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Travel / Re: The History Of The Lagos BRT (25 Things Every Lagosian Must Know) by Godhelpme2017: 9:15pm On Jul 10, 2018
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Kenya Is Ahead of Nigeria In All Aspect (Facts Don't Lie) by Godhelpme2017: 10:26pm On Jul 05, 2018
I do follow this topic sometimes and I noticed you're the most hateful human on this forum ever. Please, do not claim to be a Yoruba. Please claim exactly where you are from. A typical Yorùbá ọmọlúwàbí can't be this hateful. It's just my appeal and my first comment here.
sufferNsmiling:


All you need to know I was not educated in nigeria .my personal life is not your business. I know in nigeria some bodies personal life is everybody's business
Politics / Re: WARNING!!! Dont register your company on CAC online portal is a scam!! by Godhelpme2017: 6:09am On Jul 03, 2018
I don't know about your experience but I did mine with ease. I initially had issues with name registration but everything was done perfectly and I am not in Nigeria.
Crime / Re: "SARS Ordered Me To Pay N10,500 For Having 'Strange' App On My Phone" - Man by Godhelpme2017: 8:02pm On Jun 14, 2018
This stupid guy posted an important information on his Facebook page on October 22, 2017. In his post, another criminal called himself police demanding for dollars for no reason
Autos / Re: Cars Under $1000! by Godhelpme2017: 8:53pm On May 09, 2018
Total landing cost to Nigeria please
Export1:
2006 CHEVROLET IMPALA LTZ
$ 750

Make: CHEVROLET
Model: IMPALA LTZ
Year: 2006
Mileage: 149754.0 Exempt
Exterior Color: BEIGE

https://www.auctionexport.com/en/Inventory/Info/2006-chevrolet-impala-ltz-129209146?searchID=-1615880776#.WvNCPogvyUk
Business / Re: What Would Be Your Business Plan If You Had The Necessary Capital? by Godhelpme2017: 2:40am On Jan 04, 2018
If you don't mind, I'm ready to join you in the business especially in financing. We can discuss this further
ameh99:
Start my small scale solar panel assembling factory

Shoe sole manufacturing...

Fiberglass furniture and upholstery

And finally begin work on building of my EV prototype....
Properties / Re: What could be the approximate costs of these Buildings by Godhelpme2017: 5:57am On Dec 29, 2017
Jacseyi:
Can the first building's roof be properly designed in Nigeria
I think so
Properties / What could be the approximate costs of these Buildings by Godhelpme2017: 6:17am On Dec 28, 2017
Hello everyone!
Could someone please help with estimate and total cost of having any of these buildings in Ekiti/Ondo Axis, possibly in Lagos too. The pictures were taken from internet.
Thanks in advance. Happy new year in advance everyone.

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Romance / Re: Help:future Experiences In Getting Married To An American Lady by Godhelpme2017: 10:26am On Oct 15, 2017
worworgirl:
I hope the American lady knows ur country is Nigeria and not Africa?
Of course yes, she has met many Nigerians and she knows little about Nigeria. She was the one that asked me Igbo or Yorùbá on the very first day we had conversation?
Romance / Re: Help:future Experiences In Getting Married To An American Lady by Godhelpme2017: 10:23am On Oct 15, 2017
madridguy:
Are you in the States or Nigeria?
I'm not in Nigeria presently
Romance / Help:future Experiences In Getting Married To An American Lady by Godhelpme2017: 8:07am On Oct 15, 2017
Happy Sunday Nairaland!
In recent times I've been trying to figure out the possibility of having a wonderful family in the future. I would like to know from public opinions, American or Nigerian lady?
Note: The American Lady has never been to Africa and the Nigerian lady lives in Nigeria.
Thanks.
Romance / Re: Help: I'm Tired Of Who To Marry by Godhelpme2017: 1:10pm On Jul 25, 2017
sunshineG:
I know what you want bro, I have a bro just like yyo, as a lectural like your self, you want a quite woman to match your lifestyle
The truth is you have worked hard all your life and you deserve where you are today, But when it comes to marriage, things maybe a little different
I am glad you have chosen to spend time with your girl in Nigeria, that is a good start
I will reckon a devil you know, is more than the saint you don't know, keep an open mind and stay blessed

Thanks so much.
Romance / Re: Help: I'm Tired Of Who To Marry by Godhelpme2017: 6:50am On Jul 25, 2017
sunshineG:
Op there is nothing wrong with been a virgin at the age of 33, strange but not wrong

I can tell from your write up that you have a conflict of interest because you really want to get married but not just to anyone
For example, you sited how you feel it is not proper for you to marry a girl that was disvirgined at a very young age and how the young age of your students can't make you consider them as serious suitors

