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Once I end a relationship, there's no going back! I just can't go back for any reason. NairalandSARS, I don't do PMs' please. Is there any thing you want me to do for you? |
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Hmmmm! It will be alright. Don't forget to save all those threat messages o! You may need them some day. You can as well block him on all your social media handles for now until you guys conclude your case. My prayer for you is that, if your husband is being spiritually manipulated, the God that can do all things should step in speedily! Juzzybabe: 4 Likes |
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Juzzybabe, are you still on this matter? You should have granted him the divorce since you were equally no longer interested in the marriage. On what grounds is he demanding for the custody of the child? I am not a lawyer but I doubt if any court of law will grant him custody because the child is too small. Please, grant his divorce wish and get it behind you. May heaven give you all the strength that you need at this time. 17 Likes 1 Share |
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Hmmmm! May God help you. Emioga: |
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Abeg, no vex o! Must you remain married to your husband? Can't you give him a little space for your sanity abi you want to die a 'MRS'? Please leave that toxic environment for now. Emioga: 1 Like |
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Bros, I think she likes you but taking her time to ensure it is not another mistake. Pls, stop rushing her. She will come around. Don't call her very often again and see how it goes. May God grant your heart desire. Loveprotocol: 1 Like |
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TV01, are you sure you are a man or a woman claiming to be a man on NL? How can a man be so petty, why? I always read your posts silently but I just decided to address you today. Most men I know do not go on and on....on issues like you do. Haba, since this post, all you and some people have done is to criticise without proferring any solution. Please, you don't need to pull anyone down to make your point Just make your point and move on Moji has come back to say she's now good with her mum so why bring up a forgotten matter? Some of us here need to understand individual differences, upbringing differ. That you do not agree with some one doesn't make the person's opinion irrelevant. Please, this is me speaking/writing my mind. You don't need to agree with me and I don't want any back and forth because I am not a fan of plenty talk/writeup. Thanks. 17 Likes 1 Share |
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Her problem is laziness. Just yesterday, a young woman came around asking what she could do for me (she had a little baby on her back), like washing, cleaning or any thing she could do. I didn't have any thing for her to do but I made sure to give her something little for transportation because I discovered she came from a far distance just to look for work. These are the kind of people I like to give if I have not some one who decides to live a careless life.(quote author=Onegai post=50127734] I was weak. We have girls in health section backing babies to look for work, myself I needed to buy some stuff from the U.S. for my child, I decided instead to teach myself how to sew by hand and she's there with a nanny even and she couldn't work. She started telling me "Morning sickness made me not work" and I was like "huh?!". Let Thorpido confirm if she has that illness that makes pregnant women not work (it's rare though) but I don't think she does. I don't know about drugs but this is all just entitlement. [/quote] 5 Likes |
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I knew she was the same person the moment I saw that op. She needs to go back to her mum and apologise so the woman can continue to help her. If we contribute money for her now, what is the guarantee that she will not get pregnant for another man again? I don't blame her mum, I would do the same if my child decides to misbehave (God forbid) in this manner. Onegai: 6 Likes |
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Don't mind the op, she can't be serious. According to her, her mum is very wealthy but doesn't like taking care of her. She said her mum prefers her younger ones to her. The mum asked her to help in the shop so she could earn money but she didn't want that. Na she sabi! ayamAgenius: 1 Like |
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I honestly, feel no pity for her at all because of all the rubbish she wrote about her own mum back then. I think she even admitted having a physical altercation with her mum self all because of feeding allowance for her child. The op needs to grow up. Mynd44: 1 Like |
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I remember this op very well but I can't remember her old moniker (that old moniker was Ayo something, something). From her stories back then, the mum really tried for her child and herself. The problem she said she had with her mum was that the woman let her younger ones talk to her rudely because she went to SA(sponsored by her mum) and made a mess of herself by getting pregnant for an irresponsible guy that was in jail for a criminal offence. She said her mum expected her to go to the shop to assist with sales even with her little baby and she refused to go. People advised her to help the mum in the shop but she bluntly refused that she couldn't do that with a little child. There were times she came back complaining that the mum no longer gave her money for SMA gold and cerelac. There were other times she praIsed the mum for taking good care of she and her child. She said her dad left her mum to be with another woman because her mum is abusive. The story long o! I will be back when I remember that old moniker. You guys should ignore her, biko. Very rude someborry with a sense of entitlement(I got all these from her previous posts). And why is she not back yet with the proofs abi she don commit suicide? 8 Likes |
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Was she slapped too? I didn't know about that. It means their problem didn't just start, maybe they had issues even before her husband died. izzieman: |
