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Culture / Re: Culturati Rebrands To Redefine Africa’s Image by GHoJes: 1:27pm On Sep 21

Pets / Re: Share Flyers To Promote Your Pets by GHoJes: 6:53pm On Sep 04

Family / Re: I'm Worried, All I Have Now Is 300k by GHoJes: 11:23am On Jul 19, 2023

Maintain the nice neighborhood you are, living in a good supportive environment has a way of inspiring and pushing you to the top. Speak with your landlord and give him half payment first as you have been advised.
The environment is also helping your children's development. If you move to a cheaper accomodation, you still won't afford a good private school so let your children benefit from good environment. 260 for a bedroom is not bad, you and your children need space as they are growing not cramming yourselves in a self contain room. Vices and bad behavior is prevalent in poor environment, don't let you and your children lose in both ways.

Even the rich attend government schools in Abuja. Don't know which state you are, look for a good government school and register your son. When your finances improve, you can change him to a private school.

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Religion / Re: Mercy Chinwo Now Charges N10m To Perform In Churches – Rev. Fr. Oluoma by GHoJes: 2:11pm On Jun 08, 2023

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Religion / Re: Mercy Chinwo Now Charges N10m To Perform In Churches – Rev. Fr. Oluoma by GHoJes: 1:44pm On Jun 08, 2023

Politics / Re: 2023 Elections: Abuja Results by GHoJes: 9:14pm On Feb 25, 2023

From the best polling unit in Abuja with enough drinks, water, cake and brownies for all who took part in the exercise.

Polling Unit 100, Mobile filling station, Gaduwa

Accredited voters 56

Presidential results

LP-48

PDP-5

APC-3

Senate

LP-43

PDP-10

APC-3

House of Representatives

LP-43

PDP-9

APC-3

ADP-1

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower Commences NEXIT Soft Loan Process For Npower N-agro Beneficiaries by GHoJes: 12:27pm On Jan 12, 2023

ezenwaez:

Have you read the content of the survey?

This shows you don’t even have the exact content of the survey, you just came here to blow out of proportion the scraps and pieces you lifted from the Npower group you belong as an ex-beneficiary.

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower Commences NEXIT Soft Loan Process For Npower N-agro Beneficiaries by GHoJes: 12:24pm On Jan 12, 2023

zsamorano:
That guy mumu no be small...peddling rumours up and down with nothing to show or back it up. Michewww

A very big one at that. He still thinks he will make it blogging about NPOWER that is almost a failure itself.

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower Commences NEXIT Soft Loan Process For Npower N-agro Beneficiaries by GHoJes: 10:43am On Jan 08, 2023

You this OP you have come to mislead the public with your foolery and clout. How does a taking a survey that clearly stated no remuneration translate to soft loan?

Properties / Re: Warehouse For Sale by GHoJes: 2:09pm On Dec 29, 2022

Properties / Re: Warehouse For Sale by GHoJes: 8:48am On Dec 09, 2022

Hi CLATHRIN sent you pm, want to discuss with you but can’t access the mail, please reply when you see this so I can send you another contact means, thanks.

CLATHRIN

Family / Re: How Do You Cope With Very Energetic Kids by GHoJes: 9:25pm On Jul 27, 2022

Let me give you a secret, you don’t play with him as much as his mum. His hitting you is him asking for your attention. You are calm and serious, worse is, you just let him go ahead, if you were the no nonsense type of dad, he would have been scared of you but since you are the quiet type, come down to his level, roll on the floor, toss him on sofas, run around with him like his mate, play rough yet carefully with him then come back to tell me how you became your son’s best friend. You will see how he will always prefer your company to his mum and you can easily make him obey you when you become his friend. This is coming to you from experience.

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Career / Re: Why Are Men Not Helping Each Other To Become Better Men? by GHoJes: 2:57pm On Sep 29, 2021

There are three things which are too astounding and unexpectedly wonderful for me,
Four which I do not understand:

The way of an eagle in the air,
The way of a serpent on a rock,
The way of a ship in the middle of the sea,
bAnd the way of a man with a maid

It didn't say the way of a man with a man, the wisest men of old couldn't understand it either, there ain't nothing you can do about, it is designed so from the foundation.

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Politics / Re: The Difference Between Democratic And Republican by GHoJes: 2:38pm On Nov 07, 2020

Word For Trump

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

2 Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea;

3 Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah.

