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Romance / Re: Thunderbolt struck at Delizio Pizza, Gaduwa, Abuja today - help me find her! by fegeitok001: 5:59pm On May 23, 2019
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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 12:51am On Apr 25, 2019
Most  instances of The Friend Zone can easily be avoided, but it requires a willingness to take risks. Getting stuck in The Friend Zone is almost always the result of playing things too safe; it’s the end result of being too passive and too unwilling to put yourself out there in such a way that you couldn’t possibly be misinterpreted.

In short: you acted too much like a friend and not enough like a lover.

It’s an easy trap to fall into; many nerds assume that the best way into a woman’s heart is to be a nice guy and act like her new BFF. They make a point of being available at all hours, they want to talk every day about everything and nothing, they want to hang out all the time. This is friend behavior; the same behavior, when mapped onto a potential suitor1, would scream needy and no life whatsoever. Not only is this unattractive behavior in a potential lover, it’s misleading and will inevitably cause a misunderstanding of intent. When your behavior is incongruous with your intentions, it’s very easy to round down to friend rather than up to lover.

If you’re interested in wooing somebody, you need to be willing to be unavailable at times. This means not leaping to the phone as soon as you see your crush’s number flash on the caller ID screen; you can text her or call her back later. It means not dropping all your plans just because they called you up and suggested getting together – tell her that you can’t make it today but (and this is critical) you are free this other day and you would love to see her then. Keep in mind however: this does not mean playing games out of “The Rules” – you’re not making shit up just to keep the supposed “upper hand” in the relationship by being artificially unavailable, you’re just establishing that you have your own life and you’re busy living it.

By the way, don’t get me wrong: this is not to say that you can’t be friends with someone you’re attracted to or want to have more than just friendship with. Friendship and attraction are not antithetical binary states where you can only be a friend or interested in somebody with nothing between them. However, there are decided differences in behavior when you’re offering someone a platonic friendship and when you’re letting them know that you are interested to them as being more than friends. Part of avoiding the Friend Zone means knowing the difference and, critically, making sure that you’re not sending out the wrong signals.

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Phones / Chip Off Data Recovery For Bricked Phones In Nigeria? by fegeitok001: 3:32pm On Apr 18, 2019
Is there anyone who does this or who knows who does this?

Please kindly share contact information.

Thanks.
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 9:10pm On Apr 15, 2019
olaboy1:
One of the biggest problems I have noticed from my friends I hang out with who look alpha in physique is that many of the cute dab guys have approach anxiety sadly, and it makes me feel sorry for them. I am above 30 and I conquered approach anxiety I think when I was 16 or 17.

I did this by going out a lot back then to talk to random girls even before I discovered game and the drills.

So it's hard to play sendless drill without your ability to be able to approach other girls.


I would say first go out and fix your approach anxiety if you have any.


Currently trying to resolve approach anxiety as described above
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 6:06pm On Apr 15, 2019
I am starting to get my balls back

I saw a pretty specimen as I was rushing to the bank to cash a cheque, the cheque suddenly lost importance as I trailed her till she got into an eatery, I decided that it was not prudent to discuss with her as she joined the queue, so I found myself a seat in the eatery and waited for her to order and walk out.


After she did, I followed her, then walked up to her and told her that I walked out of my car to cash a cheque when my eyes got fixated on you, and I had not choice but to strike up a convo with you, I can see you are rushing back to work, can I have your number so we can see another time, so she asked for my phone to give me same, I got it, dialed her to confirm the number and off I went.


I felt a serious need to do this because all along I have this in-built fear not to approach a girl, but of the people watching me, so this is a necessary exercise to kill the self consciousness that has been instilled in me from youth.

I will keep practicing till it is natural.

What is my score over 10?

I know that it is wrong to call the next day, so I plan to call over the weekend currently at drill page 77

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Romance / Re: Thunderbolt struck at Delizio Pizza, Gaduwa, Abuja today - help me find her! by fegeitok001: 11:41pm On Apr 10, 2019
Crimpsy:
Make out time to go back to d eatery,maybe u might see her again.