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Too bad. This is one of the reasons why I don't subscribe to being a house wife. Any thing can happen at any time and the woman will be the one to suffer. Even women with children have been treated like this by some families after the demise of the husband. creepsyme: |
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I have heard so much about them too from my mum's colleague as she's married to one. Their customs are weird. Let your sister be ready to submit her monthly salary against her wish all the time (the man can decide whether or not to give her from it),there are particular parts of a chicken she must keep for her husband if not, she will fall sick and die. She MUST not cheat (this is easy to adhere to), if she does, she must confess else she risks loosing her male children and husband to unknown ailment. Looking at my mum's colleague back then, you would never believe she went to school. She used to wear bathroom slippers to work, was trekking a very long distance and the dressing was zero all because she would have submitted her salary and the man was left with the decision of whether to give or not. She said the husband wasn't giving her anything and she couldn't complain. My mum said fellow women adviced her to be keeping part of the money for herself but she said the punishment for doing that was death. My dear, these are the ones I can remember now because it was a very long time ago. Coldfeet: 1 Like |
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No wonder! Ah, I feel her pain. It is not easy to be married for 23 years without a child. I read some where else that they asked her to go and remarry. May God intervene. bestestgirl: 1 Like |
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Most villages, no matter their level of christianity do not completely do away with tradition. I am a christian too but there are certain things you will never know until you have lost someone very close to you. Except you don't go to the village for burial, else, just be ready for those elders and their wahala. majekdom2: |
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I'm not Idoma o! Where I come from, the widow is required to stay for at least 14 days before they let her return back to work. This is so strange, I didn't know that such things are still obtainable in this modern time. gudnex22: |
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Are you alright at all? Why are some of you children of nawadays so rude? Is it everyone you meet online that you talk to any how? If christians don't go through stuff like this, then why is it happening to her now? You rushed to type rubbish without thinking first. Please, I beg you in the name of God, don't ever quote me to talk thrash again. ireneony: |
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Why exactly did she return to Abuja so quick? According to custom and tradition, she should still remain in the village for at least 14 days. Could it be because of her children's school? Honestly, I am confused. All those village elders ehn, God dey sha. It is well o! 7 Likes 1 Share |
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Op, if you are sure of yourself, go ahead and damn the consequences. If you are not sure you will make it in music, then remain in your father's house jejely. The same way 2face was threatened by his parents back then.... Now I doubt if there's any bigger name than 2face in Nigerian music. Most parents have in mind what they will want their children to become but DESTINY can never be changed. |
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Wow! You are so, so intelligent. The guy never talk true. Big brother indeed! frozenSun: 1 Like |
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Really? I learned something new today. Thanks. tabithababy: |
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Yomieluv, those provisions you bought may not work for her(speaking from experience). Taking tea(with plenty milk) didn't work for me at all until someone suggested kunu(I don't know what it is called in English o). I was busy taking tea and adding weight while my daughter was starving because she wasn't getting anything reasonable to feed on. The moment I took kunu, it was like magic! I started producing milk like water, my side of the bed was always wet with too much breastmilk at night because she had too much and the rest was flowing freely whenever she wasn't feeding. I felt so terrible for punishing her for so long. Note: kunu is very, very fattening. I added so much weight while taking it and had to do a lot of work to burn the fat after weaning. |
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dominique:Amen. God bless you too. |
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Hello... Just to inform you that I already paid in my widow's mite into the First Bank Account Number provided on the first page of the thread. God bless you guys. jaybee3: 1 Like 1 Share |
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Hello.... Ok, I will see what I can do. Thanks. jaybee3: |
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[quote author=Amelian post=44663483] You always talk from both sides of your mouth, why is that so? Always trying too hard to impress faceless people. One time you disturbed us on every thread about your forth coming wedding and when the much talked about wedding didn't hold, you disappeared from NL for a long time and reappeared with your usual lies again. I remember someone asked you about the wedding on a thread and you became very hostile. It is never a crime to be single, dear. You don't need to tell us you are married when you are not. I don't think any body cares that much, because we don't even know you. 4 Likes |
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Ode! |
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![]() I know you love topics like this. crackhaus: |
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My dear, only if the man does not have a source of income will I support such o! (Temporarily) Maybe the man drinks and smokes because I don't even know what N100 can do for him. amtaken: |
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