dingbang:
eh, i want to charm one fine girl on nairaland, how do i go about it

You will learn about these 6 concepts which am soon going to talk about.

1. Making your target the center of attraction
2. Being a source of pleasure
3. Knowing how to calm every situation
4. Leading your target into ease and comfort
5. Showing calmness in the presence of a troubling situations
6. Making yourself useful.

It is very essential not to let the target think or feel that you are making too much effort to charm or impress her, when she starts growing suspicious she will let all her guards up.

The laws of charm are;
1. Making your target the center of attraction
2. Being a source of pleasure
3. Knowing how to calm every situation
4. Leading your target into ease and comfort
5. Showing calmness in the presence of a troubling situations
6. Making yourself useful.

I will be hinting at the laws of charm one after the other, in the meantime if you’re having any problems in your relationships or problems wooing or saying hello to a lady you like so much, lets discuss it here so as to get our advice.

Sexuality is too disruptive, the insecurities and emotions it stirs can often disrupt a relationship that was supposed to be deeper and last longer. Now your own solution as a charmer is to fulfill the parts of sexuality that are attractive, exciting and addictive (the focused attention, the boosted self-esteem, the pleasurable chyking, the understanding). The real charmer does not show emotions and feelings in the face of sexuality, he/she pretends to keep sex at bay or in the background.

The concept here my people, is to give people something that holds their attention, that fascinates them. And the secret to capturing people’s attention, while lowering their powers of reason is to strike at the things they have the least control over, which are; their ego, their vanity and their self-esteem. This strategy can never be obvious, subtlety is the key.

Hi am Francis Splendour, The purpose of this thread is to improve our sexual lives
Am Going to be kicking this thread off with a basic concept of charming your target.

I will also be hinting at the laws of charm one after the other, in the meantime if you’re having any problems in your relationships or problems wooing or saying hello to a lady you like so much, lets discuss it here so as to get our advice.

A handsome and charming young man, with a child-like innocent looks who had a particular strong effect on the ladies, he was a talented and skillful hair stylist but hardly yielded to the side attractions. His name was Joseph, Joe for short. Joe has been Luci’s favorite stylist for a while until he resigned from the salon where she usually visited to get her hair done; now Joe is a bartender in a club.



Luci ran into Joe one night at the bar, she was running away from assassins who were trying to kill her that night and ran into the club where she met Joe who she recognized as her former stylist. It appeared that her late husband Leonard’s ex-wife, Ada, had sent some assassins to kill Luci. She told Joe to hide her, some people was after her life, and Joe was confusingly shocked seeing the way she barged into the place.


Joe quickly hid her under a bar cabinet. Few seconds later two men entered
the bar and looked around searching for her; they approached Joe and showed him a picture of her, asking if they had seen her. Joe comported himself and told them that he had not seen her. Suspecting that Joe could be hiding her, one of the men went straight to the rest room inside the bar and searched for her but couldn’t find her. They left but didn’t go far as they were outside waiting for her to make a move so they can catch her.


Joe hid Luci until his shift ended in the early morning, he managed to smuggle Luci into his car unseen and drove to his house. Joe was living in a tiny self-contained apartment, not much of an apartment for Luci to stay in; she had got no option but to blend in for a while. Luci figured she could use Joe to get out of town so to seduce him was not a problem. She was impressed by how Joe handled the situation maturely back there at the bar, how he showed calm and self-possession in the faces of those unpleasantly looking men who were out to kill her.


Luci needed to stay low for a while until she was ready to get out of town; she was supposed to live in Joe’s apartment for weeks. There was nothing Joe could offer someone like Luci, he has not gotten any wealth so he was not her type, but it was the last place anyone who knew her would come looking for her. So in that few weeks, Joe had made himself useful, he has been her source of pleasure, he made her laugh all the time and she has been so relaxed, at ease and quite comfortable living with him in his house that she almost forgot that she was being haunted. It appeared that Luci was beginning to fall in love with Joe because she had never felt this harmony before until she met Joe.


