Please house I need advice..My last interview did not go so well ,it was in 2015 .The moment the vo asked how I got my PR for Spain and I replied that It was tru marriage ..it sent a very bad signal ..and I really do not know why ..I most certainly think she thought I was involved in marriage fraud ,which is not the case at all .I really want to know if I should just allow my wife and kids apply first and not spoil their chances of travelling to the US because of me ,or just apply with them again and proof my case.

I went to Spain to study , fell in love and married and it didn't work out . I m really confused ,please help .

K

Firstly , apart from going to Church ...Do u two ever pray as a Family? Do you still do those things that made her fall in love with you ? Do you make her feel that your Mum comes first before her ? Do you think she is being too selfish or she is just lazy and won't change as you have said ? Do you think you are sincerely making sure your marriage works? Do you know that divorce is serious business especially when there are children or a child involved ? Are u sure you are not too temperamental and she is also trying to have a voice? Do you think she feels cheated and only wants to get solace from Family,Friends and neighbours ? Don't you think 3rd party intervention (Family and friends ) could be a reason for your troubles ? Do you think there is nothing you can do at all to save your home ? Your wife ? Your Son and yourself ...... Answer this questions sincerely ....make out time to see the positive side of your wife ...show her love even when she shows you hate , tell her sweet tins when she expects nagging and encourage her/assist her to start a business or something to assist d house...don't tik marring anoder wife is d best solution ..no one is ever free from vices ...change your mindset ...and after all this if you are still sure you married d devil ...divorce her