she hissed and hanged the call.

WOMEN WITH PRIDE... It happened when i was due for everything.
I told her i won't accept disrespect from any body that she should apologized...
this is 3 days now she has not called.
but as i speak now the love and feelings i have for her are gone.
we didn't break just that i don't want her back.....

What is my problem, why I can't find happiness
I'm not a good writer but I will try my best to stress out the pains in my heart.
Can someone talk to me?
Please,
Why do individuals I understand from my core I love not see my heart before they speak to me harshly?. I find out that individuals are looking down at me, is it because of my age? .. you may see me quiet, but there are many things that invade my mind.Even when I am quiet, why people talk trash to me. I can't move at my place of business without anyone stepping on my toes.

I was in my shop the day someone brought a letter that I was supposed to join their market club ... I turned down the call.
( I told him I am not of the age to join any club now. that I will be getting to 24yrs on Sept and people on that club are 30yrs up. I'm not of the age for such exposure regarding the way people see me in the market. to avoid people saying I am abusive. so I can't be in a club that I won't contribute verbally ).

Do you understand this individual has twisted my response to the president who sent him? Because of this, the club chairman isn't in excellent terms with me. And the very guy harasses me with the task force on the market.( [Why I didn't come for sanitation, why this and that) It has not be happening before. at times my shop will be locked for no reason.
I'm focusing on my business and four individuals around me, but my woman who finishes the list 4 never wants to take it gently with me.
I called her several times just yesterday and she wasn't receiving the calls and she picked up this morning.
I questioned why my calls were not taken. With rage she answered why I asked her such a question, is she my girl house girl or what.
It's not forcibly calling someone and if I don't want to call her I should leave([ i]this isn't the first thing I should ask her this morning,
blah blah blah[/i]).This morning I was completely moody.

I work very hard to pave away sadness in my heart but the happiness doesn't seem to come. by His grace, I am doing well in life but a happy life remains a barrier. The woman I beckon to makes me happy, pick offense in any slightest thing I try to correct or say to her that I don't like. God knows I try to give my best to anyone around me.

...after receiving that blow from my woman this morning. I went to get something in a store close to one man I took as my brother. and the man gave me a heavy blow...

What happened. (you can see the screenshots of our texts)

4th January early this year. This very guy called me to join a monthly contribution that individuals are coming
up and it will benefit me. That they need only 2 people to finish the 10th list. That at the end of each month or next month's
first week. One person is packaging N2,000,000. And I always meet to pay my 200k for the previous 3 months before the month ends like 26-30th. I was to pack the next month which is April. When I reached him and the woman in charge of my money, I started getting unusual stories from him.
to cut the long story short. they returned my N600k back that people didn't turn up for the contribution again. The very lady who was in charge of the contribution saw that I was grieved, after a week she gave me 200k and apologized for the deception. At the end of June, she
advised me to pay back. This very guy I took as a brother was traveling when the heat was going on. We're just talking on the phone. (While my sister
told me earlier this March that these people were using my money to do business, I couldn't believe her) In mid-February this year, he borrowed 900k from me to
clear the debt, although he paid back (I saw a fire that time).

I came to a shop near his shop this morning. He called me and started saying all sorts of rubbish even insulted me and this is the least attitude I anticipated of him. Someone I respected much. He asked me since May ended, I refused to return the 200k. Why do I use evil to pay for evil?
He was not around when I was sorting out the matter with the woman and he didn't bother to ask.

(I supposed to give them 200k every month end. Since the contribution has ended. The woman asked me not to bother myself for the 200k last month but in June end I should pay her back( that's the only thing she can do on this matter). he said many things and was very shocked but I didn't utter a word. Just imagine 8 am this morning for such an unaware approach.

What's missing that makes individuals look down at me?
I deleted my private social media accounts due to my busy moment. I rarely get individuals to ask me how I feel or do it because all of my contacts are customers... the four individuals I'm talking about are my mother, my sister, my older brother, my girlfriend. You can't find me, and around these people you won't see me. I'm thinking of leaving where I'm staying for Lagos.

I never quarrel with anybody ever since I was 15 yrs to date, I can only reply via text message if I have your number or I leave you with God. I am not a football fan. I don't invite a crowd around me. I'm just trying to get rid of the minds of people not to think bad about me, but still, the hatred is much.
You have experienced what I am going through, please. How did you deal with it.
Thanks

Thanks everyone

not access to my money... i opened it with her for sth we discussed together...

nwanneni:
maybe you be the 21 yr old girl brother ooo
Ndi psychology
Of course I am a smart man na,you know where I dey now
Yes,a 21year old girl with access to money she didn't work for is highly unstable and vulnerable to cunning men
ABI op,you want make them take that your phone money take give one local sweet talker Or use your money take solve family problems?
You maestro is the dumb one here.

I have the clear detail.. i have started talking with the top guys she introduced me to.. She didn't introduce me to them. she directed me how to go with them. for all the meeting, everything went successfully... the point is this...even i could not supply to them at the long run. i can still get buyer outside her bank.
the point here i know how to get the items from china of which she don't.. also her work will not allow her. i don't her to feel betrayed in both cases...
that's why i'm seeking for advises on how to go with her.

Oblongata:

She is the victim here!
You said she has curves and she is hot, and you also pass comments on her, and she is guilty for running after you?

You are still interested in making business with her and also hitting on her, you are the wicked one here...
If you are serious;
Bar her number, change your bank, severe any possible ties with her...

Bye

thanks bro

daddio:
Do not leave your girlfriend for Blessing.
Try to call her again about the business but make sure u always record your conversations.
She will try to ruin you or get you at all cost but you have to be the man you should. If at all you have to meet with blessing let it be in an opened outlet or where there are people. You may get a video recording pen or button to get her actions too. DO NOT let her over smart you.

Mod help me push it fp.
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