AcuraZDX: Help! My Sister Is Seeing Her Period The Second Time This Month
Please Doctors in the house, my younger sister is seeing her period for the second time just this May.
She confided in me so I promised to ask questions.
She's 21 years of age.
She saw her period on the 4th of this May and today being 20th, she's seeing it again.
Although before she saw her first period, she was recovering from Malaria and that means she was on drugs.
Please this is a serious issue and it's giving me concern.
She has been staying with me in my house since the lockdown started and I can verge for her.
Please your kind advice is needed.
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nigga why is her dirty dark smelly flow your concern? Tell her to discuss this kind of matters with the one who fvcks her. 21yrs? That hole must be wide.
Mike Bamiloye's biographical movie titled; THE TRAIN is making waves and impressing viewers worldwide as it hit the internet on May the 3rd; earning a comfortable number 1 spot on the Nigerian YouTube cyberspace. It has raked in almost a million views so far.
The movie which details the true life story of popular Gospel Drama Evangelist Mike Bamiloye reveals the passion the younger Mike had for God hence taking a step of faith that changed his life forever.

Mike Bamiloye whose other name was revealed in the movie as "Abayomi", started his life just like any other person would in Nigeria in the 1960s. The movie began on a rather solemn note showing how his mother passed away and the amount of pressure and grief it brought on the young "Abayomi" (Mike Bamiloye)

His childhood lifestyle portrayed in the movie, showed him gathering young children of his age, in a bid to make them act a short biblical movie "David and Goliath" He demonstrated his directing prowess by trying to direct the movie, but his effort failed miserably as no one wanted to act as Goliath! Lol
The movie continued as it showed Mike Bamiloye transform from a troublesome child to a well reserved and respected "bro" who took God and the work of God seriously.
 The movies' setting, casting and general character is highly impressive and generally good, too standard for a normal, everyday gospel movie. The movie started with a 1960s setting and environment which was hugely successful due to the blend of 1960s architecture, furniture arrangement, clothing and language.
Indeed, the movie is a classic for Christians who cherish Christian movies; even beyond the fact that the movie fared well, its godly essence and relevance will last for a long time in the Christian world which is in dire need of godliness and its propagation via movies.
The movie encourages total faith in God amidst the raging storms that might try to weaken or make one compromise.
We will be pointing out some lessons that can be learnt from this great Christian movie of a great Christian of our time; Relax as lists out 10 lessons that can be learnt from the movie;
1. Always Believe in God:
Who doesn't even know this one? That's the first step for a successful roller-coaster ride in the Christian faith. Belief in God is beyond faith alone, it also involves taking a step of obedience and diligence in the study of the Bible.
 2. Never Give Up On A Child Whose Future Doesn't Look Bright:
From the movie, the young Mike seemed to have no clear direction in life, with his future looking incredibly bleak, yet he overcame all and was a surprise miracle to those who once mocked him.
3. The Present Doesn't Determine The Future:
Your current situation now, doesn't determine your future, it is not a stamp to your destiny tomorrow. Who thought a small, village boy would end up becoming a world renowned evangelist? No one! His marriage to Gloria Bamiloye also had an ugly look then, but look at them now! This is a great lesson!
 4. What Irritates You Could Be An Assignment:
"Abayomi' (Mike Bamiloye) was not happy with the apparent and obvious glorification of the devil via the television and it spurred him to action to cretae Christian content and movies that would rather glorify God. In his zeal for God, he set out on a journey of faith that God honored. His journey of faith is currently blessing thousands of people globally. As a Christian, there might be some evil, negative things that you may have noticed going on around you in your family, your place of work or even your church; it is time to speak up! That could be an opening door to your God-given ministry.
5. Your Marriage Partner Makes You or Mars You:
God helped Abayomi to pick someone who had the same passion with him; hence helping take him to greater heights. The lesson to be learnt here is enormous because when anyone chooses the wrong marriage partner, its resulting results becomes highly disastrous. However, the right spouse came because he trusted God and that spouse (Gloria) became a supportive pillar for his ministry.
6. Virtuous Women Still Exist:
Even amidst the chaos and confusion in that time, Abayomi was able to find a virtuous, godly lady to marry. Of course we cannot expect less because his trust was fully on God who he heavily relied on. It also teaches that it is worthy and honorable to wait on the lord in holiness and patience without being involved in immorality currently ravaging the lives of youths in our days.
The lessons are too numerous to mention but we have mentioned some which are worthy of note.
Factboyz dot com rates this movie high and it is recommendable for Christians struggling to answer the call of God upon their lives.
EdEdEddy: Who really is responsible for the failure of a child in the society ? Just here to learn, the child itself is not an option here. While growing up these are the common factors, that can make or destroy a child. But really who do we blame, for the childs failure ? Family Religion Government(society) Teachers
Tboy1419: . I was raped too, when I was 23years old, but the babe Sha, na banker she be, and I enjoy the raped, we last up to one hour, how I wish the babe go dey raped me constantly, walie, I no go make noise, na sweet journey to everlasting satisfaction. . Make una no insult me oo, na raped issue we dey discuss, if e happen to you, table your matter for here, we get elders way go settled the case for us once and for all.
