Contumely:


I just feel like I need a woman whom I would love, cherish her as my companion, travel the world with her and of course have seex and share our lives together.


I love women. But don't feel like I want kids.
It seems I am an antinatalist you know.


Firstly, What do you think about this?

Secondly, How do I find a woman that has same views?

Cheers!

What’s the worst thing you can think of to announce to a Nigerian mom or dad? “I’m pregnant!” No, that’s not it but that could land you a one way ticket to homelessness or at the chemist for injuries sustained from being whipped. You have one more chance. “I lost my virginity to…” I imagine your voice trailing off as you lose consciousness from whatever landed on your head. No, no, no. There’s something else most people wouldn’t dream of telling their parents and that’s their decision or choice to never have children. Your blank stare confirms this. The idea of a fertile young man or woman voluntarily choosing to be childfree is as unlikely as me waking up in the morning to find a billion naira beside me with a note saying this is for you. Why is this so?
Click on the link for the full article.

https://cfnaijagirl./2020/03/20/childfree-in-nigeria/

Gnosis777:
This is my first time posting on this forum, as I am normally a lurker. However, I was both shocked and deeply pleased to see someone who shares my sentiment concerning the act of bringing another human into existence. I am very aware that most humans are hard wired to believe that childbirth is a "blessing" and always the "right" answer, regardless of the circumstances that the child will be born into.

And to be honest, it's not even most people's fault, because the grand illusion is so heavily steeped into our existence on this planet. Most cultures condition women from a very early age to desire marriage and family life, but "NEVER" place an emphasis on important considerations, such as the "needs" of the child that has not been born, or the many possibilities of evil that can befall a human being on this planet.

I see it all the time, whereas a woman will be steeped in negative circumstances, and it is extremely against her and the unborn child's best interest to be born, yet people will berate, guilt and encourage the woman to bring the poor soul into existence anyway, with NO consideration as to the fate of the unborn child. In my humble opinion, that is the height of evil, yet they will excoriate those who are pro-choice. Again, it is my opinion, that if a person only cares about the child simply being born, but care nothing about the actual "quality" of the child's life, that's an evil act if you ask me.

And finally, one only has to search the topics on this forum, especially in the "Crime" section and see many children being killed for money rituals, as well as adults, and all other sorts of evil partaking in not just Nigeria, but all over this world. And yet in still, many will still bash and berate antinatalists who actually have a heart, as we are concerned about the soul of the human being, and "quality" of life, rather than just the person simply being born into a world that is heavily blanketed in evil. Again, in my opinion, the antinatalists actually exude the true spirit of righteousness as it shows that they have mercy and compassion on the unborn souls and understand this world on a macro level, which is something that most people lack. So, to other fellow antinatalists out there, do not be dismayed or discouraged by the blindness of others, but rather remain steadfast in spreading the message of antinatalism and educating as many people as possible on the realities of this wicked world, in hopes that at least (1) person will begin to see things differently. To the OP, thanks for making this thread and it is my sincere hope that you will spark a change of heart in someone reading this message.

(Edited to Add) One last thing, just to be clear, I am 100% antinatalist, and I do not support the birth of children, even by so-called wealthy families. Just didn't want my post to be misconstrued that I somehow support childbirth by families who are financially secure. Again, antinatalists understand the world on a macro-level, so we understand that childbirth in itself is a very unrighteous act, and no one should partake in it in my opinion.

elozino:
I guess we're many. I'm agnostic & antinatalist too.

tensazangetsu20:


Life is much better in developed countries but they still have a much higher number of anti-natalist than us Africans. To exist is to suffer. Theres too much needless suffering in this world that can be mitigated by people not just existing.

tensazangetsu20:


Damn where did you see such a woman. Been looking for a woman that absolutely doesn't wanna have any kids and is okay with a hypersterectomy and I a vasectomy.

kelvinrhs:


I have the same view as you. I have had the same view since age 10. I don't just want kids but I want a wife that I would travel the world with and do other fun Stuffs with.

I am happy to know that I am not alone lol

tyrellancelogan:
My name is Tyrell and I am 27. I'm an agnostic and an anti-natalist guy looking for a romantic relationship. I am a Backend Developer currently residing in Port Harcourt.

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