ObiaboAdoka:

R u on WhatsApp?

yes

Two kids. I am praying to have twins at first conception,child bearing closed.

ObiaboAdoka:

True talk. How old r u?

34

ObiaboAdoka:
Can u relocate to any state in Nigeria?

can't relocate to the North for obvious security reasons.

yrhuhfy113:
Kindly use PAID service, to limit your search and not to have to deal with the storm that comes with public posting like this.

LAGOS MATCH MAKER on instagram....
9jachristianmingles too


pls use them and you will marry this year.

God bless

Ok , thanks will check them out.

I am a

Presentable
Working class
Slim lady
AA genotype
Bini by tribe.

I am 34 years of age
Looking for a sensible and presentable man between the ages of 35 - 45
READY TO SETTLE DOWN, no time wasters please. If you are still "trying to test the waters" or not sure if marriage is for you , please don't bother.
A Christian or atheist is fine .

Send a PM or drop your number.

hurtlery:
I don't understand why anyone would make tribe an issue in a relationship/marriage

You would be shocked to know that alot of people do.

Walkee:

My WhatsApp. I don't understand how this Nairaland PM works

edit your number out

Walkee:
don't allow anyone make you feel bad for your tribe. Me, I will always prefer Edo people. No matter what. Bini, Esan, etsako etc. You can drop your WhatsApp if it is OK by you

use mail instead.

musiliyukayode:
If you love something, set it free, if it's your it will come back,if it doesn't its never yours.
Why dont you try me? We are not tribalistic in my family.

lol

Ok.

Walkee:
wait, you are Bini and someone had issues with that? Most likely an Igbo but that's still strange. I'm Esan I can only marry from Edo state or maybe Urhobo too. We could talk

Yes people do have issues with Binis for reasons best known to them,infact I have had two guys from here who reached out ,tell me their concerns about Binis as well.

Kloppo:


Vbèè óye hé?

oyése

zexy2030:

Pls can u send me a message again. It's a business talk. Thanks.

sent

DoctorOlasDesk:




I did not use your past against you lovely one. I simply spoke the truth in front of me. Jump on facebook, instagram, numerous dating sites, splash your profiles everywhere, meet people.

I'm also been turned down cause of my tribe inspite of meeting all other criterion. Life is life.

Alright.

realone12:
so OP. which tribe are you?

Bini

DoctorOlasDesk:



I told you yesterday to go create numerous dating profiles online. Rather than doing what will yield results. Chat up brothers who asked you to contact them, you're here trying to fight what you can't change. What's the benefit of this thread? Solve your past trauma? Focus on the positives. Leave all this thing

I adhered to your advice.


Then I got two people from here who for reasons known to them knew they had issues with my tribe but still reached out just so they could rub it in my face . Hence the motivation for the thread.


And I don't see where I was fighting . And FYI this had nothing to do with any past. I just thought it will be a good idea to bring the awareness out. That there are people who will not not marry from a tribe no matter what.

Yes I have a past which I have gotten over , there is no need for you to use it as your punch line to rebuke me.Thanks.

DoctorOlasDesk:



Why are you acting combative. ?

I'm not jor.

DoctorOlasDesk:



Trust me

Not a matter of trust but facts.

DoctorOlasDesk:



It is not about tribe babe, but about some strategies in loving. Keep anything you feel would be a turnoff at he start, let the emotions and feelings grow, when the other party sees you differently, the tribe won't matter even if you're from hell. Keep touchy things at the start, private

for a country where nepotism, tribalism and bigotry thrives some times it is about the tribe.

Olunmercy56:


No

lol
Okay.

Olunmercy56:
Tribe? Ijebu Igbo and Calabar

want to share your reasons?

house10s2:
wetin b turns

Edited, typographical error. Thanks for drawing my attention to it

So like I said in another thread ,I was served breakfast because of my tribe and I have also received PMs only to rub their perceptions about my tribe in my face .

So I want to ask, what tribe would you rather be dead than to marry from such a tribe?

Please if you know you have a problem with binis don't bother reaching out just for chatting sake.

I have no issues with not wanting to date or marry from a particular tribe, everyone has a right to their opinion, but reaching out to me just to rub it in my face is just mean.

MoneyGoDrop:
Stop blaming his parents rather blame him because he must have known of his parents won't accept you but decided to lead you on.

I guess so.

Nicepoker:
you are subscribing to an advice from a 62years old slay mama.

Do you have a better advice for me?

Lucaski:

Can we talk on whatsApp it you don't mind? I can drop you my email..

drop your email.

Lucaski:


What state are you from?

Edo.

Blunttruth:

It's Igbos that do this. No offense to the Igbos.
All you guys shouting girls are not faithful, do you see why girls keep more than one guy.

Anyway my advice for you is to learn from your mistakes. Don't date for too long. No time for boyfriend and girlfriend.

Thanks , noted.

CountVersailles:

You should have just lived your life. Don't put a stop and start to your own experiences because one guy left you. Just live. Forget all the "moving on". Live.

Some things are not as easy as black and white.


But the bottom line is I am ok and over it.

Iyaebe:
If one door closes another one opens,dust yourself up and give it a try again but this time around make sure it’s alter bound.Dont be in a headless relationship for more than six months

Thanks,noted.

I must say I am overwhelmed with the response so far, thanks guys , was thinking I was going to get nasty comments or they are asleep