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Politics / Re: Fashola: Oil Prices Drove Nigeria’s Growth Under Jonathan’s – NOT His Policies by Goghelpme: 2:54pm On Nov 11, 2016 |
Haters will always find something negative to say about GEJ 132 Likes 7 Shares |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 12:27pm On Nov 11, 2016 |
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Business / I Need Bitcoin by Goghelpme: 10:12am On Nov 11, 2016 |
Hi peeps, I Need someone who deals on bitcoin around Ikeja. I know there are many means of getting it, but I need someone I can easily meet physically (I have my reasons) to do it because I most likely will be needing it often. |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 12:49pm On May 25, 2016 |
Ginaz: Thank you. A problem shared is a problem half solved. I avoid telling anyone close to me because I don't want anybody to force decision on me. My sharing has been an encouragement to me, and opened me to some ideas I never thought of. If I don't want her, I wouldn't have bothered sharing it here, read my post and you will find me mention that greater part of me wants to go ahead. Mind you I stated I have witnessed two cases in the family, Consider my emotion too, Is it easy to intentionally walk into a potential danger? |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 11:50am On May 25, 2016 |
oscar039: Amen thanks |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 11:49am On May 25, 2016 |
sirliu: Why am bothered is not about prophecy but for the fact that I have witness two cases in the family. Thanks for you input |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 11:46am On May 25, 2016 |
itoese:Thank you |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 11:43am On May 25, 2016 |
pucelle: Wonderful piece, thank you |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 8:30am On May 25, 2016 |
pretydiva:Amen! Thanks |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 8:25am On May 25, 2016 |
Agbgift:Lol. You see you don't even want to be associate with her yet you are quick to castigate me, on the contrary I am 100+% proud of her. Seriously from your moniker you share name with her |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 7:51am On May 25, 2016 |
mudility:Thanks |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 7:49am On May 25, 2016 |
nnamdiokere45: Thank you |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 7:48am On May 25, 2016 |
Aremu01:thanks bro |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 7:47am On May 25, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Thank you Dear |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 6:59am On May 25, 2016 |
Babzilla:Read again, I never consulted a prophet. Thank you |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 6:58am On May 25, 2016 |
biazarre: Funny you, guess you didn't read the thank you attatched to the post above you, if I claim okay with a view when I have something against it, how will others know give another solution? Anyway BiG THANK YOU to you |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 6:46am On May 25, 2016 |
HarkymTheOracle:Amen! Thanks 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 4:02am On May 25, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Yea! Thanks, to even think of it for fear of seeing her hurt, don't know if I can approach her with the issue, she saw me yesterday and keep insisting from her view it was obvious something is bothering me. |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 3:53am On May 25, 2016 |
Agbgift: Don't rush into conclusion because you are a lady, did I attach her picture or address? If you read well you will see me mention that "a greater part of me is willing to take the risk". Coincidentally you share something in common with her Anyway thanks for you advice on deliverance. |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 3:25am On May 25, 2016 |
rose54321: Thanks! Its no superstition, I have witness the family members go through the trial. Yea, am always ready to face consequences of my decision but my major fear is taking that decision on behalf of my unborn children. |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 3:14am On May 25, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Sorry for the double thread, you should know its network issue (don't know anyway of removing one). |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 3:00am On May 25, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Am willing to do that but my fear is putting my future children in same problem. |
Romance / Re: Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 2:58am On May 25, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Never mention asking men of God if she is my wife |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 2:54am On May 25, 2016 |
HarkymTheOracle: Over religiousness indeed, if I leave vision stuff, will you also tell me to leave the two examples of the sister and aunty that I am a witness to? |
Romance / Re: Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 2:51am On May 25, 2016 |
freakthingz: The gene thing is my thought initially but. I could remember when the sister was having her trouble the mom mentioning during an open chat that there's an idol their fathers use to sacrifices to that the current generation has abandoned. |
Romance / Help! Do I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 1:37am On May 25, 2016 |
