Good NL please I will make this brief, pardon my typos and poor construction.

I decided to bring this here cos all I need it to get a wider coverage though its not the right section cos I want advice from the Bible and Christian perspective. straight to the point, it happened that we've been dating for say four months now but I observed that I battle with my conscience each time we had sex. it usually take me up to three to four days to get relieved anytime it happens because of guilt.

Two weeks ago, we met and initially we agreed she will be spending the night at my place on a Friday being the next day, but after meeting on Thursday I was left with my conscience and guilt and when she called to tell me she's coming the next day I asked her not to come which angered her and she said all sort of things to me but I wasn't concerned cos it between me and God and I decided within me that what is the benefit of doing something that fights daily with my conscience and decide to stop. Because when I don't do I have problem with her and when I do it is with my conscience and God.

she was angry with me already so one of the way I can stop the whole stuff is to distance myself from her, because once I see her, I will still be moved by pity or what I really cant place. So I tried not to go close to her again and she never called also and I was even happy cos I felt I have escaped these as believe me I have made up my mind not to involve in anything sex again nor relationship till I meet my wife.

Just yesterday she messaged me that she's pregnant, the issue now is I am not party to abortion and I can't marry her because these four months with her is not what I want to experience throughout my life. what do I do in this situation. please lets move to fp for more contribution thanks.

Good NL please I will make this brief, pardon my typos and poor construction.

I decided to bring this here cos all I need is advice from the Bible and Christian perspective. straight to the point, it happened that we've been dating for say four months now but I observed that I battle with my conscience each time we had sex. it usually take me up to three to four days to get relieved anytime it happens because of guilt.

Two weeks ago, we met and initially we agreed she will be spending the night at my place on a Friday being the next day, but after meeting on Thursday I was left with my conscience and guilt and when she called to tell me she's coming the next day I asked her not to come which angered her and she said all sort of things to me but I wasn't concerned cos it between me and God and I decided within me that what is the benefit of doing something that fights daily with my conscience and decide to stop. Because when I don't do I have problem with her and when I do it is with my conscience and God.

she was angry with me already so one of the way I can stop the whole stuff is to distance myself from her, because once I see her, I will still be moved by pity or what I really cant place. So I tried not to go close to her again and she never called also and I was even happy cos I felt I have escaped these as believe me I have made up my mind not to involve in anything sex again nor relationship till I meet my wife.

Just yesterday she messaged me that she's pregnant, the issue now is I am not party to abortion and I can't marry her because these four months with her is not what I want to experience throughout my life. what do I do in this situation. please lets move to fp for more contribution thanks.

Ever wondered why soldiers are leaving the system in mass recently?


I think the level of intimidation is something else. Cpl Felix the ex soldier in the video below was beaten mercilessly by RP in 81 Battalion Guardroom Letmauck Cantonment Mokola Ibadan for failure to pay compliment as ordered by one Lieutenant AO Suleiman the Adjt of the said battalion. Mind you he's not under any law to pay compliment since he's resigned just awaiting payment. His pregnant wife was also assaulted by same officer. I think the military especially the Army needs to address this issues cos last time that's how some officers worked on a soldier in ABUJA till he eventually died in their hands.

Below is the video as posted by Biafra TV you tube. Pictures also attached...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qEf7vALCvO4

Please Mods help move to appropriate section and fp.

Please help us settle the matter below o cos the person from the other side may bring out dagger very soon as it's always their way.

The5DME:
Nigeria was a mistake that should never have existed.

Viknat:
God saved u. Day puff adder. Rattle snake, and gabion viper fall into same viper category. Very deadly snakes

God saved my friend

yanabasee1:



Which kind mumu be this?


Where did I advice the young lad to marry her and hope things goes well?



You just want to be unfortunate in life...


Abi na comprehension issues weh the worry you?

Easy bro, please let's be calming down

Jashub:
Nigeria can be liken to a barren land that has useless people. In fact, Nigeria was that wilderness that God prophesied about in the Bible

How come the white men brought religion to us

How come the white already know Christ while we are yet practicing idolatry??

Biblically does it mean no Nigerian left Egypt with the children of israel

Why are the whites always in front of everything (development, exposure etc) for a long time before it eventually gets down here

So many questions

ikillbrokegirls:
Useless post. Don't do broke girls.

illicit:
That is a pantami




A bad snake in a bad place

starbuck:
And none has deemed it fit to mention Lalasticlala

You can't remind pastor that tomorrow is Sunday.... Lala is already on his way to the celebration venue

lilvicky68:
He went to the bush to kill an innocent snake??wetin the snake do na..hope he will eat it if not it's wastage of meat oh..

He lives in the bush, he didn't went

BeeBeeOoh:
That's a puff adder not a python, very dangerous creature.



Your friend should go for a thanksgiving because, the story for dey too heavy for mouth.

Really May God continue to protect these guys out there oooo

pyyxxaro:
Let’s welcome Pastor Righteousness89 to the podium


As he presides over this issue

He's yet to comment on this post Sha

Debzempire:
Are yhu still with the other lady?

No

My friend killed this snake today close to his bunk, he's actually in the bush NE stuff


Before NLanders will say his compound is dirty, he is in the bush o fighting Pantami brothers...

Is it python Why is it short..

JONSYN7154:
He has gone to the mountain to seek for wisdom before answering.

Ok am waiting for him too oooo let him come and comment on the matter on ground

Good day NL I will go straight to the point please pardon my typos, poor construction and spelling errors.

