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Religion / Re: MFM PMCH May 2022 Prayer Points by Finesse1st: 5:12pm On May 07, 2022
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Business / Re: Which Business Can One Start With ₦200K In 2022? by Finesse1st: 2:00pm On May 05, 2022
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Romance / Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend by Finesse1st: 1:17pm On May 05, 2022
DaInferno:
dogs are also in the race
I don't understand
Romance / Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend by Finesse1st: 1:00pm On May 05, 2022
Sisora:
you can't see your problem yet?

Trust is earned. Not given.

What you are looking for is a girl to offer herself to you on a platter of gold simply because you think in your head that you are a good man and will give her the best experience.

First off, no girl can read your mind the moment you walk up to her and start toasting her.

This is why they set up tests to see if you are genuine and real.

You don't just walk up to an employer without certificate and say "trust me, I have a good certificate and I'm qualified for this job"

You need to provide solid proofs.

It's the same with relationships. People want to know if they can trust you. If you are worth their time.

You need to provide that proofs in the chasing processes. Of course, you may one day find a girl that will give herself over to you free without trying to validate you.

But not everyone is like that.

The problem you are having is thinking a girl feels she's too expensive when they want you to chase them. How will you feel if your sister keeps offering herself to the very first man that smiles at her? That's what you want.

Thirdly, there are girls that refuse the advances of men like Elon Musk. It's not always about the money, good looks or the life.

People are looking for unique connections. What you think you are offering might not even mean anything to a girl.

This is why some girls will not go to a man's house even when he sent her a personal driver with a private car but the same girl will climb Okada to another's house.

Please get your head off your a*s and start working on building genuine relationships instead of waiting for a girl to just follow you up like she does not have her own life to live.
my problem is not the chasing and of course a lady will not want to appear cheap but 99% of this ladies I approached are girls I know are already dropping dead for me and like I said I'm not hyping myself but out of 9 out of 10 girls crush on me. And d remaining 1 self gan just dey hide her feelings ni, but if I approach anyone I think Is my spec out of them, they will. Start playing games with me and want me to start Chasing then maybe to get some ranks or something, And lose my value among other girls. For now look at me like u want to swallow me till tommorow I will not even look ur side for a second, I prefer transaction relationship, dem club strip girls, call girls e. T. C I don't have time for all those emotional games..
Romance / Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend by Finesse1st: 11:40am On May 05, 2022
Sisora:
your problem is laziness and pride.


Pride that you can't work for love. Well, no girl will walk right into your bedroom just because you want them to.

Everyone want to feel valued. Everyone wants someone to cherish them.

So until you are ready to come down from your high horse, get your hands dirty and really work to keep a girl, you'll continue to remain alone or possibly get a gold digger.
and that is exactly what I cannot do "to come down from my high horse" like I dey pass and one girl for one corner they talk say dis guy toast me and I no gree for ham? No and never! I cherish my dignity so much and I don't actually need external factors to be happy, but I can actually gel with a girl dat give me no stress and trust me I will treat her so well and she will never forget me in life (I can only unleash the cul side of me when I'm totally free with u) and morover no way a girl can gold dig me I'm an emotional intelligence person there is no way u can hide ur intentions from me, I will know it from a thousand Miles by merely looking at u I can know wat u are thinking

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Romance / Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend by Finesse1st: 10:15am On May 05, 2022
Jayrockk:
youre probably a sigma male. Check wise thinker & bloke box on YouTube and thank me later
oh! Bro bro I googled the trait of the sigma male, and I have all the traits listed there, I just feel too happy with myself in every aspect and love doing things at my own pace, I'm not scared of them girl's but I feel so difficult to Chase girls or at the mercy of anybody I can speak and talk to anybody no matter ur status, but only hold a relationship with whether a male/female if relationship is mutual but not me trying to make things happen
Romance / Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend by Finesse1st: 5:16pm On May 04, 2022
Faber:


On top the whole wahala way full the universe, your own problem is a mensurating, stinking, stingy, selfish, manipulative, dog - prone, ingrate of a being to come and stress your life..