Thanks

She even said hi to me when she came in, I failed to seize the moment, but then I had to study her to decide how to start a proper convo, being shy and reserved can be a problem sometimes
Romance / Re: Thunderbolt struck at Delizio Pizza, Gaduwa, Abuja today - help me find her! by fegeitok001: 11:38pm On Apr 10, 2019
Oma307:
you have to consult and appease the gods with a cow, a white he-goat, 3 local white cocks, a gallon of red oil and a jerrycan of undiluted palm wine before you can find the particular lady

Hmmmmm
Romance / Re: Thunderbolt struck at Delizio Pizza, Gaduwa, Abuja today - help me find her! by fegeitok001: 9:18pm On Apr 10, 2019
BecaciaBarbie:
You didn't even post location.... But really sorry is your case o

Location updated

Delizio, Gaduwa District, Abuja

between 2pm and 5pm today
Romance / Re: Thunderbolt struck at Delizio Pizza, Gaduwa, Abuja today - help me find her! by fegeitok001: 9:16pm On Apr 10, 2019
Craziestgirl:
You were hit by the "Thunderbolt"
(The meaning is in The Godfather, written by Mario Puzo')

Yes
Romance / Re: Thunderbolt struck at Delizio Pizza, Gaduwa, Abuja today - help me find her! by fegeitok001: 8:11pm On Apr 10, 2019
lefulefu:
no hips no azz
The specimen I saw had both

She wore exact same dress but she is African special not foreign bones

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Romance / Thunderbolt struck at Delizio Pizza, Gaduwa, Abuja today - help me find her! by fegeitok001: 8:03pm On Apr 10, 2019
she wore this today and bought herself a sharwama and a drink but before I could talk to her, she had walked out of the sharwama place


Between 2 and 5pm today

I was struck by a thunderbolt by her and coupled with the presence of another couple at the eatery at the time, I couldn't summon the courage to approach


To make matters worse, I was using a headset, I stole glances, but took too long the last time, and by the time I looked up, she was gone!

Picture in the picture is not the person I want to see

the person I want to see wore the exact same cloth, but she had mass and occupied space, but I wasn't able to talk to her before she left the sharwama spot where I saw her
cc: lefulefu

Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 5:44pm On Apr 10, 2019
kollinzgee:


I guess you broke the number one rule of the game.why did you ask her out in the first place its obvious you are new here. this place we never ask girls out not because we fear rejection but because it puts you at great disadvantage and turns you to a maga/mugu overnight .

my advice, there are many fishes in the sea forget her for now read up these drills meet new chicks grab your balls read from page 1---50 you will realise your mistakez...

I asked her out 3 years ago when I did not know it was wrong. I just stumbled upon this thread and I have been reading it from page zero up to page 40 so far.

I was at an eatery and a superb specimen came in but I lost the ability to strike up a conversation, I will have trouble sleeping because I really wanted to talk to her, so I got the help of one of the waiters to alert me the moment she ever turns up there smiley

Hope that is allowed wink
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 11:17pm On Apr 02, 2019
Girl is on fire, called for over 12 minutes very bitter, that we go way way back, why did I say I am too big to be her friend, that I cannot escape, as far as she is concerned, I remain her best friend, unless I break it up, she isn't

HARDDON, kollinzgee, Ubunja
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 3:55pm On Apr 02, 2019
fegeitok001:


So I told a girl that I like who has friendzoned me via WhatsApp (we have known for like 7 years, but reestablished contact 3 years ago, after 4 years of not seeing each other)

"Can we not see or talk to each other for some time? I don't think this relationship is going to work."

Her response was: "u are funny oh followed by 4 smiling smilies"

I have ignored her ever since, and she has not said anymore since then.

Am I on the right path? If no, please provide suggestions on what to do differently.

I am done and dusted with being a nice guy.

Like someone said,

Being a nice guy doesn't make a lady like you

Trying to convince a lady to like you will not make a lady like you

Buying a lady food or sending her money does not make a lady like you

Having money does not make a lady like you

Being good looking does not make a lady like you

Doing everything a lady wants or tells you to does not make a lady like you

So no more doing anything and everything she wants, I want to control the relationship going forward.

Any words for me.




Update: So what do you mean she asked?

