demospain:


Declare the passport lost by backing it up with a police report .as the nigeria high commission in London will request for the POLICE REPORT.
About the evidence to prove to the embassy,if u can get a copy of the data page perfect but if not the police report will cover that.since your expired passport its an e-passport.your finger print will proof the authenticity.

About the process.u fill online application.choose united kingdom as ur location country and make a payment online as well by card.
In Spain where i live,u dont need appointment .u just go to the embassy after d online application and payment for scanning but in England the last time i help a family friend to do the processing the appointment/interview date always stated in d payment receipt.
If u need further assistance regarding processing dont hesitate...
U can send me mail- rashidous@gmail.com

Yassss thank you Please check your inbox, I emailed you.

Lexusgs430:


Declare your passport missing and take police report to Nigerian High commission for guidance........

Thank you

Hello Everyone,

I live in London but was born in Nigeria(left naija when I was 9) and I am a british citizen but my child passport has expired(am 24 now) and I need to travel to Nigeria in August/September but I don't know what to do.

The problem is my dad is not in good terms with his family and my biological mum for the past 20 years and I asked my dad for my expired child passport but he gives me excuses and I know he has it. Anyways, is it a good idea to report it as lost even though it has been a long time the passport expired so more than 7 years now.

What will I put as the passport number since I have no information for that. Also what evidence do I have to proof to the embassy it is genuine?

Also how much would it cost for everything ands whats the actual process after I filled everything.

I hope to start this process sometime in March after this brexit wahala don finish.

Wait oo, they dated for 5 years, isnt five years enough for him to decide she is the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with?

I no understand

Chaiii!! I like this girl oo.

That is one correct babe!!

Common 3800 the guy dey scream!!!

She even dash him change.

Lool this is jokes!!!

I can say the same for guys who do this to. Theirs is even worse, change dp at least 4 times a day(I have a make friend who does this)

No joke!!

I sometimes change my dp maybe once every two/three weeks.

But I think you need to leave her alone. Plus maybe she has someone else she likes or maybe uploading them for u since u guys are in a LDR?

Don't know what the answer is but talk to her again.

Although somehow why is this bothering you so much? U appear a bit controlling if I may say so myself?

I hate people that control others, its rather disgusting and ugly(i know from past experiences, the moment i see someone is trying to control me, I cut them asap)

But hey its just my opinion. Just ignore me

OMFG!!

U guys should see it so many police officers and ambulance. It crazy out here.

Just came out of the office as my office is literally close to where it happened.

I walked to work and on my way to work from there every day.

God this country is no longer safe.

The guy is even stupid, westminister is always packed with Police officers 24/7 so he must have known it wouldnt go down well.

Sigh.

God help us all!!

Came:
50,and a single father because of wife battering. So you be 50 come dey act like teenager dey beat your wife.

Trust me even 60 - 80 year old men still behave as if they are in their young teens or 20's. My own father is one of them and one of my ex's no joke.

You would think at that age that they would grow up and mature but nooo. My dad is 60 and says he is still a young handsome man that he doesnt want to be a grandad or have grand children. I was just looking at him like smhh. He has six kids and he still behaving like a child.

It is well.

kennygee:
I don't doubt that.

As a woman, live for God, get an education, strive to be the best in your business or field, take care of yourself, get that money, if love comes your way, good for you.

GBAM!!

omoharry:
Exactly as you have written..its a mans world after all. sometimes i feel adoption is the way to go for matured single women without children or those that are too scared to get married..at least nobody will come and shame you for not even having any kids.This option sometimes crosses my mind whenever i see the various marital issues in Nigeria; how women are made to endure all form of inhuman treatment in in the name of marriages and they are expected to be silence and persevere through it all. Then when they leave, they will be called all kind of negative names.so many of them have lost their lives to violence from their husbands some have died of high blood pressure from their cheating and irresponsible husbands.Some marriages are good though but i believe many Nigerians are pretending about having a perfect marriage when its actually a terrible one. This woman is the only one that know why her divorce is worth celebrating..she is the one that wears the shoe and no body should judge.

