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Jobs/Vacancies / A Christian Organization Needs A Private Driver by Familyfirst: 9:49am On Jan 02, 2023
Good day everyone
a christian organization needs a Private driver, - He must be a christian, God-fearing, and must be leaving around Ojodu, Fagba, Akute, Alagbole, Ishaga, Omole, and its environment.
Kindly share to all platforms you may be helping a family
If you are interested please call 08068312004
Thank you
Jobs/Vacancies / A Christian Organization Needs A Private Driver, by Familyfirst: 2:00pm On Dec 07, 2022
Good day everyone
A Christian organization needs a Private driver, - He must be a Christian, God-fearing, and must be leaving around Ojodu, Fagba, Akute, Alagbole, Ishaga, Omole, and its environment.
Kindly share to all platforms you may be helping a family
If you are interested please call 08068312004
Thank you
Webmasters / Urgent Vacancy by Familyfirst: 12:26pm On Dec 07, 2022
URGENT VACANCY
A reputable media company based in

Ikeja Lagos is seeking a qualified candidate for a Content creator and social media manager

He must have a BSc/HND in any discipline

Excellent command of English language is a must

Candidate must be very creative and self-driven

If you are a goal-getter and fit into this, kindly send your CV to picemployment@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Urgent Vacancy - by Familyfirst: 12:19pm On Dec 07, 2022
URGENT VACANCY
A reputable media company based in

Ikeja Lagos is seeking a qualified candidate for a Content creator and social media manager

He must have a BSc/HND in any discipline

Excellent command of English language is a must

Candidate must be very creative and self-driven

If you are a goal-getter and fit into this, kindly send your CV to picemployment@gmail.com
Family / Do This One Thing Today And Enjoy Total Peace In Your Marriage by Familyfirst: 12:27pm On Nov 11, 2022
DO THIS ONE THING TODAY AND ENJOY TOTAL PEACE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
.
Conflict is a normal part of marriage. No matter how much you and your spouse love each other, you won't see eye-to-eye on everything.
But the way you and your spouse handle your disagreements plays a big role in whether you'll stay together for the long haul.
There’s always room for reconciliation when things go wrong. It takes maturity, time, and effort to work through issues

IF YOU WANT A STRONGER, BETTER, SWEETER, MARRIAGE AND YOU DO NOT WANT TO FIGHT AGAIN IN YOUR MARRIAGE!
IF YOU TRULY WANT TO PUT AN END TO ALL CONFLICTS AND FIGHTS IN YOUR MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP, THIS IS WHAT TO DO
Please get this set of 15 training videos to groom you and your spouse so that you can have BETTER,
STRONGER &
SWEETER MARRIAGE.
VIDEO 1 HANDLING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE
VIDEO 2 EXPOSING 7 CRISIS CENTERS
VIDEO 3 CAUSES OF CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE
VIDEO 4 CLASSIFICATION OF CAUSES OF CONFLICT
VIDEO 5 HOW TO PREVENT CONFLICT IN YOUR MARRIAGE
VIDEO 6 CONFLICT ESCALATOR LEVELS
VIDEO 7 BETTER WAYS TO HANDLE CONFLICT
VIDEO 8 EFFECTS OF CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE
VIDEO 9 21 WRONG THINGS PEOPLE DO DURING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE
VIDEO 10 12 WRONG WAYS TO HANDLE CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE
VIDEO 11 EASY WAY TO STOP CONFLICT IN YOUR MARRIAGE
VIDEO 12 CONFLICT OUTLOOK IN MARRIAGE
VIDEO 13 HANDLING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE LIKE WISE PEOPLE
VIDEO 14 HOW TO PUT CONFLICT TO AN END IN MARRIAGE
VIDEO 15 26 KEYS TO BRING PEACE TO YOUR HOME

Visit the link below https:///conflictmgt now and start the journey to turn your marriage around forever
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It will become N20,000 after 24 hours. Then N40,000 after 48 hours.

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Family / Do This Now! Make Your Marriage Stronger, Better, And Sweeter In 45 Days. by Familyfirst: 11:36am On Nov 08, 2022
Do this now! Make your marriage stronger, better, and sweeter in 45 days.

It is free!!

Hi All,

Yes, Christmas truly came early for you, let's celebrate it together with a better, more romantic, intimate, stronger sweeter, and more sexy Marriage for you and your Spouse.

I'm Bisi Adewale, your Family Coach, and a best-selling Author. I have committed myself to helping you build and rebuild your Marriage before the new year.

I don’t want your Marriage to remain the same as you enter into the new year, all you need is to cooperate with me and let us give your relationship a new lease on life.

So join us for FREE90 COURSES IN 45 DAYS …. END-OF-THE-YEAR MARRIAGE UPGRADE TRAINING SCHOOL WITH BISI AND YOMI ADEWALE. (Your Marriage Coaches and Authors of more than 120 Books on Marriage and Family life)

— Date: 17th of November to 31st December

— Cost: FREE

— Duration: 45 Days

— Number of delivery: 90 emails with either Short Videos, Audio, or texts.

— Time of delivery: 6 am WAT and 6 pm WAT daily

— Mode of delivery: Email, Video, Audio, text

Course contents:

— Tantalizing sex in marriage

— Dating in marriage

— Love in marriage

— Romance in marriage

— Togetherness in marriage

— Money management in Marriage

— Conflict management in Marriage

— God and your Marriage,

— Good Marriage Manners

— Health Management,

— Effective Communication

— Commitment in Marriage

— Work-life balance

— Mutual trust in Marriage

— Childlike playfulness

— Adjustment in Marriage

— Spousal Cherishing

— Mind Management and Marriage

— In-Laws Management

— Roles And Responsibilities and lots more.

To be part of this FREE end-of-year training, kindly submit your email by visiting https://bisiadewale.substack.com/

WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR OTHERS?

The least you can do is post this to all your contacts.

— Post this message on WhatsApp, Telegram, Facebook, Twitter, IG, LinkedIn, etc

— Send it to your Friends all over the world through email.

PLEASE HELP OTHERS IN YOUR LIFE TO BUILD THEIR MARRIAGES. SPREAD THE GOOD NEWS BY SENDING THIS MESSAGE EVERYWHERE SEVERALLY BEFORE the 17th of NOVEMBER 2022.