My bad! I thought the end of the attention is to obtain justice. But seems you are simply seeking attention for the sake of attention. If that is the case, then you still up against the cultural issue. But, I am puzzled as to why you are not aware, and accepting of this at this point, given your personal experience? It was not social media that cut you off but the cultural wall that basically blocked you from being heard.
Usually, when a crime is committed, victims want to be heard by the right people, not the wrong people , as there will always be those. Just as with any sort of attention, there is always good and bad, shouldn't the victim of a crime then want to only get that which benefits his case and cause, not just attention for attention sake?
Who are the right people male rape victims should run to?
juniorstar: ah swear girls love coming back if she starts seeing improvement. she would look for for one excuse to enter again. but nothing remain for her cos shishi she no go get, she go come enter with the same sense of entitlement as it was b4 but it can never remain d same and she sef go sabi
Here's a question for you. If law enforcement are not made aware of a crime that has supposedly taken place, how do you expect law enforcement to do anything about said crime? Do we magically deduce who the accused are and who the criminals are? Do we simply go around questioning everyone hoping that one person will trip up and admit the details of said crime?
Here's a question for you at this point. What do you think the word PATRIARCHY means or refers to? Shall we import the dictionary definition of the word at this point to help this talk at this point? I am the very pit of understanding itself so do not be afraid of throwing whatever thoughts you have there my way. I have thoughts, and delusions of my own to booth.
You are talking about justice for victims of rape while I am talking of attention for victims of rape.
Why do female victims get much attention and male victims get less or no attention?
Lol. Reading what real people go through on forums would open your eyes to a reality that CNN, Fox News, Aljazeera and BBC would never show you. You keep on referencing cases that law enforcement are made aware of, and I have said before that, that is not the issue, the issue is the lack of or little attention given to male victims of rape. By going to foreign forums you would see that the same thing is happening in the so called developed nations. You're just blinded by their movies, music and news channels. Patriarchy doesn't exist. It's an invention of feminists. Unfortunately I didn't bookmark the exact write up that totally debunks this so called patriarchy. I would give you another write up, but my fear is that you'd misunderstand it. The write up is below https://qr.ae/pNtftA
Kobojunkie here is my problem. the attention and not the justice
Imagine what would have happened in the case that you happened to have been born to american parents in the year 2000?
interesting ....
Wait a minute .... the one who denied you justice in this case was your own mum Why take it out on everyone else and try to belittle other people's pain because of that? At least confront your mum about these things now that you are able to, and let her answer you truthfully about her reasons for not believing you. It might help you in many ways that no one on here can.
I told my mom, told my pastors, told my teachers told everybody I came across including my peers none gave me a listening ear. when I grew older I discovered that male rape isn't taken serious. I'm not after justice I'm after male victims being heard.
Were all female rape victims virgins at the time of rape? You cunningly act like only virgins get raped. Going by your logic, non-virgins who were raped shouldn't get much attention yet that isn't case in reality. Why? Is the possible loss of virginity enough reason not to take male rape seriously at all?
You don't even understand your argument. You claimed rape pregnancy is traumatizing for the female victim because of slut-shaming, I then asked the following: 1) can you show me one women whom everyone knew got pregnant from rape, and was slut-shamed for getting pregnant by rape? 2) who slut-shames pregnant females in an era of baby mamas?
Your don't understand your arguments, and you are not keeping track of them. You don't even comprehend my posts properly. You said married women, unlike men, get thrown out of their home and marriage when they get raped, and I disagreed. I then said that if such does happen (giving you the benefit of doubt), then it is because unlike women, most men are usually the breadwinners of their household, the owner of their houses, and the ones who pay the rent (solely or jointly in rare cases).
Cry me a river.
All I needed to hear. This emotional declaration reveals who you are on the inside, and it explains why you have been coming up with your unsound argument. Won't be surprised if it's a female behind this moniker.
We4all is not a female. it's a male. a female's ass-licker. A male mod banned me because I stood up against male rape. A lot of female ass-lickers in the world.
Ladikwa: I thought she loved me not knowing that she was just after my money. But I was not able to spend much because I am broke for now, but I have a land I am in the process of selling to start a business which she didn't know, because I didn't tell her cause I don't trust her that much.
Well we broke up because she has a guy that is the main boyfriend, without me Knowing thinking I was number one.
I just look back and imagine how much this girl will have chop from me. Though I love her and am hurt after the breakup, but I'm grateful that all the amount of money I would have love to spend on her, to show my love I can use it build my business and help those around me.
And it taught me how not to trust girls 100%, and to be very careful about loving while using my head. If she knew about the land I wanted to sell she would have continued pretending to love me.
I said what I said, and we don't have to agree with each other. But one thing I'm certain of is that, 'all your counter arguments are illogical, based on sentiments and wrapped with sarcasm and chauvinism.
-- If you think that a female losing her virginity to rape isn't that much of a big deal, then it's either you're not enlightened or just being outrightly insensitive. And there is a difference between 'getting pregnant on purpose', and being 'forced to'. So, your 'baby mama' counter point is baseless and doesn't hold water.