So true my sister. I just pray to God that my 3 brothers will not fall under the same category as most of this men that are misbehaving in society.

Even my own dad that I looked up to since I was born, I never knew he could turn out to be like them, yes he doesnt beat my mum still the things he has done as a man and is still doing just coz he is wealthy, ahhhhh God I forgive him but I can never look at my dad the same again. Because of him, I dont want anything to do with men, I just want kids, I sincerely don't a man. I find it so hard to trust men, like if they told me good morning I would go outside to double check it is actually morning.

Yes there are good relationships our there but those ones are rare to find and sometimes we have to be careful about those ones we see as good or perfect relationships as in fact they really are worse, trust me, I have a friend who did everything for her man and whenever you see these two together you would really envy them from afar and this girl anywhere she goes, she turns head as in this girl was what you call an African Goddess and this girl is so pretty as in she is gorgeous(no homo) and she would tell us all the different positions she gives her men and even when they are both in public they would literally start kissing and rubbing each other in different places that if you didn't know they were married you would think she is a prostitute and everything and she even goes to the gym, and this girl is slim but curvy. This girl has several businesses (way before she even met her husband and she is is a very strong Black woman as in, she is smart) and her husband is also a wealthy man too. She takes good care of herself and her home and this girl can coook and they have a son together and when we found out her husband sleeps with different women left right and centre, that day did it for me. If you see how this girl looks now, I really cry each time, as in she is no longer the same and she literally moved out of their home to her duplex with her son and this girl is one of my good friend. Before I used to have hope, not anymore.

I have lost faith in humanity.

Seriously God help us all.

missomo:


It is so disgusting and disturbing. I blame their mothers. If they had set a good example that women are to be respected and not tolerate the brutal excesses of their abusive fathers, they would know better.

Exactly my sister. The way a man treats a woman is the way he has seen his mother been treated by his father or how he sees his mother treated from a young age. If a man respects his woman, you can tell he had a good upbringing or better still had a good influence.

Sigh, I used to be one of those ladies when I was young the age of 9 saying I am going to get married at the age of 25 and I am now 22+ and seriously, I am really not thinking about that right now. I am even erasing that thought from my head completely.

All I see marriage is death, sadness, controlling, ugly, depression, baby making machine and any other things that you can think off.

God help us all.

Some naija men here saying she is a hoe for getting a divorce and she will be jumping from one man to another.

Wooow look at the world we are in.

Every time they always blame the woman, they don't even know what she has been through but obviously Women are the evil ones abi? Men are so innocent.

Sometimes I wish women wouldn't need men especially to make babies etc coz I tire for them.

Only real men would listen and take note not judge every woman or generalize.

Seriously all i see now with marriage is hell. Even watching my own parents, its a disgrace and people are really miserable in it. I will just adopt kids.

Mtchhhhewwwwwwwwwwww!!

Just give her a few weeks or like 2 months and you will starts seeing pimples, rashes and acne scars.

It is not good at all!! She is destroying her skin!!

It will be very very very very difficult to fix her skin naturally once it has started with the above.

Just ask her and tell her for us oo.

I don't understand why she is even doing it.

boiz2men:


You should consider working with the media houses

I just realised its you. Lool u follow me for every comment I make on any page or forum?

You are one weird fella

judefcc:
those lips u go sabi gist well

looll nooo am actually a quiet person. I can literally go a whole 3 hours without talking.

boiz2men:


You should consider working with the media houses

lool why do you say that?

hmmm

Well it depends really. Most Girls usually get lots of attention from various men/boys everyday especially from the moment they hit puberty so sometimes(even me) it kinda becomes annoying when guys stare at you (OMG, I seriously hate this-like this has been going on since I like turned 18 and it makes me really uncomfortable like its not like they even stare and look away they literally stare for a very long time and even my friends confirm it when I go out and sometimes I am thinking is there something on my face or what, its kinda creepy and this why I am scared of going out coz there is never one day where I never get stared at by guys and I bet you will be saying I am paranoid but I am not my brothers, dad and everybody have confirmed it and even my dad had to insult one guy once when he was reallly staring at me) and also we hate it when guys ask us out or chat us up.

