SAMBARRY:
cutting the Head is not the solution to solving headache.the police should get to the bottom of this and fish out the little murderers.you don't throw the baby with the bath water by shutting down the school because of some animalistic boys.there are decent and we'll brought up students that know why they are in school and are focused.they can't thwart or interrupt their education because of those useless boys.na the boys wey police suppose face including all the porters that were on duty that night the incident happened as well as the security and neighbors of the boys.nobody can claim they didn't hear anything.even if they were sleeping the noise of the aggressors and the victim was supposed to draw attention or at least the neighbors should have reported to the security in the school.

you are right in a way , but most parents feel these private universities are safe havens for their kids failing to realise some of the intakes have been expelled from numerous universities and the private one is their last resort . So imagine a naive teenager sharing hostel space with a hardened student expelled from various other schools for different reasons (cultism, drugs, poor grades ) when will bullying not take place . Back in the day i went to a public university and stayed in one of the feared hostels new hall to be precise it was not for the weak but to my utmost suprise it was one of the safest hostels to stay cause the older ones watched out for the new intakes there was even security 24 hours , man o war had rooms on each floor to stop situations like this . I just hope the necessary action is taken

SAMBARRY:
exactly.i don't even buy the he stole a phone accusation.i suspect he was forced into cultism and the dead boy said no,so in retaliation they beat him to death and used stealing as a convenient excuse to cover for their wickedness

Meanwhile leave the v.c out of this.is the VC supposed to leave his house and be monitoring what the boys are doing in their hostels? Is the VC the parents of the murderers? Is it the vcs job to give the boys home training that they are supposed to collect from their homes

Anyway the Matter don go beyond the one wey you dey talk.parents if you like keep giving birth to dysfunctional children and children you cannot train.na frustrated police men go help you use beating train your children for cell.If God now wan punish you,make some of the parents be single moms or parents wey dey use cooperative money (gbomu Le lantern) pay their childrens school fees.una ho smell your yansh

Oyinbo say there's Time for everything.theres a time to instill godly values in your children especially in their formative years,if you don't do that, when the age pass,na monsters and wild animals go be your children.if you no even dey careful your pikin fit rape you especially with the wild and untrained boys we see everywhere on the streets and in schools

private universitiees like this should be closed even in a public university you cant beat someone for so long and no authority was called or invovled , they just charge high fees so the other students could not go call school security or something , i suspect cult related activities thats why the other students did not report the issue NUC SHOULD SEAL THESE SCHOOL ASAP

The perpetrators no get names they are above 18 let them publish their names simple as A B C

Soldiers no suppose dey interfere for civil matters , na so my gateman go bring soldiers for me , i just jejely call higher rank for barracks hilux of soldiers show carry the two soldier to barracks direct to guard room , them dey misuse their power well well

sonssyo:
wahala everywhere for Naija, let the poor breath

na to begin spray $1 shebi that one no be crime

Afonja101:
I'm sorry for opening a new account to post this and also start afresh on nairaland.

I'm married with two kids aged 9yrs & 6yrs respectively. I was dating my wife while we were planning to marry, then she got pregnant and claimed it's for me, so due to the pressure from her family i had to taker her in ASAP before the pregnancy becomes conspicuous which is what the family was avoiding.

She have birth to the child in 2015 and since then i've been having doubt about being the father of the child, but there was no means of conducting a DNA test due to financial constraints, so i forgot about the DNA test totally and continued taking care of my wife and the child because of the love i have for both of them. Honestly guys i passed through alot in order to cater for them and make them happy... I've seen real stress.

Early this year the mental torture about the Paternity of the child started hitting me real hard again because the child does not look anywhere close to me or my wife, then i started working and saving towards a DNA test.

Finally on the 2nd May, 2024 i conducted a DNA test secretly. After two weeks i was browsing through my phone then a mail entered from the DNA centre. My hands started shaking, my body became so cold due to fear.

After 30mins or thereabout i summoned the courage to open the mail, that was when i got the greatest shock of my life, the probability of Paternity is 0.03%. Immediately i went blank and couldn't even talk as my blood pressure became so high, i was only shedding tears.

After two days, i asked my wife who the father of the child is and immediately she heard my question, she knelt down crying and begging me to forgive her, she said the child belongs to her ex boyfriend, that they've been dating even before i met her.

She further confessed that when she got pregnant, she told him but he denied being responsible and because i was equally dating her and we were also having sex, she decided to pin it on me. I've been taking care of a child who isn't mine for the past 9 years?

I asked her to leave my house together with the two children and i told her that even the second child is not mine because i don't know what to believe anymore. She has left my house already but I'm still passing through a great state of depression, i can't eat, I can't do anything again, just crying my life out.
I don't even pray for night to come because of how difficult it is for sleep to come. Please guys will i ever get over this or heal? It keeps getting fresher and fresher in my mind every moment...

