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Romance / Re: To All My Good Girls That Aint Turned Bad: Yet! by GL(f): 5:24am On Feb 22, 2010 |
oyinda.: i know, i see these kinds of relationships all the time. sometimes the girls see the signs but they stay anyway. i guess it's not exactly easy to move on in these situations. but you know when you're in a relationship, you read body language differently from how others would. what others see as warning signals, a girlfriend may see as jealousy or even love. it's sad and scary |
Romance / Re: I Found The Pics Of My Wife Ex Hidden In by GL(f): 4:43am On Feb 22, 2010 |
Siena: exactly! the issue here should be whether or not she is still in love with her ex. the pictures don't really prove anything, she could destroy them and still be fantasizing about the ex. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Emotionless. by GL(f): 4:16am On Feb 22, 2010 |
cnario: her unromantic attitude is probably linked to her 'caged' emotions, so if she gets over the emotions issue she should become more romantic. don't give up on her yet, especially since she's improving already. she has to make efforts to change though, not just expect healing and change to come naturally. you didn't mention how long you two have been together, but i think you should give her time. she'll most likely find a way to deal with this problem over time. now the question is how much time she needs, and how long you can wait. like puskin said, you can't have it all; you have to decide what you can/can't live without. |
Romance / Re: I'm So Paranoid About Marriage by GL(f): 9:54pm On Feb 07, 2010 |
frank3.16: you're also paranoid about marriage, yet you see it as an indulgence eh? marriage is not at all inevitable, it's a choice you have the right to make. Ujujoan: i wonder oh! paranoia = delusions and baseless suspicions. |
Romance / Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by GL(f): 9:17pm On Feb 07, 2010 |
michelin89: true |
Family / Re: Tribal Mark On Your Child. Don't Laugh by GL(f): 7:56pm On Feb 07, 2010 |
kulyie: what are the kids going to spend holidays with her for? i think she shouldn't ever be allowed to be in the same house as the kids again. |
Family / Re: Help! My Cousin's Corpse Is Missing! by GL(f): 7:54pm On Feb 07, 2010 |
sorry for your loss. willyspace: that's probably what scared the young man away, can't say i blame him. |
Family / Re: Children Beating Up Their Father When He Is Beating Their Mother by GL(f): 7:40pm On Feb 07, 2010 |
lannre: they are protecting their mother so it's not a curse. it might be a curse if they beat their father up without provocation. it's all these threats of curses they use to deceive women and children into remaining in bondage. how can you be calm when someone is beating your mother up in your presence. |
Forum Games / Re: Word Association Game by GL(f): 7:25pm On Feb 07, 2010 |
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Family / Re: My Dad Is Having An Affair:Do I Talk To Him Politely? by GL(f): 7:11pm On Feb 07, 2010 |
ayettymama: most men still love their families (their kids at least) when they cheat, i doubt he would leave them forever if she confronts the girl. the worst he should do is beat the living daylights out of her, but not leave. if he leaves it's not because she confronted the girl, but because he wanted to leave before but had no reason to. |
Family / Re: My Dad Is Having An Affair:Do I Talk To Him Politely? by GL(f): 2:26am On Feb 07, 2010 |
Outstrip: i also don't understand why posters want her to pet the man. if it was a woman cheating everyone would be talking about how irresponsible the woman is. now it's the man we're blaming it on jazz and midlife crisis. i agree that when a man abuses his wife it affects the children. it's hard to be in such a home and pet the wrongdoer. the kids feel very hurt also, and i don't see why they should sweep it under the carpet. she should talk to her father, and talk to him well. |
Romance / Re: Why Girls Of Na And Days Are After A Guy Who Has Money Or Who's Parent Are Rich? by GL(f): 1:54am On Feb 07, 2010 |
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Romance / Re: I'm So Paranoid About Marriage by GL(f): 1:49am On Feb 07, 2010 |
pro01: the problem is you're refusing to look beyond your experiences. your arguments against women can easily be used against men; John Terry was cheating on his wife too. it's hard for anyone, male or female, to commit to a serious relationship. both men and women cheat and it always hurts the partner. pro01: there's no way to tell upfront, you have to get involved to know. but seriously, who is really GOOD? |
Romance / Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by GL(f): 6:21pm On Feb 06, 2010 |
Sam Milla: i might react that way if the OP's girlfriend was spending nights in the guy's house. but the issue here is she spent just one night and i don't think that's enough reason to end a relationship. even if she spent more than one night, it's better to talk about it rather than just break up. Sam Milla: that's the idea, talk to her about it and let it go. then if she does it again you can walk out on the relationship. |
Romance / Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by GL(f): 9:25am On Feb 06, 2010 |
H2O2: it's not like you should encourage or give her permission to sleep in a guy's house. but if she does and she tells you, you should trust her enough to accept her story. she shouldn't even drink enough to get drunk when she's alone with a guy in his house. well, maybe i'm being naive but i believe it's best to trust your partner until you have evidence that he/she is cheating. |
Romance / Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by GL(f): 8:02am On Feb 06, 2010 |
@ poster, if she's been faithful up till now just trust her and get over this issue. if she keeps going to sleep in a guy's house after knowing you don't like it then there's a problem. it's hard to trust anyone, even your family sometimes. but a relationship can't be successful without trust. there would be no need for trust without suspicion-raising situations like this. you should talk to your gf, let her know you feel bad about it, and believe what she tells you (except you see evidence that she's lying). there's no need going to look for loopholes in her story, cos if you look hard enough for anything you'll find it. bee444: sleeping without electricity in your family house isn't the same as sleeping without it when you live alone in a different part of the country. what if the girl had no close female corper friends, or if the guy was her only friend there? if the girl had a habit of sleeping in the guy's house, then it would be strange. but it was just one occasion. maybe she went to watch a tv program and overstayed till it got too late for her to return home. |
