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Romance / Re: Why Do We Ignore Male Rape Cases? by gRESEARCHER: 8:04pm On May 12, 2020
Thelucifer666:
Males get raped, it just isn't taken seriously.
Report a man got raped to the police and get laughed at.
Exactly.
Romance / Re: Why Do We Ignore Male Rape Cases? by gRESEARCHER: 8:03pm On May 12, 2020
angelfallz:
In the end @GreatResearcher1, @Martinez39s you can see clearly for yourselves that what we are fighting is systemic. You even have men like @SageMK who are more than willing to be rape apologists when the victim is male, but are ready to raise hell when the victim is a female.
It is not his fault per se. it is as a result of systemic conditioning.

@GreatResearcher1 you won't find empathy here or anywhere. I would say this, start moving together with men of like mind to you, with the aim of starting an NGO exclusively for men, this NGO would be tasked with raising awareness of male rape and ensuring that female perpetrators are jailed. You are a victim of rape, why should you allow other boys and men to go through the say ordeal? Do something about it. I appreciate you starting a thread about male rape victims, but it should go beyond that. An NGO or an organisation exclusively for men would help a lot.
i have the intentions of doing something similar, although it is not about male rape. it has to do with job opportunities and access to loans for men(story for another day).

@Martinez39s you can do the same, choose an area where men are being unfairly treated and try to change it through your organisation or NGO

Also, another very important area that should never be ignored, POLITICS. getting men that unbiased towards the male gender into positions of power should never be ignored. This is because no matter what we do, if the laws of the land are biased and favour women then all efforts are in vain.

Lastly, stay away from men like @SageMK even in real life. They are toxic!

If you are a man and reading this you can also help in your own way, dont deceive yourself by saying it can never happen to me or it is impossible.
ThanksBoss

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Romance / Re: Why Do We Ignore Male Rape Cases? by gRESEARCHER: 7:59pm On May 12, 2020
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SageMK:
STFU. You don't care about male rape victims.

You are only bringing it up to invalidate other female rape victims... An 18year old girl was gang raped but your aim was to divert attention.



Who are those finding it funny? — Mostly Men.



Who are those not paying attention?? Still Men.

Did your father took any decision?
What about your uncles and brothers?

So isn't it obvious that the problem is the patriarchal society created by men like you?

If you don't build the support system for women, there will be no system to support men as well.

Bringing up stats about male rape on a thread concerning female rape only undermines issues that affect men. You have no defense to do that.

Now you're passively aggressive saying you don't care about female victims since male victims are ignored... Well guess what??

That makes you a rapist apologist.


[/s]Who told you I don't care about what I'm a victim of? ediot!
Romance / Re: Why Do We Ignore Male Rape Cases? by gRESEARCHER: 7:58pm On May 12, 2020
angelfallz:

your mother ke?!
Yeah. she flogged me
Romance / Re: Why Do We Ignore Male Rape Cases? by gRESEARCHER: 7:54pm On May 12, 2020
Kingarthur21:

I believe this is sheer trolling with the aim to disprove female rape...the energy you are investing in this gender wars of late is alarming...
Just move on
Call it trolling or whatever. I just get angry whenever I see people ignored male rape while giving listening ears to female rape. I'm a victim so I get hurt
Romance / Re: Why Do We Ignore Male Rape Cases? by gRESEARCHER: 7:49pm On May 12, 2020
Martinez39s:
This is not a good reason to sweep male rape under the carpet; in fact, this isn't even why male rape isn't taken too seriously. This doesn't even make any sense. If a female rape victim was discovered to be infertile, will her rape be swept under the carpet? undecided

Utter rubbish. sad This is the first time I am hearing such excuse as to why male rape is less grievous than female rape? Suppose a lady was immune to any STD, do you seriously think the rape of such lady will be swept under the carpet? undecided

I can't, for the life of me, see how this reasonably explains why male rape isn't taken too seriously. A woman who has been raped isn't even considered a slut, and no boy is hailed as a player/stud for being raped. What exactly is your point?

Please drop a statistic that confirms your percentage globally. I am happy you included "recorded cases." Less men report rape cases because of the way society views male rape victims.

Male rape victims could be little helpless boys sexually preyed upon by aunties, uncles, parents, clergymen etc. Also, physically force is not the only method of rape; a lady could drug a man (remember Cardi B?) and take advantage of him. In some instances, multiple females could ambush a male and rape him. Even male homosexuals rape men.

Your arguments so far have been irrational and disappointing. I am convinced you are being disingenuous. Your are probably a female or a weak stùpid male asslicker.

Rape is rape, male or female. Rape is rape, whether ot happens frequently or not. Who told you that rape is more devastating for females? Who told you that male rape rarely happens? Even if male rape rarely happens, is it enough reason not to take a single case of male rape seriously?

You might as well believe that all cases of male rape are fabrications. You SOUND like someone who has no sympathy or a shred of concern for male rape victims. Obviously, you think male rape isn't that serious, and you feel justified with half-baked rationalisations so far. I am sure if given the chance, you would proclaim that male rape is not a thing.

You don't know his mother, neither do l, but it's highly unlikely that a parent would do nothing if his/her daughter accused a houseboy of sexually assaulting her. I could understand if the parent does nothing if the family pastor was accused since the brains of many are so subservient to their pastors and holy books.

GreatResearch1, a question for you.


I am not insinuating anything, but I got curious when females like Busola Dakolo open up years after their supposed incident. Could it be that they enjoyed the act?
Boss sorry for replying late. My acct is serving ban for standing up against male rape.

I reported it to my mom that our house help used to play with my dick when she's bathing me. Mom didn't believe me. She thought I just dislike the girl. The first day I told her she shouted at me. the second day she flogged me.
I kept quiet and didn't tell her again. Later I told dad and immediately he changed our maid to a new one. The second maid didn't do that but has her bad character and was get out. the third maid came when I was 10 or there about and would play porn video tape when my parents are away and would watch while I stay there. she uses goodies to lure me till I became her sex doll. I finger her she romance my dick. i reported her my mom asked her she denied. Could u belive the girl lied that i once told her that am going to lie to my parents against her so that they will sent her away. since then i was given a deaf ear. i stoped reporting because at a point i was taken to church for prayers. the maid and i kept malice and we later became friends and shit started again this time around no reporting and tbh i enjoyed the latter time. Then my cousins came for holidays and I swear my cousins and I had orgy. (2 girls 3 boys, plus a maid not the third maid) I was bleeped in the ass. they used vegetable oil. boss I went through a lot growing up.

I am always angry when female rape is given attention to and male ignored.
I don't support rape be it male or female

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