This is the worst thing I've ever seen in my life... God!

if the story is true , what you were scared of happening 9 years ago (losing her to her ex ) has finally happened 9 years after , who is in pains now just you , the ex might be married now with his own biological kids . This is a honest advice to all intending couples out there , when you meet a potential partner try to ask questions , when was their last relationship ? What led to break up and all also do your own findings .Alot of you g adults now are used to this back and forth thing with their previous lovers . Dont let any one use you as an instrument to pepper their previous lover . Now see the mess you could have simply avoided for yourself sorry anyways

Odewaleadesoye:
Controversial media personality and actor, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, aka Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie” isn’t a “real man.”

According to him, a real man wouldn’t tolerate that.

He warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.

Speaking in a video message shared via his Instagram account, Nedu said:

DAILY POST

i laugh in swahili , dont streamline it to a category of persons , a woman can cheat with just any random dude . If you have watched this movie unfaithful the guy was just a random guy from the library , just try to find a partner that is responsible enough to know when and where to set boundaries. Female besties you think less of are even the most dangerous . When your partner tells you she is going to see her female bestie you would not think much of it , she might even call you on video call to show you she is actually with her female bestie but when the call ends do you know what goes down behimd closed doors .some are lesbians ,some are bi- sexual some even use intimacy gadgets on themselves , some go as far as using their homes as a meeting point for your partner and her lover . THE BOTTOM LINE IS YOU CAMT MONITOR ANYONE THESE DAYS A PATTNER THAT WOULD CHEAT WILL CHEAT AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT ,AS THE BOYS SCOUT SAYING GOES BE PREPARED .

Kay25:
The person who sold it knew what was coming just acted smart and left her to face the problem...go and verify when buying properties

thats why it is better to buy in developed areas with old family houses then you can ask around and get some information everybody wants to stay on the island without doing findings , so parts of the mainland are not that bad sha

Uche559:
1. Remember old age sha ooo....
2. There r working class / business minded ladies, wetin u dey look for single broke girls for

we all would get old if you are rich old age is not a problem , i know of a particular bachelor in my former estate he was a landlord there we got talking at a lounger i was shocked when he told me he was not married , he his always looking nice has a chef in his house omo that year i dey emvy the guy oo

TundeWX:
hmm
Who knows,in the coming years there might be technological advances in the field of genotypes...as long as love is there...you can overcome any challenge

i stand to be corrected there are more severe complications than this genotype thing , so to child clinic in most federal medical centres you go tire , some kids are born blind , deaf it takes the grace of GOD TO HAVE A HEALTHY CHILD

JealousCobra:



Serious

be ready for steady police harassment and immigration harassment

JealousCobra:
Who knows about Kenya, I have eyes there .

dont go to kenya , those people no like good thing . They see every nigerian as a cash cow, take this warning seriously

Kaxmytex:
Wahala....

If ur husband no knack u the way u want, the best thing to do is call him and tell him point blank that u ain't satisfied, na ur other half be dat. as a guy, that ur woman come reason u sey u no satisfy am no mean sey she's loose or she was promiscuous at a point in time..
U both need to come together and find solutions to it, e fit be hormonal imbalance, two good heads are better than one, u both have to come together and fix whatever causes the problem, cheating will only create more problems

And if hin come dey knack u d way u like, try dey tell am, no show am, tell am with ur mouth sey u feel the knack, thank you...

did she not court or date him for sometime , these things are not difficult if the person is not performing to your sexual expectations kindly break up and look for who matches you in that part not complaining after marriage this is just a silly excuse my own opinion

Gbadugbakun:



I just went to knock at his door. He just shouted who is that. When I told him I'm the one he told me he doesn't have money that he would give me when he has. He didn't even come out to see me. He's still inside the house and he's door is locked

Am just holding myself honestly, because if I do what is in my mind people will say is because of 5k.

well you should have yourself to blame, initially when you were renting the house and you discovered it was 5 dofferent apartments using one meter that one nstamce you should have backed out cause such arrangements always end up in calamity cause the usage can never be even imagine you are not at home all day most times , then the other person is a full time stay at home mum does that sound even . Somethings are totally avoidable

Ever8090:
I don't know if some of this stories are actually true or just for content if not this woman should be thanking God that she came out of the man's house alive

i personally feel parents and guardians need to do more , teach these young adults around on how to date properly most of them are usually on a revenge mission once they fall out with their exes hence going back amd forth if you are leaving see reasons not to go back , give yourself time to heal not making out with two different guys almost at the same time you get pregnant then pin it on the one that is more bouyant or desperate to have you . Alot of men afrer back tracking are actually leaving in doubt on the paternity of their first when they actually remember how they met their current partners

Awoleesu:
Ehhhnnn carry the bastardi go meet her papa nah! Olosho werey!

make all men wise up , just last week i was at the station a married woman and her boyfriend were caught in her matrimonial home amd the lady was 5 months pregnant , i just tire instantly and she has 2 others kids ooo . Wahala for who no shine him eyes

maasoap:


