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Properties / Re: ABUJA PROPERTY REQUESTS: Contact Us For All Your Real Estate Needs In Abuja!!! by etunoman76(m): 8:16pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
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Properties / Re: ABUJA PROPERTY REQUESTS: Contact Us For All Your Real Estate Needs In Abuja!!! by etunoman76(m): 11:12pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
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Properties / Re: ABUJA PROPERTY REQUESTS: Contact Us For All Your Real Estate Needs In Abuja!!! by etunoman76(m): 10:16pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
noblemails: It depends on the size and actual location, and of course, if it is AMAC or FCDA approved. Most people are sceptical of AMAC approved because of the tendency of getting a land with two different owners (double allocation). You may decide to go for an estate plot with genuine documents. You can get a good plot from N4m and above. You can get cheaper than that but getting a genuine one for less than the N4m can be a bit tight. Meanwhile, apart from Lugbe you can still look at other places like Kubwa, Kuje, Apo Resettlement, Kyami etc. Factors like if you are building now or you want the property as future investment, can also dictate what to go for 1 Like |
Properties / ABUJA PROPERTY REQUESTS: Contact Us For All Your Real Estate Needs In Abuja!!! by etunoman76(m): 5:14pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Agricultural Science Graduate Vacancy!!!!! by etunoman76(m): 1:48pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
A friend on Facebook posted this on my timeline. I hope it is useful to someone out there. Good Morning beloved Pls I need urgently CV of a graduate either Bsc or HND in Agricultural Science, latest Monday 11th July, 2016. Send to: arwangpam@gmail.com |
Crime / Re: Man Narrates How Police Demanded 'mobilisation Fee' To Investigate Robbery Case by etunoman76(m): 6:12pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
A friend's brother was killed in PH by stray bullets from some kidnappers. Family went to meet the police and they were asked to cough out N300,000 for them to commence full scale investigation!!!! It's disheartening to say the least 1 Like |
Jokes Etc / Poo Unlimited: Which State Can You Find This? by etunoman76(m): 6:52pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
Please no insult ooo!!!
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Politics / Re: Okupe: "Obasanjo Forgave Me And I Kissed Him" by etunoman76(m): 4:31pm On May 13, 2016 |
Nigeria politicians without permanent enemies but permanent interests http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/203376-photo-news-doyin-okupe-prostrates-begs-obasanjo-forgiveness.html#jp-carousel-203363
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Pets / Re: Please, What Breed Of Dog(s) Should I Go For? by etunoman76(m): 9:57pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
I am looking at N40k for the two puppies. And for now, i want dogs that can easily mix up with my kids without posing any serious danger to them |
Pets / Re: Please, What Breed Of Dog(s) Should I Go For? by etunoman76(m): 9:48pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
vicky3: Thanks, but not sure i know what that is |
Pets / Please, What Breed Of Dog(s) Should I Go For? by etunoman76(m): 9:15pm On Apr 28, 2016 |
I want to buy one or two puppies next month, but i have been thinking of the breed to go for because i have two children; 3 years and 1 year old. i am being careful here so as not to endanger them. So, i need options. |
Career / Civil Defense Salary Scale by etunoman76(m): 7:19pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
Please who can tell me the salary range for a Level 08 and/or 09 in Civil Defense? Thank you |
Autos / Re: TESTED & TRUSTED.... Cotonuo Cars Delivered By Tadeus by etunoman76(m): 8:56am On Jul 06, 2015 |
Please sir, how much can i get the following cars delivered to Abuja with genuine customs duty papers: 1. Toyota Camry 2007 and 2008 2. Toyota Camry 2003 and 2004 3. Toyota Highlander 2004 and 2005 with rear view camera, if any Thank you sir |
Autos / Re: Tokunbo Used 2011 Toyota Camry Le For Sale Call 08143050852 by etunoman76(m): 8:05am On Jul 06, 2015 |
Good morning. A lovely car you have there. How much are you asking for it? |
Family / Couple Married For 75 Years Dies Hours Apart by etunoman76(m): 3:05pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