Don't get caught in your idea of perfection. I know you feel you deserve a gift of a woman as a wife to match your educational and life achievements but marriage and falling in love is not as logical as a thesis

You may find love in the strangest of places , give ladies you have met already a chance, don't judge any of them and don't look at age as barrier, you will be surprised at where you may find your happiness

Bottom line keep an open mind

Stay blessed bro

Hmm, the last sentence is very deep. The truth is I have met a number of ladies from different nationalities esp in church. My next visit, I might be coming with 2 or 3 of them to see banana plantation, cocoa, coffee, yam etc in my town in Ekiti (funny). I see them all as friends. There is a lady who would have been a perfect option for me. Her both parents are from Imo State but the only thing she has in common with Africa is just her skin colour. I want peace and quiet lifestyle free from unnecessary drama.
Romance / Re: Help: I'm Tired Of Who To Marry by Godhelpme2017: 6:30am On Jul 25, 2017
MissRaine69:
I had to lie down for this one.
Anxieties about being married are understandable. Your misgivings have grown into what could be best described as avoidance. You have found a reason and you have moulded into becoming an excuse. It's not a reason it's avoidance.
The lady did it lie to you, some would have. Has she given you any reason to doubt her moral & character?
Sir you are a higher functioning mammal a woman being a virgin guarantees nothing at all. An intact hymen does not define character,sincerity personality, commitment,support good work ethics and moral( yes I said it)
You are ruminating on semantics unnecessarily. The lady in question came with history you will find that is the norm, people tend to come with histories that shape then to be the people they are.

Self sabotaging is an avoidance tactic . What are you are you really worried about? She will find you inadequate and turn to another man? If that was the case do you not think she would have tired of your behaviours and contritions and left you?

You have a good thing going here, you need engage brain you are clearly clever enough to look at this logically. Would she make a good mother,wife and friend?
If you respond yes to all three then ask yourself this
How does the state of her hymen impact on her ability to perform all three? Don't be a morality police just for the sake of it. Don't let your emotions make your decisions.

Thanks for your advice.
Romance / Re: Help: I'm Tired Of Who To Marry by Godhelpme2017: 6:28am On Jul 25, 2017
greatnaija01:
If you are a true Christian, Is prayer too hard for you? Hearing God is the easiest thing if you truly have a sincere open heart, HE IS ALWAYS THERE TO LEAD YOU. Besides the BIBLE SAYS... By their Fruits you shall know them.... not by their education or age.

If you already have a Lady then go for her... VIRGINITY and SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS or PERFECTIONALISM is your MAJOR PROBLEM... You want a VIRGIN... VIRGINITY is not character... it is merely lack of opportunity... Consider this, IT TOOK A LOT FOR THE LADY TO TELL YOU ABOUT HER PAST, that should make you respect and trust her even if she was once a LESBIIAN or a RAPIST.....

GOD NEVER JUDGES OR BLESSES ANYONE BASED ON THEIR PAST FLAWS OR IMPERFECTIONS AND MISTAKES.

Marriage is for a Life time, virginity does not last.... so look beyond it and FIND the virtues that you will be pleased to live with for the rest of your LIFE. simple.

Your contribution softly touched me deeply. Thanks so much sir.
Romance / Re: Help: I'm Tired Of Who To Marry by Godhelpme2017: 4:19pm On Jul 24, 2017
Jacksparr0w1207:
Wow! The distance and not having spend time together is a problem. It's really gonna be hard for you to know each other well.

Do you reckon you gonna be able to spend more time together anytime soon? Or the distance will always be there?

But whatever the answers are, I'll still advise you give it a chance. But maybe you'll have to delay the wedding plans so you both can have enough real time together.

It will also be nice if she can spend maybe a month or few weeks with your family even though you won't be there with them. They'll be able to figure one or two genuine things about her.

Lastly, I'll enjoy you to get over nativity and get the issue of her sexual life out of your mind as it will always ruin whatever you both have going

I wish you all the best sir

Thanks so much. My plan is to get married and relocate her since I have offers already unless I want to come down for a lecturing job which my parents doesn't like. Also, she is still in school because of many months of strike with reopening date still remains unknown.
Romance / Re: Help: I'm Tired Of Who To Marry by Godhelpme2017: 4:05pm On Jul 24, 2017
greatnaija01:
If you are a true Christian, Is prayer too hard for you? Hearing God is the easiest thing if you truly have a sincere open heart, HE IS ALWAYS THERE TO LEAD YOU. Besides the BIBLE SAYS... By their Fruits you shall know them.... not by their education or age.

If you already have a Lady then go for her... VIRGINITY and SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS or PERFECTIONALISM is your MAJOR PROBLEM... You want a VIRGIN... VIRGINITY is not character... it is merely lack of opportunity... Consider this, IT TOOK A LOT FOR THE LADY TO TELL YOU ABOUT HER PAST, that should make you respect and trust her even if she was once a LESBIIAN or a RAPIST.....