4 There is a river, the streams whereof shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacles of the most High.

5 God is in the midst of her; America/Trump shall not be moved: God shall help America/Trump, and that right early.

6 The heathen raged, the kingdoms were moved: he uttered his voice, the earth melted.

7 The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah.

Even when the fight seems lost
We'll praise you
Even when it hurts like hell
We'll praise you
Even when it makes no sense to sing
Louder then we will sing your praise

Even when the morning comes
We'll praise you
Even when the fight is won
We'll praise you
...Louder then we will sing your praise

Foreign Affairs / Re: New York Already Celebrates Trump's Defeat In Election Result Party(video) by GHoJes: 2:37pm On Nov 07, 2020

Foreign Affairs / Re: US Presidential Election 2020 (Live Updates) by GHoJes: 2:27pm On Nov 07, 2020

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Foreign Affairs / Re: This Associated Press Analysis Shows That Trump Can Still Win by GHoJes: 2:18pm On Nov 07, 2020

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

2 Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea;

3 Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah.

4 There is a river, the streams whereof shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacles of the most High.

5 God is in the midst of her; America/Trump shall not be moved: God shall help America/Trump, and that right early.

6 The heathen raged, the kingdoms were moved: he uttered his voice, the earth melted.

7 The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah.

Even when the fight seems lost
We'll praise you
Even when it hurts like hell
We'll praise you
Even when it makes no sense to sing
Louder then we will sing your praise

Even when the morning comes
We'll praise you
Even when the fight is won
We'll praise you
...Louder then we will sing your praise

Education / Re: Help: My Family Wants Me To Study Law But I Don't Want To by GHoJes: 3:42pm On Aug 29, 2020

The Economics get far more prospects today than that Law dem wan force you so, ABI your dad think say 2020 and forward na their time.

Abobi no try am, no even think am. First of all, look for young Law graduates around you and show your dad how well they are doing. The Economics has more flexibility or you want to study what you won't have space to practice?

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-Power Lagos Thread by GHoJes: 10:07am On Aug 08, 2020

AutosBay:
Greetings esteemed NPower beneficiaries,

So I contacted NPower Office Abuja, with regards to the different issues that affects us especially the recent news of data collation in different LGAs of the Federation and they gave me this reply:

"Greetings Sir

Thank you for your email.and we hope you are keeping safe.

Kindly be informed that June 2020 and July 2020 payment is being worked on for the NPower Batch A and B, respectively.

As regards the stipend from March 2020, kindly be informed that the NPower volunteers were processed for these payments but unfortunately, their payment details were flagged by the payment platform; the reason for the payment flag is currently being investigated and all eligible NPower volunteers will likewise be paid their due.

We apologize for the inconvenience and we request that you kindly encourage the NPower volunteers to exercise some patience regarding the payment issues.

Regarding devices, there is no device provision for Batch B NPower volunteers.

We would like to inform you that the transition plan for the volunteers is still in the works and you will be duly informed on what it entails at the appropriate time.

Finally, kindly be informed that any post or instruction that did not emanate from our official social media handles should be considered as fake news and ingenuine, kindly sensitize the volunteers to not fall prey.

Thank you for all that you do and kind regards."

I hope this message will help douse the current tensions in the state and offer hope for those with serious issues.

Thank you and Please Stay Safe

@Npower_ng #NpowerTransition #StaySafe #BatchBdevices #DelayedStipends

Bassey Asuquo
State Coordinator
NPower CRS
F: The Focal Person
NSIP CRS

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-Power Lagos Thread by GHoJes: 12:32pm On Aug 07, 2020

AutosBay:

Both

Thanks.

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-Power Lagos Thread by GHoJes: 11:41am On Aug 07, 2020

AutosBay:

Ongoing Screening Safety Health Advisory To NPower Volunteers

It is no longer news that the ministry for Humanitarian Affairs is conducting a screening exercise for all the previously and recently exited NPower volunteers for the Ministry planned exit opportunities for the NPower volunteers.

As a result of that, it is very important that all the NPower beneficiaries undergoing the screening exercise take safety precautions to protect themselves from COVID-19. The Coronavirus is very much around.

Though some states have made it easy for the NPower volunteers by not doing the screening physically, some states are still conducting physical screening. If your state is conducting a physical screening, please take the following safety precaution:

1) Wear a face mask
2) Maintain social distancing
3) Sanitize your hands before going out and wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water when back from the screening.
The Ministry of humanitarian affairs, disaster management, and social development are exploring opportunities with some MDAs such as the CBN, State government, and private sectors for the NPower beneficiaries.