A poignant photo has emerged which shows an elderly couple who were married for 75 years fulfilling their final wishes to die together. Jeanette Toczko, 96, and her 95-year-old husband, Alexander Toczko, from San Diego, California, died just hours apart as they held hands in bed. The pair spent their lives in love after becoming boyfriend and girlfriend when they were only eight years old. But several weeks ago, Mr Toczko suffered a broken hip in a fall and was left bed-bound. A local hospice delivered a special bed to his home, which staff pushed up next to his beloved wife's bed. As Mr Toczko's condition quickly declined, Mrs Toczko's own health took a turn for the worse. The couple had always said they wished to die 'in their own bed, holding hands, in each other's arms'. And in scenes reminiscent of the 2004 film The Notebook, they passed away while clutching hands earlier this month: Mr Toczko on June 17, as he lay beside his wife; and Mrs Toczko, the next day. The couple's daughter, Aimee Toczko-Cushman, described the moment she told her mother she had lost her husband, who kept a photo of Mrs Toczko at her Holy Communion in his wallet. 'I told my mother he was gone,' she told 10 News. 'She hugged him and she said, "See this is what you wanted. You died in my arms and I love you. I love you, wait for me, I'll be there soon".' Mrs Toczko-Cushman, and the couple's other children, Donna Tang, Richard Toczko, Lynne Edwards and Andra Toczko, then left the room, to allow their mother to say a private goodbye. And less than 24 hours later, Mrs Toczko herself passed away. 'Even the hospice nurse said it was the most incredible thing to see the two of them taking those last breaths together,' Ms Toczko-Cushman said of her parents, both born in Stamford, Connecticut. Mr and Mrs Toczko, who were the children of Polish immigrants, started dating as youngsters, before their innocent relationship flourished into love, marriage and five children of their own. Following their wedding in 1940, Mr Toczko joined the U.S. Navy as a telegraph operator, according to ABC. He later moved to New York City with his family, where he worked for an advertising firm. In 1971, the Toczkos moved to San Diego, where Mr Toczko established his own advertising and fashion photography firm, Blue Sky, U-T San Diego reported. Mrs Toczko was his chief stylist. During their lengthy marriage, the couple also went traveling together, visiting Bermuda. 'Their hearts beat as one from as long as I can remember,' said Mrs Toczko-Cushman. Before his recent fall, Mr Toczko, a passionate golfer, had been a regular at Balboa Golf Course. The war veteran had a keen interest in drawing, and often sat and sketched at the golf course. Meanwhile, his wife doted on her 10 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. As the couple neared death, in early June, a confused Mrs Toczko reportedly told her children that the date was June 29 - the day she and Mr Toczko would have celebrated 75 years of marriage. The couple's children went along with it, telling their mother it was, indeed, the anniversary. 'We said happy anniversary, and my mother was thrilled because it was their anniversary and she knew that he was going and that they had made it to 75 years,' said Mrs Toczko-Cushman. Mr and Mrs Toczko were buried at Miramar National Cemetery in San Diego on Monday. For more info and pictures, http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3147837/PICTURED-dying-embrace-husband-wife-married-75-years-died-just-hours-apart-held-hands-bed.html
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Business / NERC Sanctions Abuja Disco Over Estimated Billings by etunoman76(m): 8:01am On Jun 17, 2015 |
THE Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission (NERC) yesterday came down hard on the Abuja Electricity Distribution Company (Abuja Disco) by imposing sanctions on it. The NERC also ordered the firm to immediately refund consumers monies said to have been overbilled. This, officials said, is one in the series of sanctions to any disco that ignores the approved methodology for estimated billing of electricity consumers. The Commission said that the sanction followed the conclusion of investigation of misdemeanour levelled against the electricity firm. The affected consumers are to be refunded through energy credit of all excess charges that they were billed. The action followed NERC’s Notice of Enforcement and subsequent investigation of instances of overbilling perpetrated by the electricity distribution company. In an Order No. NERC/139, which copy was obtained in Abuja, the regulator noted: “AEDC shall with immediate effect from the date of this order commence refund through energy credit of all excess charges billed its customers as a direct consequence of the adjustments.” Abuja Disco was also ordered to, within five days, notify the affected customers of the overbilling in writing in line with Regulation 9 (7) of the Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission’s Meter Reading, Billing, Cash Collections and Credit Management for Electricity Suppliers Regulation 2007. AEDC is also expected to take up spaces in a national newspaper and tender an apology to affected customers stating their business units and the amount of excess charges billed them during the period under review. The company is expected to report back within two months beginning from June 15, 2015 to the Commission over its compliance with the sanctions meted on it. The NERC said AEDC was investigated for arbitrary imposition of random figures on clusters of its customers ranging from 18 to 28 per cent between October and December 2014 and in some cases, 1,100 per cent increase, which resulted in spike in customers’ bills as against