Click this link to register now:

https://bisiadewale.substack.com/

Romance / DNA Is Not The Issue; Cocoku Is The Answer by Familyfirst: 8:27pm On Jan 05, 2021
— Bisi Adewale
Someone asked me that is it good for a man to ask for a DNA confirmation of his Children.
That is a big question—a very Big one.
Before a Man can ask for DNA (which someone calls DADDY NEED ASSURANCE), Something is wrong in that marriage.
DNA is not the issue,
Love is
Trust us
Fear is
Foundation is
Conflict is
Rumour is
You see, if you don’t build trust in your marriage, there will be many unnecessary battles you will be fighting. If trust is lost in marriage, everything is lost.
Do everything to build trust in your marriage; trustworthiness is a big asset in a Marriage and any other relationship for that matter.
If your Husband demands DNA, go ahead and do it if you are sure of yourself; maybe that will be the foundation of trust-building if it has been lost.
MEN LEARN FROM COCOKU BIRD
Click here to read more https:///2KUI8Ix

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Business / Easy Ways To Make Money Online In A Time Like This by Familyfirst: 6:03pm On May 24, 2020
ONLINE BUSINESS ACADEMY ( O.B.A)

This Academy is a grooming centre for People who desire to change their lives by making Money online not relying on 8/5 Jobs.

It is the brain Child of Bisi and Yomi Adewale the Founders of

Familabooks.com (Multi-Author ebook platform)

Polinstitute.com (Online training School)

DailyFamilyng.com (Online news site)

Bisiadewale.com(blog site)

They’ve Been doing business online, making Money in the Process in the last 10 Years

ACADEMY DETAILS

Date: 29th-31st May, 2020

Venue: ZOOM.

Investment: 12,000 Naira

EARLY BIRD PAYMENT
Pay N6000 before 6pm on 26th of May 2020

WHERE TO PAY

LIVING HOME VENTURES

1013530696

Zenith Bank

After payment send evidence of payment, name, email address to familybooster@yahoo.com and 08068312004

FACILITATORS:

Yomi Bisi-Adewale FCA ( Business Consultant)

Philip Wambugu (Email marketing expert from Kenya)

Ayowole-Obi Ayodele (Twitter expert)

Samuel Asor (Website developer)

Femi Duduyemi (Life Coach)

Sam Salau(Amazon Expert)

Kenny Olagbenjo(Online Logistic expert)

Inumidun Olufemi(Video animator and Graphic Artist)

The academy will teach you the following:

27 LUCRATIVE BUSINESSES YOU CAN DO ONLINE
ANCIENT SECRETS OF WHY SOME PEOPLE ARE POOR AND SOME ARE VERY RICH(it’s not what you think)
HOW TO MAKE A FULL TIME INCOME ONLINE
MAKING MONEY ON AMAZON
HOW TO GROW AND MAKE MONEY THROUGH TWITTER
HOW TO MAKE MONEY THROUGH VIDEO ANIMATION
HOW TO RUN A SUCCESSFUL WEBINAR BUSINESS
HOW TO RUN A SUCCESSFUL ONLINE LOGISTICS BUSINESS
HOW TO TURN YOUR WEBSITE TO A MONEY MAKING MACHINE
21 THINGS THAT CAN NOT MAKE YOU RICH
21 THINGS THAT CAN MAKE YOU RICH
7 STEPS TO ONLINE BUSINESS SUCCESS
COMMUNITY BUILDING FOR BUSINESS SUCCESS
MAKE MONEY THROUGH EBOOKS
DO BUSINESS NOT TRADE

You can’t just afford not to change your pocket look

Family / 12 Ancient Wisdom For A Great Marriage by Familyfirst: 11:43pm On May 21, 2020
12 ANCIENT WISDOM FOR A GREAT MARRIAGE

By Bisi Adewale



Marriage is almost as old as the universe, is has so many records of both failures and success. If you apply Godly wisdom you get great marriage out of it. There is no magic wand that makes marriage Work, no not one. All you need is wisdom. Below, I will be showing you 12 ancient wisdom that made marriages of other people great. If you can abide by them, then you will get a great result in your marriage.



1) CHOOSE LOVE: Love is a choice, so choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is kindness; Love is a commitment, not an emotion, not just a feeling.



2) PHONE AFFAIRS: People honor girlfriends or boyfriends calls, but immediately after weeding they do ignore their spouses' call. This is bad; so as a rule always answer the phone when your husband/wife is calling



3) PHONE HOLIDAY: Never allow the phone to strangulate your marriage, many l can wait, many will call back, you can also call back later, so as much as possible, try to keep your phone off when you’re together with your spouse.



4) TIME CURRENCY: Make time together with a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage. There are no shortcuts. Building a strong marriage takes time.



5) SUPPORT SYSTEM: Your friends will impact your marriage, so choose your friends wisely. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and



6) WRONG PEOPLE: Remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.



7) LAUGHTER TREATMENT: Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Feel free to laugh together, laugh at your jokes and your mistakes instead of fighting about it



cool MOMENT OF JOY: Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh together.



9) PRESS THE JOY BUTTON: Get to know that thing that makes your spouse so happy, its call Joy button, everybody has it, what is your spouse joy button, find, press it often and keep the marriage lively and your spouse happy.



10) AVOID THE RED BUTTON: Red button are those things that easily annoy your spouse, and make your marriage difficult. Know how to handle this wisely and avoid conflict that hurts marriage deeply.



11) NOT OLYMPIC BUT PARTNERSHIP: In every argument, remember that there won’t be a “winner” and a “loser.” You are partners in everything so you’ll either win together or lose together. Work together to find a solution.



12) MAKE SEX HAPPEN: Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than sex to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!



For more on marriage and parenting

Follow me on Twitter and Instagram @bisiadewale, @yomibisi

Visit my blog: bisiadewale.com
Programming / URGENT VACANCIES - Need Of Digital Solutions ... by Familyfirst: 1:22pm On Dec 15, 2019
URGENT VACANCIES

Our Client is a Lagos based digital solutions and retail ebook and AudioBooks store Company is in urgent need of the following:




Job Title: Chief Operating Officer (COO)

Job Purpose
The Chief Operating Officer (COO) focuses on all things related to the author and reader experience. The COO is responsible for driving the best book selling and book buying experience, operations, finance, legal and compliance, stock management, service and maintenance, safety and security, and customer support.


Key Responsibilities

Build and lead a cross-functional team. will be defining hiring needs and leading the hiring process for new team members across operations, finance, legal and compliance, and customer support. At the same time, you will be managing analysts and a larger team of Staff, sellers and bookstores.
Create & Optimize World-class Framework and Process. We are creating and will be constantly optimizing our processes for this operation, and for the structures and systems that will emerge in future.
Scale the business: Will be seeking solutions that scale and also oversee the growth of the business - processes and projects will directly contribute to the company's growth.
Analyze Data. Will create, collect and incorporate data about operations to constantly monitor performance and find opportunities to improve. Will build the analytical frameworks and operational models to enable constant improvement.
Combine attention to detail with swift execution. Help the company to overcome the challenge of doing things quickly, and doing them well.
Collaborate. Operations will keep it all together while collaborating with other teams.
Problem Solve. Tackle obstacles, barriers, problems, and snags that occur daily effectively and solve them as fast as possible. Able to anticipate systemic problems and nip them in the bud.
Create an inclusive, and safe work space. Help to create and entrench a culture of hard-work, challenge, creative and fun in the workplace. Above all else, ensure the safety of operations team, and others.


