems a little too much could take a physical, as well as mental, toll to your body. Stress should need to be managed for depression or anxiety to be prevented.

So how should you do it then? The following are tips and advice to help manage stress.

Write it out, schedule it out.

It is best to write down everything that seems to be overwhelming. You will find a things-to-do-list much easier to manage than having errands all crumpled up in your head. Writing down the tasks, and putting a specific schedule and time to do them, helps anyone manage activities one chunk at a time. Crossing out an action that has already been accomplished is very rewarding and could help you feel more relaxed when doing the other tasks at hand.

One at a time works.

Focus and put all your attention specifically on one task at one time. It does not help to feel panicky about the other undone or to-do tasks. Thinking about them only adds unnecessary stress and could even hamper in doing the work you are attempting to accomplish at present.

Relax and take it slow.

At least, try not to expend too much energy on activities that are currently not priorities. It's for your energy to be not quickly spent on the tasks that are not that important, at least for now.

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