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Foreign Affairs / Re: Iranian Warship Alborz Enters The Red Sea by Falconsaint(m): 8:52pm On Jan 01
Family / Re: How true about this in Marriage ( See Photo) by Falconsaint(m): 4:10pm On Dec 30, 2023
adesegun121:
Men dey suffer women no know oo grin grin
When you marry wetin your power no fit carry
Family / Re: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. Is It Worth It? by Falconsaint(m): 4:04pm On Dec 30, 2023
FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?
Chai until the girl chok stick before you run like Usain Bolt guy road no dey there oo.
Romance / Re: I Will Never Near Any Female Below 27 Again by Falconsaint(m): 3:04pm On Jun 27, 2022
Badboibipo:
If you’re in your 30s as a man please avoid anyone below the age I just described. They are still in their “I am the wicked, I am the nicki Minaj bad bitch” phase in life. They have zero brain most times and they only want to wear big polo and dance “mofejoko” on TikTok while collecting daily, weekly salary from you for giving you the privilege of dating the “queeen nicki Barbie”.

If you are bored of just empty sexxxx and want anything genuine and real, search for older women if they even have a kid out of wedlock even better. Those ones are very mature, understanding and down to earth most times. They have finished their “nicki Minaj bad bitch Barbie” phase and are genuinely humbled with their age and are ready if they see you’re hardworking and serious.

Those young ones are just starting life and have no real experience yet, they are extremely dramatic and attention seeking while having the mentality that the world revolves around their arse and boobs and they feel entitled to every mans attention and adoration.

If you’re young as a woman don’t even bother to like me please , because I will not only see you as a toddler I will even buy you cracker biscuits and Fanta to make you go play in the rain as the baby that you are.

Mature women don’t hide their feelings or play too much games, they go straight to the point.
Who this hot pepper soup breakfast
Romance / Re: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Falconsaint(m): 2:33pm On Jun 27, 2022
Vinnie2000:

Today in Church, I Just saw one of my Ex Babe who just got married.
She was like 'Why did you NOT show up@my Wedding? She seemed seriously angry! sad

Another of my Pretty Ex, before her Wedding Day was constantly reminding me of the D day.
Even on her Traditional marriage day, i still got a text from her 'Hope you will come Tomorrow'? shocked sad

Guys dont want their Exes to attend their weddings!
So why do Ladies want them?

*Could it be they still love the Guy?
*Or could it be they want to show off to the Guy that they have Moved to Bigger things?
*Could it be they just want his presence?

WHY WOULD A LADY INVITE HER EX TO HER WEDDING?
Mind you nah Ex boyfriend wey Sabi spend them dey call to come ooo no be Sapa ex
Politics / Re: With Okowa As Atiku's Running Mate, Will PDP Win The Presidential Election? by Falconsaint(m): 5:03pm On Jun 16, 2022
Nnamnugochi:
H.E. Atiku has lost it already. He jettisoned the committee's report to do his bidding showing how he will choose to work without input from others especially other arms of government.

H.E. Okowa betrayed other southern governors to become VP. He will also be betrayed. Rivers will vote PDP as governor but will split their votes for APC and Labour Party for the presidential seat.

The Southern governors' forum declaration will stand. To overcome this, he would had been picked H.E. Wike as VP. Gov Wike has been the backbone of PDP supporting all court cases and also stoutly opposing the federal government.

He will be silent now and concentrate on how to win his home state for governor.
Come 2023 no going back
Politics / Re: With Okowa As Atiku's Running Mate, Will PDP Win The Presidential Election? by Falconsaint(m): 5:02pm On Jun 16, 2022
Nnamnugochi:
H.E. Atiku has lost it already. He jettisoned the committee's report to do his bidding showing how he will choose to work without input from others especially other arms of government.

H.E. Okowa betrayed other southern governors to become VP. He will also be betrayed. Rivers will vote PDP as governor but will split their votes for APC and Labour Party for the presidential seat.

The Southern governors' forum declaration will stand. To overcome this, he would had been picked H.E. Wike as VP. Gov Wike has been the backbone of PDP supporting all court cases and also stoutly opposing the federal government.

He will be silent now and concentrate on how to win his home state for governor.
Let them continue we all know where our votes lies
Education / Re: See Number 47 And 48 Of This Mock Examination Question In Cross River State by Falconsaint(m): 6:59pm On Jun 15, 2022
Benblaq:
Truth hurts. We have been reduced to a mess.

47: One of these South-South states has imaginary super high way and deep sea port

A) Cross River State
B) Rivers State
C) Akwa Ibom State
D) Delta State

48: ----- country has been accused of being world poverty basket and having of a ghost President by some of her citizens.

A) Togo
B) Cameroon
C) Nigeria
D) South Africa
No be their fault I no blame them but 2023 things must change
Phones / Re: Twitter, Others Must Delete Porn Posts Within 24 Hours – FG by Falconsaint(m): 6:57pm On Jun 15, 2022
Politics / Re: VP Slot: PDP Dismisses Report Of Wike's Selection As Atiku's Running Mate by Falconsaint(m): 6:50pm On Jun 15, 2022
Armaggedon:
If Atiku picks wike as vp, ill know he didn't consult properly.
Wike is strong, but he is a strong scatterer not a strong gatherer. He is a distabilizer not a mobilizer. He is a fighter not a peace maker.

most importantly, he is incredibly unstable, and that makes a dangerous personality.
Na wa you don finish this man
Celebrities / Re: Naira Marley Performs In Anambra, Excites Crowd (Pictures) by Falconsaint(m): 11:44pm On Jan 03, 2020
[quote author=iSlayer post=85473367]All Marlians are criminals or potential criminals. Check it. [/quote
please take it easy you never can tell who is thier member inorder to avoid had I known
Romance / Re: What Is The Best Way To End An Argument With Your Partner? by Falconsaint(m): 4:58pm On Dec 31, 2019
visijo:
Women have this hidden talent called, 'Lemme annoy him today "

Brothers take note �
yesss oooo infact one cold beer for you

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Family / Re: My Wife's Wahala. Goes Through My Phone Every 3 Days by Falconsaint(m): 12:09pm On Dec 31, 2019

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala
Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala
Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala
my man marriage is a slow and steady process so just take it easy
Romance / Re: Bruised Penis After Sex by Falconsaint(m): 9:01pm On Dec 30, 2019
Allsingles:


The cause of it is because she didn't shave her VG.
So the hairs is responsible for the bruise.
Let her shave the hair and you guys will enjoy it Weller.
nice tell am

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