Weeks turned to months and Luci has seemed to have forgotten about all her problems, they were both hanging out together and having fun. Until one day when Luci was alone in the house, she was bored and lonely because Joe was not around, she had gotten too attached to him, and he was out to work that day, she decided to go outside to the nearby grocery store to buy some wine. On her way back she ran into one of Ada’s nieces, Tina, who was living with Ada and Leonard when they were both still living as a couple before Luci came in and destroyed their home.


Luci was shocked when they both ran into each other; Tina secretly followed her to take note of which house she was going to enter but Luci managed to evade her. When she got to the room she was restless and she panicked till Joe came back home from work. When she heard sound door she panicked and ran to hide herself, but when she saw it was Joe, she came out. Joe became concerned and asked her why she was acting strangely, she told him who she ran into and explained how his house was no longer safe for her...READ MORE

A handsome and charming young man, with a child-like innocent looks who had a particular strong effect on the ladies, he was a talented and skillful hair stylist but hardly yielded to the side attractions. His name was Joseph, Joe for short. Joe has been Luci’s favorite stylist for a while until he resigned from the salon where she usually visited to get her hair done; now Joe is a bartender in a club.



Luci ran into Joe one night at the bar, she was running away from assassins who were trying to kill her that night and ran into the club where she met Joe who she recognized as her former stylist. It appeared that her late husband Leonard’s ex-wife, Ada, had sent some assassins to kill Luci. She told Joe to hide her, some people was after her life, and Joe was confusingly shocked seeing the way she barged into the place.


Joe quickly hid her under a bar cabinet. Few seconds later two men entered
the bar and looked around searching for her; they approached Joe and showed him a picture of her, asking if they had seen her. Joe comported himself and told them that he had not seen her. Suspecting that Joe could be hiding her, one of the men went straight to the rest room inside the bar and searched for her but couldn’t find her. They left but didn’t go far as they were outside waiting for her to make a move so they can catch her.


Joe hid Luci until his shift ended in the early morning, he managed to smuggle Luci into his car unseen and drove to his house. Joe was living in a tiny self-contained apartment, not much of an apartment for Luci to stay in; she had got no option but to blend in for a while. Luci figured she could use Joe to get out of town so to seduce him was not a problem. She was impressed by how Joe handled the situation maturely back there at the bar, how he showed calm and self-possession in the faces of those unpleasantly looking men who were out to kill her.


Luci needed to stay low for a while until she was ready to get out of town; she was supposed to live in Joe’s apartment for weeks. There was nothing Joe could offer someone like Luci, he has not gotten any wealth so he was not her type, but it was the last place anyone who knew her would come looking for her. So in that few weeks, Joe had made himself useful, he has been her source of pleasure, he made her laugh all the time and she has been so relaxed, at ease and quite comfortable living with him in his house that she almost forgot that she was being haunted. It appeared that Luci was beginning to fall in love with Joe because she had never felt this harmony before until she met Joe.


Weeks turned to months and Luci has seemed to have forgotten about all her problems, they were both hanging out together and having fun. Until one day when Luci was alone in the house, she was bored and lonely because Joe was not around, she had gotten too attached to him, and he was out to work that day, she decided to go outside to the nearby grocery store to buy some wine. On her way back she ran into one of Ada’s nieces, Tina, who was living with Ada and Leonard when they were both still living as a couple before Luci came in and destroyed their home.


Luci was shocked when they both ran into each other; Tina secretly followed her to take note of which house she was going to enter but Luci managed to evade her. When she got to the room she was restless and she panicked till Joe came back home from work. When she heard sound door she panicked and ran to hide herself, but when she saw it was Joe, she came out. Joe became concerned and asked her why she was acting strangely, she told him who she ran into and explained how his house was no longer safe for her...READ MORE

frozen70:



I need to read where she mentioned you and the role you played in the part of the romance

Hahahahaha, you dont want to accept the truth, even if you were there u wouldnt accept it. My dear sis relax, even women too are humans we understand!!![color=#990000][/color]

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frozen70:
You did not finish your story even in the blog site you referred

If what you have just written is what makes you happy, it's your choice.

what do u mean did not finish the story? that was the woman's confession, and how does it not look complete? what else could have been added?

