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NYSC / Re: NYSC Is A Waste Of Time? by fresh2impr: 7:24am On Jun 02, 2007
THE BARON, I AGREE WITH YOU 100%.

I 'm going to get a lot of criticism for what I am about to say but it is the truth - NYSC is usually a route out for people with very little hope. Pls note that I HAVE NOT SAID that only people without little hope enjoy NYSC. For many, the 8,5k 'allowi' is their first time they have earned money, and puts them in a better position that they would have ever been. From this one year of manual labour, they may go on to be retained by the companies they have served duly. In that respect NYSC serves it purpose.

HOWEVER, for some people like me who left the UK to take up a respectable job in Nigeria, NYSC has only proved a thorn in my career. I have had to accept a N3m drop in pay, simply because I am not 'full staff', yet for every other purpose but pay I am staff. I haven't mentioned the 3M just to throw figures around, but to show you detrimental NYSC has been to my career. I came to Nigeria to work, not to relive my Benin city secondary school days as was evidenced in camp. Thank God I did not stay in camp - in fact, my employers pleaded that if I can 'escape' camp I should, because there was so much work to be done.

My point is that NYSC should be voluntary. Some people need it, some dont. I have had my fair share of life's challenges, and I don't need a whole year of being treated like a goat to tell me that life can be hard. Each to their own. Like 'the baron' said, is it if I have a business proposal that I wish to see through, then I will waste my time doing NYSC?

Govt please stop making it difficult for people wishing to relocate to do so in the name of this sham of a program called NYSC. Yes the intentions are good, but the 'spirit' of the program no longer holds true so pls scrap it.

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Career / Re: Careers In Africa 2007 Uk Summit, May '07 by fresh2impr: 11:27pm On Apr 30, 2007
no probz lawijo, always happy 2 share. Its good to see people who are willing to give something back. In my case, i felt that what i could do for my part was to bring a level of professionalism often lacking in Nigerian businesses to the table.

The bank in my work place for example, the cashiers behave as if they are God's gift to mankind. They are so sluggish in everything. I feel that many Nigerians due to one factor or the other lack professionalism, even though I think this is changing. Customers should always be treated with dignity and respect.

@ laxist, i attended in London.
Career / Re: Careers In Africa 2007 Uk Summit, May '07 by fresh2impr: 1:07am On Apr 29, 2007
Hi, I got my job through Careers in Africa last year, same time. I had interviews lined up with Shell and P & G. I went for the briefing/networking session the night before and I was pretty intimidated because I felt like evryone else there was so much more qualified than I am. Anyways you are encouraged to drop your CVs with other companies at the event, in case you dont have any interviews lined up.

Anyways I had my interview with Shell at 8am the following morning and although I was really nervour, my interviewer put me at ease. I then went round to drop my CV, and in some room you can look at a screen to see whether any companies are interested in interviewing you. For my part I was very tired and went home about 12pm, and two weeks later I was invited by Shell to the Recruitment Day, and the rest in history. By the way I din't bother myself with the P & G interview, I just couldnt be bothered to take the test.

By the way the staff of CAI were very helpful, phoning me to make sure I was going to attend and stuff. All the best pal.
Career / Re: Graduating With A Second Class Lower by fresh2impr: 8:46pm On Apr 22, 2007
WOW! Very well said. There have to be criterias in order to whittle the number of applicants down. Shame, but true.
Career / Re: Can You Describe Your Job? by fresh2impr: 8:22am On Apr 22, 2007
I am a Contracts Analyst in an oil company, which means we evaluate whether certain bidders are eligible for contracts, award the contracts and manage them.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Got Access Bank Job Through Nysc! by fresh2impr: 8:23am On Apr 21, 2007
Congrats my dear. Access Bank could be stupid tho, at least on my issue. They invited me for an interview at a recruitment fair while I was in the UK. I thought the interview went very well but when they found out I hadn't done my NYSC they started rambling rubbish. Anyways thankfully for me I got my Shell job offer.