-- And to think that you brought another dimension to the issues being discussed when you indirectly insinuated that, the 'married victims of rape' who were thrown out of their matrimonial home could have been as a result of them not contributing to the house rent.
What a dumb insinuation to make! Seriously, if that is the only counter point you could come up with, then it's pointless trying to make you see reasons. But anyways, I didn't expect less cos you sound like the 'typical African man' whose past time is to belittle women.
So, if you like, scream all you want, but -- be rest assured that cases of male rape will NEVER be taken seriously because the effects rape has on men is nothing compared to what women suffer. Deal with this, and just close the chapter.
-- It's a big deal but could this be the reason male rape is thrown out? -- I believe what Martinez39s was trying to say is that the reason why men most likely don't get thrown out of their matrimonial homes is because men own the house either by paying rents or building it themselves. I believe if women start single handedly build or pay rents in their matrimonial homes, we will start seeing men being thrown out of their houses for same reasons. -- I seeeeee....
HeWrites: People brag about a lot of things on social media; from their bad habits to their secret longings. A Nigerian man sparked outrage after he bragged about something much more sinister. He bragged about beating his wife to pulp leaving her bloodied.
The man identified as Afobaje Maiyegun, took to his Facebook account last Tuesday to brag with photos of his bloodied wife whom he had beat to pulp.
In the photos obtained by IGBERE TV, the woman whose name is yet to be ascertained is seen bleeding from her heavily swollen side eye.
Justifying his inhumane act, the man claimed he beat his wife up for getting angry because he talked to another woman.
Sharing the photos, Mayegun also said he is waiting for the police that will arrest him for beating his wife.
The man attitude has generated a lot of reactions with many describing his as an animal.
I think your problem is, 'you're just being sentimental and not factual', and this is an attribute displayed by most humans. My points were raised based on experience and how the typical human reasons. Hey, it is human nature to show empathy towards people whom we feel have been more physically bruised and have suffered a lot of physical damages than others. When a rape occurs, the victim experiences a lot of pains; both physically and emotionally. But unfortunately, very few pay attention to their emotional battles. In fact, very few pay attention to our emotional battles ( whether we are rape victims or not). So, this leaves us with the physical pains and consequences.
And as for the physical consequences: "Do you know the number of pregnant women who have been called names, but unknown to the public, their pregnancy was as a result of rape"? Do we begin to talk about those who were slut shamed right here on this forum, and accused of seducing their rapists with their dressing mode?
So tell me mister, how many male victims have experienced half of what their female counterparts go through both physically and emotionally? I have seen cases where women were asked to pack out of their matrimonial homes for being victims of rape. How many men will ever experience something like that in Nigeria? And yeah, I'm not denying the fact that male kids are victims of rape as well, and I questioned the OP's claim not because he is a male, but because he loves to throw tantrums and sounded like he just needed his topic to be on front page.
And as for the male kids who were victims of rape: Although I feel empathy for them, but this doesn't change the fact that despite them suffering emotionally, and might have contacted STD in the process, there is no physical evidence that they lost their virginity, and there is no possibility that they will grow up and be called names like "whores" (by some unreasonable men) just because, they are no longer virgins. So, tell me why female rape cases shouldn't be given more attention since women experience more devastating effects than men?
Would you question why Covid-19 patients are paid more attention to than patients suffering from a slight headache (considering the fact that the former has a more devastating consequences)? Some things are the way they are, and can never change, because human nature has made it so. So, until men start carrying pregnancy, and their bodies begin to show physical signs when disvirgined, then the society will start to pay more attention to male rape victims.
Lastly, you must be living under a rock to state that: "It is unlikely that a parent would do nothing if his/her daughter accused a houseboy/relative of sexual assault". Seriously, you obviously don't know how the average Nigerian parents think or act towards their children(especially the poor ones). Majority are irresponsible and lack parenting skills, and will dismiss claims by their kids of being molested by uncles, fathers, because they consider such scandals as embarrassing.
And hey, Busola never spoke up as a teenager because, the backlash she would have received from the public would have been enough to push her to commit suicide. She opened up when she was strong enough to handle the insults and names calling hurled at her. And one of her reasons for speaking up was because, "the pain of a female losing one's virginity to rape never heals".
So because male have little emotional consequences and have little or no physical consequences, therefore they should be ignored? secondly do the give award for having thread on front page? do you know how many of my threads have hit FP? I was just angry how several threads on this forum concerning male rape never went beyond one page. yet each time a female rape case comes up, the minimum page is always 10. My anger grew wider when I called a female friend to tell her about Jennifer being raped and she abuses her rapists but when I told her about mine how I was abused severally all she did was to laugh and told me it's funny. how is a male rape funny? A mod banned my acct because I stood up against male rape. my posts were taken down because they were posts against male rape. I won't be surprised if the mod is a male
AlphaStorm: Because society values male work but doesnt value male lives. Infact, male lives dont matter
I saw a news where a female hotel worker took a used condom of a rich guy and inserted it in her vagina then got pregnant. After a while she sued the rich guy for child support and guess what? she won the case.
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