My dear the truth be told
This is a very serious issue and not a joke
,truth be told there is no way u can put every one in one shoe is not possible ok,
In every tribe their are always bad and good people,same way in every religion
There is always bad and good people too,
Eg : christians and muslims,
There are bad christians and good ones too,
Same way there are bad muslims and good one too,

My point remains that every one from mbaise is not bad and can never be bad,
I have met four to five of them as friends and they are all great people,
Same way some people fron mbaise might be bad just like every other tribes,

If my parents for example tell me
Such the first question i will ask them is

WHY?
so my dear i sugest u a ask them
WHY?
if they have no good reason then they aint saying
Anything
Besides is ur future not their
But the truth remains that u surely need their blessings
So be wise
True fact.........