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This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations,but i can no longer resist the push. ''Husband Scarcity" has become one of the major challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses,majority of their intentions are prayer points for a life partner. And this calls for a great concern,casting our minds back to the times of our others and grandmothers,was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity"problem?,Or maybe there were more women then,or there was adequate corresponding numbers of both genders...i don't think so. Maybe then,the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not pack into a built home. Then,once a young man comes of age and at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman in return really appreciates him and then assists him fully to build a future...What am i trying to say?. Women created what they now see as "Husband Scarcity" for themselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get answers like "he has to be tall,handsome,fair and rich,own a house at least,and be presentable" and then she adds"god fearing"in order not to sound so worldly. Then check the number of men that meet that meet that standard,and you will see the problem. You often hear girls say "I cannot suffer in my father,s house and then go and start suffering with a man all over again". Oh..What a wonderful dream!!..What if from the beginning, you have everything you wanted and there is no suffering and later in the marriage,the table now turns around, then now comes the suffering?..will you now run away?..No one prays for such fate but its preferable to start small and end big,than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same, When 50 girls ant the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man and the man can only pick one. Then what becomes of the remaining 49 girls?. they simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity", Another irony of this time is that it is hard,due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who has all those attributes these ladies want,legally(except those involved in internet fraud),even the number of those in internet fraud is not enough to match those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects,are married and are not complaining of this husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him without a helpmate and then made the woman and gave to him and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. WOMEN are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS....DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY, Where he is today may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "Husband Scarcity", PICK UP the RIGHT VALUES. I'm not saying that you should pick any man that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What i am saying is that you girls should stop setting your standards on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical...WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF..and that which he is made up of is, most times not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing, whatever is seen is Temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. GOD DID NOT JUST MAKE EVE FOR MAKING SAKE, HE MADE HER FOR ADAM'S NEED TO BECOME COMPLETE AND FULFILLED....BE WISE...TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. |
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So 2go fans like me no follow?....#downloading version 3.7 with my Nokia Express Music# |
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1. ?? 2. Micheal Jackson...black or white 3. Boyz 2 Men...end of the road 4. R.kelly...I believe i can fly 5. Joe....I wanna know 6. Craig David...walking away 7. DMX......ruff rhyders anthem 8. 2 Pac....California love 9. 2Pac....do for love 10. Carlos Santana...Maria maria 11. Micheal Jackson...You rock my world 12. Sisqo...Thong song 13. Ja rule....Always on time 14. Ja rule...Down a** bi**ch 15. Nelly furtado 16. Ashanti...Bad 17. Brandy & Monica...Boy is mine 18. Shakira...Hips don't lie 19. P.Diddy...I need a girl (pt 1) 20. P.Diddy...I'l be missing you 21. Nelly....I love you 22. Shaggy..It wasn't me 23. Lil Bow Wow....Bow Wow Wow 24. TLC....No scrubs 25. 2pac...Brenda's got a baby 26. R.kelly...I wish (pt 1) 27. 50 Cent...In da club 28. Styl Plus....Call my name 29. P.square...Busy body 30. 2face....Fire 31. 2face....African Queen 32. Olu Maintain..Yahooze 33. Shakira....Whatever Wherever 34. Sean Kingston...Suicidal 35. Mario.....Let me love you 36. Akon...Lonely 37. Sean Paul...I'm still in love 38. R.kelly....Burning Up 39. P.square....Do me 3 Likes 3 Shares |
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Ana ekwugheri.....Op dis ur talk no follow at all |
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beauty lies in the eyes of the 'beerholder' |
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VictoriaBee:emmm....home n abroad prostitution nko...na nigerian guys still cause am?....truth is alomo |
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''MOTI CAKES'' |
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But come to think of it....GIRLS PREFER DISHONEST GUYS TO THE HONEST GUYS....you can evn see som of them tell their friends....''he swept me of my feet n blew me away wt his lies'' or ''dat guy sabi lie oo''{still currently dating him oo} |
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Ok oo
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Is dat d new 'Miss Ekpoto 2015' ![]() |
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See wetin a full man get time dey do....dey snap hair dey luk d hair lyk say e no lyk d size of food n meat wey dey d plate wey madam Ulasi serve am for mama put |
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Another bleached piece of p***y.... |
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pretydiva:.....u sure ure jst kidding? |
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Lol,,,,,i still have d nokia 6210 till now....omo na beta swag ooo.....once it rings....all eyez on me...lol.. |
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You just broke d ''Guy Code'' bro....real bros luk out 4 each other...if u dnt lyk d idea just allow him dis once n then tell him u wont allow such next time...dats more fair.....put urself in his shoes...how would u feel.....glad?? 2 Likes |
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freecocoa:.......glad u finally agreed |
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pickabeau1:.....lol...i dey telling u oooo....me i tire oo |
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Coming 4rm a guy dat sleeps wt upcoming actresses(male n female) actors in exchange 4 roles in naija local videos.......imagine!!!....wolves in sheep's clothings 1 Like |
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emmanuelogbe:.....i hope d ladies will love u 4 dis....protector of d feminine universe 1 Like |
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prettyjo:....lol....e show 4 ur long fingernails sef.....abeg oo |
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Sean tizzler....dey bleach 'ur' skin dey go...make sure say u go white pass micheal jackson....if not..u still dey learn......#stranded# |
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lol...cnt believe dis chick....ar u suggesting we dnt cut our hairs again?....must u girls fix those stuffs....our mothers really looked during their days witout such artificial stuffs....i really dnt get ur point oo |
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Wendyslim:.....lol,,,,,u really said my mind.....i just cnt help laffin whn they blink their eyes wit dose long tolotolo feathers they fix 1 Like |
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boman2014:....some people still carry dis their mumu behaviour enter 2015...weda fake or real....leave him alone...nobody is perfect |
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ivyy:...lol...i know u won't 1 Like |
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MizEmpress:...see what?....more of those k-leg poses u mean? |
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Atk01:....eeyaaah....u pissed? |
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pretydiva:....u sure ure nt posing lyk dat as ure typing this |
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loifez:...lol..why should we let u girls be...i mean look at their legs |
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nekaa:....so what do u have 2 say? |
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Collynzo22:,,,,bros no mind am....effects of free orijin |
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Forwetinnah:...aba boys wey dey browse for trouble...dnt worry..dose fulanis go smell nwiiii |
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