the provisions of the Methodology for Estimated Billing Regulations 2012. The electricity distribution company was said to have tripled its customers bills issued in September 2014 and issued it as bills for October 2014 without evidence of a commensurate increase in electricity supply within the same period. According to the notice, AEDC failed to forward report of the estimated billings it issued in every billing circle as provided under Section 9 of the Methodology for Estimated Billing Regulation 2012 in the format prescribed by the regulation. Following AEDC’s failure to comply with NERC regulation over its continued issuance of “outrageous and unusually very high bills” to its customers and for not complying with stipulated format in its presentation to the Commission, the company was then given seven days to explain itself if it will escape sanctions. The AEDC had in April requested the NERC to give it more time to respond to a query it was issued on its alleged disregard to standing rules on estimated billing. Abuja Disco asked for extension on the grounds that it needs more time to prepare its response and defence. The request for extension was dated April 17, 2015. The Commission had granted the request and gave the firm till May 6, 2015. http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/2015/06/nerc-sanctions-abuja-disco-over-estimated-billings/ |
Nairaland / General / Frank 'fizzy' Onyeachonam: Champagne-loving £1.2m Conman Now Penniless by etunoman76(m): 7:35am On Jun 11, 2015 |
Onyeachonam conned pensioners out of their life savings but will have to sell his luxury home in Nigeria to pay a Confiscation Order made at the Old Bailey. A conman who tricked pensioners out of their live savings to fund his champagne-fuelled lifestyle will have to hand over his remaining assets to compensate victims. Frank Onyeachonam - dubbed Fizzy because of his love of champagne - worked from a 'suckers list' to trick people into believing they had won international lotteries before telling them they needed to pay fees and taxes to free up their winnings. He was jailed for eight years at the Old Bailey last June for fraud and confiscation order made by the court yesterday ordered him to pay victims more than £150,000 using his remaining assets. He will have to sell his home in Nigeria to pay the sum. At the height of the fraud the 39-year-old spent a fortune on cars including a Porsche Cayenne, BMW convertible and Maserati, a £2,000-a-month rented flat overlooking the Thames in London’s Docklands, and so much champagne that his nickname was Fizzy. The spree ended when he was arrested and the police searched his flat. Fizzy claimed he had nothing to do with the scam but officers found notepads and mobile phones linking him to the scam. Judge Poulet found he had pocketed almost £1.2m in the scam - in which pensioners were conned out of six-figure life savings. Garry Crone from the NCA’s Economic Crime Command said: “Onyeachonam previously enjoyed a lifestyle of champagne, designer clothes and fast cars. "Those days are well behind him, and he can now add the loss of his illicit profits to the loss of his liberty. "The NCA is determined to prevent criminals from benefitting financially from illegal activity, and we are pleased that in this case, victims will have money returned to them.” http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/frank-fizzy-onyeachonam-champagne-loving-12m-5850307
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Politics / Re: Buhari First Blunder Why I Oppose Relocation Of Military Command-ifeduba by etunoman76(m): 8:27pm On May 29, 2015 |
There is no way the military will move the entire command base to Maiduguri. It doesn't make sense to do that. We are talking of tons of military hardware and hundreds of military personnel. I believe what the President meant was the command base in charge of the military action against terrorism being moved to the city. We have heard so many stories of commanding officers being outside the state and there is no way COs can lead their men from hundreds of kilometres away from the battlefield. 8 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Professional Mourners For Hire by etunoman76(m): 9:35am On Apr 28, 2015 |
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Family / The 1 Marriage Mistake You Might Be Making by etunoman76(m): 9:12am On Apr 18, 2015 |