So I said, it is time to show myself some love, following your very own advice

For the next few days, she kept checking on me

Then after that

So we went into her needy mode, she is a health worker and often works shifts, and read out by calling and putting on that voice

"I'm working night shift, I am dying of hunger, please get me some food for three days"

Three days later, she wanted to refund some money I spent on her. I told her not to bother, that it was a gift from me to her, and added:

"Some people pray for an angel to come into their lives, others already have an angel in their lives, I came as an angel, but you took me as a friend, but I am too big to be a friend"

Since I sent the above, she has called thrice and when I didn't pick she asked via WhatsApp "What do you mean by this? in reply to the statement "But I am too big to be a friend" and "How" in response to "I came as an angel, but you took me as a friend"


Am I handling it well? HARDDON

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fegeitok001: 2:57pm On Mar 25, 2019
HARDDON:



I like my woman outspoken not so shy......

Now here is one of my best lines:

thereafter say:
I DONT THINK THIS RELATIONSHIP WUD WORK .....

so many wud forget themselves n ask u why not: how can it work when u cudnt tell me how u felt about me but rather go hugging ur pillow at night wishing i was there? It means if we start dating, it is sign language we be communicating with? grin

Some wud ask what r/ship: tell her that btw moon n d star ( with a surprise look on ur face).


So I told a girl that I like who has friendzoned me via WhatsApp (we have known for like 7 years, but reestablished contact 3 years ago, after 4 years of not seeing each other)

"Can we not see or talk to each other for some time? I don't think this relationship is going to work."

Her response was: "u are funny oh followed by 4 smiling smilies"

I have ignored her ever since, and she has not said anymore since then.

Am I on the right path? If no, please provide suggestions on what to do differently.

I am done and dusted with being a nice guy.

Like someone said,

Being a nice guy doesn't make a lady like you

Trying to convince a lady to like you will not make a lady like you

Buying a lady food or sending her money does not make a lady like you

Having money does not make a lady like you

Being good looking does not make a lady like you

Doing everything a lady wants or tells you to does not make a lady like you

So no more doing anything and everything she wants, I want to control the relationship going forward.

Any words for me.

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Business / Utility Bill And Bank Accounts In Nigeria by fegeitok001: 11:00am On May 13, 2018
Now that power bills are being paid online how does one give banks a utility bill with house address?
Car Talk / Re: SOS!- Genuine Dexron III Or Dexron VI in Asaba, Delta - Where to get it!! by fegeitok001: 2:21pm On Mar 25, 2015
I got Valvoline Import Multi-Vehicle Full Synthetic - now my mind can rest!

You saved my soul!

My return journey commences tomorrow!

Once more a big thank you to you!!
Car Talk / Re: SOS!- Genuine Dexron III Or Dexron VI in Asaba, Delta - Where to get it!! by fegeitok001: 12:15pm On Mar 25, 2015
Justtobor:
I get my genuine Atf from Ec autos, its located at Awka road in onitsha. not far from Asaba.Call 0803 712 8517 for futher clarifications

Most appreciated.

I have placed a call to them, and they have Castrol Merc/Dex which I can manage, most certainly better than Oando Dexron II or III not to talk of Seahorse and some other names that I have seen here.

Since I will be using public transport to get there, any directions.
Car Talk / SOS!- Genuine Dexron III Or Dexron VI in Asaba, Delta - Where to get it!! by fegeitok001: 10:38am On Mar 25, 2015
130 miles into a trip destined for Asaba, Delta State, a seal got bad. I think its the output shaft seal.

As a result my vehicle started leaking ATF, and i had to stop on the road side and buy 4 cans of seahorse to add to the 3 cans of Dexron VI which I carried on me just in case, and kept topping it every 50 miles till I got to Asaba.

Now the output shaft seal if I am right has been replaced but i can't find a reputable brand of Dexron III or VI to buy.

Any suggestions?

Possible including GPS coordinates or name of street, etc to guide someone who does not know his way around town!

Thanks in advance
Car Talk / Re: 2007 Audi Q7 Vs 2007 Lexus Rx by fegeitok001: 9:47pm On Sep 27, 2014
Why the big deal with resale value?

