Stupidquestions:
While on the whole issue we still diplomatically tried to find a nonexistent common-ground, for my poise and carefree disposition anyway, just to continue our usual camaraderie and friendly banter. However the experience had already etched its mark on where I would place him in the heirrarcchy of friendship and how I will forever relate with him.

Not that I was naive or have a huge expectation of people in general, I was only disappointed because my benefit of doubt about a long time friend was abruptly shattered. To be frank though, in my usual way of quickly letting go or excusing people's misdemeanor because I fancy myself as one who understands human behavior and the whys of their motives, I sort of process the whole encounter like some trifles.

After he dropped me off and pulled off, I immediately, instinctly wanted to open the car and dash home, cos obviously the time was gone at 10pm, he drew me back into the car and joked about why I was rushing home without sitting back to exchange trivial gist. We truly do enjoy each other's company and yappings the very occasional time we had met after our separation in secondary school. So, we gisted for another 20 mins on random stuff, giggled and finally separated at last.
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I honestly have relegated the whole encounter buried somewhere else deep within my cortex, even forgetten it I had thought, until i woke up around 4am and left surprised the whole earlier friction was creeping back to the surface to torment my sensibility.

In that thoughtfully ruffled state the best way to process this thought was to write on the incident pestering my emotions in a way of refining and dealing with the flashbacks.

I began to write. I had written way beyond but all of a sudden a mistyping and mis-highlighting of the whole text got me delete it mistakenly. I was deflated. I gave up. Maybe it was not meant to be written. Even while writing I was thinking I might send the friend the piece so he could read and be able to process his own failings. I still couldn't get back to start all over again.

The flashback won't stop. I had to painfully drag myself to start all over and I'm writing from a completely different style and angle which I consider poorer than the deleted attempt. The need to process my thought and have some closure got the better part of me.

As it wasn't easy to begin all over, beforehand, I had tried to chat a good friend if I could just lazily narrate the incident so as to discuss and analyse in my way of achieving closure. He's probably still sleeping or busy; we are on different timezone as he's presently in Turkey.

He's one of the emotionally mature friend I have, full of tact, consideration and human understandings. We share a number of values and worldview, I think it had been so since our University days. And we are still keeping up. I respect him for that and happy he's doing well for himself in his endeavors.

Since I couldn't strike a conversation, I will really have to drag myself to start all over. This time though I jettisoned the idea of typing on the note app that came with my phone. Since it failed me and couldn't help retrieve the deleted piece, I opt for a note that automatically saves its typed content almost every 2 secs at interval, it's called 'Standard Notes', an open source writing app with privacy and security frame work much more better than most third party app that compromises one's data and user privacy.

With this typing precaution that saves itself automatically, I should start.

To be continued..........make una no vex o
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How una see this preamble? Should I continue or just forget about it.
It's an incident that happened y'day though.


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You are a bit grandiloquent, and the preamble is fraught with extraneous words. You need to refine it.

ZirdoRoray:


What type of meticulousness are we talking about? The fact that rapists should be more calculative and bring in more men when he is coming the act? Or he should make sure she is properly drugged and check if such condom is intact before committing the act?
I don't see any need for such nonsense invention accept capitalism. People want to sell and make profit. It is not every type of invention that is needed. Why didn't they come up with smarter types of invention? What if rapist now decide to use a prosthetic? Of what use will that vagina with teeth be?

Rapists don't just commit their act, they premeditate on it and plan before the act. They should be kept away before such incidents can take place.

And you think your pepper spray is wholly effective?

Your current attitude towards him vmcan beat be used to decide this message. If you have been somehow towards lately, it is just a reminder that you shouldn't waste his time, and let him know when you no longer interested

ZirdoRoray:


Funny enough he has already penetrated her, so she already raped, the only thing is that the condom clip his penis. That means he already had access to her vagina. What of the second man in a gang rape? Won't he remove it and proceed with the act?

Some sort of defence, I said. If you don't get that, good bye, and good riddance!

Elonmusk1:
a random girl could wear that to have consensual sex,just to blackmail an innocent man.

You are right. However, in case of consensual sex, what would make one to be so hasty as to not see or rule out the possibility of that?
Let's say you are informed of the existence of this condom, you should then be meticulous when you are about to have sex. Why the rush if not a rape?

ZirdoRoray:


In what way? What if it is a gang-rape? A device that can keep one or more a away is better, teargas, pepper sprays, tasers, 3D guns with rubber bullets are more effective.
I hope you're not a simp that want to quickly side with women in instead if looking at it objectively.

