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Webmasters / Re: Top Biggest Common Mistakes In Running Facebook Ads by GetFeatured: 3:10pm On Nov 28, 2016
Hi there, please what is th current averge CPC in Lagos and Nigeria when advertising via Facebook? Thank you
Romance / Re: Reasons Why Guys Don't Have Girlfriends. by GetFeatured: 10:41am On Apr 24, 2015
Is it really hard to find the right person? Please voice your opinions here


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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I'm New Here. I Would Like To Make Real Friends. by GetFeatured: 10:39am On Apr 24, 2015
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Nairaland Virgins' Lounge by GetFeatured: 10:37am On Apr 24, 2015
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Culture / Take A Survey On Relationships And Marriage. NGN5000 Konga Card Up For Grabs by GetFeatured: 6:48pm On Apr 23, 2015
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Family / Re: Alarming Number Of Unmarried Ladies (28 - 39 Yrs) by GetFeatured: 6:37pm On Apr 23, 2015
wow strong views MRBrownJ

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MRBrownJ:
@OP
there are few issues here:
FIRST: NIGERIANS BELIEVE WOMEN MUST BE MARRIED TO BE VALUED
the solution to this problem lies in changing the prehistoric mentality of Nigerians who believe that the life's aim of any woman is to be married and have children (and that parents should have the last say on the matter). from their early age, parents beat that notion into young girls brain so these ladies will grow up believing that they aint shiit unless a man take them as wives.... and their parents approval is the do or die on the matter. the roots of that tree is rotten and we have to change it if we want to make better apples.

SECOND: ACCEPTING YOUR FATE
if you are +35, then you have lived about 17yrs seeking for that "Mrs" status without success, and since you know the social environment you live in, i suggest you let it go and accept that maybe it aint for you (and/or go insult your parents who refused all suitors that came your way). but hopefully by then, you have a great job that you can fully focus on. i am sure you are comfortable with who/what you are and i sincerely hope you dont settle for the 1st donkey that come your way, out of desperation.

sadly you have to accept the possibilities that you may be a gf (at best), for the rest of your life. there is no point still seeking for marriage when you see what you are up against out there. any +35 woman who still desperately seek for Mr right has to seriously answer the simply question: "why?".

THIRD: MEN AINT CRAZY
if you are a successful/beautiful/sexy +35yrs old woman, and yet still single, you have to look within yourself to know what drive men away from you. too high expectations? thinking to high of yourself? wrong character? NO morals? NO class? NO integrity? a good responsible woman does NOT stay single for long on the market, and a stubborn conceited woman need to fully accept that she may be single for a while. unfortunately, you best have a diamond cootie cat if you are ugly broke +35, and expect to compete with all them young 18+ women out there who are (as well) desperately looking for a husband to save them out of their misery.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST: LETS BE REAL HERE
what man in his right mind would settle for someone that passed her early 30s, when there are gazillions of young beautiful energetic 18-20yrs old out there desperately seeking for "any" well to do man to marry them? the younger men (18-30) out there would desire someone their own age, the mid range men (30-40) would look at these women and question why they havent been married all this time, and instead they would settle for someone "fresher" ranging from 25 to 30..... and the older men (40 and up) would mostly seek for an arm candy at this stage of their lives, and therefore also settle for the younger desperate women out there that are freely available in 9ja. so the reality is, pass 30 these women are indeed "old cargo".

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Celebrities / Take My Survey On Relationships And Marriage. NGN5000 Konga Card Up For Grabs by GetFeatured: 5:56pm On Apr 23, 2015
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Take My Survey On Relationships And Marriage. NGN5000 Konga Card Up For Grabs by GetFeatured: 5:49pm On Apr 23, 2015
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Romance / Take My Survey On Relationships And Marriage. NGN5000 Konga Card Up For Grabs by GetFeatured: 5:42pm On Apr 23, 2015
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Romance / Re: The Dating Game(first Edition)-suggestion Thread by GetFeatured: 12:31am On Jul 03, 2014
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Romance / Are You An Attractive Individual Or Couple? Get Featured In A Magazine!! by GetFeatured: 12:18am On Jul 03, 2014
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