I would never consider resale value...i would consider a car that makes me feel like never leaving it alone. A car that would make send the driver packing because i want to be its pilot.

I guarantee you the audi is such a car. It looks stately, my uncle has one(2014 model). It looks so nice in black.

If i bought the audi 2007 Q7 i would either drive it till the wheels fall off or drive it for between 7 and 10 years and then give it to someone as a gift or a sell it at less than commercial terms and get something else if i grew tired of it.

Nigerians should learn to fall in love with a car and not a car's resale value.

Then again the audi beats the lexus as far as safety ratings are concerned.

No offence intended but lexus is pure (satchet) water, the audi is bottled water!
Car Talk / Re: What Could Bend a Car control arm? by fegeitok001: 8:20pm On Sep 27, 2014
The industry standard name is control arm. Nigerian spare part dealers call it camber.
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 8:24pm On Sep 22, 2014
adanny01:

Too bad. I feel for you and the car. Its like seein you child hurt decapacitated and in agony.

I was expecting you to go back to Abia from PH but Warri is an extra atleast 100km more.

studying google maps indicates i shd have gone through Abia, but i was so scared of my experience on the way to akwa ibom.
My two tires went bad, will post the pics later. It destroyed a steel rim but the alloy wasnt. miracle.

They have got very good roads in delta.

I have driven lagos to benin from 4pm to 7.20pm but the road is much better.

Its extremely risky to drive in at night in a pothole infested road.

3 seconds distraction made me get into that mighty pothole
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 11:45am On Sep 22, 2014
aieromon:

That's a very long route. What part of Auchi did you experience the burst tires?

about 1mile before the AP filling station/ chief's Palace at ughiole, aviele
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 11:41am On Sep 22, 2014
The journey is officially over. Back where i started in abuja.

Closing odometer reading 149426. Full gist coming soon...stay tuned
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 9:32pm On Sep 21, 2014
fegeitok001: Leaving for port harcourt via eket at 10am 148872 odo @ start. Journey expected to be about 950km instead of around 650km

i didnt do eket again, i went from uyo to ikot abasi to port harcourt. The difference between that and uyo to ikot ekpene to umuahia is as much as the difference between night and day
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 9:21pm On Sep 21, 2014
Made it all the way from uyo to ikot abasi to port harcourt to yenegoa to warri to auchi then i entered a pothole and it took away 2 tires and 1 rim at 7.30pm.

Mileage readout at point of tires bursting was 149223. Meaning i had done 149223 minus 148072 = 350 miles or 563km.

I left uyo at 10.45 suffered 2 police stops that took 1hr 30 mins out of my driving time.

So am staying over at auchi and will complete the journey tomorrow morning
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 9:36am On Sep 21, 2014
Leaving for port harcourt via eket at 10am 148872 odo @ start. Journey expected to be about 950km instead of around 650km
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 3:46pm On Sep 20, 2014
Intended return route: uyo to port harcourt to abuja so ill do the comparison for all of you when i return.

I can do only so little from a mobile device.

Rest assured ill gather as much data as i can for the benefit of the nigerian traveller.
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 4:29am On Sep 20, 2014
Can a country without a good transportation network compete with another country with a bad transportation network? Now replace country with state where state means a subnational govenment.

Honestly i dont think abia state can compete with its peers.

I pity the good people of abia state. I hope their roads can be resurrected. Ill visit that state in another 5yrs to 10 yrs they then they shd have catched up with the rest of the country roadwise
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 11:08pm On Sep 19, 2014
East West road wins! I could have spared the experience/trouble if someone had done an impersonal and unbiased comparative analysis before now
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 7:07pm On Sep 19, 2014
Bossforeva: which car make are you doing it with
mazda mpv 2000 lx
Car Talk / Re: Abuja To Uyo By Road on 19 09 2014/ Uyo To Abuja By Road on 21-22 09 2014 by fegeitok001: 6:48pm On Sep 19, 2014
I arrived in one piece and the car is 99.5 % ok. I need to rest. Ill update with technical details,my feelings, conclusions etc.

The summary of my experience:avoid all the interstate routes in abia state if you can if you value your vehicle even if it will triple the journey

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