The way you people rant about simping is pretty astonishing what's simping or siding with women in this issue?
Is it that you lack comprehensive skills or what? I clearly said some sort of defence. What does that tell you. Your teargas and whatnots might no be accessible or even portable in every situation. A combined use of pepper spray and this condom may be totally effective.

olayinks007:


In fact u just said what I have in mind bro
What if the stupid rapist is forcing his way behind then that stuff is a waste. Is Better to have something that can keep rapist at a distance. Use of pepper spray, tasers or even teaching ladies self defence. It is well sha

Tasers and pepper spray are not exclusionary of other people. They can also be used against people who are not malignant or have intent to rape. But that condom , once you were trapped in it everyone would know you were about to have non-consensual sex.

ZirdoRoray:
What of the fact, he can damage other parts of her body if this happens. Will they also teach the ladies self-defense? The better strategy is to give ladies things like teargas, pepper spray, and tasers. This condom is a joke, rapists will now wise up. If he has access to that place already even if he hasn't penetrated because of that kind of condom, you are already raped. Better to have something that can keep him at a distance.

If a rapist should back out because of this condom, the victim would legit have a sense of triumph. Albeit, in a relaxed and less tensed situation, the condom can be removed; but I think this condom offers some sort of defence.

merits:

And you enter the come close mouth

I'll examine the building quite well to make sure it's made of bricks
Any foul play, I'm out!

The possibility is pretty higher in this generation. No regards for marital loyalty. Everywhere is just scatter.

What's there. It's a house after all.
Although I'll be sceptical at first

Aify3000:
What diet should i eat,and besides i do masturbate a lot

Masturbatiom will just destroy that thing of yours. You had better quit it. You even say a lot!

A man should be able to take care of a woman who is not a feminist
However, that shouine a basis for a break-up. It makes you seem as if you were in a relationship because of financial benefits.

Wouldn't the lady in question do her hair, buy creams and enjoy herself if she had no boyfriend?

SugarGirl44:


Wailing is better than terrorism.

You sef no say u be wailer. Ne absobed in perpetual wailing till thy kingdom comes.

SugarGirl44:


Terrorist

; Wailer

SugarGirl44:


Guess what? I'm not pained.
Na una dey cry and k!ll because of God.
Mumu boy.

Bloody fool

SugarGirl44:


Again thunder fire you and your prophet that you're fighting for, including the useless parents that gave birth to a loser.

So now go and bring your stones and matches.
Bloody terrorist.

And sanponno kill you and re-kill your human god jesus. You idiot born of a loser father and Olosho mother.

So now go and bring your jesus to come and fight for you. Bloody mortal who couldnt fight for himself on the cross and wanted to save the world

donaldking10:
even education & years spent in law school still didn't give these ones sense.
Muslims are cursed.

Awon ara Ile yin are caused

LifestyleTonite:
Below are screenshot from the WhatsApp status of MURIC Sokoto chairman, Barrister Muhammad Mansur Aliyu.

See the caption he added.

Mind you, I have his number.

If they are the killer, the law is not on their side. They should be killed too.

TMSMedia:


https://igberetvnews.com/1420141/blasphemy-pastor-yinka-yusuf-faults-president-buhari-referring-jesus-prophet-video/

;Dthat one no be blasphemy

SugarGirl44:


Criminal kee you.
But your bandits and politicians that you pamper are not criminals right?

E no go better for you and any prophet that asks you to do human sacrifice for him.
Ogun go fire all of una.

Do you know how many thousands of people have insulted Muhamed since she was killed?

So wetin una gain?
Go ahead and kill all those people na.

Oponu arindin eranko inu igbo.

Thunder fire your mother and everyone who had hands in begetting you rubbish of a human being. Are politician who rob us of our resources muslims alone? While haven't you subjected the christian among them to what you think is the appropriate judgement?

If she truly did what she was accused of, then she's a criminal. If you think otherwise, go fight with your lawmakers....werey afofungbemu

gbengu:
Smh, who you be tolerant? Christian's or moslems?

Thank God for my Yoruba moslems but we still get some terrible ones too.

All the atrocities Muslim and their terrorists are committing against Christians in the cannot be tolerated by them. That's why Israe do not give a Bleep or breathing space for you guys in the middle east because of their past experiences with you guys after 3 days war and 7 days war that involve all the Muslim nations in the middle east against one tiny newly established country called Israel. Palestinians are suffering the past deed from all you all.

Now back to you. It's only an idol or gods made out of stone or wood who have hand and mouth but can not use them to defend himself.

Why must I fight for Jesus or my God when you abuse him? Why will you abuse my father if I didn't do anything that will bring shame or abuse to him. Even if at all, does that means that my father send me to kill you on his behalf. Think bro, think before you type here.

Thay lady, if she is your daughter, sister or girlfriend or your mother, you would allow her to be killed?

I'm saying this on RECORD, the murder cases and homicide cases that will be open for your so called Mohammed will be beyond imagination.

It's only something that is not real that use force and everything to stay relevant.

