1Sharon:


Not as selfish as having kids when you're broke.


Why the news pepper you ppl like this?

Hoo.. you are broke. I didn’t know.

Not even cats? How selfish.

A snitch is a member of the group. An informant is primarily working for a third party. They may or not be a member, but regardless, their loyalty is not to the group.

A snitch snitches out of fear, coercion, or any other reason. But, snitches are bonafide member of a group.

FuckTheMod:
I don't blame the girl at all, I blame the senseless foól proposing.
What value will this proposal even add to his life?
If not for the fact that some of we responsible men want to have children and raise them in a good family settings, there very little or nothing else we men get from marriage in this generation.
You're proposing to someone most likely in various relationship. Some who has very little or nothing to offer.
Some who's definitely not a virgin and her BODYCOUNT can even send you to cardiac arrest.

I CAN NEVER IN THIS LIFE BE IN THIS SITUATION, IT'S IMPOSSIBLE.

FOR ME, THE GIRL WILL EVEN BE THE IN TO BE BEGGING ME TO PROPOSE, NO MATTER WHO SHE IS OR WHO SHE THINKS SHE IS.

I CAN NEVER KNEEL TO PROPOSE TO A GIRL, IT'S LIKE A TABOO.
WE EITHER STAND TOGETHER AND YOU COLLECT THE RING, OR YOU WILL KNEEL TO COLLECT IT.

No need for ring sef. Just tell her, make we go see your parent. After that, package ring give her as a form of formality. Then do some tradition/court wedding. Shikena.

I will disown my pikin if he grow up to have this kain goat brain. Didinrin.

Kobojunkie:
What proof does anyone have of the existence of these supposed spiritual powers? How many have you ever tangibly tangled with in your existence?

2. How many of these supposedly spiritually cleansed people have, afterward, been relieved of all dirt, ill luck, and all other claims?

3. Millions of Nigerians cannot even fathom peace in their lives because of the stress and depravation that is poverty; the rich among them cannot experience peace, particularly those of them who stole their way to riches, because of the fear that one day, they might lose it all. But here you are claiming peace has something to do with some chi? Are you for real?

Some of us experience peace regardless of the situation.

Let me tell you something a while back. I was traveling in a commercial bus, and it’s midnight. Then we were informed that Yoruba’s and Hausa’s are fighting in Ibadan at Shasha then, and we should wait till the morning.

But soon after, soldiers asked us to continue, saying they’ve calmed the situation. But that’s a lie, and we will soon find out.

Right before our eyes, those Yoruba boys are stopping vehicles, bringing out anyone they suspect is an Hausa and slaughtering them. Our bus was next, and everyone is in panic.

Note that we don’t know who the boys are yet. We don’t know if they are Yoruba or Hausa, we can only see that they are ordering people out and killing them, so we don’t know our fate.

Almost everyone ran out of the bus, but, there is this calm all over me that signal to me that all is well.

That’s my nature. I use to know if there is danger, and if there is none. Sometimes, I dream dreams if it is not an emergency situation, and I can know what will happen to me in the nearest future if I am expecting something.

When it got to our turn, we noticed that they are only killing Hausa’s and our driver was quick to let the boys know that we are all Yoruba. The lady sitting beside me is already sooo terrified, she is from port harcourt. She would have ran out herself, but I refused to budge and ask her not to worry.

Only four people are left in the vehicle by the time the boys released us, the rest that ran off, only heaven knows their fate.

I have that peace, because I am spiritually inclined. I am not a church goer. I am not a voodoo worshiper. But I understand that no one can harm me unless I am guilty. Even if I am guilty, you will still find it difficult to harm me, because I know the rules.

You are spiritually dead. So, these things are strange to you.

Fun fact: I have some dangerous disposition when triggered to anger, which can be very harmful to both myself and whoever confronts me. I can assure you that I have never had to use this energy to fight… why you guess? For some reason, I will either be sleeping, or just got busy or went unnoticed whenever there is a fight in my vicinity. Fight that if I got involved in will release the beast in me. These things are not co-incident but the fact that I am being protected spiritually.

Don’t know about money rituals though. And I don’t care to know either, I don’t need it.

AllBlack:


Kindly FuckOff if you are not buying. Stop being a MR TOO KNOW and spoil another man's hustle you insolent fool

M SERIES AREN'T GOOD FOR PROGRAMMING. LET ME KNOW IF YOU HAVE AN INTEL BASED MAC. MR BUSINESS.

Whoever tells you an experienced programmer won’t know that. I only added that to let you know my preference.

Anyway, you don’t have what I need btw.

A man’s pride start with his home. If you have any iota of pride in you, marry a woman that value you, and let’s that pride grow by letting her knows how valuable she is.

