You people are busy talking about lecturers, what about the medical doctors that do worst unnoticed. If you are smart not enough to go escort ur girl friend or wife.dem go show am say dey better pass u. Dier own slogan na -doctors' dick de help clinical findings, e dey helep diagnosis. Dem go tel u say, they want try thier natural antibiotics on u to reduce the action the infection on u. THIS IS REAL. NO BE STORY.

i wont blame the couple, i lay blame on their pastor and his commitee, they dont see beyond their nose. No wonder youths in their church marry outside. Bible said' thy rod and thy staff comfort me' . He and his commitee flaunt with' thy rod and thy rod'. How justified are they?. If he loses his members to my church( Bible-based). Let him not complain. He should hv not handled this matter with kid's gloves.

they family members nearly pull down the mini gate( that leads to location pastor quatres) with justified
annoyance. There was a serious drama and confusion. We guest have not witness such, we were busy raining abuses . I mistaken the other solemnization going on indoor for our celebrants'. Little did i heard that '' they don cancel ur guy own' . This is prejudice!

no premarital sex was involve.

assuming, it happens to u how will u feel?, this is misjudgement.

As if it were a Nollywood movie, 13th June, 2015 remains one that raises questions on who gives out in marriage; whether it is the parent or the church. This is against the backdrop of a wedding cancellation that occurred in the Deeper Life Bible Church in Calabar.

It was a Saturday morning that witnessed the intended couple or celebrants already dressed and already in church, and as well families, friends, relatives, colleagues, brethren and many well-wishers alike present to witness or grace the solemnization of the couple whom already had concluded their traditional marriage and court registration.

After waiting for hours, a norm to interview the couple was observed; only to see the location pastor in the church then come up to announce the cancellation of the wedding for reason being that the couple had admitted to have embraced each other before, after the traditional wedding.

Wow! This wasn’t a fiction! ….a decision for a couple had sought parental consent, carried out their dowry payment, traditional marriage and court registration? As an outsider, I consider THIS WAS A HARSH DECISION FROM THE PASTOR!

It then raises the question, WHEN and WHERE does marriage begin? If this pastor was right, what then is the fate of the people of bible age who never went to the church to consummate their marriage?

MY THOUGHT:
I would have advised the pastor to have taken a second thought before taking such a nascent decision especially bothering on;
- the irreparable financial cost of the couple
- the psychological trauma caused to the couple
- degradation and humiliation to the couple’s family at large
- the fate of his church after such a baseless decision

Oh! How it pierces my heart to hear about such puerile and inimical decision made by a no-rank-and-file church leader. But for God sake, why will the intended couple be interviewed on the very day of marriage solemnization? Is this not syncretism? Or is it that the minister wants to score a cheap plus or to be applauded by his laity as well as the General Overseer?
THIS IS PREJUDICE!

As if it were a Nollywood movie, 13th June, 2015 remains one that raises questions on who gives out in marriage; whether it is the parent or the church. This is against the backdrop of a wedding cancellation that occurred in the Deeper Life Bible Church in Calabar.

It was a Saturday morning that witnessed the intended couple or celebrants already dressed and already in church, and as well families, friends, relatives, colleagues, brethren and many well-wishers alike present to witness or grace the solemnization of the couple whom already had concluded their traditional marriage and court registration.

After waiting for hours, a norm to interview the couple was observed; only to see the location pastor in the church then come up to announce the cancellation of the wedding for reason being that the couple had admitted to have embraced each other before, after the traditional wedding.

Wow! This wasn’t a fiction! ….a decision for a couple had sought parental consent, carried out their dowry payment, traditional marriage and court registration? As an outsider, I consider THIS WAS A HARSH DECISION FROM THE PASTOR!

It then raises the question, WHEN and WHERE does marriage begin? If this pastor was right, what then is the fate of the people of bible age who never went to the church to consummate their marriage?

MY THOUGHT:
I would have advised the pastor to have taken a second thought before taking such a nascent decision especially bothering on;
- the irreparable financial cost of the couple
- the psychological trauma caused to the couple
- degradation and humiliation to the couple’s family at large
- the fate of his church after such a baseless decision

Oh! How it pierces my heart to hear about such puerile and inimical decision made by a no-rank-and-file church leader. But for God sake, why will the intended couple be interviewed on the very day of marriage solemnization? Is this not syncretism? Or is it that the minister wants to score a cheap plus or to be applauded by his laity as well as the General Overseer?
THIS IS PREJUDICE!

he deserve it

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nice post

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i think is worth it

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