Easybaby, thats the most meaningful comment i have seen in this commonplace,
Fredrika, have you ever heard the saying like: ', if its yours then its yours. Even if it went around the world, its gonna come back to you, ' Why worry about him that can easily find his way around? You should concentrate on your kids and train them to be great kids. You worry like his a baby. Yes i know you love him so much and i feel your pain on loosing what you really love. Thing is, you most priortize at this point. I pray you both get back together and live happily ever after. Peace

Booggy, buggie whatever. You see, you are too worried about what you should do. I had the similar occurrence but i did not get to your limit + I was only 19 then she was 16. Assuming you had 'A' person to advice you (which i didn't get) you wont even had gone close in the first place.
My advice to you; Since the diddy had been done, get on with life. Unfortunately that is too hard to abide by, Once the fruit has been tasted, its hard not to have it again and again and again because by tomorrow you are on her or she's on you again, till you guys get caught. Then, you will know what to do. Messing around with juveniles will f* your PR up men. Think about it.