Key Requirements

5-10 years of analytical, operational and/or management consulting experience
Knowledge of online Marketing, Websites and Mobile app.
Basic knowledge of Social Media marketing.
Good spoken English and presentations
Good Human relations and coordination
Data driven decision making mentality and sound business judgment through strong analytical thinking
Experience working closely and communicating effectively with diverse set of stakeholders in an ever-changing, rapid growth environment with tight deadlines
Ability to move fast combined with a culture of deploying the most capital efficient approach in solving problems



****



Job Title: Website manager

Job Purpose
The web developer will help our organization to manage the website. He/she will oversee the functionality of the website, evaluate and manage website performance, facilitate hosting, server and content management.

Key Responsibilities

Generate and update website content which include products, content, advertisements and promotions in addition to content management
Plan, define and implement website changes and functional improvements
Maintain and continuously update the online marketing plan for the website
Monitor key performance indicators on the website and develop plans to improve them
Regular updates of e-commerce site with new products and ensure periodic update of quantities.
Coordinate online promotions to increase sales.
Be in charge of website maintenance and troubleshooting.
Invoice generation and follow-up orders from creation to delivery as well as confirmation of product availability.
Continuous improvement of customer satisfaction
Investigate and report any operational/technical issues arising
Scope and documentation ongoing website functional projects /improvements
Test and deploy functional projects /improvements
Evaluate approaches & strategies to improve website sales conversions & customer engagement.
Develop application programming interfaces (APIs) to support mobile functionality and Applications.


Key Requirements

Computer science background
Minimum of 4 years experience
Proficiency with web and mobile technologies
An ability to work well with others and think clearly under deadlines.
Excellent written and verbal communication skills
Strong organizational skills and attention to detail.
A basic knowledge of HTML5, CSS3 and JavaScript
Excellent Web User Interface Design
Substantial knowledge of Asp Net Core 2.x.
Must have used Visual Studio 2015 (or newer) extensively.
Basic knowledge of SOM/SEO

****



Job Title: Digital Marketers

Job Purpose
The Digital Marketer will focus on all online marketing and brand management. He/She is responsible for maintaining the business’ social media presence and activities in digital space that will end up as conversions and revenue.


Key Responsibilities

Plan and execute all digital marketing, including SEO/SEM, marketing database, email, social media and display advertising campaigns
Design, build and maintain the company's social media presence
Measure and report performance of all digital marketing campaigns, and assess against goals ROI and KPIs.
Identify trends and insights, and optimize spend and performance based on the insights
Brainstorm new and creative growth strategies.
Plan, execute, and measure experiments and conversion tests
Collaborate with internal teams to create landing pages and optimize user experience.
Utilize strong analytical ability to evaluate end-to-end customer experience across multiple channels and customer touch points
Collaborate with clients, other agencies and vendor partners.
Evaluate emerging technologies. Provide thought leadership and perspective for adoption where appropriate.


Key Requirements

Certification in digital marketing
Proven working experience, 2-3 years in digital marketing
Demonstrable experience leading and managing SEO/SEM, marketing database, email, social media and/or display advertising campaigns
Creativity and experience in identifying target audiences as well as skill in crafting digital campaigns that engage, inform and motivate
Experience with A/B testing
Solid knowledge of website analytics tools i.e., Google Analytics
Experience in setting up and optimizing Google Adwords campaigns
Strong analytical skills and data-driven thinking
Up-to-date with the latest trends and best practices in online marketing and measurement

****



Job Title: Mobile App Developer

Job Purpose

We expect our mobile app developer to be passionate about mobile platforms and translating code into user-friendly apps. She/he will collaborate with the internal teams to develop functional mobile applications, while working in a fast-paced environment.

Key Responsibilities

Develop new mobile app features and user interfaces
Ensure the best performance and user experience of the application.
Fix bugs and performance problems.
Write clean, readable, and testable code.
Work with back-end developers, designers, and the remaining part of the team to deliver high-quality solutions.
Keep up to date with latest terminology, concepts and best practices for coding mobile apps.
Use and adapt existing web applications for apps
Work closely with colleagues to innovate app functionality and design regularly.
Support the entire application lifecycle.
Gather specific requirements and suggest solutions.
Write unit and UI tests to identify malfunctions.
Troubleshoot and debug to optimize performance.
Design interfaces to improve user experience.
Work with Product development team.
Identify and plan for new features.
Ensure new and legacy applications meet quality standards.
Suggest and implement new mobile products, applications and protocols.


Key Requirements

Previous working experience as a Mobile developer for over 4 years.
B.Sc in Computer Science or similar relevant field
Portfolio of released applications on the ios App store and the Android market.
In-depth knowledge of programming languages such as Java.
Experience with APIs.
Problem solver with excellent analytical skills
Basic knowledge of Social media marketing
Send your CV to
picemployment@gmail.com
On or before 27th December 2019.
Webmasters / URGENT VACANCIES - Need Of A Based Digital Solutions And Retail Ebook by Familyfirst: 1:10pm On Dec 15, 2019
URGENT VACANCIES

Our Client is a Lagos based digital solutions and retail ebook and AudioBooks store Company is in urgent need of the following:




Job Title: Chief Operating Officer (COO)

Job Purpose
The Chief Operating Officer (COO) focuses on all things related to the author and reader experience. The COO is responsible for driving the best book selling and book buying experience, operations, finance, legal and compliance, stock management, service and maintenance, safety and security, and customer support.


Key Responsibilities

Build and lead a cross-functional team. will be defining hiring needs and leading the hiring process for new team members across operations, finance, legal and compliance, and customer support. At the same time, you will be managing analysts and a larger team of Staff, sellers and bookstores.
Create & Optimize World-class Framework and Process. We are creating and will be constantly optimizing our processes for this operation, and for the structures and systems that will emerge in future.
Scale the business: Will be seeking solutions that scale and also oversee the growth of the business - processes and projects will directly contribute to the company's growth.
Analyze Data. Will create, collect and incorporate data about operations to constantly monitor performance and find opportunities to improve. Will build the analytical frameworks and operational models to enable constant improvement.
Combine attention to detail with swift execution. Help the company to overcome the challenge of doing things quickly, and doing them well.
Collaborate. Operations will keep it all together while collaborating with other teams.
Problem Solve. Tackle obstacles, barriers, problems, and snags that occur daily effectively and solve them as fast as possible. Able to anticipate systemic problems and nip them in the bud.
Create an inclusive, and safe work space. Help to create and entrench a culture of hard-work, challenge, creative and fun in the workplace. Above all else, ensure the safety of operations team, and others.