Until Christian's enact the LAW OF MOSES that says an EYE FOR AN EYE before you people will understand your boundary. Only rituallits and unbelievers kills for their stupid gods and prophet who is so ashamed or very lazy to fight for himself.

Jesus was abused, beaten, disgraced even by his own people and foreign people yet while in the pain, he asked for mercy because they don't know what they've done.

Can Mohammed endure that, the whole earth will be still be at war till now.

Religion of peace and of God that has killed many children of the same God they love. Religion that has killed more than 1st world war and 2nd world war put together in history of mankind.

A religion that has killed more than what Ak47 can not achieved.

Congratulations for killing her. Hope your Mohammed is very happy and dancing in his grave now.

Ignorance and exposure is a plague deadly than the Gun itself.

Peace

Whether you would kill or not when someone insulted your father is not a concern, but the fact that you would frown at it is enough to tell you that blasphemy against the Prophet of religion which millions of people adhere to should be a crime.

Christians do not need to be harmed before they let out their disgusting intolerance. In a random conversation about family, they won't hesitate to tell you as a Muslim that polygamy is bad. One even said polygamy is the same as adultery

Killing her is a total rubbish just as her supposed blasphemous statement is.

HardMirror:
I am an atheist bro. I dont believe in any god

Atheists are even better than these christians that won't stop putting mouth in other people religious matter. At least, atheists are somewhat tolerant.

gbengu:
Are you kidding me. And so?

Who is Mohammad that can't fight for himself in the grave he is.

A lot of abuse and different derogatory from Muslim and others to Jesus. Who even block an eye? The highest a real Christian will tell you. God forgive you and he moves on.

Go and read history and the beginning of Islam you'll know that it's there teaching to kill for a stupid God would is always afraid to defend itself.


I'm wandering the amount of murder cases the hist if heaven will opened for Mohammed at the judgement day.

The real Arabs that owns the religion are more civilised, advanced and even teach against that and your stupidly spilling rubbish that they warned her.

Even at that, she said all these religion nonsense in the group, not the prophet. Her last word was: What will you all gain from this? Now I hope your Allah and Mohammed is dancing and happy now.

Foolish talk.

For sure, you wouldn't fight if somebody insulted your jesus, but I'm sure if someone insulted your father to your face, you would fight. Is it that you don't hold jesus in high esteem or you have no beleif in him sef.

You can't be insulting the Prophet of a religion millions of people are adherent of, and say it's nothing. It's not good. You christian should be tolerant ejor.

SugarGirl44:


Appropriate authority kee you dia!!!
Are we living in Iran or Iraq??
What's going to be the end result if she was even taken to any useless authority? Isn't it the same killing?
Ko ni da fun gbogbo yin.
Is she a criminal that should be taken to a court or what nonsense are you vomiting?

Is Muhamed not a human being like the rest of us, so what has she said about him to warrant even a slap, much less death?

No need even arguing with beasts like you, separation is the only way forward.

Your ignorance won't let you know that blasphemy, even in the south, is a criminal offence. If she did insult the Prophet of Islam, she's a criminal.
They shouldn't have killed her tho.

Light78:



You people are the same. Stop excluding yourself. I know you are a to run a man.

How many times are we going to tell you idiot human god worshipper that they don't represent Islam?

HardMirror:
is that what jesus thought you? So you cannot trust god again to fight for you. Is your god handicapped?
Let us chill and allow god to fight for himself please

That's even if you have God to fight for you. God, my ass.

rowland545:
yes u can....230 is d bench mark for a good score

Which university would admit a candidate into it's faculty of law with 230? 260 sef, nah grace.

You had better go for what you like lest you feel bad whenever you see students in their black and white on campus. I'm a law student myself, and I'm unsure how bad I would have felt if I was not allowed to study law. Try to let your parents reason with you. Wish you the best.

LegalWolf:


Let me clarify, there is Federal High Court and there is High Court of the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja (FCT High Court). There is just one federal high court in Nigeria but it has “branches” in every state of the country. However, the FCT High Court is the equivalent of State High Court in Abuja. Hope this is helpful.

I get it now....thanks.

Cmeo:
The question is can a federal institution be cheated to state high court? I guess the answer is NO. The injuction may not be well binding on the DSS. The lawyers should know better.

Well, according to legalwolf who is a lawyer, a state high court can pass a judgment against a federal institution and even the presidency if the issue of human rights is concerned just as we have it here.

LegalWolf:


Yes they can. if it is a Fundamental Human rights action (which I suspect it is in this case), state’s high court can restrict even the presidency. This is without prejudice to other instances where State High Court can restrict FG agencies.

I hope I’ve clarified, brother?

Yes, you have Barrister.
But pls one more question. Is there exists any superiority between a State High Court and The Federal High Court, Abuja. just because the latter is situated at the FCT?