You may question my opinion on marriage when you hear that I am divorced, but I often find that those of us who have tried something and failed bring a lot to the table in terms of perspective and advice. And after numerous rounds of marriage counseling, time spent thinking about why my marriage failed and what part both my ex and I had to play in this failure, I have a whole new way of looking at marriage than when I first said "I do." Despite everything, I still 100 percent believe in marriage and love. I see couples all the time that remind me that marriage can be lovely. And then I see couples that should be happy, but they're not. There are no major issues, but they seem to exist in misery. When you're unhappily married or having minor marital issues, you're not typically announcing it to people. It's like a dirty secret. Who wants to say that her happily ever after stinks? But here's the good news: while there are indeed quite a few people in hopelessly bad marriages, most are perfectly capable of happiness. And I am here to say as someone who lived through this that there is one costly mistake you may be making in your marriage that is causing friction. In fact, you may be doing this mistake without even realizing it. And you may be doing this even if you're in a relatively happy marriage. Do you find yourself nagging your partner a lot? Or do you find yourself saying how your partner never does X or always does Y? For example, does your husband never clean up after himself? Do you frequently vent about this issue, whatever it is? Is it a constant fight between the two of you? If you answered yes, that's the mistake I'm talking about. Too often, people focus on what their partners are doing wrong rather than what they're doing right. Even though it would be preferable and polite for your messy husband to pick up after himself, in the large scheme of things, is he doing things mostly right? Every single person in this world has flaws. When we sign up to marry someone, we're basically signing this invisible document that says, "When exchanging vows with person X, you must tolerate his or her flaws, and remember the good every day despite the fact that person X may be utterly annoying at times" — sign at the X. It's all too common that over time as people get comfortable and take each other for granted, these little tiny issues become large in our mind and we forget to savor what our partner does so well because we're focusing on that one thing he or she can't do right. Fixing this issue takes two steps. The first one is realizing you're doing it if you don't already. The second is how to stop and what issues are worth letting go . . . and what aren't. Are You Slamming Your Partner Too Much? How often do you point out to friends, co-workers, and maybe even family what your partner is doing wrong? Do you frequently get irritated with your partner? Are you nagging your partner constantly? Do you resent him over these flaws of his? Do you hold back sex or affection? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are most likely focusing on your partner's flaws too much. What Issues Are Not Worth Letting Go If your partner is abusive verbally, physically, or emotionally . . . you cannot let this slide! If he's cheating, reckless with money, or abusing substances . . . he's not a keeper! If he's mean to the kids and irresponsible with their care . . . you've got a real big problem. These are issues that should be taken seriously. Issues You Should Let Slide Is he messy (not a hoarder, but simply messy)? Is he bad with romance, planning dates, or just average in bed? (Yes, I said that.) Is he overwhelmed at times when handling the kids? Is he forgetful? Does the concept of folding laundry befuddle him? These are the issues you should let slide. Most likely, you knew he was this way when you said "I do." For all the times he left the clothes in the dryer, I bet if you focused on it, you could find another 50 times that he was there for you as your husband. How to Stop First, why are you obsessing over these small issues? Are you happy with yourself and where you two are as people and parents? I found that my ex and I tended to be harder on each other when we were feeling down about ourselves or our circumstances like money issues, unemployment periods, and pregnancy loss. The reality for both of us was that we were dissatisfied with situations in our life, and instead of placing accurate blame, at times we made each other the fall guy for our unhappiness. If you aren't happy with yourself, you may unintentionally pick at your partner. It's time to get yourself back to happiness, and that may mean seeing a counselor. Have you gotten too comfortable, or are you simply bored? Sometimes we take our partners for granted because like our favorite pair of yoga pants, he has been there forever. And in case you didn't get the memo, marriage can be utterly boring sometimes. It's not like when you were dating and dealing with the intense roller coaster of love. Perhaps you need to invest in some alone time with your man. Maybe it's time to even spice things up sexually a bit. Or why not try a new hobby or activity with your partner? We all get in marriage ruts from time to time. The trick is to snap out of it when it's happening. I tried to pull my ex out of the rut we got in, but he was resistant. Don't resist. Be open to change. Take five minutes a day to reflect on what your main squeeze does right, and tell him! If you start to share not only your complaints but also your compliments, imagine the return you will get from this. Consider these compliments as deposits in your marriage. Every time you have something good to say, you're investing in your partner. Every time you have something bad to say, you're withdrawing. Put nagging in the category of "something bad to say" as well. I nagged too much at times . . . when I should have let it go or not bothered to beat a dead horse. Nagging is often destructive and doesn't get your guy to do what you want. But when you share with your partner something great he did and focus on all he does bring to the table, I guarantee he will step up to the plate more and more. That was something my ex failed to do. I didn't get positive feedback, and it hurt me deeply until I started to withdraw. