MrBrownJay1:


exactly.... take the right steps in order to find the right person for you. do not go out there saying to yourself:" i need to find my next husband" but instead go out there and say:"i need to find the right friend" and if that person turns out to be your future husband, great....if not, great!

dont put too much stress on such issues and instead always ENJOY LIFE!

thanks.

ayoncox:

You will surely get it, just ensure you watch and pray and keep working on yourself to be a better version of you daily

Thanks

Candidlady:



Rubbish guy! His loss/lose(english wont run me mad ) abeg! You'd find someone just don't act/sound desperate cuz this so called bloody vipers will always wanna take advantage.

Thanks sis.

ayoncox:


I love your confidence, and I want to congratulating you for being rescued from a ethnical bigotry system.
You will surely find love again, mean while it's time to place some landmarks even as you have fun, be on red alert for any form of chaotic tendencies, anyone that won't value being married to you and feel you are just good for friendship should be exited.

This time look for matured man who knows what he wants.
Wishing you all the best

Thanks , fingers crossed ,I need all the luck I can gather this time around.

Candidlady:


You are right auntie but you know we can as well weigh our risk before venturing into anything?

You take this risk again and it doesn't work. The mental damages might never heal. Iam not trying to discourage you auntie. love is a sweet thing but at the same time sweet things are sometimes bad to health!

Again ipray you find the right one Outta the one billion bad men ... °′°°terrible ratio if you ask me°°=


What was the guy's reaction after his parents said they can't do you cause of your tribe?

He is now married to a girl from his tribe.

MrBrownJay1:


again, i am just comenting on what YOU wrote:



so again, dont look for "love" and instead enjoy life and look to find A FRIEND, and take it from there. putting love in front while you havent even met a friend, is a desperate move that often result is despair.

Now I get your point. After all they always say "marry your friend". I guess a friend wouldn't have done me dirty like that.

DoctorOlasDesk:



I highly recommend the use of social media dating optimally. Create accounts on different sites. Post pictures on sites like Instagram, Facebook. Out yourself out there to be found

Thanks

MrBrownJay1:


stop desperately looking for love and instead ENJOY LIFE... when love is ready to find you, it will naturally!

I am not desperate,it's been two years , surely you won't call that desperation. I took time to grieve and heal. And now I am ready to move on.

Candidlady:
You wanna try again? Good luck with your lab test, hopefully this new one works for you



Just be careful! Ensure to have an exit/emergency door just incase...


What do iknow

lol

Thanks for the heads up.But I feel life,relationships are all a risk, sometimes you meet the right one and sometimes you don't.

Yes I confess I was really hurt ,but hey life goes on.

I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.


It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

I am 33 years old,
Presentable
Working class
Slim lady
AA genotype
Bini by tribe.


Looking for a man between the ages of 34- 45
READY TO SETTLE DOWN
presentable and sensible
A Christian or atheist is fine .

Send a PM or drop your number.