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Career / Re: Graduating With A Second Class Lower by fresh2impr: 8:12am On Apr 21, 2007
Truth is that due to the kind of society where we live in, many employers elevate 2:1 students over 2:2s, even though the degree is not the true test of ability. I crammed my way to a 2:1. What I would suggest is that a 2:2 can never be the end of your life, do other course like Masters, MBAs, professional exams that create an equal learning platform for all. I work for Shell (SNEPCO) and a colleague of mine made a 2:2, but she excelled in her MBA and now works with us. If you have a 2:2, you have to show employers through your CV that you are much more than your grades show. All the best to my fellow nairalanders!
NYSC / Re: Nysc? by fresh2impr: 8:40pm On Apr 17, 2007
NYSC is a bloody waste of time and discouragement to those of us in the diaspora that want to return home. Am very lucky that my employers were kind enough to let me take time out to do the bloody thing. It should be optional for those whose career prospects may be uncertain, and I dont mean this is a bad way. But for those of us who are recruited from outside the country to work in Nigeria its a real pain in the arse. Worst still to be rudely addressed by people who would be mistaken for househelps and security guards outside the camp/secretariat.

Imagine what one of the foolish officials said to me, he called me 'orobo', that i will soon explode out of my uniform, and reigned other abuses on me. I laughed it off but Gods knows if we were outside that camp he would have found himself in a gutter.

Anyways thank God I dint stay on camp, I paid someone to sort me out. Its a bloody hell hole. Imagine one of the officials asking some girls to raise up their blouses in front of other people so that she could use her hand to feel whether they were pregnant. wat bullshit. God help Nigeria.
Career / Re: Graduating With A Second Class Lower by fresh2impr: 8:26pm On Apr 17, 2007
I work for an oil company and perhaps I was recruited on the strength of my 2:1 and my Masters. I guess it also helped that I went to a top-ranked UK university. However, I would be a fool not to admit that if not for God I may still have been job hunting; several of my friends even those with first class did not get jobs until like 5months after I did.

At the end of the day, I don't think I am any more intelligent than people who had 2:2s or whatever, many of them will go on to be leaders of tommorrow because of their determination, so one must never look down on others because they dont make 1sts or 2:1s, afterall, God blesses us in different ways.

I wish every the greatest success, continue to look to God, He will do for you what He did for me, it shall be well in Jesus name.
NYSC / Re: Survival Tips For NYSC Camp by fresh2impr: 10:56am On Mar 02, 2007
I 'm already tremebling at the though of going to Camp. I 've been posted to Lagos for this March batch. my main concern is the sanitary conditions - I use the toilet a lot because my bowel is very sensitive. So if i want to use the loo by 2am is there no toilet? How do people bath? Are there private cubicles? Also how do you get allocated rooms? is it first come first serve or can you choose ur room mates?

any tips would be much appreciated.
Poems For Review / Re: Baby by fresh2impr: 9:43pm On Dec 03, 2006
thanks.
Poems For Review / Re: Manipulative Parents by fresh2impr: 9:30pm On Dec 03, 2006
true. sometimes it seems that the only reason many parents have children is just so that this children can look after them; and they expect to be paid measure for measure for every good thing they 've done for their child, and never fail to remind them "after all i 've done for you".
Poems For Review / Re: Manipulative Parents by fresh2impr: 12:41am On Dec 03, 2006
thanks.
Poems For Review / Re: My Heart Hurts by fresh2impr: 12:17am On Dec 03, 2006
wow, am a fan already. I really enjoyed readin those peoms, they seem very personal and I am in the queue of people itching to know what they are about,
Poems For Review / Jealous Of A Friend: by fresh2impr: 12:13am On Dec 03, 2006
, the words pretty much explain what happened; i never knew i was the jealous type,

[b]V1
I saw you two last night
You were cosy, sexy and free
Gyrating in the heat of the music
The bass vibrating through your bodies
And I got so jealous
Seeing both of you
Tangoing away, displaying your best moves
While I watched on, the fool