When did not making noise start if I may ask? Lol.
Actually, people who are doing processing don't usually make noise about it as you very well know that 99% of Nigerians are superstitious irrespective of their tribe . But the fact that all of us can't deny is the fact that many things have changed unfavourably for intending travellers seeking economic fortunes abroad toward the end of last year: immigration policies, increased fees and naira devaluation

the tales we are hearing from that side is not encouraging , imagine an average person selling all he has wprked for years to relocate where its a 50/50 thing ,many have gone and come back and sharing their tales . Some citizens of these countries are actually homeless

tobenuel:
I'm glad you now have a son. sit back and allow him father someone's else child from a useless Nigerian geh

some kind things wey I dey hear for this country just dey make me dey vex, dey para

a lot of young men are dying daily or living in serious doubt , once they remember how they met their present spouses and the time duration for the fist baby , shame will not allow many to speak up

Otulented:
Am telling you ooo! You're shooting such a movie. You couldn't even provide a life jacket.

the message they should be passing as actors now is people should take safety seriously ,whatever situation you find yourself safety should come first but most are interested in taking pictures or making videos that they want to go post on social media .Also the actors should be encouraged on how to use their social media accounts correctly by drawing the attention of necessary authorities to ugly situations like this .We joke alot with safety in this country

Benoxvals:
Once u meet someone u like and see that the relationship is going on a good path..take style ask bout genotype and blood group…no waste time oooo.
He is simply not ur husband Nne..dry ur ears.

everyone is AA until reality sets in amd people should start educating themselves properly on these possible combinations alot of potential good relationships have ended due to wrong narratives on the streets

Truths9ja:
I don’t like the way you talk here, how could you be talking about dick size. Dick is dick, why thinking about the size. Definitely you will never be satisfied in bed then. Be contented with what you have and what God gave your spouse now. There’s no big or small dick. Dick is dick

dont mind her , everyone is smarter when it is not their story

MomentMan:
ED1BAD1

boss abeg share your whatsapp your game sharp make we diiscuss

Dyfynezz12:
They want to be sure u 're the kid's dad.
Honestly if I were u I will secretly conduct my own test to be sure

But lets look at it from another angle she might not be up to anything cause schools of these days do too much and ask for different unnecessary information maybe just to have more medical record about their new intake

gfelo:
Please nairalanders my girl friend had a baby for me 3years ago and I promise to marry her, but due to the nature of my work am not always around, suddenly the mother in law called me and ask me about my genotype that the school the went to enrolled my baby is asking for my genotype.

I can't really understand why the school is asking for my genotype.

Please doctors and teachers help me.

Mod please to front-page

she is not your mother inlaw yet , stop taking your relationship to where it has not gotten. At this junction politely ask for a genotype amd dna test or withdraw financial assistance if they refuse , use your head before them use am for you

millionboi2:
he fit dey do yahoo use pos dey cover up....but dat no mean say money no dey pos ooo

nope na poshim dey do

i have a friend that operates several pos points and he drives a benz so no go dey dull yourself ,most pos people earn more than bankers and other blue collar jobs

equatorial guinea wey no reach 2 million for population some local government in lagos have more population than this equatorial guinea na wa.Na them hold super chickens for work

Natbrowny:


This part right here if done without boundaries and common sense is called a DISEASE.

There is unconditional love but nothing like unconditional tolerance.

Love according to science is a situation where there is a change in ur brain functions.

Acc to Elders of Old. They call it a disease with or without cure depending on ur view about it.

the lady only said the family dont want him to go on with the marriage ,she was not specific .Is it traditional wedding or the white wedding .Do not be shocked if it is the white wedding the churched her to go for pt test and genotype and all that .He might have married her in court so all this might just be the best way to manage the whole situation .Lets go on with the marriage and we disolve it later .Do you think disolving a legal marriage is easy in this country

Natbrowny:


Lets leave the hoe for a minute. She shows her color so fast.

Whats up with that bros.

Somtin is definitely up

for the lady to even agree to go on with the marriage she must definately be a greedy and wicked person ,it might be his own of wanting to deal with her ,so she will live with the shame and there will be a constant reminder .

Natbrowny:


Lets leave the hoe for a minute. She shows her color so fast.

Whats up with that bros.

Somtin is definitely up

let people be drinking Panadol for another man's headache atleast he knows, do you know how many men are fathering kids that aren't theirs .Na their mouth dey sharp pass for this kind matter .DONT JUDGE WHAT YOU HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED YOU MIGHT EVEN ACT FAR WORSE THAN THE PRESENT VICTIM

Natbrowny:


Lets leave the hoe for a minute. She shows her color so fast.

Whats up with that bros.

Somtin is definitely up

let me share a story, there is someone I know who returned from abroad the wife to be got pregnant the pregnancy was confirmed to be 4 months, and the guy has only been in the country for 2 months and some weeks. He put their wedding plans on hold after some time the guy was assassinated in his house. I think the news made headlines but most people did not know what went down. You have to be careful with these ladies. So in situations like this don't jump to conclusions do you know if she was raped? for the man to agree to go ahead with the wedding he must have his plans and must have thought things through. Do you know if it is an arranged wedding or if the guy has been paid to marry the lady? For relocation purposes. So things like this don't just start assuming what's not?