Key Requirements

5-10 years of analytical, operational and/or management consulting experience
Knowledge of online Marketing, Websites and Mobile app.
Basic knowledge of Social Media marketing.
Good spoken English and presentations
Good Human relations and coordination
Data driven decision making mentality and sound business judgment through strong analytical thinking
Experience working closely and communicating effectively with diverse set of stakeholders in an ever-changing, rapid growth environment with tight deadlines
Ability to move fast combined with a culture of deploying the most capital efficient approach in solving problems



****



Job Title: Website manager

Job Purpose
The web developer will help our organization to manage the website. He/she will oversee the functionality of the website, evaluate and manage website performance, facilitate hosting, server and content management.

Key Responsibilities

Generate and update website content which include products, content, advertisements and promotions in addition to content management
Plan, define and implement website changes and functional improvements
Maintain and continuously update the online marketing plan for the website
Monitor key performance indicators on the website and develop plans to improve them
Regular updates of e-commerce site with new products and ensure periodic update of quantities.
Coordinate online promotions to increase sales.
Be in charge of website maintenance and troubleshooting.
Invoice generation and follow-up orders from creation to delivery as well as confirmation of product availability.
Continuous improvement of customer satisfaction
Investigate and report any operational/technical issues arising
Scope and documentation ongoing website functional projects /improvements
Test and deploy functional projects /improvements
Evaluate approaches & strategies to improve website sales conversions & customer engagement.
Develop application programming interfaces (APIs) to support mobile functionality and Applications.


Key Requirements

Computer science background
Minimum of 4 years experience
Proficiency with web and mobile technologies
An ability to work well with others and think clearly under deadlines.
Excellent written and verbal communication skills
Strong organizational skills and attention to detail.
A basic knowledge of HTML5, CSS3 and JavaScript
Excellent Web User Interface Design
Substantial knowledge of Asp Net Core 2.x.
Must have used Visual Studio 2015 (or newer) extensively.
Basic knowledge of SOM/SEO

****



Job Title: Digital Marketers

Job Purpose
The Digital Marketer will focus on all online marketing and brand management. He/She is responsible for maintaining the business’ social media presence and activities in digital space that will end up as conversions and revenue.


Key Responsibilities

Plan and execute all digital marketing, including SEO/SEM, marketing database, email, social media and display advertising campaigns
Design, build and maintain the company's social media presence
Measure and report performance of all digital marketing campaigns, and assess against goals ROI and KPIs.
Identify trends and insights, and optimize spend and performance based on the insights
Brainstorm new and creative growth strategies.
Plan, execute, and measure experiments and conversion tests
Collaborate with internal teams to create landing pages and optimize user experience.
Utilize strong analytical ability to evaluate end-to-end customer experience across multiple channels and customer touch points
Collaborate with clients, other agencies and vendor partners.
Evaluate emerging technologies. Provide thought leadership and perspective for adoption where appropriate.


Key Requirements

Certification in digital marketing
Proven working experience, 2-3 years in digital marketing
Demonstrable experience leading and managing SEO/SEM, marketing database, email, social media and/or display advertising campaigns
Creativity and experience in identifying target audiences as well as skill in crafting digital campaigns that engage, inform and motivate
Experience with A/B testing
Solid knowledge of website analytics tools i.e., Google Analytics
Experience in setting up and optimizing Google Adwords campaigns
Strong analytical skills and data-driven thinking
Up-to-date with the latest trends and best practices in online marketing and measurement

****



Job Title: Mobile App Developer

Job Purpose

We expect our mobile app developer to be passionate about mobile platforms and translating code into user-friendly apps. She/he will collaborate with the internal teams to develop functional mobile applications, while working in a fast-paced environment.

Key Responsibilities

Develop new mobile app features and user interfaces
Ensure the best performance and user experience of the application.
Fix bugs and performance problems.
Write clean, readable, and testable code.
Work with back-end developers, designers, and the remaining part of the team to deliver high-quality solutions.
Keep up to date with latest terminology, concepts and best practices for coding mobile apps.
Use and adapt existing web applications for apps
Work closely with colleagues to innovate app functionality and design regularly.
Support the entire application lifecycle.
Gather specific requirements and suggest solutions.
Write unit and UI tests to identify malfunctions.
Troubleshoot and debug to optimize performance.
Design interfaces to improve user experience.
Work with Product development team.
Identify and plan for new features.
Ensure new and legacy applications meet quality standards.
Suggest and implement new mobile products, applications and protocols.


Key Requirements

Previous working experience as a Mobile developer for over 4 years.
B.Sc in Computer Science or similar relevant field
Portfolio of released applications on the ios App store and the Android market.
In-depth knowledge of programming languages such as Java.
Experience with APIs.
Problem solver with excellent analytical skills
Basic knowledge of Social media marketing
Send your CV to
picemployment@gmail.com
On or before 27th December 2019.
Family / Re: Marriage Mentoring Class (mmc) For Couples With Marriages Age 0-7 (star Couples) by Familyfirst: 7:47pm On Nov 03, 2017
Olabode09:
wow that's it wonderful pls how much is the fee
its free, its in the handbill
Webmasters / Re: 5 Amazing Visitor Target Tips To Improve Blog Traffic. by Familyfirst: 7:43am On Jul 18, 2017
leXHansplaCE:
This is a very quick one. I know a few of you may say this is sometimes not the deal while some will say its also a good deal but here is my part to it all.

I have taken time to test a few of these to know it can work for me before making such post... SO FOR THOSE WONDERING IF THIS REALLY WORKS OR NOT, THE ANSWER IS YES, SO YOU TOO CAN TAKE TIME AND IMPLEMENT ANY OF YOUR CHOICE .

1. Post regularly:

Not like everyday but have a schedule to post, this way you get people coming back to read more of your posts.

2. Appreciate your blog visitors:

There is that o e or more blog visitors who visit your blog regularly and comment. What better way to thank them for coming? Write about the. And show to the world. Others will want to be featured and as such will visit. That's traffic juice too.

3. Run a contest:

This is one of the best ideas i can come up with. Why? A contest gets the attention of the intending contestants and also of their fans who will be rooting for them to win, in turn this brings in new traffic to your blog.

4. Giveaways:

Giveaways are sometimes considered the best of all tricks and tips for traffic. Everyone loves free stuffs so YES, do this and do so regularly and smile with loads of traffic.

5. Ask questions:

Here you get honest answers from your ever wonderful blog visitors/readers and input. Trust me the feed back your visitors give you alone can boost your confidence in what you do and most definitely that's such a way to engage your readers, and engagement equals blog traffic too. That's good traffic.

Have you tried any of these? what works for you for that visitor target traffic? please feel free to air your thoughts on this in the comment section, hopefully we all can learn more traffic driving ways.