My blood turned green with envy
I thought the person u liked was me
My blood turned green with envy
I never knew u liked him

V2
You know, I never saw myself as the jealous type
I thought all my emotions were fully under control
Until you brought out the monster in me
Made me weak to my knees
With every sexy move you made
You kept on hitting a nail on my head
I thought we were secret admirers
But u said it all wit your ‘hands on’ approach to things

Chorus:
My blood turned green with envy
I thought the person u liked was me
My blood turned green with envy
I never knew u liked him


Bridge:
Here I am once again the used
Never the user, always getting played
My heart always rules my head
I wish for a moment in time, it could be the other way round[/b]
Poems For Review / Beware Of User-Good For Nothing Friends... by fresh2impr: 12:03am On Dec 03, 2006
I have learnt the importance now more so than ever
Of developing comfort in my own skin
And avoiding the leanings of social pressure
To impress, seeking redress in materiality
Trying to stick your neck out for the brother
Who thinks you’re a fool
The one for whom others think
You are too good

We used to hang out and then
All of a sudden you became too good for me
As if I could not discern the difference
Between good and evil
But I give kudos to you, you had me there
Got me to think I could trust and rely on you
Just as a friend should and would
Even though my instincts told me not to


I now realise that selfishness is inherent
In certain personalities and who am I
To judge when its only a part of your making
Because I myself am not perfect
But with honesty comes diplomacy
And with friendship comes responsibility
And you have failed on all counts
And shown your limited understanding of what friendship is about


, ave had bad experiences with friends because I give 100% to all my relationships and sometimes people take this for granted. this was my way of getting a lot of anger out.
Poems For Review / Baby by fresh2impr: 12:01am On Dec 03, 2006
[b]I always wonder why our friendship doesn’t ever seem to grow
Strikes me how when I think we‘ve come so far we‘ve still got a long way to go
One step forward two steps backwards
It’s a mystery I can’t unravel and its making me unsettled
Tearing me down when I want my soul to feel free
Want to love you the way I should, much better than I ever could

Sometimes I wish I was a baby that didn’t have to age
That way I would have no cares at all, just keep staring at the same page
Because my heart is breaking at the thought of not speaking to you
Can’t bear this any longer, what’s happening between us two


You make it clear that you don’t like it when I call you those names
And then after apologies I turn round, do the same thing again
But sometimes you push me, provoke me to say things that I probably shouldn’t
When you know that I can stop my tongue from coming right back at you
It’s back and forth with me and you; maybe I still don’t know you
But if there’s one thing I know, it’s that special people like you are few[/b]
Poems For Review / Not Sleeping by fresh2impr: 11:54pm On Dec 02, 2006
The time has come that we both face facts
We are no longer where we were at
You‘ve moved on, I haven’t
Its going to take me a while to heal
But your presence haunts me here
As I cannot remove my stare
From you eyes while mine’s filled with tears

If I had known that in no time
I‘d be relegated to bottom pile
I would then have counted my losses
Packed my bags, yet still keep my pride
Don’t you worry, about my sanity
There was a me, before there was an us
Don’t go thinking, that I ‘m not sleeping
That’s what happens when you trust a bit too much


Here I am a victim of a pure heart
Should have heeded the voices in my head
Instead I choose the desires of flesh and heart
And now I ‘m slave to both
Curled up in the corner I say
I know I‘ll be fine today
Yet today comes and stays the same
Poems For Review / Preachers And Messiahs by fresh2impr: 11:44pm On Dec 02, 2006
[b]
They pretend that they like you
They even offer to advise you
But what they are really doing
Is sewing a seed of discord around you
They are trying to estrange you
From the people who really love you
They do not really love you
Their sole mission is to destroy you
Their own lives are disgraceful
But they‘d rather make an example of you
Turn all the attention on you
So that others make a meal of you


They are the preachers and the messiahs
Nothing good to offer, nothing good to say
One wrong step and they jubilate
Sooner you’re done with them the closer you are to freedom



