seangy4konji:
Your up bringin is flawed and you are not from a good home...

I can imagine when my jsisters were in school and someone was paying their rent when they have father mother and brother doing well..

You are a how...stingy and glutton...

You probably sleep around for money to furnish ur iPhone craze and wig your parents can't afford themselves..

The boy need to be shot in market square.

you must be a low life, this is how they think

I appreciate y'all for the comments, I've made up my mind on what to do,and to those saying giving me money and paying for my rent is a waste shows you guys haven't met good girls,I just don't want to say everything about my relationship, did you know I started spending on this guy first? I know the amount I spent on him was small, but it really helped him when he was financially unstable, so you expect that kind of guy to shut me out when he's got money?? All these Mumu nairaland guys using their cheap phones and data bonuses to bash people should get a life please.

cococandy:
I just checked the profile of the poster. New account. Created 2 hours ago.

Summary: just another fvckboy looking for talk. So many of you on this forum need to get busy. Always obsessed with useless ways to insult women. I’m 110% sure the OP is on this thread with his various other monikers saying how women are bitchess and leeches.

Probably one of the first to comment.

Mental problems

I have a four years old account on nairaland, I'm scared to open up with my real account, cos of all the insults, and this story is real!

Sweeetheart:



in another thread a lady relationship hit the wall because she's introvert but here I'm reading an extrovert complaining of her guy introvert attitude


if this guy don't flirt or smoke, hanged out with friends in club etc then I see no reason why you should be worried about him not calling you. you duo should face academic

if he's an academia, I mean lover of book, you won't expect him to abandoned that for feelings that had been established


I want to believe if him fvcking you timelessly is what's dropping the feelings, he won't have value for you, not to talk of taking care of your needs


at 21, you're still young even if anything happen aftermath you'll be fine. just focus on your study so as not to lose on two sides

he doesn't go clubbing, I see texts of girls giving him green lights,but he is good at ignoring them,I'm not saying he's perfect, but I haven't caught him cheat

Should this be in romance section?

chigoizie7:


Be patient with him, he probably has a lot in his life right now. You will start enjoying him once the burden is lesser for as it is used to be.

thanks a lot,

chigoizie7:


And yet you want to leave that one that has sense.

Clap for yourself

I'm not leaving him again bro,I've just been unhappy with the new development

Ukodo1123:
U have handwork, n your parent cater for u n u still exploit the young man

That guy is not suppose to pay your rent if u are from a good home

well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

so are you saying he loves me even without attention??

Epositive:


Have you gotten an alternative for his financial provision like business or " a better guy "?

I do well for myself too,I make and sell wigs and I'm a make up artist,my parents still cater for me too, if I leave him,I can't have a problem financially, I just don't know if I can love someone else the way I love him,I'm sad.

dawnomike:
...you both should sit down and talk it out, then decide if you need to break up.

I've done that, he said he'll change, but I don't see the change in him,I even stopped calling so i won't be tagged as clingy

Hi elders in the house, I'm a lady, I'm 21 years old. There's this guy I've been dating for about 3 years, we got along so fast that it feels like I've known him all my life, he's in his final year and I'm in my third year, not in the same school though.

He used to call and text often until middle last year, he stopped calling like he used to, I still do the calling, but I got tired, he wasn't reciprocating, when I complained, he said he's always busy, I feel that if he loves me like he claims, he will always check on me, whenever we're together, the vibes of the relationship is still there, but when we aren't together, he's a different person.

There was a time I broke up, I blocked him, he found a way to reach me and we ironed things out, he changed for 2 weeks before he went to his normal self. He answers to my needs guys, he has been paying my rent since my first year in school, he gives me 10k every 2 weeks, he pays for my hair when I need him to + other stuffs too.

Do you think he can change or do I just leave the relationship?? Please ignore the errors, I'm not perfect.