Joemavel:

Thanks, courses like what. Or am I to specially target a country and look for the courses that are great there?

Yes. Courses in your field, but in the part of the country you intend to travel to.

It will give you an edge and you can get good job through same.

Joemavel:
So I've been running some businesses for some time and it turns out during this Buhari regime business went south lol.. As in, we all know the situation in the country.

What even dashed my hopes finally was the kinda election we had in this country where I had hoped for a true change as I've always been vocal against japa and why it's okay here and no place like home. But since the last 1 month I've been buying into the japa syndrome.

But I'm I to blame? E no easy with wife and 2 young kids of 2yrs plus and 4months old.

Please I need help with ideas on IT courses one can learn with the internet as I got access to not top notch but substantial amount of internet access.
Or even a good handworking skill that are lucrative abroad.

A skill one could possibly japa with, because I wanna start considering my options. I do not see the next 8yrs having anything significantly left for me in this naija.

Why can't you consider taking professional certification of the country you intend to japaed to?

It will not be easy, but will certainly give you advantage in the long run.

kelechi50:
then allow them to go peacefully with their Biafra

You can't beat a child and still stop him or her from crying.

And who is stopping them from achieving Biafra?

The day they are ready to have it, they will get it.

sonature1:
Sowore will do or say anything to trend. I thought he was an investigative journalist. He should do the needful. Fly to the UK and find out what happened.

By the way, those who know this dude should tell him to return to his state of origin and start his political career from there.

You cannot become president in Nigeria if you don't have a political track record people can use to assess you. I suppose he knows this but chose to embark on a wild goose chase.

Your epistle is tantamount to nothing. Sowore has the right to contest as many times as he wishes.

You ought to face the topic at hand and not beating about the bush.

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

The fault is all from your husband who lacks the quality of a real man.

My rule is simple when it comes to family - anybody I introduce to you as my spouse should be accorded the same respect as mine and do not hesitate to direct any complaint about my spouse to me.

My younger sister tried nonsense and she saw hell.

MostImportant:


I dropped the details for you. Don't know if you saw it.

Your account is credited already.

MostImportant:


Just yesterday being Monday.

Indicate your account number please.

MostImportant:
I have noticed that some Nigerians have a way of putting all the blames on politicians as the ones destroying the country when they themselves are equally contributing.

A fellow job seeker turned back and do evil to me for the good intention I had for him. I was only trying to be a human which of course I always try to be no matter how tight it is with me. Not as though I have but I would share the little i have when I see someone so in need.

I met this guy in an interview venue and we got talking based on job search experiences, how we got to hear about the very one we were at, about the company, tips we can use to perform better in the interview and all that.

I think we were more than 40 in that place and interview was based on first come, you pick a number based on your arrival time and wait to be called in.

So the guy went in first before me, and came out to meet me waiting. On coming out, I tried to ask him to hint me based on some questions asked inside. The interview was scheduled for 10am but it started way late, around to 12pm. So not long after which he came out, he started complaining of hunger. I told him I am hungry too, and truly nothing entered my mouth that morning, so I was seriously hungry too. From hunger, he brought in the issue of how he managed to get to the venue due to lack of transport fare. He then asked me if I can assist with any amount to pay his way back. To be very open with him, I removed the last N500 that was with me and showed him. I told him I am the same. We are all struggling as we don't have a job yet. In fact, why I have N500 in my pocket is because I woke up early enough to prepare which I partly trekked to the place just to save some expenses. Just because I saw frustration in him and the humanity in me won't let me be, I wanted to give him N150 from the money while I keep N350 for myself. From our conversation, my distance was even farer than his.

So I wanted to go out with him to go look for change but just then, it was my turn to go in for the interview. Already the money was in his hand, so he said I should go in for my interview while he goes out to look for change and come back. I thought I was dealing with a human being, not knowing I was making a mistake. Leaving him with the money was the mistake I made. I'm only human after all, and I have learnt my lesson but it won't stop me from being good.