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy when we focus on the negative in our partner: the more we tell them these things, perhaps the more the person starts to believe he or she is bad, and possibly even "become" what we have envisioned. It's not good for your partner's self-esteem, and it's a negative place for you to be in. At the end of the day, marriage means waking up each day and saying, "Even if you drive me crazy, I love you too much to be without you, so I'll just let you make me slightly insane." Reflect on all the wonderful things your partner brings to the marriage, and I promise the small things won't seem so "big" anymore. http://www.popsugar.com/moms/Marriage-Mistakes-36967521?utm_source=com_newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=com_newsletter_v4_04162015&em_recid=140674155&utm_content=placement_1_title 4 Likes |
Politics / How President Jonathan Lost The 2015 Presidential Election by etunoman76(m): 12:18pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
IF President Goodluck Jonathan was afraid of the outcome of the just concluded presidential election, he never showed it. Before the election was held, he had started giving conditions on the type of people he wanted to dominate the forthcoming Eighth National Assembly “I would want you to elect members of the Peoples Democratic Party to the National Assembly so that I can work with people who are not rancorous” – President Goodluck Jonathan told party supporters at one of his numerous presidential rallies. But like the biblical Moses, Jonathan has failed to lead his party, the Peoples Democratic Party, to his dreamland. His reign has brought to an abrupt end the 16-year uninterrupted reign of the party, whose former National Chairman, Vincent Ogbulafor, had boasted would remain in power for at least 60 years. A senior employee of the party told our correspondent in Abuja on Tuesday that the former party chairman could have probably meant 16 years in his projection. Though the President didn’t start out to fall by the wayside, some states actually plotted his downfall. Principal among them were the five out of the six states of the South-West. Traditionally, the President, being a southerner was expected to have wormed his way into the hearts of the people of the South-West. This was because when he was being haunted by the then presidential candidate of the defunct Congress for Progressives Change, who was his major challenger in 2011, Maj. Gen. Muhammadu Buhari (retd.), Jonathan came to seek the backing of the zone. All of the states in the zone obliged him except Osun, where he lost. But in other states like Lagos, Ogun, Oyo, Ekiti and Ondo, he won. However, in 2015, it was a different scenario as only the people of Ekiti State seemed to still remain friendly with the President. With a little margin, he got 176,466 votes as against 120,331 votes of Buhari, the presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress. Even in Ondo State, where the President’s party is in charge, the people revolted. In unison, the majority of the people abandoned him for Buhari by giving him 251,368 votes as against 299,889 they collectively gave the former Head of State. Taking a leaf from the South-West example, some states in the North-Central, which were traditional supporters of the President, also deserted him. Those states include Benue, Kogi and Kwara. A former Governor of Kwara State, Senator Bukola Saraki, was among the members of the PDP, who were hounded out of the party. Saraki threw his hat into the ring and joined forces with the opposition to give a killer blow to his former party and its presidential candidate. Though the President was able to make a showing in other states from the zone, voters from the North-West were not considerate of Jonathan in their voting. The only zone with seven states witnessed all of them chorusing in harmony and actively participated through their votes in the revolution that sacked Jonathan from Aso Rock. These states are Sokoto, Katsina, Zamfara, Kebbi, Sokoto, Jigawa and Kaduna. It was also not a rousing outing for the outgoing President in the North-East, where his government has been battling Boko Haram insurgency. Five out of the six zones voted for change and rejected continuity which the President campaigners said he represented. Voters from those states that would prefer President Jonathan to relocate to his Otuoke, Bayelsa State home, instead of spending another four years in office, were those of Yobe, Bauchi, Adamawa, Borno and Gombe. The governors of the zone, who are members of his party and who he regularly referred to as his field commanders, were outrun by the voters with their Permanent Voter Cards, which they willingly used as