chocolateme:
Sometimes we should reason with their reasons and check If there is something he seeing that you have not seen in those 3 years.
Things will work out ok?

Many thanks for your comment and cares.

Lagosparty:


Stop advertising your ass damn it!


@OP...Just chill and seek a different pastors guidance.
People can be manipulative sometimes and that includes your close friends, family and loved ones.
Talk to her about it, perhaps there's something your dad discovered about her while he's using the pastor as a cover up.

It's a 3 year relationship dude...Something must have cropped up between her and your dad which you do not know about..
Trust me on this.

Hmm, that's really thoughtful, i am very close to my dad and i strongly believe he would have told me as it is, not try to cook up a cover up story. I will talk to him about that though. Thanks

Estharfabian:



years and years of squatting!

Guys, i appreciate you all but please do not derail this thread, it is not very fair.

tyson99:
Take heed!

Thanks, i should just walk away? And start all over? We have come really far bro. we were friends for years before we started going out and officially we started going out 3 years ago.

peedeeasobie:
Ask your dad if he married through prophecy!

The bible never said 'he that findeth through prophecy'...

Tell your dad an emphatic NO!

Thanks for your input? I totally have your line of thought too, but what if it turns out to be true?

It is with intense heaviness of heart i have come here to seek your mature advises regarding the situation i am in right now. I am in a very serious relationship of abt 3 yrs, i plan on proposing few weeks from now, the lady in question is everything i want in my wife and my family have been very receptive of our relationship as she is like part of the family already, last time i saw my parents, i made them understand that we'd be settling down very soon. Now, i got the shock of my life when my dad told me his pastor friend whom he trusts says God is giving a warning that i should not marry this lady and he was so passionate while discussing with me. Fellas, this is a lady i have never found fault with since we have been together. She is focused, ambitious, submissive, beautiful and everything a man could ever pray for. I am really at crossroads, should i heed to the warning and walk away? or stay and follow my heart. The question on my mind is why did God wait for 3 years to speak? Could the prophesy be erroneous? My heart and instinct tells me to ignore, make my dad see reasons with me and go ahead to marry this lady.
I had to register a new username to create this topic. @Moderator, i beg you in God's name, please push this to front page, i need mature opinions and advises. Thanks in anticipation, good people.