Most of the times I would be polite but there are times where am like jeez, can I breathe at least?

Don't get me wrong I am sure most girls(especially me and my friends) we are flattered but there are moments where we just want to go a day without someone hitting on us (and I hate guys who just cant be themselves and whats up with the weird catch up lines- it aint necessary lool) and whats worse is when we are with our bf and a guy starts chatting her up and pisses her bf off(especially me since I look like a kid so they might have assumed he was like my brother/uncle or even my dad lol).

For that guy that said those girls who do these are the cheap ones, LOOOLZ. Don't categorize all girls in one basket.

Sorry if my grammar and punctuation is rather informal and incorrect but am like inside a train so I cant proof read what I wrote but there is no signal underground here.

I hate LDR!!

Like no joke. Plus its worse when you are working in the UK and u only get like 20 days or so for leave in a year and u hv to try and book those for that relationship and u never have any left for urself.

Like noo thank you.

Not again.

She looks good for 60. Like wooow. Yes she is wearing makeup but not a a lot. U can tell she has aged well.

Babagod, please I want to look even younger when I reach her age. Although u r already doing it for me since I can even buy a lottery ticket that 16+ can buy.

Chaiii. The man looks like her father to me.

Anyways, I wish their marriage joy and happiness and it will be fruithful, as they say anything is possible and God can make anything possible we just have to trust and believe in him.

captainmichaelo:
My dear @Filashade, I was very weary to read the whole story cos of the length, but from your tone I could tell u wrote it all in pain. More like u can't phantom how a 23 year old lad would stay at home all day playing Vid games and u as a female will b out there grinding trynna make things work out for u. One thing I want u 2 know is it regardless of Wat people might write here, been determined to make it in life against all odds is a choice. We all make choices, and we are all results of the choices we make either good or bad. Choices of who we r, what we become, even whom we date. Now your relationship issh, your guy is a result of what he made himself to be ( his choice?) . A guy that cannot go out and struggle to fend for himself and his immediate family or wife or gf is not worthy to be called a man or a bf. He is just a baby regardless of his age. What happened to Royal Mail? Tesco, farm fresh, aldy, KFC and the rest? These guys take applications all the time. If he doesn't have papers Its another situation.
Wen I was in college back in d day, I was living in Newcastle, would go and wash dishes as far as leeds town center and still get back to Newcastle at night just to save up money for college and still send money to folks in naija. I washed dishes to the point that my fone couldn't recognize my fingerprint anymore lol...and weekly Ild still pocket about 250 pounds. Even though I wasn't proud of d hustle back then, it was a means to an end as my education continued, could easily afford alot of things for myself and could easily date anyone but that wasn't a priority at the time, had to Send things home to folks too. I am proud of d kind of man I hv become now, a captain Oluwaseun.That's the pride of a man!!!
Ditching his ass isn't a bad idea TBH. Uld meet great hardworking guy, and u will be fine. Just finish well and bag a good grade and u will meet someone of your class.

ahhhh u r in the UK My fellow british brother!!! How u dey na?

Lool. Yes I was really shocked that at his age he wass still misbehaving. But I thought it was just a little phase he was going through and needed guidance to bring him back up.

Thanks for advice and yes I hope to meet someone in my class one day as I really am a nice girl who isnt materialistic but try telling that to guys and they think ur lying

boiz2men:



Hey there is a bird in the sky. It's been flying around in the sky for a while now. No one is looking at it.

Be a good girl and stop reading (stop looking down) and say hello to the bird.


The bird doesn't bite and it doesn't hurt to be nice to the bird

Loool who is the bird that I should say Hi to?

Okwyjesus:


Run ! he will overwork you if you marry him. But you have to work on improving him before you run.

ahahah loool. I havr ran away from him. I have given him motivational words to help him and told he needs to grow up but its over and I wish him luck at whatever he does.

Ahhh me marry him, no way!!!! That is not the kind of man I want and also marriage seems miserable these days so I am unusure about that area although I want to marry my soul mate one day but for now, I want to enjoy being single and enjoying my own company and life in general coz I have never done that and I need to build my self esteem. I hv been taking care of everyone but not myself. I want to breathe and live.