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Family / Re: Evans: 9 Ways To Know If You Are Married To A Kidnapper by Familyfirst: 3:25pm On Jul 03, 2017
pressy09:
-By Oba Samuel

Since the arrest of the alleged notorious billionaire kidnapper -Chukwudumeje Onuamadike George, popularly known as Evans, his case has shown us different sides of life and the aspect that really touches me is that of his wife who claimed not to know that her husband is into kidnapping. This is the springboard to this write-up so as to open the eyes of women to what to watch out for so as to detect if your husband is a kidnapper.



1. HE HAS TOO MANY PHONES: It's a normal thing to have two phones in Nigeria due to the bad network but seeing a man with four phones and above, this calls for concern. It takes a man who is involved in a dubious business to be using many phones at the same time.

2. HIS PHONES ARE ALWAYS SWITCH OFF: Another sign that will help you detect if your husband is a kidnapper is when you notice that he has some phone he often switched off whenever he is at home just like Evans normally do. This should signal to you that he is using those phones to call the family of the victims whenever he wants to negotiate a ransom with them after which he switches the phone off to make it difficult for law enforcement agents to track him. EVANS: 9 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE MARRIED TO A KIDNAPPER



3. HE HAS TOO MAN SIM CARDS: If the man in your life is not a sim card seller nor an agent of a device provider, then you should be bothered about what he is doing with many SIM cards of different service providers. Like Evans, he may be using different SIM for family, wife, accomplices, Victims family, bank and others. Don't be fooled, it takes a kidnapper to have a such number of phones.

4. HE HARDLY RECEIVE CALLS IN YOUR PRESENCE: When your husband doesn't make calls nor receive calls in your presence, then you need to be suspicious what kind of business he is into

5. HE IS ALWAYS ON PHONE WITH STRANGE PEOPLE: Through his phone conversations, you will be able to deduce the kind of deal he is into. If he is always on phone with strangers talking about money or using coded language, that should give you a prompting that he may be a kingpin.

6. HE USES MANY SATELLITE PHONES: Satellite phones are very expensive and they are made for security operatives and government officials like presidents, governors, service chiefs and ambassadors. Seeing your husband using satellite phone like Thuraya may be a pointer that he is a kidnapping headmaster.

7. HE HAS TOO MUCH CASH AT HOME WHICH HE NEVER DEPOSITS IN BANK: When a man turns his house to a bank where he keeps a huge sum of money running into millions in local and foreign currency, you need nobody to tell you that it either your husband is into kidnapping or armed robbery.


8. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HE DOES FOR A LIVING: Like Evans when your husband is so secretive about his means of livelihood, don't just enjoy the boom with, u will soon face the doom of public disgrace with him.

9. HE NEVER ALLOWS YOU TO KNOW HIS OFFICE, SHOP OR WORKSHOP: Having a husband whose office, shop and workshop you do not know and anytime you make a move, he keeps giving you excuses, then you should know that you have housed a kidnapping, drug baron or armed robbery syndicate.
Wives, get to know what your husband does for a living and the location of his office or business.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/evans-9-ways-know-married-kidnapper/
Thank you www.dailyfamily.ng for this,i am bless.
Family / Re: Ikoyi Marriage Registry: Info Needed! by Familyfirst: 7:39pm On Jul 02, 2017
Mcfemad:
Hello,
I need to know the requirements, process and cost implications of getting married at the Federal Marriage Registry, Ikoyi. Comprehensive information given here would be highly appreciated. Kindly please help.
Thank you,
Regards!
read details of what you need to know bout ikoyi registry here:
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/important-things-know-want-get-married-ikoyi-registry/
Family / Re: 100 Women 2016: I Am A 'surrendered Wife’ by Familyfirst: 6:11pm On Jul 02, 2017
SycophanticGoat:
Continued:


I was about to end my marriage when I picked up a book called The Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle. I mean, they don't teach us how to be successful in marriage in school and the women in my life didn't share the secrets either.

It was incredibly humbling to recognise that I had something to do with why my marriage was failing and perhaps even why my first marriage failed. But it was also empowering.

I didn't know I'd been disrespectful to my husband or even that I'd been controlling and critical.

I thought I was being helpful and logical. I just didn't know that respect for men is like oxygen, so no wonder my husband was no longer interested in me sexually.

I'll never forget the day I first apologised to my husband for being rude for correcting him in front of the children, or the day I said "whatever you think" when I'd previously been extremely opinionated about what he should do.


I had trained my husband to ask my permission for everything. And then complained about it for a year in counselling that he couldn't make simple decisions!

I relinquished control of my husband's life, choices and decisions and instead I focused on my own happiness. I was no longer acting like his mother and started acting like his lover.

We were fighting less and less and my husband started reaching out to hold my hand or pull me in for a kiss.

I had no idea that I was responsible for my own happiness. I thought my husband should make me happy.

I've now found subtle ways of getting my husband in the mood for sex, which is far more effective than the days of begging, crying or yelling about wanting it. Even if I'm not in the mood and he is, I often find myself getting in the mood just by being open to receiving pleasure.

My kids began to notice the change in our relationship too, and as a result, their behaviour improved and our home became peaceful and fun again.

Women often ask me if my approach is about dumbing myself down or becoming a submissive wife. I tell them I am a feminist. Surrendering is acknowledging you can't change or control anyone but yourself. That's empowering!
Every wife should read this again and again,go home to make her Marriage work.
I think you should read what Wives of happy husbands are doing right here:http://www.dailyfamily.ng/9-things-wives-happy-husbands-every-day/

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Romance / Re: My Fiancée And A Man Are Living Together, She Said It's Nothing! by Familyfirst: 9:45am On Jul 02, 2017
JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.
She did not pass The test of marriage suitability readit here: http://www.dailyfamily.ng/20-tests-must-give-lady-know-can-marry/
Family / Re: My Wife Is Pushing Me To The Wall To Start Hitting Her by Familyfirst: 8:30pm On Jun 16, 2017
vanemo:
Dear Nairalanders, I am a regular on this forum but had to create a new moniker to post this.


Growing up, my father was abusive and hit my mum occasionally. I grew up seeing my mum suffer domestic violence. Eventually, my father abandoned us when I was 9 and moved in with another woman. My mum never remarried. She just focused on my upbringing and raised me alone without my father. My father just didn't care anymore after he left and didn't contribute a dime to my upbringing after he left despite efforts made by friends and family to make him take care of his responsibilities towards me.
After sometime, my mum left everything in the hands of God and focused on catering for me without minding my father.
This made me vow not to ever hit a woman not to talk of my wife because I saw firsthand how my mum suffered and it would be a shame for me to make another woman pass through the same thing my mother passed through.
I also vowed to do all within my power to keep my family one and give my kids the fatherly love I was denied as I know the negative effects of a broken home on children.
Mine is different because I have a God fearing, intelligent and hardworking mother who played the role of both father and mother in bringing me up.