During a counseling session between H Plus and a lady known as Chi, she revealed that she would very much like to come back to her next life as a wealthy man.


According to the lady, she said that being a female is really hard, as long as you are female, whether single, married, divorced, young, old, single mom, independent, rich or broke, your opinions are been limited and are directly or indirectly made for you by someone else.

In her words;

“Over the years women have been abused, trampled upon, stigmatized even by their fellow women and it has all been the norm of the society, been disguised under the word ‘culture’. Even a verse in the bible that degrades women, and it got me wondering if God really hates women. Isaiah 4:1 among other verses says;

“And seven women shall take hold to one man in that day, saying we will eat our own food and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name, take away our shame”

“Women’s choices in life have always been restricted by culture, morals religion, which have subjected them to be passively submissive to men. Every decision a lady makes in her life, it must not affect her dreams of getting married to a man in the future or else she remains lonely for the rest of her life because in the society, a woman’s ultimate goal is to get married to a man and give him children.”

“When a lady is getting older and still single, no matter how wealthy she is, she will never be taken seriously. When she tries to be mean she will be tagged as being frustrated in life because she couldn’t find a husband.” The stigma against being a single woman in Nigeria is disgraceful, people treat you with disrespect, and everything you have must come from a secret man/runs. Single women sometimes battle to rent a home because people assume they will eventually turn their houses into a haven for sugar daddies”

“A man will cheat all he wants in his marriage and still come out to boast of being a good husband and it will be ok, but when a woman does the same just once, even when the man managed to forgive her she will never have a say in the marriage any more. I mean it’s not like women too don’t get tired of having sex with just one man for the rest of her life, deep down she too wants to try someone new.” She complained.

“No matter what feminists try to accomplish in gender equality, women will never stop being subjects to men. The best thing to be on earth right now is to be a wealthy man because he can do whatever he likes and whenever he wants and still be glorified. But a woman on the other hand has a suppressed option and yet will still be stigmatized. I think in my next life I must come to this world a rich man”

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Read this shocking revelation of men who have been sexually abused and molested in their childhood days.
guys if you have been sexually abused as a child please feel free to share your experience so parents can learn...Read more

QueenSekxy:
mtcheeeew.
they will always bother about who's or not a wife material while their own character is poo.

rubbish.

ofcourse they have to bother, just because some men have character issues mean that all men should eat poo? Women have their own choices of a husband material so its about choice.

CreamyBanana:
she must have phat jiggly ass. that is all.

there are plenty of them out there, i think yoruba women are championing in that department

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
E.g?

my woman must put her home first

zinnyzee:
Heh... This is a new one on me.
I always thought the molestation and abuses were one sided. This is an eye-opener.

Men are been molested more than you know, but they are trained not to complain or they are not believed when they complain about it, especially if it was done by one of the modest lady at the vicinity.

The topic of ‘wife material’ has been a trend in the relationship sector, on an interactive session conducted by our team, we got to interview a couple of men on their ideas of a ‘wife material’ and we got different views.



“Woman that can make decisions and have a mind of her own”; Some women are passive to a fault in making decisions on their own, they must rely on a man’s approval to do everything, decision making from career choice to even selecting her undies from a lingerie shop, she must always wait for a man to make a decision for her. Though there are big decision which you might need someone’s advice on making. A woman that has the gift of making decisions on her own is a ‘wife material.’

…Moses, Kd


“Any woman who has respect for parents, her elders and religious”; When a woman is respectful especially to her parents, the man’s parents, elders and she is religious, then she is good for a wife...Read more

Being physically and emotionally intimate with your partner is one of the crucial parts to any loving, healthy relationship. That close bond is what makes us feel safe and secure, and adds another dimension to the relationship.
But so many of us have intimacy issues, whether it’s because of something that happened to us as children, a difficult relationship with a parent, any kind of trauma, or a bad past romance. It can happen to anyone.
So if you feel like you or the partner you’re dating has trouble getting close to others, here are the signs to look out for.