their weapons. These governors are Isa Yuguda (Bauchi), James Ngilari (Adamawa) and Ibrahim Damkwambo (Gombe). Nevertheless, the President made a remarkable showing in Taraba State. But that was not enough to guarantee his second term ambition. These are the part of history-making states that made President Jonathan the first Nigerian president to lose his re-election bid. A return to Otuoke, therefore, beckons. The President would however not return alone. He is expected to be accompanied by members of his immediate family led by his wife, Patience, whose stay in Aso Rock has added a wide vocabulary to Nigeria’s political lexicon. Her many gaffes were said to have drawn more flaks for the President. If this was true, Patience was not bothered. While the President asked his supporters to moderate their speeches and stop hate campaigns, his wife was uncontrollable. Throwing caution into the winds on many occasions during the PDP women presidential rallies, Patience once described Buhari as “brain dead” and asked Nigerians to reject the retired soldier. Referring to his age, she said it was wrong for such a 72-year-old man to be dragging the office of the President with her husband. It was obvious that her counsel was not convincing enough to the voters, who in their millions voted for Buhari and rather asked Patience and her husband to vacate the opulent building they moved into since 2007. http://www.punchng.com/news/how-jonathan-lost/ |
Politics / Re: Spreadsheet Of The Official Election Results So Far by etunoman76(m): 4:58pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
That's the spirit. PDP should plan better and work harder next time. themano: |
Politics / Wikipedia Updates Orubebe’s Profile Over Attempted Poll Disruption by etunoman76(m): 2:40pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Godsday Orubebe’s profile on Wikipedia just got updated that he attempted to disrupt 2015 general election result announcement on March 31. Orubebe, the agent of the Peoples Democratic Party at the announcement of the presidential election in Abuja, had called for the stoppage of the presentation of the results on Tuesday. Shouting on top of his voice, Orubebe, a former Minister of the Niger Delta Affairs, alleged that INEC Chairman, Prof. Attahiru Jega, had taken side with the All Progressives Congress. At the venue of the results presentation on Tuesday, the PDP agent shouted, “You sent a committee to Rivers to probe what happened there. We submitted petitions to you about Kano, Jigawa, Katsina but you have not done anything about our complaints. You cannot continue with these results; we will not take it.” As Jega tried to calm him down, asking to be given a chance to respond, Orubebe shouted, “Mr. Jega, You cannot continue, go to your office. You are partial. We don’t have any confidence in you. We will not allow this. You cannot continue. You must stop the results.” http://www.punchng.com/news/wikipedia-updates-orubebes-profile-over-attempted-poll-disruprion/ |
Family / 7 Things A Daughter Needs From Her Father by etunoman76(m): 3:55pm On Mar 24, 2015 |
1. She needs you to be involved. A daughter needs her father to be actively interested in her life. “Actively interested” does not refer to the second-long conversation that sometimes happens between a father and daughter when he asks how her day went and she replies with one word. A father should participate in his daughter’s hobbies and activities by displaying interest. For example, if she is interested in collecting coins, take her to coin shows. Use the Internet to learn about rare coins and talk about them. Is your daughter talented in the any sports, such as volleyball? Whether she wants to play or just enjoys watching the games, become an enthusiastic fan and supporter! Show your daughter that you are interested in her life by learning more about it and trying to become a part of it. 2. She needs you to demonstrate a healthy marriage. The first relationship a daughter experiences is the one between her mother and father. If her father disrespects his wife with physical or emotional abuse, a daughter might come to believe that is the expected relationship with a husband. However, a father that displays physical affection, respect, and a true partnership with his wife provides an incredible example that his daughter will want to mirror in her own life. 3. She needs you to support her. Even though a father may not always agree with his daughter, she needs to know you will support her. When a father fully and wholeheartedly supports his daughter, she will develop strong self-esteem and a positive self-image. This doesn’t mean that you always have to agree with her, but show her that while you might not agree with a choice she is making, you will always believe in her as a person and have confidence in her abilities. 4. She needs to trust you as a confidante. When your daughter does come to you and discusses personal issues and problems, she needs to know that you will treat them with respect and confidence. They shouldn’t become dinner-table conversation with the rest of the family. 