Religion / Re: Pay House Rent Or Pay Tithe by GL(f): 8:55am On Feb 05, 2010 |
ERE: how do those commandments mean he should pay the tithe? tithing isn't equivalent to loving God or people, it's doesn't prove that someone is a christian. even 419ers and politicians tithe on stolen money. paying one's tithe doesn't guarantee riches, and christians should always be on their "knees praying to Him for provision" no matter how rich or poor they are. you probably would be advising him otherwise if it were his child's school fees or hospital bill he was asking about. but shelter is also a fundamental need. many people who tithe regularly do it because they want something from God or because they feel it is dangerous not to. for all we know, God doesn't accept some tithes because people give grudgingly or for the wrong reasons. it's better to use the money for something you need than to pay in church and have God reject it. |
Romance / Re: Is It Proper For My Girlfriend To Sleep In A Guys House? by GL(f): 2:53am On Feb 05, 2010 |
i think her action is understandable; the lights went out in her house. that she slept over in a guy's house doesn't mean they did anything. she could have easily lied to you that she was in her house, her honesty should count for something. just let her know you're uncomfortable with her sleeping over in her friend's house, but don't break up with her because of this. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Paradox Of Money And Women by GL(f): 6:49pm On Feb 04, 2010 |
smooooooth: u guys have been complaining that women are gold-diggers, now someone is saying he has proof that not all women are like that and you say you can sway her with money. what do u guys really want then? this gold-digging thing is actually being promoted by men who try to get women's attention with their wealth. |
Romance / Re: overated!! NEXT!! by GL(f): 5:01am On Feb 04, 2010 |
strange, i could have sworn that nigerian guys are very good conversationalists. they always have something to talk about. maybe the guy was trying so hard to make a good impression and was being too careful. maybe he's not just good at starting conversations, so you should start then draw him into the conversation. |
Religion / Re: Pay House Rent Or Pay Tithe by GL(f): 2:34am On Feb 04, 2010 |
badman: i'm quite confused about that too, i thought people only paid tithe on their salaries. @ poster, in your situation i would either pay my rent and give the rest to the poor, or pay my rent and pay the tithe afterwards. i understand that feeling of being coerced to give, don't give in if it's not from your heart. God is not going to get you evicted in revenge. you needed money for your rent and God has provided it, pay it and thank Him for His provision. |
Computers / Re: E Book Reader In Nigeria by GL(f): 6:39pm On Feb 03, 2010 |
i guess there must be official Sony outlets in lagos, you should check them out. you can buy online through international mail forwarders. |
Romance / Re: Is this guy really cheap or what? by GL(f): 12:33pm On Feb 03, 2010 |
rokiatu: i'm all for women spending on themselves, rather than depending on guys. but a woman considering a serious relationship with a guy should be bothered if he's a cheapskate. you don't want to get married to a guy and have him tell you to use napkins instead of diapers for your baby. |
Romance / Re: Guys Can U Marry A Girl That Don't Know How To Cook Or Do Domestics Work At Home by GL(f): 12:08pm On Feb 03, 2010 |
@ poster, i agree with you that if a guy loves a girl who can't cook he should teach her. it doesn't take much to teach, simply cooking together would go a long way. if she loves the guy she'll be motivated to learn. Siena: posakosa: thank God some people know there's a difference between a maid and a wife. Kenny_G: many girls only learn to cook after 18, and they cook well too. what about a girl from another tribe who cooks well but just not your tribal food? sweetcoint: i won't break up with a guy because he's not as financially strong as i'd like (but then i won't even date a guy who can't pay his bills). i'll advise him, seek help from friends/family and do anything i can to encourage. but if i see he won't accept help, or he's too lazy or proud, i'll leave him. if the deficiency is in his behaviour, it would depend on what exactly the problem is, how far we've gone with each other & how much i love him. if it's something i can live with and i love him enough then i may stay with him, but if it's something that really pisses me off i might just leave him. |
Forum Games / Re: Can You Answer A Question With A Question? (remix) by GL(f): 4:59am On Feb 03, 2010 |
which information? |
Forum Games / Re: What Are You Doin Rite Now by GL(f): 4:55am On Feb 03, 2010 |
NLing, listening to music, battling insomnia |
Forum Games / Re: Start With The Last Word(yoruba Version) by GL(f): 4:47am On Feb 03, 2010 |
bawo ni |
Forum Games / Re: Word Association Game by GL(f): 4:44am On Feb 03, 2010 |
shirts |
Romance / Re: Is this guy really cheap or what? by GL(f): 4:40am On Feb 03, 2010 |
pro01: what's wrong in a guy buying flight ticket for his gf if he can afford it? btw, the OP wasn't asking for too much by expecting her bf to spend £5 on a meal. no one is saying guys have to spend £5000 on a meal, or have to buy flight tickets. but you have to agree that a guy who only visits £1 shops and feels £5 meals are too expensive, yet lives in the expensive part of town and rides expensive cars is a cheapskate. |
Romance / Re: Does She Think He's Bossy? by GL(f): 9:19pm On Feb 02, 2010 |
i'm okay with a guy giving suggestions/advice but i can't accept a guy dictating what to wear or how to wear it. then i'd think he's bossy. |
Romance / Re: As A Student How Much Can I Give My Girl Friend Monthly by GL(f): 9:07pm On Feb 02, 2010 |
Sisi_Kill: i wonder. if the girl is looking for a bf who can sponsor her she shouldn't be dating a broke student. the guy should not let the girl drain him. he should focus on his degree because this kind of girl would leave him once a richer guy comes her way. when he starts working he can buy her heaven & earth. |
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