1. They have trouble expressing their feelings.
Do they find it difficult communicating with you, and saying how they’re feeling? Do they withdraw from you when you have a disagreement, and end up hurting your feelings as a result?
This is one of the most common signs of a fear of intimacy, and it could be due to a lack of trust or closeness in the relationship. Sitting down with them and talking to them openly about how they’re feeling, and offering support and encouragement could help your partner to open up to you.

2. They have a history of unhealthy partners...Read more

Before I say anything more, let me start by saying I’m not here to judge you—your decisions are your own to make. Love isn’t black and white, and often we end up falling for people who aren’t available. If you do find yourself in the situation where you’re in love with a married man, it’s important to know what you’re signing up for, and the truth about what lies ahead of you if this relationship continues.

All relationships are challenging at the best of times, but being the other woman can bring a whole new set of problems with it. Here’s what you need to know:

He will not leave his wife.
Did you know that less than five percent of men actually leave their wives for the woman they’re having an affair with? Even if he tells you he’s desperately unhappy, he doesn’t love her, or he’s going to leave—chances are he won’t.

This might be because of the financial implications related to divorce, his religious beliefs, his desire to maintain his family man image, or because he still actually cares for his wife—even though he might protest against this...Read more

Susan who has been married for seven years has two children with her husband. She loves the man very much and says she can’t imagine living without him. However, she is also in another relationship with her high school sweetheart.


“My love for my husband can’t be compared to the love I give my boyfriend. The affair with my boyfriend is just a continuation of what we started when we were kids. I can just say we are fond of each other. I like him as a friend and he supports me emotionally when my husband is detached,” she says, adding that the pressure of raising a family sometimes takes its toll on her husband and they can go for weeks without sex.


​“If we have financial problems, my man is never in the mood. He gets excited only when things are going smoothly. When problems arise, he blocks me out, denies me s21x and fails to support me emotionally. He is present physically but absent emotionally. At such times, I turn to my boyfriend, who is also married, for emotional support. We meet, have s21x, talk and discuss issues before I go back home...Read more

Susan who has been married for seven years has two children with her husband. She loves the man very much and says she can’t imagine living without him. However, she is also in another relationship with her high school sweetheart.


“My love for my husband can’t be compared to the love I give my boyfriend. The affair with my boyfriend is just a continuation of what we started when we were kids. I can just say we are fond of each other. I like him as a friend and he supports me emotionally when my husband is detached,” she says, adding that the pressure of raising a family sometimes takes its toll on her husband and they can go for weeks without sex.


​“If we have financial problems, my man is never in the mood. He gets excited only when things are going smoothly. When problems arise, he blocks me out, denies me s21x and fails to support me emotionally. He is present physically but absent emotionally. At such times, I turn to my boyfriend, who is also married, for emotional support. We meet, have s21x, talk and discuss issues before I go back home...Read more

It has been argued that women are materialistic; some of them boldly embraced it while some merely shrugged it off as mere generalization. Some relationships have ended bitterly where the people involved feel used by one another, and it has been out one looking for what to benefit from the relationship.

A quick study shines light into this aspect, consider these comments made by real people during one of our on air telephone conversations with some of our guests;

“
I met this girl and we started dating sometime in 2010, around 2014 I started getting remorse that she was getting married to another guy so I confronted her and she confirmed it, I gave her my blessings and she went on to marry the gentleman, then the husband had a ghastly motor accident that shocked me on my spine and he died. But she was pregnant at that time.
We hooked up again in 2015 but then she already has a son, now she is the one putting pressure on me to settle down with her, I asked her to give me 2 to 3 years for me to be ready before I can settle down but she is not accepting that.”
Itoro, Abj

Am guessing that she is the one that came back to you immediately your husband passed on. She came back to you probably because as it stands now, you are her plan B. That is why she is in a hurry to push you into marrying her before you realize it. If her hubby didn’t die she will have no reason to come back to you. My friend I think that she just needs a man who will take care of her and her child...Read more

After Luci was done with Segun, she was no longer seen by anyone for a while, it appeared that she has moved to the other side of town because the news of Segun’s death was all over the place. A few years later she met Leonard, like Segun Leonard was also wealthy, a politician who loved pleasure and night life, he fancied himself a king of his cabal. They met each other at a dinner party hosted by one of Leonard’s friends. Luci overwhelmed Leonard, she had an insinuating voice that hints at the erotic, immediately he introduced himself and gave out his call card to her.

