My beloved brothers and sisters, though everyone has his/her own perception about sex. But the spiritual truth is that nothing and I say nothing at all can give anyone sustainable pleasure than knowing and having his/her creator. If indeed you sincerely know your maker and His good plans for you here and the world beyond, even the best sex galore you can think of would be your worst life time experience. Besides, during sexual intercourse you even do more exercise than Usain bolt. You waste your energy, even some die in the process to tell you nothing at all is pleasurable in it. Maybe, I have this personal philosophy about sex because I never had it till at 36 when I got married. To God be the glory, I derive awesome pleasure listening to gospel songs/teachings than even having sex with my partner. God forbid, it's too degrading the way people give glory to the creature instead of the creator. Though, I am a member of no special Christendom, but I have unfathomable pleasure worshiping my creator with all my body, all my soul and all my spirit every minute. I wish you could try working, walking, sleeping, eating, and partying with your creator. You will testify that sex has no atom of pleasure compared to fellowshiping with your maker.

GMB, May Allah guide you with sufficient strength, health and wisdom.

S-O-R-R-Y WIKE

Just call him whenever you know that he is in a good mood. Use some bible verses especially epistles from Apostle Paul(eg Corinthians 6 and 7) has many advises on this issue. Let him know the importance of both of you satisfying each other sexually. Besides, try to dress more sexually at night while you want to sleep with him. I am sure such a man never sleeps outside. Besides, you also have to try too to live more spiritual life like him knowing that sex is not life/food. 'Man shall not live by bread alone', but by the word of God.

If this solicitation is coming from a sincere heart who loves God, herself and her fiance I think I have few words for u. I am talking out of experience. I am married since 2011. I left my wife for study abroad since 2012, though I visit home every summer to spend about 7-8weeks, but I have never had sex outside not even here in abroad(am not strong but God is). I also have 100% vow and trust for her. As some have stated, the only solution is not nourishing such thought. The devil will often try to present you with such notion but always rebuke it with the word of God or spirit of morality. 'Our body is the temple of God...'. Frankly, you will mature to a point that you will never have any single urge for such. At this state, u and ur creator will ever be glad and joyful in ur purity and chastity. Sexual urge is just a thing of mind and feeling which can always be defeated and suppressed by making God our best friend, by avoiding any person, any event, any media/material that could trigger such feeling.
May God supply you with the most needed zeal and spirit to overcome!