You all are the building block of this nation. A happy family is a happy nation.

Heaven knows I will NEVER! The disrespect alone. I can’t even live with my wife.

AlphaNugget:
Ask.

You paid her bride price. It is your right.

Meanwhile, OGs can know from how slack the pußsy is 🤥

You never jam better pussy. E get one girl like dat, any time we wan fvck, it’s like I am disvirgining her anew. Yet, I have the instinct I am not the only one.

Even if I am the only one, it usually felt tighter than previous. Although my own thing is bigger than usual.

MightySparrow:



I understand your fears but if you asked such a question, you would be starting WW2 in your home. No woman would admit to cheating even if caught in the act not to talk of something you can't prove.

However, pray about it very well before you can do anything with her for the reason of the consequences and stylishly throw a joke or a fabricated story about what could happen and watch her reaction.

In my opinion, he knows his wife and should know the best delivery method.

How you talk to people matters more than what you want to say.

However, since he has doubt, I will suggest learning how to deliver the question first. He clearly don’t know how to.

@OP, asking won’t do any good BTW. Women generally won’t tell the truth, except she is still naive. But a married woman is far from naive IMO.

If it’s truly an abomination where you come from, those who make the law should also provide a way to know. Consult them.

AngelSlay:
Oga! If you're not ready please let the person ready marry her.

Go and marry her. Didinrin. I said someone is still a student.

I don’t even know why I am engaging you. Maybe dem Dey force marriage on young people.

AngelSlay:
If you would not marry her why waster her time

I made mention of her in this context because she is naturally the one I want to marry. But not so soon.

Kobojunkie:
See how even God of Kumuyi dey change him mind every so often. Back when I was growing up in that church, scenes such as these were considered adulterous and sinful. Husband and wife were not aloud to have public skin ship of any kind. So many people were let go from the church as a result. 🤔

Now, i understand where you got your PTSD from. It must have been hard on you.

Na god save me too, Deeper Life almost ran me mad.

Racoon:
Now they are getting the romantic vibes and feelings of a godly wedding. Guess they will not call this bonding moments of this newly wed a sin?

Got one deeper life purity sister like that as friend. A childhood friend that loved me, but extremely jealous. I must not mention anything other lady.

It’s been more than a month we spoke last. I figured we shouldn’t be talking to avoid disappointment.

Coronavirus1:

I have noise phobia too much noise give me shock

Mine is odour, both bad and good ones. Especially strong ones. If you spray perfume and pass beside me, I must hold my breath.

rentAcock:
It's not an allergy if she doesn't have allergic reactions from eating it. Just sounds like a typical 1st world problem. I've never heard of a Nigerian person having any food allergy, but these White people are allergic to just about every fruit and food.

Am allergic to foods like rice, garri, bread, and yam. They make my head hurt really bad, and left me very very uncomfortable with tiny pains around my body.

I’m Nigerian.

GloriousGbola:


your story is actually BS for a simple reason.
from your story, your wife does not have an income so where is she actually going?
you say she carried gen, etc moved to a new house. where is the money fro rent, fuelling genrator eytal

at least let your fable make sense

my wife left me for a rich man -
my wife left because she was earning her own money

those are stores that will make sense - not a silly story where a woman with no means will just up and leave
this is nigeria

If you believe women always make decisions that make’s sense, then you are not making sense.

She made a foolish decision. Well accepted.

She made a very wise decision. Fishy, I will check the story again.

godswilld10:
My dad warned me NEVER marry the woman you love but marry the one who loves you even if you don't love her you will learn to. Now am here after disobeying him ,full of regrets



This is the reason for my downfall in marriage,I love my wife too much,she capitalize on that

Most women don’t know how to handle power. Most of them are opportunists looking for the slightest advantage they can get over you.

If I meet a lady, first thing first, I appear weak and dependent and broken to see how she treat me. Her response will determine my next decision.

It’s the plain truth about most women. Never, ever be at their advantage.


I also have an instinct that demands total commitment from a lady before I ever think of falling for her.

AntiChristian:
My greatest regret is not marrying very early! I wished i was able to marry earlier by at least 5 years!

You people got me thinking marriage early. Even though I wan reach 30 before I start considering it.



Funny thing, my babe don already Dey tell her friends say she go marry immediately she graduated. Women and fallacies.

Upload their shirtless and braless photos. Case solved.

JagabanBorgu:

A student's loan is a loan given to students to pay for their tuition fees, tuition fees are for feeding?
The crass ignoràncè in so many of u in this country but u are always quick to talk is funny.

That’s why I don’t like democracy. Imagine someone like this casting vote when he is clearly detached from national issues.


I will prefer a system where only political, social, and economic scholars are allowed to choose a leader.