Okay na. No come here much later stress us with heartbreak story. Na your type girls dey do shege grin grin
no girl go fit do Me shege cus me self na shege
Romance / Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend by Finesse1st: 4:36pm On May 04, 2022
siofra:
Have you learned to love?
how?
Romance / Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend by Finesse1st: 2:44pm On May 04, 2022
God1000:
The right person will come, don't beg for love
bros I'm not hyping myself, I have the cute face, the soft lips, the fitted stature, the abs, the skin colour (I'm not dark not Fair in complexion, I'm chocolate) yet I find it so difficult to approach a lady I always go back to my default mode after just small hard to get forming from the girls

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Romance / Why Is It So Difficult To Get A Girlfriend by Finesse1st: 2:33pm On May 04, 2022
I have everything a girl needs in man but I'm an introvert I just love talking to myself only, I got a lot of green light but immediately I try to go for it and the girl form a little hard to get I just immediately go back to my default settings.




Help...... I need a soul mate

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Celebrities / Re: Rita Dominic-Anosike Vibes Into A Party With Legwork As She Hugs Ini Edo by Finesse1st: 2:29pm On May 04, 2022
Fake love
Education / Re: LASU Final Year Female Student Commit Suicide Over Lack Of Money (photo) by Finesse1st: 2:06pm On Oct 11, 2021
Cokahot:
Living above your means. Hehe had a big phone, had whatsapp. But could not sell the phone to pay her fees.
its either u are a village man or an illiterate wey no know say u dont need a big phone b4 u can access WhatsApp, a 6000 naira refurbished phone can do dat 4 u...

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Agriculture / Re: Order 4 Your Day Old Chicks/creates Of Egg by Finesse1st: 3:46pm On Oct 10, 2021
We sell any quantity u want
Agriculture / Re: Order 4 Your Day Old Chicks/creates Of Egg by Finesse1st: 3:45pm On Oct 10, 2021
We deliver to anywhere in nigeria
Agriculture / Order 4 Your Day Old Chicks/creates Of Egg by Finesse1st: 3:45pm On Oct 10, 2021
Cockerel, boiler, layers, turkey (foreign/local)
And creates of eggs in large or small quantities
Politics / Re: No DSS Operative Was Killed By The Police (Imo Police Command Refutes Reports) by Finesse1st: 6:00pm On Oct 08, 2021
Police can deny anything

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Romance / Re: I'm just having fun by Finesse1st: 8:15am On Oct 07, 2021
omotoshodontee1:
Make I see d look 1st..I may be of help
wetin u want use my picture do?
Romance / Re: I'm just having fun by Finesse1st: 6:24pm On Oct 05, 2021
Blessing185:
then u should have transferred ur looks into ur account by dialling*737# instead of coming here to seek for attention.
ok tank u
Romance / Re: I'm just having fun by Finesse1st: 6:13pm On Oct 05, 2021
Blessing185:
Drop ur contacts with those hotel managers so they can help you sell your arse to those yahoo plus guys.
illicit:
Join Nigerian Army
Longsleeve:
Get a customized shirt with Ashawo inscription..

Locate the nearest busy junction..one sugar mummy go carry you..
Longsleeve:
Get a customized shirt with Ashawo inscription..

Locate the nearest busy junction..one sugar mummy go carry you..
OgogoroFreak:
Walk into a bank and deposit your looks into your bank account. Simple!
tank u all but with due respect no tanks
Romance / Re: I'm just having fun by Finesse1st: 5:54pm On Oct 05, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:


Since u are a graduate, dedicate ur life to GOD, listen to all apostle Joshua Selman messages everyday, open an Instagram page, take clean and nice pics, put his quotes as well and snippets of what u learnt on Sunday and on ur status..comment wise and Christian comments to people post
Watch how God blesses u within a week
Congratulations, u will blow
tank u sister
Romance / I'm just having fun by Finesse1st: 5:05pm On Oct 05, 2021
I'm just having fun

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