Family / Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by GHoJes: 10:43pm On May 21, 2020

Godlovesyou28:

He lived more with my grandfather but come home once or twice a year until he was entered the Marist brothers boarding school (holidays where mostly in the village); those schools are run like seminaries; after secondary school he went straight to seminary school.

Your missing link is your cousin/brother. From your statement, he knows the village very well and people he can approach for answers without even involving your father. Remember not to divulge your source at first to your brother, be sure he is very in before you tell him your source if you must.

Go and sleep as you have been advised, tomorrow is another day.

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Family / Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by GHoJes: 10:09pm On May 21, 2020

Godlovesyou28:

He knows he is adopted after his parents died, that's all I know. His father is my dad's late brother and he is a photocopy of my dad just like me.

Can't you see it's not adding up? Your mum can't have him and give him out at birth if he is your brother, meaning they lied to both of you.
At what age were you told he was adopted? It seems he was tough on them, they quickly baled out by telling him he was adopted, no wonder he was shipped off to seminary school. How old was he when he left the house? You need to find out from him how your step mum treated him the little time he stayed in the house.

Your step mum seem to have succeeded on your mum, him priest, you don't want to marry too obviously because of what you saw growing up and she is dreaming you are a reverend sister but her children are getting married.

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Family / Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by GHoJes: 9:33pm On May 21, 2020

Godlovesyou28:

He is older than me by 2 or 3years.
He was adopted the same year I was born so I doubt he would remember his parents.

Thanks for understanding what this means to me; I mean having my own closure.

If he was adopted same year you were born and he is two or three years your senior, how is it that he had another parents? Did your mum had him and gave him out? Who told you he was adopted? Was he also told he was adopted? Did you see pictures of his said parents?

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Family / Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by GHoJes: 9:04pm On May 21, 2020

Godlovesyou28:
My mind is failing me right now , could she be lying?
The last time I even saw him has been so long.
What do I do
I feel more sorrow than I have ever felt all my life.
Should I confront my dad with this?
Am loosing my mind.

Wrong move, don't confront your dad you would be exposing the woman.

I almost added that another of your siblings could be from your mum in my first post. You need to get in touch with your cousin, does he not have social media presence?
Is he older than you? Find out how his relationship with his dead parents was? What you heard without revealing the source, claim an anonymous contact sent you the information. From his reaction you would tell if she is lying.

For your well-being take small break from this. Your desperation will sell you for free to the woman, she may capitalize on it to lie to you or cash out on you. But I believe she is not lying about your cousin being your brother. You need to find him but don't be hasty. Becareful not to let your parents know you want to contact your cousin.

Forget that person saying your mum is your source of sorrow, if they treated you well, you won't be this desperate to find her, you probably won't have hated marriage too. Forget that nonsense story he also told you, no two situations are exact, he doesn't even know the closure it gave to his friend if his story is true (hope your half sibling is not here already because I can't understand his desperation to bully and talk you out). You need your own closure.

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Family / Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by GHoJes: 7:26pm On May 21, 2020

Godlovesyou28:

I have no idea whether she is dead or a life and intend to find out.
My siblings fear me more than I fear them; their only weapon against me is hate and my weapon against them is forgiveness and resolve - they know I never quit anything I start until I conclude it. I have weighed all my options and the court is my best option.

You should please try to calm down a little. You know you need a wise and reliable shoulder to lean on, help you see when you clouded with emotions and support you. See you yearn for love, something you have never had, another reason you so want to meet your mother. But take it slowly, don't be over confident it is just the missing link for your life.

I think you should relax a bit and think clearly how to handle this. The court option should come last. Firstly, I believe you can still meet the person who revealed it to you. Don't push too much at first, let her know you don't want her to tell how to find your mum but that she should kindly tell where your mum is from(village)? If she is still alive? Relevant indirect questions that are clues and won't implicate her. Remember to keep them few, also do something good to her that will make her open up easily.

Somebody suggested using news paper advert, it is also a good option to consider before court. But before this try and find people from your village online or if possible go to the village but online is safer. See if they can identify with your family name and dig up something. Those unfriendly relatives you see, is it possible to look in their children's direction for help.

Your step mum have your dad around her fingers and manipulate him at will to make you and his family do her biddings. Keep calm and reduce the impression that you are determined because she is also pressing her buttons. The way they are going, it is hardly likely your mum abandoned you. You need calm to think well, get a good shoulder even if anonymous to support you because it will likely not end well if driven by too much emotions. I believe your mum is alive with the way everyone is afraid, I also believe you will find her. See, if there is your dad's relative that is not happy with your step mum, do him/her good to your advantage with promise to protect his/her identity.