Greedgod:
see my frnd , highlight wat makes u hapi- if its watching movies once a month -do it , if its hanging out with frnds- hang out, if it involves making money via work -den work, if it involves going to comedy shows -attend , if its sex -find someone . Etc
One day u'll get old , either u smile and wish to be yung again / u'll be bitter regretting how u hinged ur happiness on people . Keep making m oney my frnd and chase fun !! If possible have sex and lots of it cos one day u'll be too old to have it .

Loool. Thank you ooo.

I really need that. This year 2017 is my year. I hv been calm about so many things since I was a child and I think its time I break it.

Its not just with this relationship but with my family. I hv always been there for my family, taking care of my brothers from a yung age when my parents are there working and they gave me this responsibility and not enjoying life or doing things that I enjoy coz of strick parents and a dad who holds grudges against his own family like 30 decades ago and not foriving and behaving as if he is God and holy when all along he is actually a liar and cheating and so many things that I feel like this year mannn, I must move out and break this bonds. Dont know why I didnt do this ages ago.

But yes this year 2017 is gonna be my year to have happiness and no one is gonna stop me.

Thank you for your advice

Ishilove:

Lol. He is repeating Uni? You're patient o.

Your next relationship will definitely be better than this last one because you will use lessons learnt to direct it.

Lool exactly. Thaat is why I decided to end it coz boii I dont want to waste another 8 years like some people with someone like that and that person will probably realise they need to grow up by the age of 30 and oh boiii, I am getting out while I can.

I sure know my next relationship will be better.

Also I noticed a lot of guys take women's niceness for granted and misuse them.

Greedgod:
must all relationshp lead to marriage ? Its just ONE life with 25years of youth . ENJOY LIFE

I actually agree with you.

Single people are much more happy that people who are in relationships or married. Its like they are so miserable and I can also see it with my parents too.

My dad is tryna eat to cake at once. My dad seems to not want to let my mum live her life(they are not married) and is always harassing her etc while his wife(my step mum) is just there. He doesnt want to let go of one of them.

So darling, I hv watched since the age of 9 and I know marriage isnt all that it looks like. It is a lot of work.

JeffreyJamez:


Smh ....This is what happens to you when you're pyschologically damaged but don't even know it...So to you ,any guy who's not having regular sex is masturbating? ......You do know that there are MANY more important things in life than sexual pleasure,yeah?... and many more things that are more pleasurable than sex.

Kill that mentality my friend,

Tell him oo.

JeffreyJamez:


I see you've made a decision,a right one at that. Being single and happy is better than being in a one sided toxic relationship. When the time is right,I believe you now know what to look out for in a potential boyfriend.

Yes I sure will. Although I unblocked him and told him how I feel and told him we should go our seperate ways. I am just tired.

Even my brothers who are 19, 19(twins) and 21, they are still in school and a responsible and try to take care of themselves and have ambitions and are motivated. I dont know man.

O ti sun mi. I just want out.

But thanks for your advice. I sure know what to do if I am in a relationship again.

boiz2men:



Babe you were too fast.


You blocked the dude already


Too fast.


Ppo complain about me. They say I don't call. they know I care but cos I don't call as often as I should. They think am less caring. My mum, siblings, friends all say this.

They also complain that I'm not serious. I'm lazy etc

But the truth is that I am quite secretive. Like I already told you I'm an ambitious person. In fact, there are so many tech projects am working on right now but no one knows except my co-founder and team.


My mum when she comes over always complain that am always with my computer. She thinks am chatting.

Because am always on my laptop. I have very few friends and they complain that u don't call. I don't go out. They would probably think I'm nor ambitious.

But then am cooking something that would shock them all.


Ya guy might be like that. He probably is secretive too like me and he is unto something.

Blocking him outright cos of what u read here isn't the way to go.