To cut the story short, that guy ran away with my only N500. That was all that was with me in and out. I mean home and abroad, all with me was the N500. Account balance looks like a radio frequency - 87.9. Laughable. So nothing was reachable any where else but even after telling him, he still decided to pay me back with evil.

To think he is a job seeker and he still behave that way, I won't curse him even though he succeeded in making me trek for more than 2 hours, going home with an empty stomach.

May he reap whatever he sows. I'm sure he won't come back to the place even if he's called up for the job, which I doubt though. And I pray I am shortlisted for the job, to bring joy to me.

Although a sad one for me but I pity his life.

When did this happened please?

Khalil1103:
In my previous thread I talked about how worried I was due to the late reply from my employer
https://www.nairaland.com/7636868/please-need-answers-should-worried

So this even I got a called to from them to resume tomorrow. Though they have been try to reach me since on Friday but bad network made it impossible...
Thanks to those that supported me with their advice.i appreciate 🙌🙏

I hope you have received employment letter and understand the terms of engagement including your monthly net pay? If not, kindly do that now and contact the HR Officer for further clarification.

Over anxiousness would be regretted latter and you can take my words to the bank.

To start with, how much has Transcorp paid to shareholders in the past three years and what growth has the Company experienced in terms of the returns to the investors?

I hope she is not one of those Executives feeding fat on shareholders' resources without any tangible returns.

Hoelujohn:

I am sure you don't know what it takes to win a local government seat in Nigeria.
So with all the structure Tinubu has built for over 20 years with the enormous financial war chest at his disposal he could only "win" Obi with 2 million votes. So if they have left both of them one on one without federal power, Obi would have destroyed his life

You don't need to overate Obi. He is just available at a time when youths are tired of the maladministration in Nigeria.

".......We are not going to take the pressure of people telling us to go. We are not going anywhere."

It is obvious that you are not ready.

Biafra my foot.

Throwback:
Supreme Court would be the final decider.

Supreme court on election matter? I doubt it.

dan41:
Searching for work this days without work experience is tiring. Submitting cv online as not being favorable.
Please, sir/ma where help a brother

Start Professional Exam bro. That is one of the solutions.

mrsqueen:
I just spanked my 9 years old boy last night when I came back to here that he had the effronty to slide the gate open, and joined some neighboring kids in playing just outside the gate. He was the eldest in the house as at that moment so no one to fear. But when the younger ones reported him to me, he felt so bad and was already crying. I almost pitied him. But it was already too late as the Cain had to come out. And "Sorry..." was his new name when I was done with him. He also had to write an undertaking declaring that he will never open the gate and step outside again whenever Daddy and Mummy are not at home. We will have to look at the letter later today because of his ongoing exams in school. The letter will be read out and signed in The presence of everyone in the house tonight. This letter will go into his file and come out again whenever he does such a thing again. Of course he can never try that again.

Ah! Ah!. This is serious.

I like this methodology though.

DonTattaglia:
Go and ask one slowpoke, an Idiot drug junkie..A bastard whose urchins are as stupid as a GOAT. His name is Tinubu a criminal whom some F00LS are sheepishly supporting. They will shocked after d court finishes with him. I can't wait to see them jump into d lagoon.

But you have been seriously warned to stop skipping your drugs

Lewisjohnson:
Ewedu nd Amala at it again
De hav Invaded Ebonyi state

We know that the topic won't trend because it did not happen in Lagos.

queentefah:

I just got tired of the car. Looking to change taste.

Aiming for Corolla Sport. What year could you recommended?

nurey:

CUV
honda crv
Hyundai Tucson
Kia sportage
Toyota Rav4

Sedan
Honda accord
Toyota camry

Compact (fuel economy)
Honda civic
Toyota corolla

I love toyota corolla sport so much. Please which year is the best among the tokunbos?

queentefah:
Advice needed. Moving from Toyota corolla 2009 for Toyota Camry 2010/2011 a good idea.
Nurey
Kingreign

Why moving away from Corolla 2009 please?