Fast forward to now, I am married with a daughter. Met my wife in 2012 and we have been together ever since.
Now, my wife is a very sweet lady who has stood by me through thick and thin even when business was down sometime ago, she was there for me. Things were so bad that we could barely feed but surprisingly, she stood by me and supported me with prayers and she was even the breadwinner for about 4 months till things got better for me.
For this, I praise her a lot and cherish her for this. I am sure she loves me with her whole heart and I can say to some extent that we are happy together.

Now, the problem is that she takes me for granted sometimes and shows some lack of respect towards me which I am finding it hard to tolerate.
For example:

1. She knows I don't eat pepper. But, occasionally she would prepare meals laced with copious amounts of pepper and pass it for me to eat. This has been happening since 2013 and most times, I get angry and refuse to eat the food. 3 weeks ago, she did the same thing and for one week, I refused to eat her food despite her pleadings. Later, I forgave her and things went back to normal.

2. Sometimes, if she is going somewhere and I tell her to help me do something or buy something for me around the area where she is going to, she would always find an excuse not to do what I asked her to do. It has happened often that I have lost confidence in her.
Last week, she was going somewhere and I gave her some money and some herbal medication to give to a sick friend who lives in that area. To my chagrin, she came back without delivering the message telling me stories of why she couldn't find time to go to my friend's place.

3. This evening, she mentioned that she needed extra 300k to boost her business. This is after I had given her 600k which she asked for initially and another 200k which I didn't budget for. Our house rent is expiring in July and I have to renew it plus other expenses that are lined up. I tried explaining to her that I can't spare 300k now and we had a heated exchange. To my chagrin, she walked out on me and even when I called her back, she didn't listen to me. This is not the first time this kind of a thing is happening.

In all of this, I have never raised my hand to hit her since we met in 2012 all because of my vow never to hit a woman in my life. In the above 3 examples, I have been really tempted to break this vow but I am glad I got hold of myself.
I have told her several times that the day she will push me to the wall and I start hitting her, I would never stop and she will be the one to suffer it. I also told her that if we are to ever separate r divorce, it will never be my fault because I am pro family and I am ready to do all it takes to keep my family together and make sure my kids are brought up with their dad and mum under one roof.

I know within myself that I can never hit her no matter what but on the other hand, I can't tolerate living with a lady that takes me for granted and does not respect me.
I have thought about this.
Had it been I was the type that beat women, I think she would have been respecting me more and not taking me for granted like this.

Now, I am in a dilemma, if this continues, it is either I start hitting her or I walk away from the marriage.
Both options are not what I want but I might just be forced to do one of them and go against my vow.
If it gets worse, the better of the two evils is to walk away from the marriage with my sanity intact and take my daughter along as I would not contemplate hitting my wife because of what my mother passed through.

My dear nairalanders, pls I need your advice on this issue.
don't walk out of your marriage,don't hit her,seek counsel,I advise you to visit www.dailyfamily.ng
Romance / Re: 19 Ways To Avoid Heartbreak In A Relationship by Familyfirst: 6:09am On Jun 14, 2017
WizAkzy:
....
I think you should also read this for a better relation. Attitude to avoid because they end relationships.
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/7-attitudes-that-end-any-relationship/
Romance / 19 Ways To Avoid Heartbreak In A Relationship by Familyfirst: 6:05am On Jun 14, 2017
19 Ways to avoid heartbreak in a relationship
-Ojo Oluwasegun
Love is a beautiful thing, is like oil to an engine; it lubricates relationship. It is like salt to food, it adds taste to a relationship, it is like paint on a building, it adds beauty to a relationship, it is like cold water to a thirsty soul.
But you are likely to experience heartbreak at some time in your life unless you are willing to isolate yourself completely and never form a bond with any other human being.
This is because no one can live a happy and fulfilling life in isolation. Being in a relationship is a very good thing as there are so many things to gain from it.
Heartbreak or separation is one of the prices of a fruitless relationship.
In order to avoid trauma attached to heartbreak, there are steps you can take to stop having your heart broken too many times and to make those heartbreaks that you do experience less painful.
Here are 19 tips on how to avoid heartbreak in a relationship.
#1 Not all relationships must lead to marriage.
Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season. Only a few are for a lifetime. If doesn’t work out, don’t kill yourself. Discover the purpose and move on.
#2 Don’t rush into things
Take things steady, even when you think you have met the One. If you go from first kiss, to moving in with him, within a few days, you are likely to be very disappointed. The idea of whirlwind romances sounds wonderful, but they rarely go the distance. If he really is the One, then he’s not going to mind you taking things slowly at first.
Also read this: 6 tips to give the perfect kiss
#3 Love is never enough.
Understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.
#4 Don’t lose sight of your own goals
Love is great; it’s a wonderful feeling, but it shouldn’t be the only thing in your life. Keep your hobbies, interests and follow your own dreams, because you are more than just the other half of a relationship. Your life is your own and, so long as you never lose sight of that, you will always have something else to concentrate on, if love doesn’t quite work out the way you had hoped it would.
#5 Don’t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart.
Give God the totality of your heart. Love that person but put God first.
#6 Listen to what other people are saying
You can date whoever you want, but it is still wise to listen to what other people say about your man. If your friends and family don’t seem to like your guy, there could be very good reasons for that. Sometimes, people who are not in the relationship can see far more, than the person who is in love.
#7 Don’t get carried away with beauty or money.
If that person’s inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either.
#8 Don’t forget your friends
It’s healthy to have friends outside of a relationship anyway, so stay in touch with them and go out with them sometimes. Don’t make one man your entire world, however much you love him.
Also read this: 9 Things Men Think But Do not Talk About
#9 When the negative signs are more than the positive signs.
It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets ”broken”
#10 Talk about the relationship.
When you are starting to feel that the relationship could be really going places, make sure that he feels the same way. Try and find out what his plans for the future are, and tell him how you are feeling about the relationship. You don’t want to find yourself saying: ‘But I thought you wanted the same things as I do’.
#11 Don’t demand trust; Earn it, build it or show it.
#12 Don’t let love blind you to the truth.
If you think that your man is playing away, then ask him for the truth, because if you ignore it, it will only make the inevitable breakup even more painful when it comes.
#13 Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship.
#14 Never you compare him or her to someone else.
#15 Don’t settle for less than you deserve
You can’t sit on the sidelines, turning down everyone that you meet, but you have the right to be a little bit picky! Don’t jump into serious relationships with guys that you are unsure about and keep your eyes open for their faults. You should only be making commitments to men you are absolutely crazy about, so don’t settle for second best just because you don’t want to be on your own.
#16 Your relationship should not only be marriage driven; but care, love and concern driven.
#17 Don’t marry him or her because you saw him or her in church.
Also read this: 8 things a mature man never does
Many are in church but not in touch with God. It’s not WHERE you met, but WHO you meet that counts.
#18 Don’t base your relationship sex.
The bitter truth is that you can’t use sex to tie him down and don’t be deceived having sex before marriage is not a symbol of love but lust. So don’t open your legs but your brain and eyes in a relationship.
#19 Invest more on yourself.
Don’t get carried away with that relationship that you get to take care of yourself. Remember no one wish to settle down with a liability. Invest more in your career and become an irresistible person to him/her
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/19-ways-to-avoid-heartbreak-in-a-relationship/
Celebrities / Re: AY And Freda Francis’ Whatsapp Chat: Raunchy Version, Why Mabel Makun Was Angry by Familyfirst: 9:02pm On Jun 13, 2017
emmatuxz:
See earlier thread where AY's wife called her out https://www.nairaland.com/3855440/mabel-makun-warns-freda-francis



