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Travel / Advice Needed by Godhand1(m): 2:34pm On May 12, 2016
Water poured on my passport and now the data page has faded what do i need to do to get a new one/ re-issue?
Politics / Re: Mixed Reactions Trail Buhari’s Assets Declaration-PUNCH by Godhand1(m): 3:52pm On Sep 05, 2015
Try Again.......
Romance / Re: Please I Need Matured Advice Only, I Dont Need Anyone To Insult Me!!!urgent by Godhand1(m): 9:48am On Aug 28, 2015
bqlekan:
I see you don't understand the effect of a broken home a child's life. There is more danger in letting her go than marrying her. Would have loved to share a story, buh I can't here.,,



can you explain further the danger in letting her go than marrying her. please
Health / She Needs Help by Godhand1(m): 9:55pm On Aug 27, 2015
I have a gfriend, she does her period starting of the week of a new month for 4 day and ending of the same months as well again for another 4day...there seems to be a problem with her and i told her to go to the hospital but it seems uncleared to me yet maybe i can get a help from here on what she can do and would love to know what may be the cause as well
Crime / Re: Drug Saga: NDLEA Arrests Arik Staff Accomplice by Godhand1(m): 8:48pm On Aug 27, 2015
Im not surprise
Crime / Re: 3 Arrested At Lagos Airport For Swallowing 233 Wraps Of Cocaine (Photo) by Godhand1(m): 8:43pm On Aug 27, 2015
I'm not surprise
Romance / Please I Need Matured Advice Only, I Dont Need Anyone To Insult Me!!!urgent by Godhand1(m): 5:50pm On Aug 27, 2015
Hello nairaland. i met a girl 4years and we started dating and seeing each other and it happen she became pregnant but as a responsible dude i think i was i told her to do whatever she like with it that i shall answer yes to any response she has to it. to cut it all short she told me she was going to have the baby and i answered Yes. after she gave birth to a girl few months later i see some behavior of her cheating but i never cut her red handed i stood focus but she keeps up with the art and i become so bother n thinking is this the woman im going to spend the rest of my life with, i try not to put that in mind i take it off at times. she was using a blackberry phone around this time and we were living together as a couple evendo yet we are not married, the first scene she traveled home to spend time with her mom and my daughter which i love so much, so i decided to visit her there and see her well being but when i got there she was at the next neighbours compound, she was called and came at me we sat together and a message came in from a guy though i didnt take it to heart at that point it was a normal thing for guy to woo your lady but i did complain and was really mad at her but she beg me and i listened, but i started having doubts about her. so i called on a friend of her started talking to the friend until she was loose and started telling me who she was dating...A Member of her church.....OMG i called on her and say to her why is she doing it but the friend told me they both went there together just once and they only went to greet the guy and they came back. Oh friends of the same feathers. i never said anything but she started begging me again, i answered but she lost my trust she never knew. so i came back home and they also came back...so it was another morning my kid was about to start going to school so i call on her to go to the school of her choice and feed me back with the processing it would take, she went but before i was less busy so i decided to start rearranging the house unfortunately i found a phone hidden in my daughter wardrobe, she came in and i asked her who own this phone she said it was a neighbour living at the front of our house. i waited the so called person is back and ask her but she said Yes but i already knew it was for her because i have tried to access the phone my self and found out that last year ilaye she text a guy to come and meet her at my own father's house OMG she started begging and telling me she only meet the guy but they were only a friend and nothing more, as a fool i accepted but i never trusted her. three days later a woman at that so called neighbors house called me back to told me that she always come to their house and make phone call to guy that there is another phone hidden at there house. i surprise again and call her friend there, with command i told her. GO AND BRING THE PHONE THAT MY WIFE KEEPS WITH YOU NOW I DNT WANT TO HERE WHICH PHONE she went in and bring the phone to my surprise again it was the phone i gave to her mom but i think she was the one that kept it and using it. She started begging and her mom was begging me as well so i accepted. so i now started watching her so much now, i got her facebook password and change it, then i met someone on facebook who she dated 7months after she gave birth i was omg i showed her she tried to denied it but the guy was just typing like someone who won a lottery...how it happened between them...she could not denied again but she went out to call the guy the next morning i dont know what they might have say to each other, for this i try to send her away but her mom, pleaded her brother alot that i accepted being a simple someone but i always make a statement to her that being a fool wont make me a fool for life. We cont. our life together i have being watching her since and i hear story like this one say he is dating me and i want to meet him at home but he was not there so i met my friend there and ask her where is he but he was not around, stories like he was just my friend and calling me to greet me, i nudge my head and say alright But honestly i Love so much i got no reason. few months back, she said she wants to start going to church so i told her no problem but after a month of going to church she said they had a night vigil but i thought it to be true because it was a new month and i think it always happen that way so she went and she told me it was for three night so she went with a small girl age of 12years she knows in the street. They went to the night vigil and i never questioned her but after the first week she came to me again and say there is another night vigil this week i was like wtf, So i sent her on an errand and i immediately went for the small girl that goes with her. So i talk to her girl and promise her that i wont fight with her that unless she tells me the truth about the whole stuff. they the went to the night vigil but on the 2nd night the branch at a guys house but later went to the vigil i was very angry and she came in then i started asking her and she was saying different thing but i told her to move out of my house around 11pm in the night then she started packing i was like whoa it seems she already have somewhere and someone to go to. She wants to start move out and i told her to hold on to morning that if she should leave now people would see me as a bad person. but she insisted she was leaving. The First night i called her mom and she talk to her mom before leaving....So the next morning her mom and brother came and i told them to hold onto my daughter for the time being i get my self around but i never said anything to my mom, 2 day 3 rd i told my mom and she started shouting and calling everyone to talk to me that i must find her i would never leave her like that i dont know why mom insisted so i did as she said i went to her church and told them the whole story about the guy sh met in church unlucky they found out who the guy was and called in and i told him everything also she went directly to one of her friends house and brought her i saw her and called her mom with her brother and i called my mom also and they saw her they started begging for her, i was like wtf. someone went for almost 4days and was at a friend's house, how was she surviving but everything was said and i accepted but now she is not with me, she is with her mom in her own town and i have been thinking on what to do about this, honestly i lover her but i dont think it can work out between us but also my mom and her parent will beg me with anything they could. right now and they keep using my daughter to beg me, i think im losing out please advice me on what to do. I want to come out of this. PLEASE ADVICE ME

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