everybody should note that I was the one that liked everybody comments

nice thread..lemme get people opinion because it might be of help...I wish zar zar could comment on this

ZarZar:

eyaa..don't be sad..check ur email, I have sent u a request

ZarZar:

I beg to differ. It's more like bull's eye.

"bull's eye" which means its a near mirror of the real thing in the word of form

ZarZar:

I'm psychic! Of course from your threads lol. Where else?

I guess your psychic must be illusion

ZarZar:

I'm a graduate from the school of hard knocks
Btw, how are you feeling today? Are we getting over her yet?

how do you no?I am trying to get over her..

so Nigerians can speak English like this

ZarZar:


I get what you're saying but I still don't agree with it. Let's get philosophical here just for a moment: they say true love is the ability to let go when someone no longer serves a positive purpose in your life. In short, you don't stop loving them, you just choose to love them from afar or whatever. The reason I disagree with what you're saying is because it contradicts that, which means that, that kind of "love" is unhealthy. An obsession. Hence I said everybody has limits. Once a person lacks any kind of boundaries whatsoever, don't be surprised when they cross the blurred lines & do the unthinkable.

zar zar you English too much..wetin self..NA only you get PH.D in philosophy...me make I be prof. in women physiogamy no VA speak like this..abeg easy before I withdraw ur certificate

op, I will advise you to take the advise of people telling you to Bleep this olosho girl..stop being nice and don't be nice by showing her care...try as much as you can to Bleep her..I bet you, bayo is not the only married man she has being hanging out with...

#pls don't advise her cos she won't change..don't let her look of being nice decieve you...

#make sure she squirt wen u sex her....if possible use ur hand wide her already wide toto

#lastly, show no mercy

it is clear she and even her friends her just after money and materials things...NA dem dey distribute STDs because of der random men...

#useless girls including my ex gf

AshawoGirl:
They will be checking your phones but u can't check theira

lie Mohammed..my ex gf check my phone

Papykush:
I didn't read all that..but if she's a Hoe, don't date her...
If she was once a Hoe, don't marry her
If she is showing the symptoms of Hoeism, fück her as much as you can then dump her.

You are welcome.

you nail it

ZarZar:
This doesn't make sense. You're not close with the friend anymore but you're getting closer nowadays Which is it? No wonder you can't make decisions

your comment makes me laugh..imagine I have been sad throughout today but reading that hilarious comment of yours brought me out of the sadness zone..I wish i can pay you to make me laugh everyday

see as people dey say give her d 10k like say NA small money...with the look of things, the op has no money...oga bone anything change because she can never change...any kind gesture you do to her, just note that someone else has done that to her before..so don't waste her time...NA her business she dey trade o and i promise you she has STDs that she wants to transfer freely to any man that comes her way...

wake up and kill that feeling instantly

schumastic:


obviously yeah, but trust ladies they always want to have it all, the one that is good in bed, the one that is good for spending, the one that is good for showing off, the one that is good for friendship and advice talk and finally the one that is ready for marriage.

they are always confuse anyway, A HAPPY WOMAN IS A MYTH

very much confuse..

so you went back to your ex because he starve you of sex...but you forgot that you guys had, an agreement and you went ahead to go back to your ex...it simply means you have been comparing him with your ex for long and you think your ex was better than him...if your ex was better than him,why did you leave your ex at first?...

you caused everything because you agreed to the terms and condition...since you knew you can't do without sex, you should have quit the relationship for long but you didnt because you were benefiting from him maybe financially and you don't want to leave...

I must say you are greedy and he can never trust you again..he has every right to be angry because he didn't cheat on you according to you..

op, pls don't mind other posters telling you he is being childish...I think you decieve us in order for us to believe your heart touching post...

schumastic:
you are a cheat full stop...he told you is a no sex relationship and you agreed to it, all you needed to do is call it quit since you couldn't handle it anymore but o no, u wanted to be greedy n v both.

my advice, ask for his forgiveness but I doubt he will ever trust you again.no offence but u should consider moving on, if he doesn't bulge.

you are right..she caused everything..they had an agreement so I see no reason y she should have cheated...since she was never comfortable with the rule, she should have quit.

oga I read your paragraph well...he does not need her...someone who who can't communicate with her in public or indoor except his Co partner "bode" is there...

Reiyvinn:


Don't be in a rush to advertise idiocy Mr., re-read my comment again and you'd understand that I'm not talking about them getting back together as per bf & gf neither did I encourage the OP to look for how to have sex with him, read the last paragraph again and slowly till it sinks deep:



Don't know why many Nigerians make conclusions before they even understand a point. Get a grip guy.