http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2017/06/exclusive-unedited-original-chat.html?m=1
AY and his wife need friends to talk to them. I encourage them to settle their problems in their BEDRROMS not in CHATROOMS on the net.
Can you tell them to visit this site regularly to upgrade their Marriage www.dailyfamily.ng

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Family / Re: 19 Ways To Avoid Heartbreak In A Relationship by Familyfirst: 8:51pm On Jun 13, 2017
Familyfirst:
19 Ways to avoid heartbreak in a relationship
-Ojo Oluwasegun
Love is a beautiful thing, is like oil to an engine; it lubricates relationship. It is like salt to food, it adds taste to a relationship, it is like paint on a building, it adds beauty to a relationship, it is like cold water to a thirsty soul.
But you are likely to experience heartbreak at some time in your life unless you are willing to isolate yourself completely and never form a bond with any other human being.
This is because no one can live a happy and fulfilling life in isolation. Being in a relationship is a very good thing as there are so many things to gain from it.
Heartbreak or separation is one of the prices of a fruitless relationship.
In order to avoid trauma attached to heartbreak, there are steps you can take to stop having your heart broken too many times and to make those heartbreaks that you do experience less painful.
Here are 19 tips on how to avoid heartbreak in a relationship.
#1 Not all relationships must lead to marriage.
Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season. Only a few are for a lifetime. If doesn’t work out, don’t kill yourself. Discover the purpose and move on.
#2 Don’t rush into things
Take things steady, even when you think you have met the One. If you go from first kiss, to moving in with him, within a few days, you are likely to be very disappointed. The idea of whirlwind romances sounds wonderful, but they rarely go the distance. If he really is the One, then he’s not going to mind you taking things slowly at first.
Also read this: 6 tips to give the perfect kiss
#3 Love is never enough.
Understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.
#4 Don’t lose sight of your own goals
Love is great; it’s a wonderful feeling, but it shouldn’t be the only thing in your life. Keep your hobbies, interests and follow your own dreams, because you are more than just the other half of a relationship. Your life is your own and, so long as you never lose sight of that, you will always have something else to concentrate on, if love doesn’t quite work out the way you had hoped it would.
#5 Don’t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart.
Give God the totality of your heart. Love that person but put God first.
#6 Listen to what other people are saying
You can date whoever you want, but it is still wise to listen to what other people say about your man. If your friends and family don’t seem to like your guy, there could be very good reasons for that. Sometimes, people who are not in the relationship can see far more, than the person who is in love.
#7 Don’t get carried away with beauty or money.
If that person’s inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either.
#8 Don’t forget your friends
It’s healthy to have friends outside of a relationship anyway, so stay in touch with them and go out with them sometimes. Don’t make one man your entire world, however much you love him.
Also read this: 9 Things Men Think But Do not Talk About
#9 When the negative signs are more than the positive signs.
It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets ”broken”
#10 Talk about the relationship.
When you are starting to feel that the relationship could be really going places, make sure that he feels the same way. Try and find out what his plans for the future are, and tell him how you are feeling about the relationship. You don’t want to find yourself saying: ‘But I thought you wanted the same things as I do’.
#11 Don’t demand trust; Earn it, build it or show it.
#12 Don’t let love blind you to the truth.
If you think that your man is playing away, then ask him for the truth, because if you ignore it, it will only make the inevitable breakup even more painful when it comes.
#13 Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship.
#14 Never you compare him or her to someone else.
#15 Don’t settle for less than you deserve
You can’t sit on the sidelines, turning down everyone that you meet, but you have the right to be a little bit picky! Don’t jump into serious relationships with guys that you are unsure about and keep your eyes open for their faults. You should only be making commitments to men you are absolutely crazy about, so don’t settle for second best just because you don’t want to be on your own.
#16 Your relationship should not only be marriage driven; but care, love and concern driven.
#17 Don’t marry him or her because you saw him or her in church.
Also read this: 8 things a mature man never does
Many are in church but not in touch with God. It’s not WHERE you met, but WHO you meet that counts.
#18 Don’t base your relationship sex.
The bitter truth is that you can’t use sex to tie him down and don’t be deceived having sex before marriage is not a symbol of love but lust. So don’t open your legs but your brain and eyes in a relationship.
#19 Invest more on yourself.
Don’t get carried away with that relationship that you get to take care of yourself. Remember no one wish to settle down with a liability. Invest more in your career and become an irresistible person to him/her
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/19-ways-to-avoid-heartbreak-in-a-relationship/
I feel you should read this also,ATTITUDES THAT CAN CAUSE HEART BREAK IN RELATIONSHIP
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/7-attitudes-that-end-any-relationship/
Family / 19 Ways To Avoid Heartbreak In A Relationship by Familyfirst: 8:49pm On Jun 13, 2017
19 Ways to avoid heartbreak in a relationship
-Ojo Oluwasegun
Love is a beautiful thing, is like oil to an engine; it lubricates relationship. It is like salt to food, it adds taste to a relationship, it is like paint on a building, it adds beauty to a relationship, it is like cold water to a thirsty soul.
But you are likely to experience heartbreak at some time in your life unless you are willing to isolate yourself completely and never form a bond with any other human being.
This is because no one can live a happy and fulfilling life in isolation. Being in a relationship is a very good thing as there are so many things to gain from it.
Heartbreak or separation is one of the prices of a fruitless relationship.
In order to avoid trauma attached to heartbreak, there are steps you can take to stop having your heart broken too many times and to make those heartbreaks that you do experience less painful.
Here are 19 tips on how to avoid heartbreak in a relationship.
#1 Not all relationships must lead to marriage.
Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season. Only a few are for a lifetime. If doesn’t work out, don’t kill yourself. Discover the purpose and move on.
#2 Don’t rush into things
Take things steady, even when you think you have met the One. If you go from first kiss, to moving in with him, within a few days, you are likely to be very disappointed. The idea of whirlwind romances sounds wonderful, but they rarely go the distance. If he really is the One, then he’s not going to mind you taking things slowly at first.
Also read this: 6 tips to give the perfect kiss
#3 Love is never enough.
Understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.
#4 Don’t lose sight of your own goals
Love is great; it’s a wonderful feeling, but it shouldn’t be the only thing in your life. Keep your hobbies, interests and follow your own dreams, because you are more than just the other half of a relationship. Your life is your own and, so long as you never lose sight of that, you will always have something else to concentrate on, if love doesn’t quite work out the way you had hoped it would.
#5 Don’t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart.
Give God the totality of your heart. Love that person but put God first.
#6 Listen to what other people are saying
You can date whoever you want, but it is still wise to listen to what other people say about your man. If your friends and family don’t seem to like your guy, there could be very good reasons for that. Sometimes, people who are not in the relationship can see far more, than the person who is in love.
#7 Don’t get carried away with beauty or money.
If that person’s inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either.
#8 Don’t forget your friends
It’s healthy to have friends outside of a relationship anyway, so stay in touch with them and go out with them sometimes. Don’t make one man your entire world, however much you love him.
Also read this: 9 Things Men Think But Do not Talk About
#9 When the negative signs are more than the positive signs.
It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets ”broken”
#10 Talk about the relationship.
When you are starting to feel that the relationship could be really going places, make sure that he feels the same way. Try and find out what his plans for the future are, and tell him how you are feeling about the relationship. You don’t want to find yourself saying: ‘But I thought you wanted the same things as I do’.
#11 Don’t demand trust; Earn it, build it or show it.
#12 Don’t let love blind you to the truth.
If you think that your man is playing away, then ask him for the truth, because if you ignore it, it will only make the inevitable breakup even more painful when it comes.
#13 Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship.
#14 Never you compare him or her to someone else.
#15 Don’t settle for less than you deserve
You can’t sit on the sidelines, turning down everyone that you meet, but you have the right to be a little bit picky! Don’t jump into serious relationships with guys that you are unsure about and keep your eyes open for their faults. You should only be making commitments to men you are absolutely crazy about, so don’t settle for second best just because you don’t want to be on your own.
#16 Your relationship should not only be marriage driven; but care, love and concern driven.
#17 Don’t marry him or her because you saw him or her in church.
Also read this: 8 things a mature man never does
Many are in church but not in touch with God. It’s not WHERE you met, but WHO you meet that counts.
#18 Don’t base your relationship sex.
The bitter truth is that you can’t use sex to tie him down and don’t be deceived having sex before marriage is not a symbol of love but lust. So don’t open your legs but your brain and eyes in a relationship.
#19 Invest more on yourself.
Don’t get carried away with that relationship that you get to take care of yourself. Remember no one wish to settle down with a liability. Invest more in your career and become an irresistible person to him/her
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/19-ways-to-avoid-heartbreak-in-a-relationship/
Family / Re: Wedding Night: House Or Hotel, Which Is Preferable? by Familyfirst: 8:00pm On Jun 13, 2017
Foxie:
Hello Family,