RandomFellow:
I hate to owe please! Where is the account? Lemme pay off my own debt

The last time I did the calculation, it’s actually between 1-5k, I remember making a joke out of it. That should be about a year ago. It’s quite interesting how far we’ve come in such a short period.

Ringstonemasks:
Nobel price recipients are paid millions of dollars

Get ur fact right

The name overshadows the money. Some people usually defer the money.

PS: Not stating fact but context.

Honors are conferred on men of outstanding character. It’s to encourage others to be like them.

For example, most scientists study for the passion and not the money. To reward them, the Nobel prize is conferred on some of them.

Money is not everything. The mood of whoever you are ruling over is as important as the money you are helping them make. What makes us human is first within us, every other thing is secondary.

Pisol:



How can you be dramatic and demanding. I need the tips.

I think that is the problem. We are not all the same.

However, I generally treat people based on who they are. For example, my babe is reasonable, so we rarely have problems.

Let me share an example. There was a time she travelled, I didn’t call or message for about 2 weeks, then she messaged me saying she is worried that I didn’t call her, to which I assure her that I was only busy.

But, she is not convinced. Shortly after, she started posting heartbreak messages on her status, just to see me reaction. I said nothing, and I stopped messaging her to heighten her fear. After a while, she called twice and when I called back, she refused to pick.

Then she messaged, which I read and ignored.

But after about 3 days, I messaged back. Then told her that if she put up the act she did recently, I will just ignore her. She pretended not to understand, but she never repeated it since then. I always told her to talk to me if she is worried, rather than put up an attitude.

I think we have had any issue since then. Just that whenever she missed me, she will flash and pretended like it was a mistake. But she always drop her guard for me. She apologize and give up on fighting me easily, despite she is a very stubborn girl.


She is reasonable, so I don’t need to be overly dramatic with her. But I have had some toxic episodes with a very unreasonable girl in the past, however, I am very good at mirroring people, so I simply mirror her character, which makes her think I am weak. But that’s not a problem, because she will later find out I am not weak, and she got even more confused.

Yeah, confuse women, you will live rent free in the head. She still feel attached to me till today, even though we never dated, and we were never friends either. She finds me to strict to date and she loved me to just take me as a friend.

Overall, try to understand who you are dealing with and mirror some of her habit if necessary. But is she is reasonable, you don’t need to mirror her, just give her some closure and confidence.

Sonnobax15:

The level of fetishness going on among our young bannies of these days is something that our national assembly needs to have a discourse on.....cuz it's getting out of hand already.

I’m still dealing with one. However, I am a lucky dude, I do dream before anything happens. I was even warned just before we were acquainted, but I didn’t understand until the deed had been done.

RedpillAnalyst:


For those reading thinking it is your duty to fix these problems listed above.

These are intangible things that can never ever be achieved. Whether you are rich, whether you are laying down the pipe very well, no matter what.

Most women are never and can never be satisfied, which is women's true nature. Emotional neglect, emotion void WTF does that even mean. How do you measure it. These are fantasy ideas fed into the minds of women by the movie media, novels. Not that men can't solve the basic things, but the fantasy is what men struggle with. If the car is not working, if the door is damaged, if there are thieves knocking on the door, or if there is an issue with the electricity, these are tangible and can be fixed. But not the emotional things.

I know it sounds harsh toxic and patronizing. All they do is take, want, expecting gifts. Look at all the things listed above. It is about what they can get, what they desire, what they want. What they think is their rights but not what they have to do.

Love is sacrifice. Love is not sex. Love is not enjoyment, love is not guaranteed happiness. it is about what sacrifice. God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son. the keyword is he loved and he sacrificed his son.

So love is sacrifice. People confuse love with a marathon sex session. Love is not depositing money in somebody's accounts. Love is not buying somebody Range Rover,

Brothers need to work on their mindset. Before you fulfill any of these nonsense listed above, you will likely become a CEO or a Minister, heck even a president before you can satisfy any human not even a woman.

The best way is to never try to satisfy a woman. Learn to be dramatic and demanding as a man, and the woman will feel the need to please you. Else, she will blame you for all her stupidity.

This has always worked for me. Even the most demanding and unreasonable woman I have ever seen changed her rules for me.

ayindejimmy:
Women won't talk about them not lasting in bed . It's inability of some men they'll concentrate on .

Women don't make a big deal about their inability to make their partners cum like the men must not expect to be satisfied too

Not true. Most women I have sex with always worried I didn’t enjoy it because I refuse to cum. They will even still continue after they have cum just to make sure they satisfy me. But most time, I will still not cum.

Women do get worried if you refuse to cum too. Especially if she enjoy the sex. That’s why I usually spend hours. They won’t want to feel inadequate.

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