My girlfriend told me she is going to ask her ex for money to do business when i why that she should not do such, she said he told her to ask him anytime she is ready to start. And this has brought problem between us. She has already called him for it from what i found out.

My question is, is it good for she to collect money from her ex to do business? And also what do you advice me to do because she has gone ahead to ask him?

My current girl wants to go leave for NYSC this March but am afraid i lose her and that anything can happen. Because the previous ones did left me during and after their nysc program. I never knew initially that she be leaving for NYSC program, i love this girl so much and want to settle down with her. She has promise to keep herself for me but i'm still afraid because of previous experience. Please i need advice on what you think i should do. and am waiting to hear from you guys.

Also she does it with so much excitement. Am asking this question because i feel she should also not complain when i talk to or hug other girls and if she can't treat me that way she is doing it with others all in the name that she is shy with me because she has something with me then she should not also do it with other guys even if she has known them for a long time for fact that we are together now.

If am wrong, i stand to be corrected.

When a guy hugs and give a little attention to other girls, their girlfriend will feel bad and talk so much about it and they'll say it's OK. But when a guy complains about they hugging other guys and giving them attention they say the guy is insecure.

Is it wrong for you to complain when your girl doesn't act free with you they way she is with other guys and sometimes people she calls her long time friends in some gathering and sometimes even in the church. she even hug them the way she has never hugged you and when you complain she says she is shy to do it with you?.
Please i need answers so I'll if am wrong to feel bad and also to complain. Thanks