It's a serious thing my people, that one cannot pronouce his or her name, i mean the first thing any parent should teach he or child is how to pronounce their names even though it sounds like this "AYEBAGBALIEKEWAPIRI" It's your name and u should be proud of it. I know of a guy whose name is chikezie and he calls himself chikizi, cos that's what his yankee friends calls him. It's our culture our pride and who we are if we loose it then we loose our direction.

LOL, very interesting topic and very funy response, but seriously, my hubby snores too and what i do is try to readjust is position because most times when he snores his head is facing the ceiling and he usually stops but other than that you can try like it has been suggested make him see a doctor if it is dat bad but you know he is your man and you have to live with it.

@nairaguy,

You are the best, intelligent and truelly a man.

You guys if you have been oppurtune to work in a firm what ever sort especially in the banking sector you will find most woman have the leadership position, And for all sistas in the House, just know that women make the world go round and not some block headed men as they think, right from the days of CLOE PATRA.

@chuksba$$ who earth made you the moderator of this forum because you are full of shit and you do not keep to the rules of this forum, you use foul language. I'm embarresed at you. You have no respect for women folks and is the beging of your doom unless yiu change your attitude.

To you guys who are so mean spirited, be u a lady or a a guy i pray dat may troubles neva come your way amen.

@cylinder To you who calls ur self cylinder wot sort of lousy name is dat ur tenses are not right and your grammer is terrible. I don't you know if you no wot marrital woes are like if you do u won't be this nasty. my advise to you is before you talk or make comments tink properly, reason it out and for crying out loud always put your self in the persons shoes.

@poster, this is a really sad story, you know in marriage no one can give you the best advise, but you have to know what you want. I believe that the problem is basically immaturity and lack of understanding and just maybe love lost. The foundation of this marriage is not also rite. When the foundation is weak the whole will not be strong. Why not you try and mend the foundation. try to restore love trust and und derstanding back into your relationship. I know it may be difficult but you remember when you were dating was it like this?. call up your wife tell her you want to take out for dinner or something and then just the both of you talk over your issues and pls you are a man don't allow her family to take over your home. Now that you have a new appartment ask her to come back and make things work, You have a son togehter, try and make it work and thank God you even said you love her. It is a wrong orrientation that she brings you bad luck. And both of you really need God's guidiance. QUOTE: HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOUR. Try and obtain that favour from the mist Dvine by solving your problems try and also understand your wife the problem may not all be hers also look at yourself to know if you are over reacting. I wish you the best of luck in this most difficult time of your life.

@chukba$$, this i am sure is one of the most stupid statement you have ever made in your entire life among so many others.

How on earth do you manage with the women in your life?, mom ie is if you are born of one, sisters if u do have them and girl friends ie if u are not gay, if u have no comment on this topic to post why not look up others instead of using this medium to draw attention to ur self, my opinion you lack womanly love in your life, find a good woman for your self ie is if you can then you will sing a different song.

On the topic, Why Do Most Nigerian Men Treat Their Wives Like Maids? I don't think it is a wide spread practice, i am a working class woman and a married one, i have a loving husband who sometimes helps me with the house chores. If i do my duty as a woman which the bible has specified being a help mate to the man i don't think it makes me a maide, a marriage naturally is born out of love and not a contract. If a man treats his wife as a maid then he does not have self respect neither does he have regard for his mother. Because when they see you they should also see your wife. During solominazation the pastor will tell you that 1+1 in marriage is = 1. So for all you men who thinki that women are 2nd class citizens it is not right in the sight of God we are all equal. You might be the head as a man but the woman is the neck and the neck turns the head in the direction it wishes.

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