@Adetayo41 It's unfortunate that it's all men that is advising you here. Every lady now has vibrators. To take d edge off. U said you're busy and too tired to have sex with your wife. And probably your wife is way younger than u,so has a high sex libido. For her to have gotten 2 d stage of refusing u d sex is just to show u how she feels when u reject her overtures for sex. You're Lucky she has a vibrator and not a sidekick. So if u give her space like they're advising u to do believe me she will not send u again. U guys will grow further apart cos she prefers her vibrator to your one minute sex. Men when u want to make love to your wife or any lady,take it as a 9-5 job. You're not done if she's not screaming your name out loud as she climaxes all over that dick or mouth...whatever works . So she looks 4ward 2 having sex with u. U can also use d vibrator on her. Guy experiment with Sex...common!!

#myopinion.