walkingshadow911:



Bleep off dude,
go get advice from your mother.
am a man too and i have sisters too.
this fake stories bout women on nairaland is getting too much for goodness sake.

go find something to do with ur time pls.

bullshits getting stale already

You think I do not have what to do with my life I only needed advice it’s not be force you contribute you can unfollow

cyndylove64:
learn to say no to her demands or needs ..... Is your gf an orphan even if she is why will u buy a lady sanitary pads.... Don't answer that.
Back to your post
Learn to say NO
If is possible ignore her
I don't support sponsorship that is what you are doing ,not relationship

I really appreciate

cooltola:
Your mistake is treating your girlfriend as your wife. Girlfriend do not deserve a wife treatment and boyfriend do not deserve a husband treatment. You are not married to her yet, as you are paying for her school fees, buy her this or that. Nothing wrong treating your girlfriend for a romantic date but there should be a limit. Love should reprocial, not parasitic.If i was the girl , I for ask for 100 million naira . Are you her father or Husband? that is not your responsibilities. Stop carry her father or husband responsibility , then cry foul when she dumps you for another man.

I know spending on a lady I am yet to get married to is very risky to do but I did all this because of love.

Which I let her know it’s not my responsibility doing all this things for her.

I am not just comfortable spending a dime for her right now…

I really appreciate everyone over here

techWriter3:
Not me reciting a slowpoke's Story on a Sunday afternoon

If you can’t contribute to the post you can unfollow I need advice not critics

oke2018:
They will only spend 1k on you & call it millions mtcheew.

I don’t think someone in his or her right sense will call 1k as millions.

Jennyclay:
Okay Sir, I have heard. Let the gullible ones give you advice oo.

#Walking out of the thread.

Thank you understanding

Jennyclay:
Don't you know frustrated red hungry pillers men on this forum would start insulting and bashing ladies before of this your fake story.

Stop being defensive and calling my true life story fake I don’t want want insults I want advice okay

Jennyclay:
LIES!!! Another thread to bash, Insults, humiliate and disparage Ladies.

You just created a new account to insult women. You better go and find something to do with your life.

Lady I am not insulting any one I never wanted to use my main account for this purpose if you can’t contribute maturely to this post you can unfollow this post

Hello dear Nairaland

I have been dating a girl for the past 5 years she has every thing I want in a lady but she’s too dependent since I have been dating her I buy from latest iPhones to sanitary pads , data , house rent , I even sent her to a fashion school which I spent millions on her, when she was at the fashion school.

Ever since she has resumed her school I told her won’t she be doing something in school like handling her friends and clients wears like sowing and selling quality materials I promise to open website , create mobile app , register her company , open cooperate account for her she’s yet to believe she can start making money her self .

During the conversation she told me how do I expect her to cope with class I was like woman I only allowed you to school because you should be able to stand out at-least you are not working for any one even when we get married she insists until she finish her school honestly I was pissed and decided not to give her any penny again until she fix her self..

Because I am a business man I have businesses running I believe my partner should also be doing something for her self not depending on me most time I don’t feel comfortable spending a dime on her again..

I need advice..