We'll be tying the nuptial knots towards the end of this year God willing. My would be Husband is of the opinion we pass our wedding night in a hotel, but I'm of the opinion we spend it at our new home. My reason for suggesting this is that we've never been intimate and it's my first time, I would have preferred the first experience to be on our matrimonial bed.

Please note that this isn't the honeymoon proper, I as well suggested that if we spend wedding night at home, after Thanksgiving the next day we'd go for honeymoon proper for a week to his place of choice, that's somewhere away from home.

Please are there things I need to know about spending wedding night in the house, or is it better we spend the night in the hotel? Please advice me married couples. Thank you.

NB: I had to open another thread as the first one I can't access it, sorry for the double post
hotel is better for your honey moon if you have the money check www.dailyfamily.ng for clues about honey moon
Romance / Re: What Is This Noise About Daily Family by Familyfirst: 4:18pm On Jun 12, 2017
creative11:
Hi all,
Has anyone noticed this sticker on buses Danfo most especially and some private cars? I saw it in Lagos and Ibadan. I was surprised to see it in Osogbo too.
I visited the site I think it's. Cute but I don't know whether it worth all the noise they are making about it or what do you think fellow nairalanders

www.nairaland.com/attachments/5484879_img20170612120314_jpega425082c50ec85dacd4c48744edb75f9

www.nairaland.com/attachments/5484880_img20170612111445_jpeg4c5dcc03273b8b13bdfaefbb765c9a69

www.nairaland.com/attachments/5484881_img20170612113744_jpeg119a5cfa4de4199d2e94ed866e90947f

www.nairaland.com/attachments/5484882_img20170612111223_jpegbe06e219daf60dcd316920bd0e01c064





I saw it too at OAU Ife, I check it www.dailyfamily.ng is a newspaper,I wish them good luck.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Know That I Am Multi-millionaire by Familyfirst: 9:44am On Jun 12, 2017
obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.
This lady lacks what makes relationship work. If what you sad s the whole truth because I have not heared her own side.
I will advise you to visit a counsellor and relatiosip mentor together,also visit www.dailyamily.ng for deep knowledge of relationships and family life. Encourage Her to do the same.
Crime / Re: Lady Who Went To Enugu Hotel With Her Lover Dies (Graphic Photos) by Familyfirst: 12:05pm On Jun 09, 2017
PrettyCrystal:
A lady identified as Mrs Ifeyinwa Udeh of Ugboezeji Abakpa Nike Enugu state, died on the 2nd of June, 2017. According to Coal City Connect, the deceased with her lover, Joel Ugwu, also of Abakpa in Enugu state, had allegedly checked into a hotel located around Nowas Junction of Transekulu. Shortly after, she allegedly, fell ill and became unconscious and was rushed to St Leo’s hospital, at about 11:15 pm, but was declared dead on arrival.

In an interview with CCC (Coal City Connect), the lover, Ugwu, who is now helping the police in their investigations, revealed that they had comfortably checked into the hotel, but later, Udeh started complaining of ill health.He added that she took a bottle of malt drink and bottled water which he bought for her. He further disclosed that following the development, she collapsed and was rushed to the hospital. .

The body of the deceased has been deposited at the morgue of the Parklane specialist hospital Enugu for autopsy, which will assist the police in their investigation.According to CCC, recovered from the scene of the incident at the hotel room, were remains of some tablets/capsules and other likely evidential materials which will aid operatives in their investigations.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/06/lady-dies-checking-hotel-lover-enugu-graphic-photo.html


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