I wonder why girls with hormonal imbalnce always mess around with random guys...my ex gf has hormonal imbalance...she sees her period twice a month and no matter how I sex her raw, she was never pregnant..not until she told me had abortion for her fiance...I remember her asking me that what if i marry someone that can tgive birth tomoro, will I still go ahead and marry that person?..I knew she was indirectly talking about herself

I wonder my girls with hormonal imbalnce always mess around with random guys...my ex gf has hormonal imbalance...she sees her period twice a month and no matter how I sex her raw, she was never pregnant..not until she told me had abortion for her fiance...I remember her asking me that what if i marry someone that can tgive birth tomoro, will I still go ahead and marry that person?..I knew she was indirectly talking about herself

that is a nasty advise you just gave her...if it were to be your daughter who falls into this victim, will you advise her to go and settle things with her gay bf and continue the relationship with him?..

for two years her bf has been cheating behind her back with some random gay friends who may even be infected with STDs and you say she should go back...I wish i can give you a knock where you are...op pls don't take his advise o..run from your life because your friends will surely stigmatise you and take you as someone who has no future if you continue with d guy...there are far better guys out there that will sweep u off your feet...

Reiyvinn:
Your boyfriend is trying so hard to overcome a so-called “sexual orientation”, he likes you really much but his “orientation” speaks contrary to how he feels for you. I know it hurts (for both of you) but trust me, he need you more than ever. I hate mix-ups like these in relationships, but it's just societal pressure that has impeded most of us from expressing our true selves for fear of stigmatization.

I'm not a “homophobe” (i.e someone who hates gays) but I strongly believe homosexuality is a mental disorder; a disarray of proper hormonal flow, not a real sexual orientation. Mind you, I'm not religious at all.

I just hope you both find a way through the hurt and stand by each other, if not as bf and gf, as great friends!

He needs you, trust me.

see as u cook the lie..op are u related to liar Mohammed?

L0velyn:


yea man!..

k

L0velyn:



you dont need to write an epistle...I already know all this

suit you...its ur life

Shortyy:
Many people reading HAVE not HAS.

ur English strong o...you didn't provide suggestion but you made me start wondering if the comment you wrote is in English or hausa

NA wash

L0velyn:
i fvcking miss him, he was my first love nd i still love him

i still wish we never broke up tho

all other ex na pass time ex nd if i ever played with ur heart i'm sorry i was only using you to get over my ex "there was no Love"

that's bad..this is how you will lose your ideal husband that you have been praying to God all your life...I think you are still a child...

NA people like you dey go Shiloh praying to God for husband after u don waste ur precious time with someone who dey only use u and u say u still love him....also, it is your type that jump from one random guys to another and comparing them with your ex because you never want the old wound to heal...when your new boyfriend needs your love and attention, you always screw him up because he is not your choice but your option....

lemme ask you, if your ex was your choice, why did you allow him go?

your life and happiness does not depend on anyone that leaves...the things you can't change, you just have to let it go and meet the one who has been destine to be with you not the one that will keep breaking your heart and get comfortable depending on your forgiveness all the time because she thinks no matter what she does to you, you can never walk away...

when one door close, another one is open...

I didn't regret letting my ex gf go because i tolerated her so much.she took my kindness "love" for weakneas...I didn't get the happiness I deserve and i just have to stop torturing myself..I don't pray to meet her type in life

kullozone:
So you deserve better abi? Despite the bvllshit he was tolerating. He deserves better in my opinion.

Well, I don't regret breaking up with my last gf. That was like 5 years ago... Now she has 2 kids for two different guys and they both denied.

I support your view

yes you are right @ skelefish

the girl is a bitch...she has been sleeping around with her random boyfriend and there is every possibility that she has other STD like PID, chlamydias and so on...my advise to your friend is that he should quit the relationship with the girl as soon as possible and he should just go to the nearest clinic and cure himself..

this will teach him a lesson bcosnext time he won't do it skin to skin....he should never go back to that girl because he will contract it over and over again...the girl is a liar and girl like that can kill...


tell your friend to run and never look back

I remember one of the interviewed I went some years back..I had all it takes to get the job...my result was awesome .when the three professors that interview me went through it and I actually did well in the interviewed because I was sincere but the funny thing is I wasn't accepted because of my sincerity. ..one has to lie inorder to get the job

skelefish:
@Op i guess she is your first love?

nope but she was my first real commitment