Another campaign line to get public sympathy. The efforts exerted by PDP to get into power in Lagos has always been futile and I don't think the ongoing one will be an exemption.

However, Atiku and other PDP financiers are down already and will not be ready to invest heavily this time around.

You better agree to work for Sanwo-Olu on time. As it stands, PDP has lowest chance of success among the three major parties contesting for gubernatorial election in Lagos.

Billionaire2:
unless Victor want to end his career prematurely , as a talented black player never accept any offer from a toxic racist and narcissist like Guardiola.
ask Samuel Eto’o and Thierry Henry,

Then he needs to ask likes of Joe Hat, Aguero, Navas, Nasri, Fernadhino, Mangala, Clichy, Zinchencko, Jesus, Sagna, Zerbaletha, Kolarov, etc too. You need to start thinking straight.

robosky02:



Yea good point

He doesn't really trust black players like mourinho

Yes, he even hated the likes of Joe Hat, Aguero, Navas, Nasri, Fernadhino, Mangala, Clichy, Zinchencko, Jesus, Sagna, Zerbaletha, Kolarov, etc too because they are black.

Lightorder:
and in the life of your miserable unborn children

How the thing come dey pain you so far it is what you wished for?

Make use of your brain next time and never include all Nigerians in your miserable lamentation.

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Massiveglory:
One of the saddest day in Nigeria's history.
Tinubu did not win election. What he won is a fraud.
He will not be President.

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One of the saddest day in your life's history.

fombi:
I could feel the sadness all over Nigeria. There are bairly people celebrating. Tinubu will not enjoy this posion, the cap doesn't fit. It won't last.

.

The only sadness I could see is from you and your enclave and not Nigeria. As you have wished, may you not enjoy Tinubu's administration.

Ode!

Their father.

God please let Asiwaju's administration be the best in the history of Nigeria.

Weeping and gnashing of teeth that would follow GEJ's visit to Tinubu from a set of people from a particular region hen!

Xscape1993:
Evil party and evil candidate......the founder of agberos in Nigeria, the drug landlord of Africa and the murderer of Funso Williams will never seat on that seat.....

Your weeping may endure for a night, but your joy will come in the MOURNING.

Vyvyanvyvy:
Hello guys, I am a 36 years old single mother of four. My son will be 15 in August, first daughter 10 in october, my third 5 and youngest 3 by june.

I have separated from my husband because he didn't want my son to come and live with us, I have been taking care of them singlehandedly for 3 years.

I have been friend with this man, a widower who is 57 years and a father of 2 children. He is asking for my hand in marriage. To be honest, I don't want to be married again, all I want is to focus on raising my kids because I have been through a lot in my previous marriage and I don't want another marriage wahala.

He asked for my hand in marriage, I rejected him and I had explained to him why I don't want to marry again. I told him what my ex did, he said he is a mature man he will love me and my children and he will never hate them or ask them to leave his house. I told him I have to think about it and I will get back to him ASAP. But I am still scared to accept his proposal because I don't want history to repeat itself and he is still on my neck. He wants me to accept his proposal. I am confused.

Please advice me. Is it a wise choice for me to get married again after everything I have been through in the past?

"....I have separated from my husband because he didn't want my son to come and live with us, I have been taking care of them singlehandedly for 3 years" Meaning?

Sleekfingers:



That one na your problem. Go and meet Buhari and emefiele in Abuja.....yeye

Buhari should go after the culprits, as the masses deserve the best.

Stop barking like a sexually starved Bingo.

Sleekfingers:



Oga, go and sit down..... Who is suffering between you and me? Na that suffering go kill you and your families......
For your information, I dey get spending cash on a daily. Even before this naira scarcity, anything that is above 5,000 naira, I don't pay with cash......
Una never see anything.....

You do online transaction pass Soludo and P Square na.

A common man would buy N100 beans, N50 salt, maggi, and N100 bread and all he must pay for each of this transactions online.

You are just mentally demented.