There was this ex of mine Ethel (not real name) we are age mate and very good friends I can say bestie as popularly termed. We were very close with no feelings attached cos I was already in a relationship aimed at marriage.

We became so close that feelings got in and we started dating, it was possible cos my woman was very far from me I mean 12 to 14hrs journey.
The relationship blossomed owing to the fact that we are age mates and best of friends. I can say it's a relationship I find difficult forgetting though my other part wasn't much into it because I already took a step with the other lady and don't want to disappoint her. My friend here was aware of the other relationship as well but what can we do.

One thing led to the other, Ethel left cos she's seen that it won't be easy to divert my attention completely from the other lady. She travelled to her brother's place and met with another guy and they got married.

The marriage didn't last upto two years and they separated as a result of problems from husbands family. Myself left the same relationship that didn't allow me concentrate fully on her which eventually made her entered the said marriage. She never told me she's divorced it was when I called to check up on her and asked after hubby and son that she opened up.

Right now I am considering going back to her, I feel we weren't suppose to leave each other cos of the much understanding we have about each other and the love we've shared.

We've been talking and am thinking marriage with her but still thinking what my people will say and especially what the bible says "And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Matthew 19:9 KJV[color=#000099][/color] please I need your sincere advise on this.

Prayer and fasting + constant study of God's words is a quick way, He has to do it himself.

jpawjpaw:
First of all know your bonus courses, yes when I say 'bonus course(s)' I mean the ones you know that you won't suffer getting A in them/it. After that you need to focus on the ones that u think they're kinda tough. Read/practice those tough courses at least 3 times or more before test or exam. Plan your time and take it serious. Your reading venue should be conducive, avoid reading in group except for some practicals and calculation courses.
Sleep well, eat well and have a little bit fun. Pray because you need God's grace.
If you are a kind of person that reads at night, make sure you sleep well during the day and vice versa. Plan the grades you will like to have in all the courses you are offering, and make sure you develop a mindset of getting A in every course.
And lastly but not the least don't settle for less!
I wish u success; and abeg no too dey follow girls ooooh.

Nice one

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jpawjpaw:
First of all know your bonus courses, yes when I say 'bonus course(s)' I mean the ones you know that you won't suffer getting A in them/it. After that you need to focus on the ones that u think they're kinda tough. Read/practice those tough courses at least 3 times or more before test or exam. Plan your time and take it serious. Your reading venue should be conducive, avoid reading in group except for some practicals and calculation courses.
Sleep well, eat well and have a little bit fun. Pray because you need God's grace.
If you are a kind of person that reads at night, make sure you sleep well during the day and vice versa. Plan the grades you will like to have in all the courses you are offering, and make sure you develop a mindset of getting A in every course.
And lastly but not the least don't settle for less!
I wish u success; and abeg no too dey follow girls ooooh.

Often times freshers do face the challenge going about their studies especially when it comes to the aspect of reading and personal study.

It is difficult to some people actually and some don't even know how to go about it yet it is proven that persistent reading and research will go a long way in making one a better student and a better graduate. The question now is how do you get along with these demand for constant reading and personal study.

Some student merely seeing the volume of a material get scared and discouraged, how do one overcome all these

Please share your ideas and what works for you as you can be helping someone out there.

I don't understand this connection connection stuff does it mean it ain't legal

Kingkyle1:
Yeah, with the necessary connections.

Here to read comment and learn

Some people can be funny, someone just copied this whole post and attached some stupid video to it. What it means I don't even know.

LadyTiannah2:
Lol bro you are a back up boyfriend. If she's serious about wanting to be with you, she would have broken up with her main guy already. How old is she tho?

she's 27 oo

It's well

Kirkman:

Yusufisraelj has said it all, there is nothing else more to be said. If I were you I would listen to his piece of advice. By the way is there a way to go back to your Ex and ask her for forgiveness?

I didn't actually leave my ex cos of these lady oo, I actually started taking this one serious when I broke up with my Ex for reasons worth leaving she didn't cheat no misbehavior but it was for good. It's well. Thanks Bro

Yusufisraelj:


My guy, you've done some blunders.

There are four stages to a relationship

1. Admiration
2. Friendship
3. Dating/courting
4. Marriage

You admired the lady first and became emotional about it, you were willing to compromise your fidelity to the previous relationship just to be with her. Your decisions at that time were highly emotionally based, and that's a faulty foundation to build a lasting relationship, even though both of you were honest to each other, yet deception to your respective mates thrived during your escapades.

There's something called the in love syndrome, where you are emotionally attached to someone with the feeling of love towards that person without an assertions to their faults, short comings and red flags. Hence your precarious situation.

Naturally if you both had a thing for each other and wanted to be with each other really, you would end things first, then begin to build on a new template. One could infer that infatuation was the basis for this relationship.

To the matter at hand - you would have to decide what you want, a wife or something else. If a wife then you give the lady specific time atmost three months to get back to you on your standing with her, desist from communicating with her deeply (e get why) and keep your conversations brief and straight to the point, so that you don't get emotionally tangled to her, if she cannot make up her mind then. Block her number and delete it, and move on with your life, it will be difficult but it can be done.

Sincerely take 6 months off relationship and just heal my brother, read up good relationship books and about life just to gain balance and dexterity on how to handle yourself through life.

Most importantly love God and serve him, Satan do send wasters of destiny, your love life with God will help you big time in the things you cannot see.

Thanks Sir, you've said it all I appreciate your time and comment, more wisdom Sir.