To all you crying foul, how about you learn unity and solidarity. If you have taken seriously the killing of your kinsmen, will they insult you?


I'm a Yoruba, but this is a trait I admired about the fulanis. Standing behind their kidnapper (alleged) kinsmen, why you all backbiting un-unified lots cry blood.

The day you all learn bravery and fight for your dignity is the day you will be free.

What stopped the president from ordering detailed investigation into the killing instead of agreeing sheepishly to the "hunter" narratives.

What stopped edo state governor from detaining the entourage and bargaining with northerners to call their people to order, to ensure peace.

A kingdom divided against itself shall not stand.

Yorubas, you are divided and shall always worship a stranger unless you learn unity.

Igbos, you are divided and shall always worship a stranger unless you learn unity.

Stop crying. Call your kinsmen to order.

Kobojunkie:
1. "Make her feel like a proper woman," meaning she does not feel she is already a proper woman—insecurity flags all over the place kind — and the man is one who preys on such women with low self-esteem, abi? 🙄🙄

2. Women don't care if their man had 1000 concubines? Let me guess, we are still on the topics of these insecure women you introduced us to in your earlier declaration of how they are prey to your "Man"? 🙄🙄

3. Oh boy! Now it's all just hogwash and brain farts! Oi vey! 🙄🙄

You are not a woman.

Kobojunkie:
1. It is a very unhealthy fixation given that it has not been proven to provide you all any real value, and many of those who carry that fixation are eventually drawn to even more disastrous/inhumane fixations in the end.

2. Are you having us believe that every man who is not a virgin is from a troubled home?

3. But every man likes to? Is that your personal conclusion? 🤔

4. You mean like the one up there already eyeing primary 5 kids as his target? Even your politicians now prefer them served up as kids.

Once you meet a real”Man”, who makes you feel like a proper woman, you will forget this your current confusion and appreciate a man for what he is.

But I couldn’t blame you. You’ve never met a “Man”.

To men:

Women I know, don’t care even if their man had 1000 concubines.

Men has lots of jealousy. But women has lots of competition. As a man, if you are competing for a woman or learning some “OT” to make a woman wet,
Or make a woman feel loved, you are fooling yourself.

Woman excels more in trying to seduce a “Man” once they sight one. A woman will seduce a man she likes, and it means nothing to her.

But if you try to reverse the role as a man, you are gone. Again, no real woman care if her man has many wives. Just be a “Man”

Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation.

It’s not an unhealthy fixation. Not every lady is from a troubled home. And not every lady needs to climb dick or rub Toto with their fellow women to eat.

If he is a responsible guy himself. He shouldn’t find it difficult to find one.

damzy88:
Hello,

I am a single guy thinking of getting married soon but some of the ladies I am considering having a serious relationship that may lead to marriage with are not virgins. This came as a surprise to me as I thought it will be easy to find a virgin to settle down with.

Should I try to focus on finding the one with best character and settle with or I should continue with my search to find a virgin?

I understand marriage is more than virginity but I am just wondering.

Looking forward to your responses.

Thanks

I really don’t know why it’s hard for you to find one.

Two of my lovers are Virgins (I confirm one, haven’t had the time to confirm the second) but it won’t be hard for me to confirm if I want to.

Maybe change your environment. And it is not even a matter of age. While one is just about 20, the other is in her mid twenties, and also very beautiful.

I’m not a virgin myself. And they know. Abd they even know that I am sexually active, but they don’t mind.

I think it’s how you relate with women. Thats very important.

But while I will never say it to any man or woman (that knows me) - I will never keep a woman that is not a virgin at home, even if she had children for me.


Before anyone quote me about “I am not a virgin.” First go and learn what a “Man” is and what a “Woman” is.

Like someone pointed out about genetic pollution, I think one key indicator of a virgin is a woman without a troubled soul. If you are cool headed enough to handle a reasonable woman, you should not find it difficult to find a virgin. Non. Virgins has lots of drama (mostly) and trust issues.

Just be a man, and be responsible, they will come to you themselves. You don’t even need to look for one.

Normal. The result of arrogance.

Reason I always listen to my babe and well wishers.

But technically, it’s not mad. Just “different.”