They engage in hearsay about you
And they turn around to tell you
What good person who loves you
Would say things they know would hurt you
When they know full well that its counterproductive
But its because they delight in upsetting you
Would pay any price to spite you
Take pleasure in seeing that you
Rely on them whenever you choose
Catch you in the wicked web they spun
To celebrate your initiation
I don’t want to have to be sorry for you
So please before its too late do yourself some good
Be rid of these people who don’t love you
And focus your attention on those you should

Lend a listening ear when you need one
Yet they lend the same ears to the ones that hurt you
Patronise, says its ok when its not
And they stick a knife in you while turning it[/b]


….23 June 06
Poems For Review / Wailing In The Deep South by fresh2impr: 11:25pm On Dec 02, 2006
inspired by watching Jason’s Lyric on 06/04/06 at 2am[/i]

Lives wasted from futile conflict
People hustling yet still they can’t eat
Who do we blame?
God who created us
Or our parents who made us
In what ocean shall we continue to swim?

Oh the rigid turmoil of life
Slaving day and night
For the results we can’t seem to see
There’s pain in my heart
There’s hurt in my hand
Straining to touch that illusive beam


[i]I can hear the wailing in the Deep South
The church singing amidst the gun shots
The mother crying covered in her son’s blood
The raping husband who just can’t get enough

I can hear the wailing in the Deep South
Of the oppressed slave who knows no sun
Of the little children who have no one
Of the old woman who clutches her cross

To the suffering masses I say
With the incarcerated I pray
For the ones who knew no today
That One day its all going to be ok


The gangs rule the streets
While the people fear in their sleep
What sort of life is this?
Street rats become hood princes
By wielding the power of pistols
And corner stores guarded by hoochies
Poverty seems to be the norm
No jobs, no prosperity and run down homes
Society morale at an all time low

But in God lies hope
Of that ever distant tomorrow
Of which slowly but surely we will come to know
Poems For Review / Re: Manipulative Parents by fresh2impr: 10:54pm On Dec 02, 2006
thank you for all your comments, it is indeed a terrible situation to be in. my mum had always been my idol, i built my foundation around her , i thought she could do no wrong, and she used to fill me with stories of how my dad always hurt her (not physically). but now that i have grown up, i can now understand my dad's side of things, and it hurts me because she is not prepared to hear the truth from me. she breaks down in tears every time i try to say something true, and i am torn in between living a false life becos I don't want to hurt her, and sayin the truth but hurtin her.

in fact, i am scared of what will happen when i get married and start having children but she is very needy, and sees things like that as a sign of neglect.
Nairaland / General / Re: Is Disability A Crime? Where Is The Love? by fresh2impr: 9:10pm On Dec 02, 2006
Its really sad. God is on your side and He 'll prove Himself to you as he Has been doing so far. I know theres light at the end of the tunnel. Don't mind all these greedy politicians - instead of investing into a social welfare system for Nigeria they are there building castles in the sky. Thats why our generation need to get into politics to make life better for the average Nigerians.

Oracle, God will give you the job that is yours, rest assured, in Jesus name, Amen.
Poems For Review / Manipulative Parents by fresh2impr: 9:35pm On Nov 25, 2006
Idol

Looked up to you/Thought you had no flaws
Hung on to your every word/You could say or do no wrongs
Listened to your supposed words of wisdom/As you imparted so-called knowledge to me
Yet all you were really doing was corrupting the mind in me

Must have thought I‘d never find out
Sorry time has come for me to call you out
Sick and tired of being tied to your strings
Made my decision and am cutting myself free


You used to be my idol, I adored you
But in my growing wisdom, I was able to see you through
And the blanket of manipulation which you spread over me
Now wears itself very thin
Used your tears to hold me back
Told me your life would stop if I left you in the dark
Now I’ve grown older I see your mission was to use me
To set up an army for yourself


It's sad when parents use their children for selfish desires, as a means to their own ends.
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Poetry Contest by fresh2impr: 9:29pm On Nov 25, 2006
Baby

