@atilla

This is a good point. I think that I didn't help him neither because I like being well-dressed and I love fashion. He even asked me several times where I got my money from because I made it clear that I'm an independent person.  I also got the question: are you rich? to which I answered no, but he's pretty sure that I lied. However, I remember once while we were talking  he suddenly told me: "One day, I'll run money on you".

Thanks so much  for sharing with me!

@bubugul

Haiti is a country built by former slaves that freed themselves from french owners. They were mostly from many different tribes of west Africa.  In the memory of the great sacrifices (war etc.) they did for the nation we still honor them as our fathers/ancestors. Thus, in our culture and collective memories,  we celebrate them by their music, dances and rituals.  Among them, there were people from Ibo (Igbo) tribe, Nago (Yoruba) tribe, Congo tribe etc.

@bubugul

platinumnk is right. We still celebrate in our culture the courage of the ibo (igbo) people and also the nago people (yoruba) among others.

@patwhizkid , sjeezy8, OgidiBoy and mama-gee

Your opinion is also important to me. You can fully understand the meaning without reading the information in parentheses.

@Paroh_frey, tanimz and gongo aso

lol!

@humblemate and jejelolatu

Thanks a lot for your comments! This is what I did, but because of two different cultural upbringings, I would not like to be fool (or to be abused).

@blandyne

Thank you for your advice!

And one more thing, what do you mean by "he said that i will bring money to his family".

He didn't explain it to me.

@jejelolatu 

French and creole. I'm still learning english.

I'm a tall, black, beautiful (with figure 8 ) and educated Haitian girl (about to end my degree in engineering) who met a 25 years old igbo man from a good family (still attending university) 2 years ago at an university campus. He is a charming and handsome guy also. When we first met he seemed very nice, but around this period of time he had stood me up so many times and always came back with an excuse and promises to make it up to me. We have stop talking to each other so many times because of his attitude. After a while, He finally claimed that it was  because he wasn't stable, but the last time we met, he told me he is now.

Last summer he begged me to come visit him because we're not leaving in the same state (he was supposed to come but again financial issues). He seemed move and very happy when I finally got there. We spent a good time (without intimacy, I did allow him), and he even paraded me in front of his friends. During my stay, he made me listen to songs which say that I'm the type of girl he was looking for, but he didn't talk to me directly; he also said that I'll bring money to his family with no further explanations. Moreover, I discovered that I more than like him, and he likes me also. He has always refused a platonic friendship though.

My problem is that I don't understand him. He keeps claiming that everything that happens between us is meant to be, but he is still acting weird. In the beginning, I admit that I wasn't easy on his ego. I even told him that he didn't fit in my category, so I would never have something to do with him (I was angry because of his attitude). Since I realized that I was wrong I started checking up on him once each week by calls/texts, but he reciprocate only if I stop for a long time.

Sometimes when I call or send him a text he does not answer. Finally, I confronted him and gave him a choice (no more communication vs showing respect). He told me that everything was alright and we should keep in touch. I'm just confused because I don't play games.

People, I need your opinions, please!