5. She needs your unconditional love. Just as our Father in Heaven demonstrates unconditional love, fathers on earth need to display this as well. Unconditional love requires that a daughter knows no matter how badly she messes up, her father will be there, not to ridicule and demean but to forgive. 6. She needs a strong spiritual leader. A father should be the spiritual head of a household and should take charge of his children’s religious education. Pray with your daughter! Don’t be shy about bringing the Lord into your conversations with her. 7. She needs a positive role model. Many daughters today lack a positive male role model in their life. A father is the first man in a girl’s life that she will intimately know. Her father sets the standard for all other men in her life, and a positive role model will help her choose a good husband in the future. Take a moment for some self-reflection. Are there any habits you need to break? Are there some areas of your own life that could use a “spiritual overhaul” and prayer? When your daughter sees that you are willing to examine your own life and make changes when necessary, you provide the best example she could ever have of accepting responsibility for her actions. http://www.allprodad.com/articles/dads-and-children/7-things-a-daughter-needs-from-her-father/ 1 Like |
Politics / President Jonathan Vows To Eradicate Corruption In Oil Sector, If Re-elected by etunoman76(m): 8:30am On Mar 24, 2015 |
President Goodluck Jonathan has promised to entrench greater transparency and eradicate corruption in the nation’s oil sector if re-elected. He gave the commitment on Sunday evening in Lagos at a youth event titled “An unimaginable feat in sports” designed to highlight his administration’s achievements in the sports sector. The event which lasted till the early hours of Monday attracted sports men and women, young professionals as well as beneficiaries of the Federal Government’s scholarship schemes among others. According to the President, his administration will work tirelessly to ensure that Nigerians are not stigmatised any where in the world because of corruption, adding that the same way his administration was able to use technology to tackle corruption in many areas such as fertilizer distribution, procurement and salary payment, he will do so to check corruption in the general society. “We are going into oil sector. People talk about the oil industry because that is an industry with a lot of people and a lot of money is involved. But I promise you that in the next four years, we will sanitise the oil sector” he said. The president however emphasised that the issue of corruption was being exaggerated leading to the creation of an impression that the whole country was corrupt. The President also promised to work with the young people because of his conviction that parents who do not encourage young ones are preparing their families for extinction. Specifically, he promised that he will give more youths under the age of 40 years more opportunities to serve as ministers and heads of government parastatals. http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/03/jonathan-vows-to-eradicate-corruption-in-oil-sector-if-re-elected/ |
Autos / A Clean 2009 Nigerian Used Toyota Corolla For Sale In Abuja by etunoman76(m): 6:19am On Feb 13, 2015 |
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Politics / Nigeria’s Problems Increasing – Jonathan by etunoman76(m): 4:57am On Dec 29, 2014 |
President Goodluck Jonathan on Sunday admitted that Nigeria’s problems were increasing, instead of abating. Noting that the situation would have been worse if not for the prayers of Nigerians, Jonathan said he was optimistic that God would, in the same way he tackled the problems of the Israelites, do same for Nigeria. The President spoke at the last Sunday of the year service by the Christ Apostolic Church, Area 1, Durumi, Abuja. He said , “One of the reasons I go round churches, at least in Abuja, is to thank my brothers and sisters for the prayers they have been having for the country, the government and I. “We are facing a lot of challenges now as a nation. The challenges did not start today but somehow, instead of abating, the problems started increasing for one reason or the other. “But I am convinced that it would have been worse than this but for your prayers. With the prayers you continue to offer to God, God will see us through. “I always say that whenever I read the Bible, especially the Old Testament, particularly the journey of the Israelites from Egypt to the promised land, the kind of challenges they faced; their confrontations, the wars up to the days of King David, they were always fighting. You may need to ask, why should children of God continue to be fighting? “I believe what is happening to us is not even as serious as sometimes the passages we read in the Bible and God saw them through.” Jonathan promised that despite the challenges, his administration would continue to do its best to reposition the country. He said although the results might not be immediate, his government had introduced a lot of policies that would change the nation’s fortunes positively. According to