I always wonder why our friendship doesn’t ever seem to grow
Strikes me how when I think we‘ve come so far we‘ve still got a long way to go
One step forward two steps backwards
It’s a mystery I can’t unravel and its making me unsettled
Tearing me down when I want my soul to feel free
Want to love you the way I should, much better than I ever could

Sometimes I wish I was a baby that didn’t have to age
That way I would have no cares at all, just keep staring at the same page
Because my heart is breaking at the thought of not speaking to you
Can’t bear this any longer, what’s happening between us two


You make it clear that you don’t like it when I call you those names
And then after apologies I turn round, do the same thing again
But sometimes you push me, provoke me to say things that I probably shouldn’t
When you know that I can stop my tongue from coming right back at you
It’s back and forth with me and you; maybe I still don’t know you
But if there’s one thing I know, it’s that special people like you are few
Career / Re: Best Paying Company In Nigeria? by fresh2impr: 9:47pm On Nov 07, 2006
I just got my offer letter from Shell, and my basic salary is 3.4m, allowances and other things bring it to about 6.1, plus car loan (1.8m), which isnt bad. was anyone else at careers in Africa?
Poems For Review / Re: Untitled: 7/10/06; The Breakup Poem by fresh2impr: 7:09pm On Oct 21, 2006
thanks ruthy, really appreciate,
Poems For Review / Untitled: 7/10/06; The Breakup Poem by fresh2impr: 12:18am On Oct 19, 2006
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Life is a constant struggle/With me and you for some lost sense of superiority

You hold the sword/I wear the armour and we are cast on the battle ground

Fighting because no one is wrong yet no one is right

Fighting into the deep of the night/Until we plunge into the ocean

And all becomes still/Peaceful as it should be

Heaven forbid that I let down my guard

Should I let down my guard/I become weak

Yet when you put on your gear/I allow you no sleep

We are growing old and weary/My eyes are teary

Because of how low we‘ve sunk/Despite how far we‘ve come

Smiles to the world conceal sadness/Laughters come on cue

Bodies detached from souls/Hearts breaking in two

Bleak seems our future/Near seems the end

Oh how I mourn the loss of my very dear friend
Poems For Review / Good Reason………. Poem About Divorce by fresh2impr: 12:12am On Oct 19, 2006
I wrote this poem just thinking about my parents relationship. I just thought it was funny how some of us guys chase the women of our dreams, marry her and then show little concern along the line. O well,
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You used to call me to my window/Now you won’t look at me
Funny how the tables turn/When you‘ve secured the deal
I have to beg for your attention/Even when I need you most
Those who sing your praises/Are the ones who wish to see your ghost

Had anyone told me that I would have to beg for affection
I would have asked them to go to hell
But here I am wounded by your lack of devotion
And am having second thoughts after second thoughts
Too much already put in so how can I pull out
My family knows your family, Our parents have just met
But not sure for how much longer I can keep up this game
If I don’t do something now I know things will never change

Give me one good reason
Why I should waste my time on you
After all the pain and heartache
That you put me through
The security don’t mean shit to me
Seen better in my days
I never told you where I came from
But you 'll see how far I go
NYSC / Re: The Compulsory One Year NYSC Program by fresh2impr: 12:40pm On Oct 12, 2006
NYSC is a now a useless program intended to hold back people from getting jobs, supply cheap labour to companies and enrich the pockets of the few who make money from arranging the scheme for the privileged. I am a graduate in the UK and a got a job with one of the multinationals in Nigeria and I have to show my NYSC certificate. This really sucks, so I 'll have to do nysc for a year.

I can understand that the intentions were good, but does NYSC really prevent tension from breaking out between Notherners and say Easterners? Hell no! The program is technically flawed. How can you send someone to a remote place where there is hardly water or light? If Nigeria was a better country, corpers wouldnt mind going anywhere in Nigeria. And lets not even talk about the state of the camps - they are only fit for animals. Of course the good thing is that you meet friends and you can gain good work experience and people skills in the 1 year but it cannot justify the fact that Nigeria does not have the infrastructure to forster unity through NYSC. Period!

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