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Family / Re: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by GHoJes: 1:18pm On May 15, 2020

igbowoman:

That man only needs a cook.Isnt this obvious to you yet?.I hope you havent been dickmatized yet.You dont need a face to face break up with this one before he wounds you .If you have your bathroom slippers or clothing there just go and collect it discreetly,go back to your place and send him a short text ,no long grammar.

" Hello Ofiafuluagu, this will not work out between us.It's been nice knowing you these 4 weeks.Take care and God bless".
Sincerely,
Vikky

what does "Ofiafulagu" means?

Vikky1234 you are just a free maid needed for necessary service. Just look out the job description before you, your job is to be taking care of him, friends and family and you are the least important of them all.

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Family / Re: How Do I Train A Healthy Child? by GHoJes: 6:08pm On Apr 26, 2020

easyconnect:

Do you mean I should show him someone he should look up, to emulate them?
It kind of complex

I mean like a mentor. He doesn't need to be on the lookout to emulate the person. He just need to be friends and free with the person and the person can naturally direct his path especially on men issues where necessary.

It may not happen immediately, but if you find such a person with character, you can introduce both of them, if your son likes the person then they can kick off. You can even let the person know you want him to be a mentor ONLY if you have proven beyond doubt that the person can deliver.

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Family / Re: How Do I Train A Healthy Child? by GHoJes: 9:56pm On Apr 25, 2020

Don't ever tell any lie to cover his father, it will come back to hurt you. Also if care is not taken, he may grow up believing he can repeat his father ways and nothing will spoil. The person telling you to do all that nice cover for his dad is a potential irresponsible soul like his father, trust me, I know so because anyone who has walked through your child's shoe or who is sane will never recommend that.

Stop bothering yourself, things will fall into place if you look up to God and do your best. Don't force him calling his dad if he is not interested. You can get him a small phone to reach you when not around though.

As for those issues you want to discuss, don't force them. He is growing, seeing and learning things, when he gets to the ones he doesn't understand or need answers to, he will ask you by himself. You can then open up fully when he is 12-13years.

What you should be bothered now with is where and how to get a father figure for him because he needs that void to be filled. It could be your brother, relative, neighbor, friend but you must be very sure of the person's character and lifestyle as it will reflect on him. Also you should be careful of sexual molesters. If you can't get a trusted male immediately, you can start with a role model from TV or something. Remember the father's figure lifestyle above any selfish desire you may have.

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Family / Re: My Story; A Troubled Married Man by GHoJes: 9:56am On Apr 25, 2020

I hope you see this. You were honest at the start, then you started watering things when insults were coming too much than you thought.

Truth is you are suffering stuff but the funny thing is you want your wife to ameliorate your suffering because she some how contributed to it but what you don't know is that, she is suffering too and you contributed to it. Both of you are dealing with the effects of each other actions yet don't want to shift grounds. You know, you said your wife is ignorant, you have become too focus on her inefficiencies that you can't see that your actions are driving her worse.

You struck me when you said you can't promise you will change from cheating but somehow you want your wife to stop nagging. Hey, that's a woman that love you too much to even be bothered with what you do with your body even when you are contributing nothing to the home. Some women would have a given you a better ride for your game so much that your esteem will not afford you an erection any longer.

You say your wife don't understand personality without knowing you are same or worse because if you knew, you could have helped her shortcomings and complemented her. Like what is wrong with planning the meals since you the better, buying the clothes etc. I believe there are things she also does better than you that you have not been able to rival in 9years.

You even married her selfishly and expect her not to make her self demands too. You said you married her because she wasn't the outing type, whereas you are the social type. You left your kind because you know they are prone to waywardness and went for the homely one who less selfishly is demanding for a homely man-her kind.

If you want to see real change oga, start from yourself, change your bad ways and friends, you know them and see your wife and home change.

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Forum Games / Re: If you're Smart, Come In. Let's Play A Game. by GHoJes: 9:14pm On Apr 06, 2020

abumeinben:
Here:

www.nairaland.com/attachments/11284793_img20200330124552_jpegc816fc54863362496f9209ce9f83b749

Lemme start:

Hit the nail on the head.

Where is the picture?

Business / Re: My Experience With Access Bank During 14-Day Covid-19 Lockdown In Abuja (Photos) by GHoJes: 10:35pm On Mar 30, 2020

On a normal day access bank no well not to talk of lock down.

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