GOD NEVER JUDGES OR BLESSES ANYONE BASED ON THEIR PAST FLAWS OR IMPERFECTIONS AND MISTAKES.

Marriage is for a Life time, virginity does not last.... so look beyond it and FIND the virtues that you will be pleased to live with for the rest of your LIFE. simple.

Thanks for the contribution. I understand that no one is perfect but sometimes, I think it is because of lack of discipline that makes some people lost their virginity which could still repeat itself when they are married.
Romance / Re: Help: I'm Tired Of Who To Marry by Godhelpme2017: 12:15pm On Jul 24, 2017
Jacksparr0w1207:
Lol. I'm no counsellor but one thing I notice is you're being so naive. I'm not gonna tell you to marry the girl or not, but I'll advise you to clear your mind off the virginity bullshït and how sexually active she's been. This mentality will always make you not to want any girl. Trust me, virginity is 'overrated' and majority of girls above 25 who are still virgins just lack the opportunity to have sex.

Like you stated, the girl is a good girl, you and your family love her but then her past gives you concern. Brov, you've been with her for over 3 years now, that's enough for you to figure who and what she is. Leaving her for another girl now will further delay your getting married as you'll need another few years of courting.

BTW, forget what a brother in church will say, follow your mind. A Christian brother will always advice another brother against marrying a non virgin girl

Thanks for your contribution. We have not really spent so much time together. But sincerely, I could see her true love for me. The first I went to see her in school, I arrived late night around 10pm, I slept in her room(off campus) while she went to sleep with one of her friends in the school hostel. We spent about 8 hrs together the next day which happened to be Sunday including church service.

The second time was when I went to her family house to meet her parents about (Lagos to Ondo). I was there for about 6hrs while she prepared the food, I was being entertained by her parents. This time, I knew I was travelling for my PhD but none of them knew. The third time of meeting and most emotional was at airport. My flight was 6:10am but I was surprised how she made it to see me off as early as 4am. This is someone who has no family in Lagos. She told me how her friend helped her and arranged with someone with a car to drive them to the airport so early after travelling from her school down to Lagos though within SW but I cant but really appreciate anyone who could do thing like this just because of me.

The most surprising of this is that, my friend told me that she waited till around 6:20am to confirm my flight departure because I left them around 4:30am, they we not allowed to follow me at a point in the airport. Altogether, we've spent less than 24hrs being physically together.
Romance / Help: I'm Tired Of Who To Marry by Godhelpme2017: 9:39pm On Jul 22, 2017
Good day everyone, I have been reading on this forum since Dec 2013 & I know there are a lot of intelligent people here, my reason for coming for advice.

I will be clocking 33 & also become a PhD in few months. I'm financially stable, Virgin and a Christian. I had my first and only true love relationship while in the university with a sister in the small campus fellowship. The relationship failed after I graduated and went for my NYSC because of communication issue of 8 months. She told me my love in her heart has faded away and she could not love me any more.

Some times around 2014, I met a 300L student on Facebook from same university where I graduated from. I went to see her face to face after 2 months of friendship. I told her from my heart that day I'm going to marry you. This was time I was battling with master's degree thesis when I had no idea of being where I am today. I saw her love for me. She replied immediately by telling me how she lost her virginity pride during Jamb wàhálà and between then & late 2013 she had slept with 4 guys,and had an abortion before gaining admission. I still loved her and appreciated her openness.

Today, these are issues bothering my heart. Most times, I now think why must I still be a Virgin at 33 & still want to marry someone who has been sexually active since jamb days? I appreciate her openness but this disturbs me a lot. I have met her parents and she does visit my parents at home too. My parents like her as well. Also, I have considered, this lady have no idea of what I worth today. She persists despite being in a long distance relationship. I have saved twice for wedding and I diverted it to other projects. The university has been on strike for many months now, this is not issue anyway.

I have made this lady cried on phone because of my attitude due to what I think some times not that I'm dating anyone else. Presently without deceiving anyone, I'm tired of living single life, apart from the part that my parents do remind me of marriage,I love marriage and I really want to get married.

Lastly, I do have conversations on WhatsApp with many of my students especially the female ones of which some of them would be graduating from university soon. These are students I taught mathematics during my masters degree programs. Some of them do ask me when am I getting married? But I still think I might be disgracing myself talking to them about marriage since many of them are below 20 despite fast education while I'd be 33 soon. I have saved again for a wedding I have no date for.

I strongly believe advices from matured & intelligent people especially from married people would be of great help for me. Thanks.

I forgot to add this, I had discussed this with a wonderful brother of mine, a matured Christian, he said to me "All I could see is that your life became meaningful shortly after meeting this lady, this might be more than what I know"

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