him, if the steady progress is sustained, Nigeria will be a better place in the next four or five years. He added, “The God we believe in will see us through. What I will request from you is to continue to pray for us. “For me and members of my team, in spite of the challenges, we will continue to do our best. “As a nation, we have not reached where we want to go, definitely not. But we are coming up with a number of policies. ‘‘Those who are taking pain to look at what we are doing will agree with us that if we progress as a nation steadily in this manner, in the next four or five years, this country will be a better place. “Only a few days back, the Vice President was in Port Harcourt, Rivers State to flag off the Eastern railway. The Western one moving from Lagos to Kano has been running. We will start using the modern one from Kaduna to Abuja by the first quarter of next year and the one from Port Harcourt. “When we were small, there were railways. But I believe most of our children of about 30 years only see railway as cartoons on the television but now, they are seeing it. “We relied on agriculture before the oil boom or doom and all that died. We are reviving it and the whole world has appreciated that we are moving forward in agriculture. “When something is started, people do not see the benefits immediately. We know that as a nation, we have a lot of challenges in terms of getting jobs for our young ones and we have set up a lot of programmes that can bring job opportunities for our young men. “The result may not be obvious immediately but God willing, job opportunities will continue to increase and many more young people will be engaged.” Jonathan reiterated his position that his administration was working hard to ensure that the effects of the drop in oil price did not affect the nation’s economy adversely. He said since the nation survived a similar situation between 2008 and 2009 when oil price dropped to $40, it would survive the current one He said although there might be temporary inconveniences, the situation would not bring the economy down. Jonathan described 2015 as a tempting year for the country, saying elections year in third world countries is always a turbulent year with all kinds of predictions. Despite the charged atmosphere ahead of the elections however, he said God would see the country through. He urged the congregation to continue to pray for politicians for God to guide their utterances and actions. The President observed that if indeed aspirants to various public offices were interested in the well-being of the people, they would not kill or maim people to win elections. Jonathan said, “All that I will request of you is to continue to pray for politicians for God to guide us in our utterances and what we do so that we will not sacrifice the lives of Nigerians because of our ambitions. “Nobody’s ambition is worth the blood of any Nigerian. Pray for God to give us that wisdom and mind to make sure we conduct ourselves in a way that will not set the country ablaze because of our own personal ambitions. “There are so many good Nigerians that can hold the offices we are occupying or aspiring to occupy. It is by God’s plan that we are here in positions of authority. “None of us should begin to think that he is the best person to occupy any public office. There are a thousands and one Nigerians that are more qualified than those aspiring to occupy offices. “The development of Nigeria is what all of us want. If every aspirant has the mind to develop the people, then you do not need to kill or maim people to get there. “You do not need to kill the people you want to develop in order to get to the office you want except if you are aspiring for that office for a different reason.” Earlier in his welcome address, the President of CAC Worldwide, Pastor Abraham Akinosun, had said that God had promised to make Nigeria a great nation. Akinosun’s message was read by the Chairman of the church’s Federal Capital City Zonal Headquarters, Pastor Michael Olatunde. He regretted that despite God’s promises to the nation, the devil had also appointed some people to truncate Nigeria’s progress. He said such people and their activities were manifesting in various ways. The clergyman said the position of such people who had vowed to make the nation ungovernable was not strange. He recalled that Jesus Christ, Nehemiah and Ezekiel among other Biblical characters also faced stiff opposition from their people. He urged Jonathan not to be distracted but to remain focused on rebuilding the country. Jonathan was accompanied to the service by his mother, Eunice; his Chief of Staff, Jones Arogbofa; his Chief Personal Physician, Dr. Fortune Fiberesima; and the Special Adviser on Media and Publicity, Dr. Reuben Abati, among other top government officials. Special prayers were made for the President, the country and the success of the forthcoming elections during the service held under tight security. Gifts were also presented to the President by the church authorities. http://www.punchng.com/news/nigerias-problems-increasing-jonathan/ |
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