I am a regular Nairalander with a different moniker, had to open this new one for privacy reason. It is with heavy heart I write this, I will try and give details as much as I can. I have been dating my girl for about four years now (my first and only relationship), she is going to 28yrs and me 31yrs (3 & 1/2yrs age difference). We are both devoted christians. It all started with my elder sister telling me to start praying for God to reveal my wife to me (I was 25 then). Personally I got my revelation/conviction of her being my wife about a year later I also involved some minister friends(advice on my revelations), and took about another one year later before we started dating. No sex until marriage rule agreed (it has been tough sticking to that especially for me as a man of my age but thanks to God). And so the Journey began, we became best of friends, great lovers, we are just the perfect Couple, plan and execute every targets together, Sponsored ourselves to finish our education (me weekend part-time, she open university). I supported her financially as best as i could, even once postponed payment of my school fees to pay hers (without her knowing mine was due, thank God my school later had strike) because she is managing a teaching job. Her mom has not been in support especially with the fact that I am not a "big boy" but her father maintains a neutral ground (although he loves me so much and I am closer to him than his two sons). I am the only male among seven children, One of My elder sister (the same one that initiated my prayer) never approved of her because she doesn't feels okay with her spiritually and warned me. Fast forward now, I have been able to buy the consent of my family, informed her dad of my plan to bring my family to begin the marriage process and now here comes the issue. Although on my own I have had revelations personally informing me of her family having spiritual issue but being blinded by love I never took it serious. Now my best friend went out to see a prophet and was told that in my fiancee's family (her mother's side) they have a problem that anytime they get married (the females) they pass through a phase of mental instability. In reality am aware the elder sister whose family am close to just recovered from hers after over two years. I was aware of the sister issue but never knew it was a family routine. The revelation of my friend made me to remember her mother's sister had serious sickness (not mental) that lasted over a year after she married. Now am in a fix, I love her so much, a greater part of me is willing to take the risk with her but my greatest fear is this; if this routine is not broken, can I be able to face the fact that I knowingly drag my future daughters into this mess? Advice please! Note: am not the prophecy freak person, never for once consulted a prophet myself and I tried avoiding it in this case. Cc: lalalasticlala |
Romance / Help! Should I Still Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Goghelpme: 1:21am On May 25, 2016 |
I am a regular Nairalander with a different moniker, had to open this new one for privacy reason. It is with heavy heart I write this, I will try and give details as much as I can. I have been dating my girl for about four years now (my first and only relationship), she is going to 28yrs and me 31yrs (3 & 1/2yrs age difference). We are both devoted christians. It all started with my elder sister telling me to start praying for God to reveal my wife to me (I was 25 then). Personally I got my revelation/conviction of her being my wife about a year later I also involved some minister friends (advice on my revelation), and took about another one year later before we started dating. No sex until marriage rule agreed (it has been tough sticking to that especially for me as a man of my age but thanks to God). And so the Journey began, we became best of friends, great lovers we are just the perfect Couple, plan and execute every targets together, Sponsored ourselves to finish our education (me weekend part-time, she open university). I supported her financially as best as i could, even once postponed payment of my school fees to pay hers (without her knowing mine was due, thank God my school later had strike) because she is managing a teaching job. Her mom has not been in support especially with the fact that I am not a "big boy" but her father maintains a neutral ground (although he loves me so much and I am closer to him than his two sons). I am the only male among seven children, One of My elder sister (the same one that initiated my prayer) never approved of her because she doesn't feels okay with her spiritually and warned me. Fast forward now, I have been able to buy the consent of my family, informed her dad of my plan to bring my family to begin the marriage process and now here comes the issue. Although on my own I have had revelations personally informing me of her family having spiritual issue but being blinded by love I never took it serious. Now my best friend went out to see a prophet and was told that in my fiancee's family (her mother's side) they have a problem that anytime they get married (the females) they pass through a phase of mental instability. In reality am aware the elder sister whose family am close to just recovered from hers after over two years. I was aware of the sister issue but never knew it was a family routine. The revelation of my friend made me to remember her mother's sister had serious sickness (not mental) that lasted over a year after she married. Now am in a fix, I love her so much, a greater part of me is willing to take the risk with her but my greatest fear is this; if this routine is not broken, can I be able to face the fact that I knowingly drag my future daughters into this mess? Advice please! Note: am not the prophecy freak person, never for once consulted a prophet myself and I tried avoiding it in this case. Cc: lalalasticlala |
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