He became anxious to meet her again.
A few months has past and Luci had not called Leonard until one day she called him to invite him to meet her at the beach, when he came she took him on a ride in a boat she rented. Inside the boat were plenty other pretty young mermaids all dressed in lingerie and worshipped her, they surrounded her like a goddess, her appearance was so startling in her magnificent sparkling dress, it was a sight to behold, a highly feminine and sexual presence, the atmosphere was accompanied by symphony music and with all that, she created a scene of heightened drama.
The charm of Luci’s presence was irresistible, and there was an attraction in her person and talk, together with a perculiar force of character which pervaded her every word and action, and laid all who associated with her under her spell.

At that moment Leonard was startled by the images he was looking at and was filled with mixed emotions, the pleasure she offered him was hard to resist. Leonard wanted to tame and possess this difficult, forbidden and infamous woman, whom her charm seemed to have made her talk of the town, winning her would prove Leonard’s greatness to his peer, but soon Luci started to operate on Leonard’s basic emotions, she started to transform strong headed Leonard into a childish slave...Read more

MISEDUCATIONS:
and that makes you feel better? that you are not alone in this stupidity?

Am not going to take that crap from you, if you cannot keep your estrogen in check better look for who is willing to do that for u.

MISEDUCATIONS:
nigerian girls can be dumb. who does that in 2018?? you nigerian guys are too soft for your own good. no other country allows such behaviour to happen.

I believe i have heard about something of sort or i must have seen a post sometime happened in ghana before

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Are they still doing this sh#t?!

yes they are

See eh, this is the most hilarious thing have read today. So a Nigerian dude invited a girl on a date, and girl brought 5 OF HER FRIENDS, lol.


Excuse me, do people still do this? Anyway, you know the shocker? Bobo kept to his budget! He ordered drinks for ONLY HIMSELF AND THE GIRL as seen in the above picture!!!

See Pictures

Too dead, just hilarious!!! No one should do this mehnnnnnn! Lol

According to a study carried out in the US and UK, handsome men are more likely to be seen as a threat by their bosses and are hence less likely to score equally powerful positions.

The study involved researchers at University College London’s School of Management and the University of Maryland in the US carrying out four separate experiments in four different offices, according to the Daily Mail.

They found that when men were hiring other men to work with them, their decision was negatively affected...Read more

According to a study carried out in the US and UK, handsome men are more likely to be seen as a threat by their bosses and are hence less likely to score equally powerful positions.

The study involved researchers at University College London’s School of Management and the University of Maryland in the US carrying out four separate experiments in four different offices, according to the Daily Mail.

They found that when men were hiring other men to work with them, their decision was negatively affected...Read more

Luci was a pretty charming damsel who comes from one of the marine worlds, her mission was to cause havoc and pain to mankind, and she seduced wealthy married men just to destroy their homes and report to her kingdom, she was forbidden to love. She was 21 years old on earth but in her marine kingdom she was 195 years old. She involuntarily turns into a mermaid anytime she comes in contact with water so she avoids water to help conceal her secret.

Luci sensed a way to gain attention more, even power for she was vividly ambitious, she joined the movie industry. In any movie she casted in will erupt the scene with male admirers. In a particular scene her male admirers wanted to kiss and hug her, they started to profess their love for her after watching her perform on set, some said it was the way she looked at them - with eyes full of passion, others say it was her voice that lured them on, still others said she give off vibrations that floored them... Read more