Give him time and say no when he asks for money henceforth. If he doesn't go, he is a good guy. If not, block him


My 3cent

Lool this is not the first time he has asked me to borrow him money. When I told him no the last time he wast like so you like giving your family money and not me your bf? You are supposed to be giving me £100 allowance per month he said. I asked him, do I look like your maga to u? He said what?

Trust me, this is something I have been holding in for several months and I can see he is not serious. He even told me he is trying to get some money from his friends coz he did something for them and they owe him bla blah and he has never even bought me a sweety that cost 5p and I never complained about that but its too much. I wanted to do several acitvities with him even going to the movies and he said no thats rubbish that we should have sex instead that body no be firewood.

Please, can u now see why although I have unblocked him and told him how I feel that he needs to grow up etc. He is nice and all but I want more than nice. i hv been quiet about this for a long time and its killing me. He needs to grow up.

Kudos to you for doing that. At least I know you are ambitious and motivated. He isnt. I hv asked him about 6 times already what he wants to do in the future and he said he doesnt know and its not like I ask him every day.

I am just tired. I want to be single and happy. I love it that way. Please.

Also he has assignments to do and asked me to do it for him two weeks before the due date and he says he doesnt know what they are sking him for. The next time he asked me to type a letter for him when he was at home all day watching movies. Oga please what more can a girl take, I have been patient enough already. Its time to let him grow up and be a man.

Ishilove:

You are a grown up yourself, dear and you have already started taking grown up decisions. Relationships go beyond a guy being 'nice' or clearing plates for you; it has to be defined from the outset. What are the long term goals of the relationship? Why are we dating in the first place? What do I hope to achieve by being in a relationship with this person? How have I gained from dating this person? How has it helped to build me up as an individual?

DEFINITION and DESTINATION should guide every relationship. Personally, I have never dated anyone for just dating's sake because I don't have the patience for useless things or people in my life.

From all you have written, the one you're currently in is paracitic instead of mutually beneficial. In addition, your bf is lazy, immature and has no focus in life: a deadly combo.

Leave him and focus on building your life. You won't die if you fly solo

Thanks for your advice. I am still young and learning. While I was with him I was thinking about how happy I was being single and how miserable and sad I was while with him and couldnt wait to be single again.

I actually feel happy now that its all over. The feeling of being single is such a blessing and it has only been a couple of hours.

I hope to not let this happen in my next relationship. I guess I had all the patience to see if he would change but knew that at the age of 22, I cant be wasting my time with a 23 year old who doesnt even hv the balls to do his own assignment and is still repating uni. By the time he gets his act together he would probably be 30 and darling, I am only 22 and want to enjoy my life lool.

Thanks you once again

JeffreyJamez:


You see why a lot of you are in messed up relationships?...When all y'all think about is Sex.....Rubbish.

abeg please tell him for me.

cloudyskygrind:
Ok i don't normally do this but you got it...
I'm no relationship expert (no one is) but I can tell that you're very inexperienced and this has got no'in to do with love. This is probably your first relationship?, you think you are in love but no, you aren't.

You're so called boyfriend has got no issue, the truth is, he's not in a relationship with you - he's not in a relationship with anyone not even himself. He needs to be alone to sort out himself

What you need to do is concentrate on understanding relationships as an adult because right now you're grossly naive like countless young girls in the UK.

Love is exaggerated

Thanks Oga. I know I am young and naive but not stupid. I am a very patient person thats why I was still with him coz I thought he would change but guess I was kidding myself, at the age of 23, he is still repeating his first year of uni while I have worked for nearly four years about to embark on a new position and about to graduate from uni in August.

So no darling, I was giving him time to hang himself, yes I liked him but wanted to give him a chance to prove why I should stay in the relationship and I have tried to motivate him but I can see that he doesnt want to why should I waste my fruitful years with a guy who is still living unders some bubbles.

As I said earlier, I maybe young and naive but I aint stupid.

Also this is not my first relationship but my second as I dont date that much coz the guys I meet are just time wasters who are pretending to be someone else.

Correction we girls in the UK are not stupid when we do things, we are just patient and watching everything then when the time comes we have all the things we need to tell him to f*ck off.

But thanks for your advice though.